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baralatie:
Marital infidelity is one of the reasons for divorce and under marital infidelity .
Sexual incompatibility is a @subset of which others under infidelity are not mentioned

The concept of sexual compatibility and sexual satisfaction are even not mutual

Therefore the notion of making sexual incompatibility as a big issue is not justifiable

Read what you wrote again, this time slowly.

Infidelity is a major reason for divorce, sexual incompatibility is a major reason for infidelity. Doesn’t that make sexual incompatibility a major reason for divorce. Its very simple logic.

I wish i can draw sets for you write now. Beside thats just one source (from a Legal firm), google is your friend do your own research.

Sexual incompatibility is so prevalent yet most people give it very little thought. So I don’t blame people when they attempt to argue its not a issue, meanwhile it is increasing in mass.

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Talking Causation and Correlation. This is a big positive correlation between Sexual incompatibility and Divorce. There is also direct Causation between Sexual incompatibility and divorce.

https://www.academia.edu/67220641/Sexual_Incompatibility_among_Couples_in_Gombe_Metropolis_Rates_Perceived_Causes_and_Effects

baralatie:
Can you quote source

I don’t know if i would be ban for posting an external link. Just copy the words in the picture below and google it.

Sexual incompatibility is very real.

Interesting15:
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Do you know that Sexual incompatibility is one of the leading cause of divorce?

The preacher might be wrong for advising to engage in pre-marital sex but it is advisable to know you and your partner’s sexual capacity in other to avoid frustration in marriage.

Marriage is a life long commitment, before you commit be sure all the basic requirements are in other.

Imagine a woman with high libido getting married to a man that hates sex, that is just a disaster right from the bat.

AmotekunSW:
Once GRV loses this election, the benefits and advantages Igbos in Lagos enjoy will never be the same.

Yorubas will treat Igbos the same way you treat Yorubas. We both know what that means for your future in Lagos.

When I tell people this and they want to take it the wrong way, I set them straight.

Every action has consequences, after a failed invasion it is only logically for the people of the land to protect themselves from such an event reoccurring.

So some people from a certain part of Nigeria should not cry foul or fawn innocence when the axe comes down. They deliberately took actions which they knew the indigenes of Lagos would find provocative.

You can’t kick the hornets nest and expect everything to be jolly afterwards. As you lay your bed, so you must lie on it!

Kobojunkie:
Na true talk be this.

God gave Op brain but OP refuse to use am before now. Him know say na ashawo woman him need but Op instead go marry woman way be SU for bed. Whose fault? Na OP fault. If say him marry that ashawo woman now, him for no get this wahala to complain to us about.

Honestly part of the blame goes to our up-bringing and lack of education regarding things like this. Part of the blame even goes to our church/mosque.

Sexual incompatibility is so real. These are the kind of things one should find out about his/her partner during courtship.

Marriage should be something you enjoy but when something you should be enjoying start turning to work, very difficult pain taking work. Brethern, You have nobody to rely on except God oo.

luminouz:
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Hmm another angle. Most of what you said is true.

It is just a wahala that keeps on producing wahala lol

One of the leading cause of divorce after Finance is sexual incompatibility.

How do you salvage such a situation, there are situations you are far better off not getting yourself into because the solution(s) can prove more difficult than moving a mountain. The end result is always adultery, frustration, adultery and even more frustration.

@OP God will help you oo

Any woman that can’t marry you now cause you live in a self-con should never be with you or even anywhere around you when you finally build a 100 room Mansion.

She is definitely not the one for you. Oga move and don’t even give her a second glance.

Zechariah 4:10 NLT
Do not despise these small beginnings…

To me I don’t think Obi nor Atiku want the peace of Nigeria above their own personal aspirations.

If they both did, from the beginning they knew that an alliance between themselves would guarantee victory yet they failed to take the opportunity just cuz one person decided he won’t take anything less than the tag “President”.

Nigerians better wake-up, these jokers are already billionaires. Any small kasala they would jet out of the country.

You are ones that would suffer the consequences of any unrest.

Houseontherock1:
You guys can't tolerate a guy from Ebonyi in Enugu, yet you want Yorubas to tolerate a Chinedu in a Yoruba land! Your intolerance knows no bounds! Iragbiji is Yoruba land,same as Ondo and the rest. First allow the Ebonyi man in Enugu

The fact that the matter has to be resounded is a slap on the Yoruba heritage honestly.

You see a fine young igbo boy born in 2000s, he has that Ndi-ibo fire and proud burning in him. He would not back that down nor accept anything contrary to his cultural belief. Nowadays you see Yoruba adults losing their sense of identity.

I don’t support Thuggery but when it comes to Yoruba pride, I still admire MC Oluomo, Tinubu and Co, I strongly believe a large % of the Yoruba pride would be lost with this current generation.

On that Saturday, Some Yoruba Adults would willing to go and vote LP just to prove that they are not tribalist, when the person they are voting for his already ingrained in his own ideals to the extent that he has the boldness to call you “Af0nja”. Is that not just plain foolishness.

One needs to stop the Yoruba Adult voting such a character and ask, who is your father? Where is your father’s house?

You find that there are people always testing others with what they themselves won’t tolerate. Once you take a stand against them, they cry foul and claim they are victims.

What is happening in Lagos with this LP candidate would never be tolerated in anyway in any part (inch) of Igboland.

At a point, One would even became ashamed of some Yorubas that want to vote for the LP after seeing all bigotry he has vomited. Where is your sense of prestige, like someone said “The man you want to throw your hat in the rig for, would this guy ever think Yoruba first?”.

Years from now, the people shouting “Lagos is a no-man’s land” would lay claim to your land. This would be pivotal point they would use to back up their claim.

When you are being sold an idea, even the seller wouldn’t take into his own home. Smh, Lagos people better wake up.

thesicilian:
Even this election has exposed easterners as the most intolerant set of people in Nigeria. I fear who no fear them.

I didn’t want to say this but thank God you said it. It is the Paradox of tolerance at play. When you tolerate the intolerant you would eventually create a world without tolerance cuz the intolerance would never tolerate you whenever they have the upperhand.

Happy Birthday Sir Adeboye, God anointing would never run dry in your life and you won’t miss your reward in heaven IJN

I usually don’t bother myself with political matters but there is overwhelming evidence the LP governorship candidates for Lagos is a tribal bigot.

It is evident he is no Yoruba, It would be a big disservice to Lagosian for their governor to be chosen by people that are not even indigenes of the Lagos, this can’t happen in Anambra or any other eastern state.

Lagos has developed further than any other state this far cuz of continuity in Leadership.

If anybody else or LP candidate wins that election, I envisage trouble cuz Sanwolu has performed win thus far, deserve a second term and is obviously the choice of the indigenes of Lagos. When someone keeps you as a guest in his house, your actions must always be guided. You don’t do the one that would make your host chase you out of his/her home.

NB: the evidence of his private disdain for the people he wants to rule are still on twitter for those that would bother to verify. Remember, In abundance of the heart the mouth speakth.

My hunch tells me one of those dispatch riders, must be the orchestrator. The late time i went to same location several months ago, I was surprised at the number of dispatch riders present waiting to pick-up order.

I wonder how much robbers want to even steal from such a location where most of the transactions are done using POS

May God not allow hunger to push us to do stupid things.

Why can’t the family members care for the children.

Tell them “carry own i no get stamina” and promise to send them whatever you have monthly.

Don’t drive your (finances) life into the ground trying to please other, when you are zero everyone would pack their load and move on from you.

No is no. Tell your people not to bring up the matter with you again.

What sort of wicked in-laws are people getting nowadays, God abeg oo

It was a fact that Oxlade had other sextapes on his phone.

Why is it only this girl’s own that leaked? The runs girl immediately came outside to identify herself in a video she was hardly identifiable, next she stated making demands for compensation.

A pity he didn’t get a good lawyer.

Trust these run girls at your own peril.

They can do anything for money

OnlineArchitect:
Pay attention to words said jokingly. It's always the purest form of truth

See our just concluded 3bedroom bungalow construction if you're about starting your building project.. Link in my signature

You couldn’t have said better. This year I intend to pay more attention to what people say. I have found in the time past, people have always been telling me their intentions (good/bad) but I wasn’t paying attention until they executed it.

Now I pay attention to what people around me say to me even if it’s jokingly.

The house belongs to the entire family (siblings). Sell if off and give everyone their share, the boy inclusive (your late elder brother’s share).

Landed properties usually turn siblings to enemies, it’s always best to create a will stating what belongs to who.

The money is not lost. He should fully disclose the matter to his wife. He can involve interpol or whatever body is involved in international crimes with Canadian overview.

One would be fool to scam and think a country like Canada would provide with a safe haven, not when your identity is known.

Make sure she refunds and get her ass deported to Nigeria where she belongs. If she doesn’t pay up extended jail time is hovering around her life.

Law 19: Know Who You're Dealing With — Do Not Offend The Wrong Person - Nowadays I see young ladies pulling all sort of stunts even I don’t have the liver to pull. Not long ago one wanted to blackmail her sugar daddy who is a politician.

They are messing with people that can transfer millions within minutes with batting an eye.

Food for thought- how much do you think it would take to end their lives in a country like Nigeria (answer - it is cheaper than you think).

Is it the baby’s fault her mother is irresponsible?

A woman that is happily married and wouldn’t want to leave her husband is telling other married women to be comfortable with divorce

I find scenarios like this common among women, I wonder why

mukthar2000:
planing to close down my zenith bank account any moments from now, I once experience this type of debit, thank God is not more than just 20k, who no what the next debit amount is going to be .

This matter is not only about Zenith.

One has to be very mindful.

I have almost had such experience with Access Bank. Money above 300k came in, I didn’t get any notification as I normally do. After one week, these people charged me for ATM Card on the same account I haven’t used an ATM Card on in over 3 years (again no debit notification).

Lucky for me the family friend whom I received the money on her behalf called. That is how I checked to see these transactions.

After I sent them an email, asking for proof I requested an ATM card and I going to report to CBN if they don’t provide proof within 48hrs that was when the ATM Card charged was reversed

These is what we they when Banks pay peanuts, quality professionals would bother to work for them. Some of the workers they get, are not only bad at the job, they are criminal minded.

Naira20:
Lie..
Real men value hard to get babes not girls whose legs open anyhow like Molue door.

I don’t what world you are from but in presently on planet Earth. No resourceful guy (intelligent, has a life going for him, financially buoyant) I know values any lady playing hard to get.

Once any of them tries to strike a conversation and the recipient (Lady) does like an unsocial mumu. They won’t waste an extra second. They zoom zoom zoom.

Nowadays, I see intelligent girls fresh from University. Get jobs and immediately start fishing for husband in their early twenties (while have it going for them). The competition is crazy.

Cuz nowadays, what is it a guy wants? It is sex? It’s ready available like picking stones from roadside.

Get to hard can never make any Lady special in-short any one doing immediately alerts the guy to the fact there is nothing special about her.

How many Nigerian babes have 200k in their account to start with lmao

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In the abundance of the heart the mouth speakth.

When someone shows you who they are believe them

creolehunt:
What part of the attached images shows she doesnt give her husband peace?

I have completed the comment, please read it. If you have ever been in a relationship you would understand, but this is a marriage the man doesn’t want to call it quit. As a hard guy he is managing it, the best way he knows.

I don’t support Domestic Violence but i can see a woman that is not giving her husband peace.

There are things we do to soothe other people conscious, when you develop a habit of not being available and your husband cant reach you via telephone. Is he not going to think exactly what you made him to think

These kind of women that lack wisdom, now she has come to social media to cry wolf like we are living in the same house with her

siofra:
What a smart assed woman!!

virginprincess:
,This is kind of man i'm definately looking for,my own case is that we will never divorce,we will live together as couples and enjoy all the fame,wealth and power together with our children.

Lmao y’all lazy asses should be looking for Jobs.

Not reaping where you did not sow. Awoof dey purge belle