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So long. When I first heard it, I thought he was from Jamaica. I didn't know a Nigerian can sing a song that good.

No positives from jealousy. That is what has generated the most horrifying news on this forum. Husband kill wife, girlfriend stabs boyfriend , boyfriend kills girlfriend kills lover and then kills himself. I am sure you get the picture. So if you have anybody ( I mean babe) that is showing the signs or has verbally told you she gets jealous, just avoid any form of commitment with her. May we not read your news on the front pages of this forum .

If you wish to have a child with her, it becomes more difficult for her to have a child but not impossible. Secondly, the likelihood of her giving birth to a child with down syndrome is very high. But you can go ahead, but make sure you are established as a man.

Read the book The Rational Male 1 2 and 3 by Rollo Tomassi. You will forever be grateful.

Informative.

I recommend The Rational Male1,2 &3 by Rollo Tomassi for anyone that wants the big picture on hacking the female mind.

This is what is called in red pill language ONEitis.You have to read the book the rational male by rollo tomassi to understand better. Many guys would still make the same mistake most especially if you believe that there is a soul mate somewhere waiting for you.

You can never run out of followers. You would always be a point of reference. Already checked your blog, and it is impressive.

My advice is for you to enjoy your life. You dont need marriage, whether now or in the future. Just make enough money to take care of your child and yourself. As for relationship, every man will eventually lose interest in a woman after sometime. So dont rush or over commit yourself with the new woman.

On a second thought, dont you think some women are looking for the same thing you are complaining about.

#25k last price. Are you in lagos.

I would like you to add that any cryptocurrency that does not have a limit to the amount of coins that can be created is a scam so people should choose wisely.

Fairview1:
Marrying the wrong woman. Someone who isn't meant for me. Someone who will mask and shroud herself in a different personality, claiming she's what she's not. I am an introvert by nature and most times, my strength lies in few words, proceeded with actions. I find it hard to speak out so much hence the reason for my silence.


My Dad never got it right during his prime days and it left him with perpetual agony and broken home, until the day of his death. Everything has spilled from the top leaving us the kids with the same agony and fear of women. It has also gotten to a point that I find it very difficult to cultivate a serious relationship the ladies thinking I may end up been controlled or sth.

Let me refer you to one of my friend karel. Read his article on women and relationship on blog.kareldonk.com. Also visit the romance section to read what ubunja has to say on women. There is no need for you to be scared of women in this life, you just need to understand how the world works and why people do what they do.

Cannot be achieved. Many rural areas dont have toilets, worst still many communities in this country dont have access to water. But good development anyways. Anything that increases the quality of life of nigerians is welcomed.

Essentially, what I’m saying is that relationships in the traditional sense (boyfriend-girlfriend, husband-wife) and love, don’t belong together. Why? Because it’s not natural, and anything that is not natural, will require a lot of (wasted) energy to keep going, while in extreme cases causing a lot of devastation in the lives of the ones involved. Indeed it seems that if you truly love someone,
you should avoid a relationship with them in the traditional sense at all costs.

on each other. I wrote before about love and limitations,
and I wrote back then that such a relationship is not natural. People naturally want to be and feel free. And so limitations in relationships, or with regard to love, will only cause trouble. Karen Horney indicated the following in her article “The Problem of the Monogamous Ideal”:
[…] the overestimation of love leads to disillusionment; the desire to possess the partner results in the partner wanting to escape; and the taboos against sex result in non-fulfillment.
Disillusionment plus the desire to escape plus nonfulfillment result in a secret hostility, which causes the other partner to feel alienated. Secret hostility in one and secret alienation in the other cause the partners to secretly hate each other. This secret hate often leads one or the other or both to seek love objects outside the marriage or relationship.
Such a relationship also forces people to live with each other’s negative traits because they’ve tied themselves to each other. They can’t just enjoy the things they like about each other anymore; they’re now also forced to live with, and accept, the things they don’t like about each other, which also contributes a lot to people starting to (secretly) hate each other eventually.
And so it appears that any kind of relationship between lovers will ultimately lead to problems, no matter how strong their love may be, and no matter how pure their intentions and motives may be. In fact, it’s clear that relationships can have such a seriously negative impact on lovers, to the point that they can even grow to hate each other.

Relationships based on such motives don’t have a lot of potential to last long, simply because they are based on the wrong things. If a girl is with you because of your money, what do you think will happen when one day you don’t have enough of it anymore? If she’s with you because of your social status (prestige, influence,
authority etc.), what do you think will happen when one day you lose it?
A relationship based on love has the most potential to last long. It doesn’t mean that it will always last long, but just that it has the best chances to last long. And here,
I’m talking about a relationship between two people as we know it in the traditional sense, where they remain faithful to each other and essentially agree to belong to each other (with or without marriage). Even this relationship, even though it has the best chances to last longer, often doesn’t last very long these days. One reason why this is the case is because people and situations can change over time. Apart from the fact that people can naturally change over time, it’s often also the case that they were just pretending to be someone else at the start of the relationship, just to meet the other’s expectations in order to establish the relationship. You can’t pretend to be someone else your whole life, and sooner or later, the other person will start to see the real you. Apart from the fact that it’s not easy to pretend to be someone else your whole life, you can also never be happy being someone else and doing the things that you don’t like.
Another reason why such a relationship doesn’t last very long, is that it is often limiting to both people involved,
and its duration will depend on the level at which both people are able to live with the limitations they impose

All relationships are based on expectations. It doesn’t matter what kind of relationship it is, or between whom or what the relationship is. It could be a romantic relationship between two people, a partnership,
friendship, between businesses and clients, or for a few technical examples, relationships between two tables in a database, or between two computers trying to establish a TCP/IP connection. Either side, and there could be more than two sides or parties involved, expect one or more things from the other side in order for the relationship to be established and to keep existing. The relationship cannot keep existing if either side does not meet the other’s expectations, and in such a case has no use.
In this post I’ll concentrate more on romantic relationships, or relationships based on love. So when I use the word relationship, that’s what I mean from now on.
In my opinion, the only expectation that should exist in a romantic relationship between two people, is giving and receiving love. Any romantic relationship which is based on other needs is doomed to fail. This has always been my main requirement for entering into a relationship with someone else. The only thing I would expect from her, is to love me and give me enough attention and anything that naturally comes with that. I wouldn’t expect anything else. And I would want her to expect the same from me.
These days people enter into relationships with all kinds of wrong motives and expectations. This is one of the reasons why many relationships don’t work in the long term. For example, you have women, usually in their late 20s when they feel like they have partied enough and want a more stable life now, looking for men “to take care of them.” You have women with overly unrealistic views about love, romance and potential partners,
expecting to find their soul mate – the perfect guy who will be able to satisfy their every need, who will forget about his own life and completely devote himself to them and turn their lives into some kind of fairy tale. You have young boys and girls wanting to be with someone to be popular, or to be able to feel like they are a part of something. Unfortunately a lot of these wrong motives and expectations are being programmed into people by society starting from very early childhood. Take a look at what psychoanalyst Karen Horney M.D. said:
In her essay entitled “The Problem of Feminine Masochism” Horney felt she proved that cultures and societies worldwide encouraged women to be dependent on men for their love, prestige, wealth,
care and protection. She pointed out that in the society, a will to please, satiate and overvalue men had emerged. Women were regarded as objects of charm and beauty—at variance with every human being’s ultimate purpose of self-actualization.

1.blog.kareldonk.com
2.mastodon
3.Wikileaks.com.
4.markmanson.net

Relationship itself is the cause of the violence and anger.

There is nothing wrong with you. You just have a high sex drive. No need to talk to any imam or pastor. Just continue having sex but use protection. Not everything is a problem.

Stop storing your crypto on an online wallet whether luno or any other wallet. It is not safe. Most of the companies even though they are international, are responsible for the theft of peoples currencies. The best thing to do is to order for a crypto hardware wallet. Store all your currencies there and convert to cash the one you want to use. That is the reason why crypto was created in the first place. So that you can spend it without any third party.

OKUCHI11:
I like how they maintain their culture.... but if it is Africa.. they would have tagged it as ancestral bondage

It is actually ancestral bondage and will become obsolete when majority get to the age of enlightenment. Or don't you ever ask yourself why a human being like you will claim to be king over you and his children and children after will rule over you till eternity. Go and read thomas paine, Common Sense and The Rights of Man.

She will only become another mans problem. We are pushing for a time when marriage and relationships will cease to exist. Please allow feminist fight their fight, it only releases men from their burden. Most of all these brainwashing is caused by religion. The moment people stop believing in it, they will start to question everything else about their lives.

For once i will say that you are intelligent. You learnt the hard way but it means that you will enjoy the remaining years of your life. Keep posting more and share more personal experiences, many young guys would learn a lot before thinking about any relationship with a woman.
For me personally, i never needed to learn from experience. I am naturally curious as to how the world work. If i feel uncomfortable about anything, i run to the internet because i believe there is no problem that i am facing that others before me have not faced and they must have found a solution and documented it. So keep it up.

Tithe and offering money.

Very painful. People struggling everyday to feed themselves never imagined that something like this would happen to them. Too much suffering in this crazy country.

It is societal brainwashing that caused it. Women love sex just as much as men, but when they explicitly show it the men are the first to call them all sort of names from olosho, hoe, prostitute, farm tools etc.
And also the double standard that exists in society. Nobody sees anything wrong in a man sleeping with different girls but let a woman try it and the world will not rest. We just like to make things difficult for ourselves.

Mental illness.

PUSSYHOE:
We all know who ubunja is on this forum, For the past two years i have been vehemently following and exhibiting his threads and it worked all the time. One thing i have realized for the past two years is i have become less attached to females emotionally, i dont feel any passion whatsoever, i don't day dream nor long for any girl. I lost my ability to feel for the opposite sex and that is the only disadvantage of his miseducations but these are what i gained:

1) I've had more pleasure(sex) in the last two years than all my dating years combined

2) I've save more money in the last two years than all my previous years combined, because i know all female tricks of exploiting.

3) Also i have developed cognitively and socially and well focused on projects and inventions, with no external responsibility and distraction.

I gained all these but lost one thing -LOVE.

You never lost love, you gained it.