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Hadez:
Just got back from class. So bored rate my pix from one to 10

daretodiffer:
Right

There is still so much to do

katyamizotta:
I will be celebrating my fourth year wedding anniversary in Febuary. I will be entertaining and giving testimoniees when in actual fact im highly dissatisfied and unhappy.
Sex; almost three years im still waiting to have an orgasm. I began pretending to have one because i couldnt bear the pain (married as a virgin, months after losing it, i was still experiencing pain). Ive being giving oral since we got married. Recently i discovered women can also enjoy it. I told him about it and suddenly he remembers all the diseases that can be passed orally.
Chores: i feel like a senior househelp. DH (dear husband) will complain abt untidy state of the house but will not help out (i work in a bank, 7am - 8pm) get home at 9pm. I'll come home from work, do homework for my daughter, serve husband meal (he wont eat except he is served) do outstanding chores. Sleep at 12am - 4.40am
Kids; I feed, bathe, clothe, train. He has never bathed our 2yr old ever, even when i was ill. I had to take the child to work severally as he cant babysit for long. He works from home but goes out thrice a week for project supervision
Criticism; its killing me. Im crticised abt everything. My looks (im pretty im told, my dad is Lebanese\Austrian, mum is igbo) but i dont makeup. Im criticised for that, for not being a good cook (im learning) for not keeping a tidy home (with my job?) For not entertaining his friends with food and drinks (im exhausted), for not liking his particular place of worship (i dont mind another branch, the present head makes the talks boring, for not being a fashionista.
I dont feel loved. I feel like a trophy wife.
The good side is he is generous. I get a car, change of wardobe, a vacation each year. These dont move me. I want to be heard. Ive tried to talk to him severally but he makes me seem ungrateful. Ive talked to his sisters and our head in the place of worship and when he was invited he denied it, didnt talk to me for three days and made me apologise for disrespecting him.
I want to be heard. Am i asking for too much?

daretodiffer:
I am . How old do you think I am?

AgbataObim:
Cc Seun, Lalasticlala pls i need help a lot of folks to see this.

daretodiffer:
I am still a very small girl o

Ishilove:
Don't tell me you're letting MrCork fool you?

I go into stitches each time I see people getting angry at him

MrCork:
,,,ther you go...the truth at last...you .can't sleep but u you feel betrra talkin to a Londoner....me.. b4 goin to sleep..abi?...u betrra don't let nubian113 catch you toastin me!

MrCork:
....but why are you dakskin females troble makers? ?...do you honnnnestly tink me or any other rich guy on nairaland can marrrrry u?...serrrioosly!

MrCork:
...have you been to London??. Nope(never)....opps...then i rest my case!!

daretodiffer:
Mrcork is a clown and a troll
Ignore him when you are bored

humanbeing5th:
lol, u are definately a newbie on nairaland, one of d rule of nairaland is " u must not argue with mrcork" trust me u cant win him till u are tire, he is a know clown here to everybody, u can go through his other threads to knw d kind of person u are trying to reason with

mizzhoneey:
Special congrats to.....
greatguru haneefahRN and others

quick questions please................. is there any ican ats student there that gained admission? and to those that jamb gave admission,is it confirmed on OAU website?
i almost gave up ilorin admission up cos of oau.... Thank God sa

MrCork:


Obsavation...ladies..can you all now see that so far..dakskin females BEIN tryin had to derail the thread wit no luck.....that's why all guys prefer lightskin females who can read & right anyday...Truss me!! (No ofeense)

MrCork:
....I can easily find you a man on nairaland if you change color to yellow....THANK ME LATER! !

MrCork:
...calm down sweeery...may I remind you I drive £28000 (cash) range rover spot....anyways that dosent matter... my question to you is;....who woold you date...a lightskin female that can't read or a over educated dakskin female who all ways bring stress but very inteligentt like u?..... honey..be honest?

MrCork:
...calm down sweeery...may I remind you I drive £28000 (cash) range rover spot....anyways that dosent matter... my question to you is;....who woold you date...a lightskin female that can't read or a over educated dakskin female who all ways bring stress but very inteligentt like u?..... honey..be honest?

MrCork:
^^^^another dakskin female militants..ooooo my goshh...as anyone notise how dakskin females been tryn to derail our thread for no reason?.....sweeery..can't you juss get wita progrrrame & change color to yellow?....or is that too much to ask?(no oofense)

MrCork:
^^^^^greatt addvie common from a lady whose face is surrrounded by ezema...pimples..2% rashes & bleach.....and yes she's dakskin!! (No ofeense)

ronald4lif:
Okay. So I can cheat and expect to be forgiven and should also forgive if my spouse cheats, is that it? No wahala, I'd forgive to and we both should continue cheating till when? Ok I'd forgive lets peace reign.

Mindfulness:
It is not so difficult if you decide to have fun while making a change and it is possible, step by step. We cherish every single step forward, no matter how little, don' we?

EfemenaXY:
Not everyone on here shares your religious beliefs.

Mindfulness:
True. It is time to un-condition the conditioning.

Mindfulness:
I used to be very jealous when i was a little bit younger. I discovered that it was fear of abandonment and also some self-esteem issues I was having as young woman, which most young women have. I no longer suffer from the fear of abandonment and I am extremely self-confident, even to the point that people say I am a bit narcissistic and I sort of am so no I do not feel jealous anymore at all. It is a thing of the past. However, it was jealousy among other things that helped me become who I am today. Jealousy is not a nice feeling, it is nagging and poisonous, not only to the person feeling it but to relationships in general and I decided to get rid of it. And as with all things that I set my mind to accomplish, I succeeded and life has become much easier this way. I am now able to enjoy relationships in a way I was not able to before.

Mindfulness:
The question is why some women endure emotional and psychological trauma in the hands of their husbands?

johnson232:
stop guessing....

your guess is as wrong as 1+1=500...

daretodiffer:
She is not human. She is superhuman

daretodiffer:
She is not human. She is superhuman