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God bless tht man. One of my lecturers also had a cripple in his vicinity then, the man makes shoes and also repairs torn ones. My Oga was so impressed, he started patronizing him and the shoes he makes are so fine and neat. These are pple who wld rather do well by their handiwork rather than beg.

If there is contribution to help, I'm all in. At least the little I av, I just hope the money will get to the proposed hands.

Operation find how she mentioned don jazzy.

Reply:- Not found, OP is just a busybody

But seriously she's right, it takes a lot of maturity, psychologically, financially, emotionally, gud listening and thinking skill, gud leadership skill, etc to manage two wives effectively. Some men can't even even manage just one wife efficiently yet u see them also beating their chest talking abt marrying more wives. Smh for them

angiography:
he is wrong. there's no justification for unfaithfulness.

if I can stay 10yrs of not having sex as a bachelor, it shouldn't too hard to remain committed to my partner after getting married.


There's still a word called SELF-CONTROL....and it's learned, not earned. There's no excuse for being unfaithful for either sex

God bless u abundantly. I always knew guys with dignity, shame and who blive in self control still exist. What annoys me most is the 'konji na bastard saying', there shld be a difference btw a man and dog afterall, it's dogs tht will sleep around wt abandon not caring wt who or the consequences tht might arise. It is annoying really when a guy cheats and pple are quick to bring up various stupid excuses to justify what he did and the same pple will call for the woman's head calling her all sorts of names, if a woman was involved.

There is no justification for being unfaithful for both male and female. There shld be no double standard.

GoogleAfrica:
http://dailypost.ng/2016/01/26/girl-throws-away-her-new-born-baby-from-2-storey-building-in-enugu/

I think she has pueperial psychosis. Even if she doesn't want the child, a normal person wld''t do tht

MrsPhyno:
Just ignore him. People like that. They're not worth it.

Thanks sis. Some pple are just natural idiots. Alas, they can't be saved

folksync:
Now, this is serious!!!!!

I kind of like her too. But MARRIAGE? Don't know about that.

Today is her birthday and we just finished the (boring) sitting room party. And right in front of her friends, she introduced me as her fiancé. What!!!!!!

So what are u asking us now?

If u like her, what's the big deal? U can always date and who knows marriage can take over. Her being an albino doesn't necessarily mean she'll give birth to albinos if that's ur fear.
But if u're not interested let her know her flop soon o, so she can move on and set her eyes somewhere else, don't play her.

joborskill:
I have been in a relationship with a lady since March last year and all has been going smooth until a revelation popped out earlier today via our chat on whatsapp and it has been troubling my mind. We had a discussion about our past and after sharing series of experiences, she started begging me to forgive her for not telling me this earlier. She claims the month of February has always been a terrible month for her as it brings back some bad memories.

After persuading her for a while about what the issue is, she said she was pregnant for her EX in 2013 and she didn't know until it resulted in a terrible sickness which led to her been rushed to an hospital where the doctor confirmed she is 5 months pregnant. She said the doctor recommended surgery to terminate the pregnancy because the baby was in her right fallopian tube instead of her womb.

She confirmed to me that her right fallopian tube has been removed while all she has now is her womb and left tube. she claims the doctor told her she can only have a maximum of 3 kids when ready due to the surgery. I acted like everything is fine so as not to hurt her feelings any further but i'm seriously disturbed by this.

This is someone i love so much and i intend getting married to later this year. I need advices on what to do next as i am confused right now. What are the implications of having any of the tubes removed? would it affect fertility or child bearing in marriage? Do you think i should move on with my life and look for someone else as i cannot determine the level of damages that has happened to her reproductive system? Kindly drop your comments.

U av every reason to be skeptical but don't be. She had ectopic pregnancy then. She still has one fallopian tube and an intact womb so she is very capable of conceiving.
She is a very honest person for nt keeping it from u. Pls go on wt her if u truly love her. All the best

fowlyansh181:
you never tire?? hmm nawa for your condition oo..

I'm so sorry, ur 'lameness' amuses me that's all. Are u tired ni?

fowlyansh181:
see the few words I leave for yhu, see the epistle yhu leave for me.. You have low self esteem. xteristics of that ugliness, who should be beat to her senses.

Lolz. Says the dumbo wt low IQ. High five! Oya tell me more abt urself.

Don't forget, we'll be here to type RIP.

Nkasiobi87:
Good morning everyone. If you have been reading my previous posts then you will know very well how my story has been. After getting a job and trying to ignore My husband'S cheating and other cruel characters towards me, he cheats with a female church member and promises her that he will marry her as a second wife.

After much talking which could not bring any positive results, I decided to let them be And mind my own business. He still enters my room when he feels like doing it with me. Now it happens that am 2Months pregnant after 5 kids. I told him about it he was happy at that given time. I then thought that maybe he will change this time to become a better father.

On Sunday while the morning prayer was going on, I couldn't stand up because I have started showing signs of pregnancy. I was feeling very anemic so I decided to sit down. My husband came out and stopped the prayer and started saying that I sat down because I wanted to show his mistress that am pregnant and that am doing drama for her mistress, something that I have never thought of doing. He started calling me all sorts of names all to calm the mistress down incase she notices that am pregnant. All to show the mistress that he is not happy with me being pregnant. All to make me feel bad and not happy of my condition.

While the congregation and the mistress were watching and laughing. When I couldn't take it anymore, I decided to walkout of the church. one of his workers ran after me and forcefully drew me back which left a mark on my neck. His claim is that I shouldn't move out while his pastor is talking. I pushed him out of my way, he slapped me inside church while my hubby watch. with the little strength in me I fight back and leave the church premises. I was so hurt that I want to revenge on my husband and his worker. how will I be proud of this pregnant now that he has said in his congregation that all am doing is noting but a show how painful. how do I pay him back.I really wish the worst on them now.God help me that I didn't do something unlawful to them.

This is so pathetic if true. I went thru ur former posts, and I must say, I dnt know what u're still waiting for.

My sister, do u know how to run? Pls run for ur life, u don't av to avenge. A man tht can do tht to u, will watch on while u're killed, I don't want to hear stories tht touch the heart like 'pastor kills his pregnant wife'. Tht church sef is the church of the devil.
Please u av 6 children, so u av a lot of work to do, focus on them and ur career and make a success of both. Karma will catch up wt him

fowlyansh181:
you are too ugly, please bleach if it is an only option.

Lolz, ur level of stupidity hasn't stopped to amaze me, and tht was why I decided to look for ur trouble, but now even I am surprized, never knew ur head was this deep in shit, pls pull it out.
As for ur advice, never knew I am now a mirror, so u cld actually see and describe urself perfectly? Wow!
U're too lame tho, now I'm bored.
Time to get back to more productive things, it was nice chatting wt u Mr Fowlyansh. Don't forget the whip for ur daughter and av a nice day. Ciao

fowlyansh181:
one look at your profile pic. sorry for wasting my time , ugly beings always think they have a point.

Lolz. So lame. Mr most handsome fowlyansh being. Interesting observation. Not ugly beings tho, idiots who think like 3yr olds always think they av a point.

More grease to ur whip, beat ur wife well o, and don't forget to buy a whip as wedding gift for ur daughter. Ciao

fowlyansh181:
if a lady misbehaves they are corrected to order, especially Nigerian girls .. beating is not just enough . a Teenager you say? well I am far from that . Women are meant to be beating that is the only form of correction they seem to understNd .. from the way you type it seems you get beat on daily basis.

Ehn now, when u're a fowlyansh, why wnt u be beaten everyday?
U can't even be a teenager, that's an insult to all the wise teenagers. Since u're far from being a teenager wt juvenile delinquency, u are a senile old man then.
Don't worry I don't av psychotic animals as men around me, but u type like someone who hits his head on the floor often, u shld really stop it, it's starting to affect ur brain. No offence

fowlyansh181:
if I say you be _idiot now , you will say I have insulted you but you be _idiot... If a woman misbehaves to a point were beating is an alternative , I support anyone to beat without mercy.. spare the rod and spoil the wife.

Pele. U're the idiot. Make sure u buy cane and whips for ur daughter's husband when she marries. Hail him on until he kills her, don't worry we'll be here to type RIP
Why am I even answering u sef, I'm sure u're a teenager (one wt cerebral dysfunction sef), and adult will not reason like this.

U're excused, make sure u use ur drugs as prescribed next time, mongol

fowlyansh181:
did you care to ask what she does before getting hit?

Pls ensure u ask ur daughter what she did b4 her psycho husband beat her, continue asking her until her corpse is sent to u. Even buy a whip for husband so he can beat her well when she misbehaves.

I don't know how some pple reason. Only a mad man will beat a woman, a man with no dignity and severe mental issues wc might nt av been diagnosed yet. Beat ur wife well when she misbehave, sogbo, I won't be surprised if u're the type tht hits his gf sef not to talk of wife. Ur head like fowlyansh

doveda:
You have to

Fire in the mountain
Jailer
Eyo
Satan be gone
Eyo
Be my man
Dreamer Girl
Awe
Etc etc

Ur head dey there jare my sister.

She is still one of the few musicians I listen to their songs. She totally rocks! Although I'm trying to stop it.

Eeyah, such a pity. I really don't know what to blive but the guy might actually be saying the truth.
We all knew the plantashion boyz but I think it is the innate human selfishness bringing all this up. The guy is obviously an unlucky musician, at least some idiotic musicians also came on board wt arrant nonsense wt no meaning they call songs and made hits and loads of money and publicity from it. They shld av pulled this guy along with them, even if it'll be a collabo of some sort. He probably feels left behind, worse still some pple are supposedly stealing his ideas.

Thank God I'av stopped listening to music sha, black face, red face and yellow face, u guys shld sort urselves out.

2face and wizkid, these blackface songs u're sharing, dia ris God o

daveson07:
she just finished her apprihentice,she is now a nurse and i'm trying to set up her mini-shop for clinical purpose so i'm gonna do all the marriage rites before this year runs out by the grace of God,,tnx a lot

Na wa o. God help nursing in Nigeria. Doctors are really trying to destroy this profession, imagine talking abt a professional course as apprenticeship, when it's not hairdressing or fashion designing. Yet they are the ones tht'll come to the media shouting quackery while they are the same ones stoking the fire of quackery. The health system needs a total overhaul.
Bros, ur fiance is not a nurse, she is a quack. The best thing u can do for her, if u want her to be recognized as a nurse rather than these illegal quacks is send her to sch, either a nursing school or straight for her degree
About the mother-in-law, help her this once but let her know firmly tht u won't be helping out next time, tht u only helped her this once for the sake of God but next time u won't be lenient wt her. So she won't turn u to father Christmas, she'll start putting her debts on

Lolz, this is serious. Although her request sounds ludicrous but I like her stand nonetheless. The man wants to be father of all nations ni, after impregnating that one he calls gf too, he'll find another Miss pepeye to marry and impregnate again

Eeyah, ur story is interesting sha.
Since u cldn't mind ur biz, u shld av managed to get perf for the 3, even if na N150-200 perf for the small, tht way the parents wld know u're trying to pass a mssg across. I don't blame the mom, we all know what the World has turned to now

Remembered a time someone added me to a whatsapp grp for 'sugar sons', I personally call them 'male Olosho'. I guess d guy made d mistake of adding my no, never knew he was into such.
Sugar sons, more power to ur kini. I'm expecting a counter thread from the 'Olosho men' on the advantages of sugar mummy, pls don't disappoint

injuredman:
A big question!!

Responsibilities can turn the fire low, but can't quench it fully. It is good when both partners are low in the sexual desires, but if one person still has the strong desire, it could be worked out. I had a moment like that, what helped was communication, and she also knows me ignition keys.
If wifie needs it and I am not in the mode, she will do those things I appreciate or consider special. To reciprocate, I will offer to give it to her. In the process, she will inset the right keys and I will even pick it up more than her. Same thing if I need it, and she is too tired. I will fix her special meal, and let her rest. When I finish with my seductive moves without pressuring her, na she go drag me go room.

It all boils down to proper communication and knowing your partner. After all, no level of responsibilities can stop us from cooking and eating.

Hmmm, such wisdom. I'm happy for ur wife, I pray happiness, love and understanding in ur union continues to grow

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

Eeyah, I don't usually pity pple esp matured ladies who get pregnant pre-maritally and find themselves in this situation, but I pity u small. U got pregnant for an irresponsible fellow, u both did the deed now it's more of ur headache. A man that doesn't knw what to do wt his life at 26yrs and is asking for his 1st product (if it's even the first) to be aborted is far from being rational.

My advice is contact a very close extended family member, someone u know ur parents respect alot, explain ur plight to the person. From there things will pick up and the person will know how to help in divulging the info to ur parents.

One more advice pls make sure u do tests to rule out STIs, u never can tell, I pray he hasn't infected u wt something.
I pray everything works out well, don't let this deter u from working towards ur goal, u av to stay strong for urself and baby. And next time, don't just sleep wt anybody u aren't committed or someone unwilling to be committed to u, or better still 'say no to pre-marital sex', no family planning method is 100% but is better than nothing.
A sound warning, if u resort to abortion don't u ever go to a quack, visit a qualified personel

Something of this nature happened to a cousin of mine (she was 21 too) a while back, she consulted my mum- the lady didn't even inform the guy sef. She went and informed her parents (her situation was better cos she had already introduced the guy to her parents), they called the guy and informed his parents (his parents were happy sef). They had a joint meeting and a consensus was reached, they are both married now and still schooling, the guy's parents are in charge of the baby's financial care until he is able to stand on his feet (he is in his finals).

I pray urs work out well too, although I don't wish u married to such an irresponsible man. If I may ask what work is he doing?

I don't understand, why do these writers derive joy from making sensational headlines by defaming the nursing profession? What did they ever do wrong? I read the write up and I can't even see any reasonable pointer to a nurse running or what bullshit this is.

This lassa fever shld not be treated with kid's glove and all necessary protective equipment shld be made available to health professionals to protect themselves, while caring for the patients.

Babymama2 loading ?% Maybe after 4 babymamas he will get married, if ever

mavaakiti:
Kudos to her....but sadly she'll just end up as 1st, 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife! I wish she wasn't a muslim.

Ur reasoning is warped, but as a non-muslim what will she end up as?

Let me guess, a baby mama? But of course tht is not shameful to u as being someone's wife.
Why can't u just wish her well and face ur own life?

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Wow! Beauty and brains proudly rocking her hijab. Congratulations, the sky is but a starting point

Kachisbarbie:
[i]This argument has been on between my colleagues and I, some of us insist a woman maintains her maiden state of origin (officially) after marriage, others say she changes to her marital state of origin .

To the Mrs in the house, which state of origin do you put on official forms (e.g) bank documents, travelling, sim registration...etc.?

Lolz. This is a non issue. The woman marrying the husband doesn't change her state of origin nau. Na the man's family born am?

YourCoffin:
Lies. Blatant lies. Truthless lies.

The sexual imagination in every man's head is overflowing. In fact they can give the creator a run for his money with it. But 98percent of the time the women are unwilling to try it. The women also won't even suggest one.

You are unwilling to try out a fantasy. You won't suggest one either and yet you expect sexual satisfaction. Who does that?

One word 'speak for urself'.

Ok, tht was three

doveda:
Lol

It is a bad habit which can be corrected. I hope she doesn't change marriage.

A very bad habit. Made me remember some sisters I met at camp, they went late for food so according to them the food was finished. One of the mothers tht came to greet us on camp took pity on them and bought them bread, gave them butter wt tea.

After eating these sisters didn't even cover the butter sef talk more packing the cups and plates they used. The woman felt bad and she later sent someone to call them and gave them a heart to heart talk.
What's the big deal in packing and washing ur plates immediately after eating? I sometimes do what I like when I go to my bestie's place, and that's cos he doesn't mind doing all the cooking and washing, but I still help out despite his insistence anyway.
The guy shld discuss it with her or subtly point it out to her, I'm sure she'll make amends

ipledge10:
I don't understand what that means...can someone please explain

I think it meant Nigerian's aren't considered trustworthy