Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by HaneefahRN(f): 5:14pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
daretodiffer: I don't think that is really the issue here. I am likewise the same however I welcome both negatives and positives, they are part of what makes me human.
The issue is why would a Nigerian man find out difficult to forgive his cheating wife. If it is true that sex does not equate to love, then a man who believes that his action is not a betrayal of his love for his spouse, must also be smart enough to know that his wife's cheating would have no impact on her love for him.
Women have also been cheating from time immemorial and they still do. Women that do not cheat do so because of other factors which they give considerable importance to. It does not mean that they do not desire or appreciate other men. There are several cheating married women out there who would give up everything they have for their families.
So you know, the BS about powerful men and infidelity as also been proven to be true for powerful women. This is the 21st century. It is either we (men and women)/accept that fornication or polygamy(in most cases) is not ideal or men STFU and let women do their thing. High five! Don't mind them jare, they will sleep around wt anything in skirt not stopping for once to put themselves in their partner's shoe, but cry foul when they are paid in same coin, so it's only the man tht deserves faithfulness in marriage while the woman has to smile and endure all his bullshit. Bunch of hypocrites |
Romance › Re: In Defence Of Ladies With Small Breast: Why I Prefer Small Breast. by HaneefahRN(f): 2:13pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
daretodiffer: This also goes to women too. If you do not appreciate certain physical features in a guy, keep it to yourself and move on. There are women out there who would love him regardless. . Yes o. That's true, ladies tht do tht are immature, why wld u insult someone tht asked u out cos he is short? If u av no interest tell him politely so he'll find his way. The unnecessary criticisms as a result of different physical attributes of ladies is worse wt guys tho. NL is an easy survey ground |
Romance › Re: In Defence Of Ladies With Small Breast: Why I Prefer Small Breast. by HaneefahRN(f): 1:59pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
The OP actually spoilt things by also speaking against busty ladies. We all av the right to av our preferences, but u av no right to insult or make someone feel bad for something u cannot make. Can any of u make and put life into just an ant? So what right do u av to insult pple based on they av no control over. No one decides whether to be dark or light, beautiful or ugly, busty or small boobs, big yansh or small, so why shld u make them feel bad for how God made them? If u prefer busty, go for it, if moderate, fine, if small, good, but never make pple who don't fit ur preference feel bad for how God made them. That's why many women are risking their lives resorting to surgeries just to look acceptable to mere men |
Romance › Re: 13 Facts you must know Before You Say I Do To That Man. by HaneefahRN(f): 12:25pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
daretodiffer: I know. Most of them end up regretting it. Their wives rarely forget. Once they get to that age, the wives start acting out. Abi o. I view adulterous men as potential murderers, many women av lost their lives to STDs like AIDS, hepatitis, cervical cancer and the likes due to their husband's recklessness, due to the lack of contentment of men, due to their crazy false entitlement to be polygamous, switching from yellow to black and all, sadly when the consequences come the poor woman shares largely in it. |
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by HaneefahRN(f): 11:42am On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: You conclude too much. Who told you I wasn't married? And why do you think I would marry a slowpoke who doesn't know that he has a responsibility to protect himself and me when cheating?
Thanks for your prayers but I doubt you would pray on my behalf and that's why I asked why you would pray for me at all? Alryt. I sincerely prayed for u. I lost a close family friend and her new born baby to HIV/AIDs late last yr, she contracted it from her husband, the man was a known adulterer, he probably didn't use protection just once or d protection failed. Tht woman and tht poor baby lost their lives to his recklessness, he incidentally isn't dead nw, he is on treatment. So when I made tht prayer, I was serious |
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by HaneefahRN(f): 11:23am On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Because? Did tht come out wrong? I pray u marry one then, so u'll av alot of forgiving to do or u cld simply look d other way while he or she goes abt their business, moving from yellow to black and in btw. U're female, ryt? I like the way u don't seem to care, but make sure he buys and uses condoms wt his gfs or u cld get them for him so he doesn't get u infected wt STIs |
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by HaneefahRN(f): 10:45am On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I don't have a wife. Can I forgive cheating? Yes, I can! Good.
But I don't pray u marry a chronic cheat |
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by HaneefahRN(f): 10:43am On Jan 17, 2016 |
ronald4lif: I don't think I can forgive a cheating wife. Mbanu.
But I'm hoping to be forgiven if erred. Too many ravishing and alluring women out there to be moored by one.
Onwe kwa ka odi na nwoke ka ne eri nani ofe egusi till onwuo. Ari ka ta egusi erienu ofe ogbono, o nwe di nu ka ana eme. Didn't say anything sha, just passing. So u want to do unto others what u can't accept? |
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by HaneefahRN(f): 10:35am On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I wouldn't call it queer behavior.
Maybe you should stay true to yourself and re-consider whether a monogamous relationship is your preference instead of beating up on yourself to fit into societal conventions, which do not do yourself and they way you are any justice.
We have been brainwashed into believing that we can only love and desire one person and we should be doing so for the rest of our lives when in fact our natural inclination is a different one. So u shld be able to accept and forgive ur wife readily when she exhibit such trait while trying nt to conform wt societal values |
Family › Re: My Uncles 2nd Wife Is Still A Virgin @ 41 by HaneefahRN(f): 7:58pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Wow! I dnt believe tht myth abt the hymen getting thicker wt age. Some women just naturally have thick hymen, even if she had tried it in her twenties it probably cld be same. Or she has a microperforate hymen. Anyways, they shld work more on the pre-intimacy make sure she is well aroused and lubricated next time they try, if this doesn't work try the surgical approach, that's if the hymen is the cause niyen o, cos it might nt even be the hymen. She might av vaginismus |
Education › Re: “october Rush” To “october Rape”: Female Freshers Recount Nights Of Sexual Abuse by HaneefahRN(f): 5:06pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
And the bastards will nw av the audacity to say it was the devil. Rapists shld be sentenced to death by hanging, but the useless instrument they use in molesting the poor lady first shld be cut off. May God protect us from devil's incarnates |
Crime › Re: A Lie I Told 3 Years Ago Is Starting To Hunt Me. by HaneefahRN(f): 4:06pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
This is super story o |
Family › Re: Yes!!! I Am A Woman Wrapper by HaneefahRN(f): 1:50pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Joy1706: As you've said it, so shall it be for you in Jesus name. No woman shall ever bring you joy but perpetual sorrow. Amen. You shall never find peace or fulfilment with any woman. Amen. Women shall constantly be a thorn in your flesh. Amen. You will never find a woman who shall love you, support you or encourage you. Join me and say AMEN. From your lips to God's ears, as you have said, 'if ur hoping on a woman for happiness and being a better person, ur on a long thing'....... I concur and say a big AMEN Harsh but he deserves it and more. I guess he lacked motherly love while growing or his mother is nt a gud wife to his dad. @ OP, may God bless u |
Family › Re: Few Hours Ago, I Interviewed 6 Pure Water Sellers, And According To Them: by HaneefahRN(f): 7:28am On Jan 16, 2016 |
This is really touching and an eye opener. It's always so pathetic and saddening seeing those young children running up and down in traffic selling wares, it makes me wonder where their parents are. I can remember a scenario while I was younger in Sec sch and I saw a girl of abt 6 yrs crying, she was hysterical, I cldn't bring myself to ignore her like everyone else, I got to knw she had been bullied by a guy who took all the day's proceedings from her, I gave the little I cld and explained her plight to other passersby, together we even made more than the amt she lost. That's why anytime I feel down or sad, I remember these pple and find myself thanking God instead. May God bless Nigeria and help these poor souls |
Celebrities › Re: Do I Really Look Like Wizkid? by HaneefahRN(f): 3:51pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
surbrown: MY GIRL FRIEND SAID I LOOKS LIKE WIZKID! HOPE SHE NO DEY TEASE ME, Yes, u LOOKS like him, in ur dreams. |
Celebrities › Re: Do I Really Look Like Wizkid? by HaneefahRN(f): 3:50pm On Jan 15, 2016 |
surbrown: MY GIRL FRIEND SAID I LOOKS LIKE WIZKID! HOPE SHE NO DEY TEASE ME, |
Romance › Re: "No Boyfriend No Problem" Inscription On A Lady's T-Shirt (Photo) by HaneefahRN(f): 11:57am On Jan 15, 2016 |
marked10: Photo Of The Day - Wonderful Inscription For A Lady: What Does That Really Mean?
When you see a lady wearing that kind of shirt with the above inscription, what does it really tell you?
A. She is self sufficient and she doesn't need a boy-friend ? B. She needs a boy friend by all means?
Whats your take?
http://www.exlinklodge.com/2016/01/photo-of-day-wonderful-inscription-for.html I dnt know what she meant, but the inscription is very true |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 OAU Aspirant Thread. by HaneefahRN(f): 11:50am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Kunlexic: Now from RN to BNSCite...congrats and barooka laofil.
I will like to pm u...kindly reply the mail. Abi o. Aamin. Jazakallahu khairan. No probs, I avn't seen it tho |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by HaneefahRN(f): 11:10am On Jan 15, 2016 |
yemmyrn: My friend scored 80% also in nursing and still not yet admitted. What could be happening I don't knw. I guess they are still uploading tho, so keep checking. All the best |
Romance › Re: Whoever Wrote This Must Be Drunk (Photo) by HaneefahRN(f): 7:42am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Lolz, it's just a list of common yoruba masculine names |
Celebrities › Re: People Say I Look Like Davido, Is It True? (pics) by HaneefahRN(f): 4:53am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Chimaritoponcho: There is no gainsaying,davido is my idol,I practically love him(no homo) people often say I look a bit like him. please drop your comments Don't mind those insulting u jare. There is actually a slight resemblance |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by HaneefahRN(f): 11:09pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
profjones: sha leave am 4 my belle, until luck carry me jam u for skul for treat ment Lolz, ehn ehn? Alrice o, I'av heard u |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by HaneefahRN(f): 11:07pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
greatguru22: Sister we thank God dt we are no longer OAU aspirants but a student of OAU.. Wish to see ur face in OAU wen we resume. He is worthy of all Praises. Looking forward to meeting u too. Lolz, my face is nothing special o jare. |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 OAU Aspirant Thread. by HaneefahRN(f): 10:36pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Kunlexic: Alhamdullillah for u.
Hope it is Nursing Shukran.
Yep |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by HaneefahRN(f): 10:04pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
ponpin234: Tanx sir....lemme do so Keep checking, all the best |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by HaneefahRN(f): 10:03pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
yemmyrn: Congrats! What was Ūя̲̅ score pls thanks. 75% |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 OAU Aspirant Thread. by HaneefahRN(f): 8:25pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
angiography: Whao!!!...my dear...
Congrats. Glory to God.
Lolzz..now I have a friend alreadily on campus. Thank u my brother. He is worthy of all praises.
Abi o, hope to see u soon |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by HaneefahRN(f): 8:20pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
greatguru22: Tnks oo sister.. Wat is ur own course? Mine elect. Nursing ni o |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 OAU Aspirant Thread. by HaneefahRN(f): 8:08pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Rimini: Congratulations dear!! Congratulations to u too, Dr. Rimini!!! |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by HaneefahRN(f): 8:05pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
greatguru22: Bros either computer engineering or my own which is electrical/electronic, we are all engineering/technony students.. Hope to have a picture wit u and most members of dis group in ife when we resume.. Let just walk as one team.. we are all one. Congratulations |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by HaneefahRN(f): 8:04pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
profjones: Alhamdulillahi, see aw God dey do hin work o, as i don dey loose interest for OAU, na hin Him cum give me admission. Computer Engineering, here i cum wit full force after trying for three consecutive times. any oda computer engineering student cn beep me up on whatsapp for a collective thinking. 08163191886. Thank u all for making dis thread super dou boring sometimes. Congrats to all d newly admitted. 1luv Congrats o |
Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by HaneefahRN(f): 8:02pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
profjones: congrats at last. i've always had a crush.... Thank u o my broda.
Really? Crush on who? Oya talk ur belle nw o |