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kiddkash:
Misery loves company

Just what i was about to type.

Women of nowadays just want their peers to be as miserable as they are. #Fact.

Greed and entitlement mentality doesn’t know race or skin color.

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“Forget the past” - na so people dey marry, partner that would bring them bad luck, curses and eventually ruin their life

@OP

Proverbs 21:17 - Whoever loves pleasure will be a poor man; he who loves wine and oil will not be rich

Is manifesting in your life. Better cut your coat accordingly to your size if you want to escape poverty.

thesicilian:
I don't understand people who say they'll rather stay jobless than receive something small as salary. I guess it's either because you have something else meaningful you're doing or your wife is the one taking care of you.

Sadly, There are a lot of youths with this mentality nowadays.

Someone create a trend on advise on how to manage himself on about 25k salary he just got. Amidst the encouragements, one person whose brain matter is not complete said he would rather beg than take such a job.

Well I don’t give beggar money, no matter your format. Begging can’t be your day-to-day work. If everyone in Nigeria had my mentality, all beggars would change occupations. Shi-shi them no go get.

dawnomike:
If his connection is not disturbing your power output needed in your apartment, just let it slide

There is no how is neighbor’s theft won’t affect him.

Gens have output to fuel consumption ratio.

socialmediaman:
Don’t do this! It’s risky for him and perhaps you. You could burn down his house and it may affect you too, and what if this ends tragically?

@Op this is exactly what you should do.

First approach the said neighbor to inquire from him if he is connected to your Gen. You can even record the conversation, if his answer is “No” then he has nothing to fear.

Disconnected your house;, turn the generator to the max. Fire away!

@OP you have his banking details right, make your moves. Lodge a complaint at the EFCC office closest to you.

Write a letter and Submit a copy of that complaint to his bank. There are also other ways to get his location. Just follow up with both and play it cool.

I love when scammers think they can get away easily lol. When you finally catch him, don’t show any mercy no matter the amount of begging. Deal mercilessly.

Obaaderemi2:
The husband and his people must have taken the money from her.

That’s a fat lie.

I have seen so many of her kind, it is pure greed and laziness.

There is this particular woman in my area that drags her little children under sun begging, I usually don’t give beggars money (I can’t have someone using drugs with my money) so i took her to nearby food store, we met the shop owner; expression on the industrious igbo man’s face showed he knew her but he kept mute and took my order.

After buying food stuff of about 4k for this woman, you won’t believe she opened her mouth to say, i would need this (pointing) and that. I was shocked like, you think i am your family member. I just signaled to the man to cost and gave it to her that, that is all she gets.

When she left, the man started talking that is not her fault; she was there just two days before with another man who bought her a month worth of food stuff, he feels she sells it cuz you see her every single day begging.

Well now i no longer give beggars anything. Instead i favor the people with legit hustle with “keep the change”. I found out that they appreciate 100 times more than these people you see begging.

Once i get into government, all these women dragging children on the streets begging. Would be persecuted, have those innocent children taken away. What sort of future, are you setting the child up for. It is evil to say the least.

OloYeOfEgbE:
If that man had sex in any way shape or form with that girl......Hmmmm, I wont agree ooo..

The man can go to hell..if he has seen that girl unclothedness...Period

So the unclothedness of this ugly thin dirty thing is worth N100m

When i see/hear the reason of some of you I can’t help but shake my head in deep pity for you. Smh

Natural2Heal:
II.

“Some of the money was also used to support her mother’s business and to pay the medical bills of her father, according to her’’ he stated

Her Father and her Mother should be charged with her, they knew it was proceed of crime or how did their dull e-diot daughter come into hundred of million of Naira.

Father, Mother & Daughter should be sent off to prison as a team.

Just look at the anorexic fugly thing, meeting someone who could change her entire life, her stupid slow brain couldn’t even process the right move to make with the good hearted man

Michelle55:
How do some women do this, like passing off someone else's child as their husband's?🤔 You would have the heart to watch as he trains and dotes on the kids yet your conscience wouldn't prick even if it's just for a second to come clean. Nawao!

Whatever rocks their boats sha!

It is wickedness, plain and simple.

All the wicked would receive their reward in the eternal lake of fire 🔥

Men are not foolish.

If you get dumped by the first, we can assume he was the problem.

Get dumped by the second, we say “hmm”

Get dumped by the third, we start looking toward her direction.

Get dumped by the fourth, that’s an affirmation she is a problem.

Stay clear of divorcees ⚠️

JosephXavier:
The first governor to be installed by the Uba family that helped to drain Anambra state coffers and also the only one-term governor in Anambra so far (Soludo may be the second)

I can't forget how during his regime both secondary and primary school teachers went on strike for one full academic year because their salaries were withheld

It was the terrible things Ndi Anambra saw under him that made them choose Peter Obi who turned the state around from being "Home for all criminals" to the "Light of the nation"

May his gentle soul rest in peace

I can't forget how he owed pensioners and when they protested at the government house at Awka he labeled them "dead woods"

There is no peace for the wicked.

We would all one stand before the Creator and receive his righteous judgment for our earthly deeds. Some eternal life, some eternal condemnation.

The man still left this realm without taking a dime with him, sad part is that some of his counterparts would attend his funeral and not still have a change of heart from their wicked ways…

..later someone would ask why Hell Fire has to be eternal. If it was for a time - 500 years, there are people that will intentionally live with reckless abandon without regard for their fellow man. Even as at now, if eternal torment doesn’t move them, what will.

blaquebelle:
What is wrong with them? Make your critiques clear

Don’t they look like “Gone too soon” posters to you 😹

They sure do to me 😹😹

1Sharon:
We all know rudeness is no excuse. The woman is devious. As soon as OP got rude, she jumped on it. That will now be her defense.

Rudeness can never be a defend for criminality.

1Sharon:
You messed by getting rude to her. Now she'll cling onto that and use it as an excuse to not refund your deposit.

If there's a way to leave a review do that.

Lol being rude to you is no excuse not to refund money for service you didn’t provide.

No matter who how he insulted her, doesn’t change the fact that her refusal to provide a refund is fraudulent in nature.

@OP report her to the authorities asap, don’t care what happens to her. I am sure this is not her first time of doing this. I must confess most Nigerians are evil-minded. I as a Nigerian deal with other Nigerians at arm’s length.

Even up to transactions with family, we go sign agreements, no cash, electronic transfers, clearly defined expectations etc me that hate stories that touch.

Jennyclay:
I don't even mingle with young men... Young men are so rude and unromantic. They can't even take good care of their girlfriend.

Elderly men all the way! When I mean elderly men, I mean from 60 years of age and above. These set of men are the most romantic men living on earth.

If you're below 60 years of age, biko aviod me! I'll curse you if you approach me.

Nonsense!! Rubbish!!

Lmao. You better go and get a job so you can take care of yourself.

If you are unable to cater for your own needs, you have no business being in a relationship.

Mark them down, note the girls with daddy issues and avoid them like a plague.

If their own father was never and will never be good enough, brother if you like carry mount Everest for them; nothing you do for these kind of girls can ever be do enough.

elipheleh:
Madam you were fine and looked younger on the before picture. The other difference is you used bad camera to snap the first picture.

When these young wives see their husbands grinding to provide for their household, they think it's easy and their females selfishness start acting up. This man is not giving me time, he is not spending time on me. Blah blah blah.

When they now leave they can't even woman up and bear their loads.

See the frog above saying she is worn out providing for her own children plus career.

Learn to respect and honour your men

Bro, very selfish individual oo.

Your husband can’t provide financially, so she as the wife can‘t take up the challenge. Providing for her own family became a burden to her? Lol

God would not allow us mis-marry. Her Husband is not able to provide financially for that singular reason, he is of no use to her lol. It is well.

A man feeds his whole family for decades nobody hears about it, let a woman feed her family for just one week: the whole nation would hear the news

Check the mentality of your potential, make sure poverty hasn’t misaligned it. Some are not created to be helpers, they are the problem itself.

@baralatie

Can you see this, this is a type of sexual incompatibility situation. This particular situation (opposite sex marrying a partner that is attracted to same sex) happens rather often.

In my graduating set in Uni, atleast two babe have gotten divorced rumors has that their husbands were closet gays. One of them i can confirm, he had been showing gay symptoms.

I am not homophobic but i think it’s not right to put any man or woman through such when you know the truth within you.

When i said i support finding out one’s partner’s sexual capability, some people would say I am just trying to make free sex before marriage a thing. When in reality, you can find out if your partner wouldn’t be able to satisfy you sexually before marriage. Is it not worth the happiness and peace of mind you get for the rest of your life by not going through with that marriage that would make your life miserable if you and your partner are not on the same sexual frequency.

Sleekfingers:
You are absolutely right.
I have hidden cameras everywhere in the house. Except in my kids rooms , bathroom and toilets . And I have visible cameras in the compound.
Early last year , our cleaner was caught on camera stealing raw rice , frozen meats and turkey from the food store . I was just laughing, when she was leaving I just called her. Show her the footage. She started crying profusely. Telling me all kinda stories about what she and are children were going through. I felt for her. Gave her some money and foodstuffs. And I didn't sack her or tell my wife.

Oga there is a particular story I am looking for, I read it when I was little. I think it is popular but I can’t seem to find it on the internet. I would try to tell it from memory, please read it, reflect and use it to advise yourself; for the present days are evil.

Anyways it goes somewhat like this: A knight was walking through the forest suddenly out of no where jumped out a very little monster with a small knife challenging him to a duel. The knight laughed so hard, he rolled over in laughter. Seeing the seriousness of the very little monster he accepted. He didn’t need to draw his sword. After the monster took a beating the very little monster cried out for mercy. The knight out of pity didn’t slay it, he let it go.

Several months later, this same knight walking through this same forest. Crossed paths with this same monster, this time the monster had grown to the size of a young lad. The duel started and the knight had to draw his sword to parry the sharp mid-sized sword in the monster’s hand. Again the knight won after taking a cut or two. The monster cried for mercy. The knight let it go.

A year later, you guessed right. They crossed path again. This time the monster was just the same size as the knight. The knight was bewildered at the strange growth. Battle resumed and lasted several hours, the knight and the monster were exhausted battered and bruised. The knight was inflicted with a non-fatal deep stab. In his exhaustion he managed to get the monster to loose it’s weapon. He was about to strike the killing blow, in a loud voice and tears the monster cried for mercy. After quite a while in thoughts the knight let the monster live.

Several years later. Yup you know it. They crossed paths again. This time the monster was towering over the knight. The Knight was terrified at the strength and viciousness of the beast. He fought bravely but his strength was futile against the now overgrown monster. The monster beat the knight an inch of his life. By now the knight had lost an arm and was at the very edge of death, bleeding. As good fortune was on the Knight’s side, a lucky strike to the monster heels stroke a vein and the monster was down in pain, a opportunity just enough for the knight to summon all his last strength to take a swing at the monster’s head. Down it’s head came. Beside the lifeless body of the monster was also lying the knight, bleeding to death.

Lmao.

O boy collect your phone back. The rationale is simple: when you get a job in some organization, you are given a Laptop, Phone, ID Card or even an official Car.

By the time you resign or you are sacked… you guessed right. All these things are collected back, they are company property lol.

But seriously if she longer wants the relationship, why not return the asset gotten from that association. Na wa.

Karma is so beautiful, what goes around would eventually come around.

I hope y’all maintain the same energy when a man with Yoruba/Hausa heritage wants to govern Anambra and He can’t speak ibo.

This would happen sooner than you expect. When you open a door don’t think you are the only one that would walk through it.

Do you know that there are people in Lagos that understand only Yoruba just as there are people in Anambra that understand only ibo. Shouldn’t the language be a prerequisite to choose their leader?

The people saying it fake, please give us proof that it is fake or is it fake because LP was mentioned

I can vouch for some of the stated information.

There were indeed allegations of terrorist financing against Emefiele, it was somehow swept under the carpet and if my memory serves me correctly it was that period He abandoned his presidential aspiration. A simple google would show this.

Needless to say, Emefiele has been a catastrophic embarrassment.

Don’t forget this is a National newspaper, the legal implication of them just opening their mouths like parrots without evidence can cost them their company.

baralatie:
If a woman is denying the husband sex how are you sure it is low libido.how are you sure the woman is not weaponing sex to overpower the husband in the house

Now you are just purposely going off the road to defend yourself.

There are women and men with low libido, it is as real as the day. They don’t just enjoy sex, nor do they have the urge to engage in it.

I think this is the junction I would leave you to educate yourself more before arguing blindly on the internet. I pray you don’t fall into the pit of sexual incompatibility.

baralatie:
I did not argue about marital infidelity as been listed in their write up

You have argued so much you have even forgotten the basis of the argument.

Is sexual incompatibility a ground/cause/contributing factor of/to divorce? Yes is it!

baralatie:
No
I did not say so o

That’s what are you saying, research said it is a cause, ChatGPT said it is a cause.

With your limited knowledge of logic, maths and martial law you insist it is not and keep “trying to help me”

Ask yourself, your wife keeps refusing you sex cause she genuinely has low libido while you are high on testosterone. How long is this marriage going to last sir?

OLULAW:
Your English grammar is so bad, you're not communicating. Go and get an English teacher.

Please go easy on the man abeg lol

baralatie:
I am trying to help you but you refuse
What you brought is that a research/study telling you the results or you are quoting a paper write up

I see the problem you are more intelligent than various academic research and chatGPT lol.

I hear you.

baralatie:
No it does not
Unless you will cancel out the first group and rank all.atributes into a global ranking which the source did not do

You are obviously bad at research. Let chatGPT help you.

Did you see the part where I told you why it is not a widely known issue. Why is it just gaining prevalence? Or just just choose to ignore it and keep arguing against all facts presented.

There are many causes of divorce and sexual incompatibility is one of them brother.

baralatie:
Let me put in proper perspective
Causes of divorce
Amarital infidelity
2.financil hardship
3.marital abuse/trauma
4.divergence
5external pressure of the workplace/family
6 peer pressure

Now these above are some of the major causes of divorce and research can give us a ranking of which of the above is prevalent at a certain point in time.

Now let us take marital infidelity
Causes of infidelity
1.lack of sex drive
2 sexual divergence
3.sexual.incompatibilty
4.sexual.dissatisfaction

You get it now

You don’t understand logic sir.

If infidelity is a major cause of divorce, doesn’t that make the top factor contributing to infidelity the major causes of divorce?

if you read the research i posted, sexual incompatibility has significant impact on divorce but the issue is not widely know due to the shush shush nature of matter.

Because most married man and woman and not willing to disclose sexual inadequacies in their marriage.