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plz just turn this thread to a book.

Some Nigerians and sebtiments. They didn't blame ighalo for the missed opportunities but descended on the coach. He is a complete gentleman, and he should be left to qualify us for the nations cup.

afoltundeseun:
Nigeria shall be great again!

If you believe, like for amen

If Nigeria is to be great you have to courageous enough to take charge especially when you know you are better than most so-called Nigerian leaders. I suggest you read the republic by Plato and meditations by Marcus Aurelius if you've not read it.

Brother, to avoid this kind of thing in future I would like you to learn about the attitude to life of human beings. You can do that by reading michealsteachings.com. Verify everybody's attitude before you start calling them friends. You can do that by asking them questions about themselves. Once the person starts showing the signs of being a cynic or a perfectionist, then it means you should stay away from the person. The guy that stole from you is obviously a perfectionist.

TheCongo2:
To the soccer experts of Nairaland, can any one tell me why a team like South Korea ( which was already disqualified after Sweden scored against Mexico) would put so much energy in a game that was irrelevent to them?

It's called psychology. The moment you don't have anything to lose, you begin to play well.

I've said it before, verify the personality of the person you are dating or trying to date. The man could have just left the woman alone but due to his perfectionist nature decided to do what comes naturally to him. Someone above even said it is not easy to forgive. Nature just has a way of purifying itself.

Many people don't understand the nature of what is going on. We are being ruled by an administration of tyranny. And as such, whether pmb dies tomorrow, he would do everything within his power to put people in place where tyranny would continue.

Deprofessional:
Please what does the phrase 'set pieces' mean in football. I have heard about this severally, but it doesnt make meaning to me.

From my own understanding, a set piece is a rehearsed way of taking a deadball(freekick, P. K, cornerkick) to increase your chances of scoring it. E. g a team during an indirect free kick chooses to pass the ball around instead of just putting the ball in the box because they lack the height for such. So when you see an improvised way of taking a dead all, that is a set-piece.

Let me use this opportunity to educate those who might read this, scrutinize the spouse you are going to marry, whether girlfriend or boyfriend. If they tell you that they are perfectionist (the slacking type) unless you are one yourself, don't have anything to do with them. They are the only ones capable of doing this without remorse. A rational thinking human would have let the woman go.
And from what I've seen, the woman might have a very high sex drive that the man cannot satisfy. A word is enough for the wise.

You alone know the extent of the hardship you are facing. You only need to be very patient with you work, see how much you can contribute to making your mother's house complete with the little that you make so that you know you have one leg to stand on.
She is not wise enough to advise you according to what I have read. 28 years Is still young for a Nigerian man to delve into marriage without the means to take care of the responsibilities it would bring.
I want you to ask her this question, what is her relationship like with her mother.

For me, these are some of the reasons why one would cheat on the one that they "love".

Biology
The way the world works is that the desire to have sex is greater in some people than others. No matter how much love you have for your spouse, the desire to satisfy that urge would overwhelm your capacity to remain loyal. It goes for both the men and women. That's why many cannot understand why some people refuse to remain faithful.

Compatibility or a differ in attitude to life
Many people like to choose their spouses based on common ground and shared values which makes it easier for them to function on many levels. If there is a slight disagreement on what one expects from the other, it is only a matter of time before infidelity starts. This particular factor is very broad.

Sexual Incompatibility
We know this one very well, when the woman complains that the man is too small and the man is complaining that the woman is too wide. When the sex is not good even love might not be enough to sustain the marriage.

Nature
Most importantly, nature has predetermined man's actions and reactions. Some categories of people cannot come to terms with living or waking up to see the same face everyday. They are not cut out for marriage, they are only satisfying the demands of society to get and stay married.

I pick martial ahead of thauvin, lacazzette is not good enough to make the team, LaPorte ahead of Rami,rabiot ahead of nzonzi or Lemar, they have enough defensive minded midfielders in their team already.

You guys have very different personalities which would be difficult if you decide to continue. In marriage and in life, if two people cannot come to an agreement on how things should work, there would be tension. I advise you not to continue.

The consequences of marrying a realist (perfectionist). A female lawyer who is earning a good living and can afford to build a house for herself instead of walking away in peace decides to do what anyway comes naturally to her.

The kind of perfectionist that the guy described above are the ones know as the slackers. He is not entirely wrong. The only downside to some perfectionist is their cardinal thinking. (basic instinct and impulses). This is rooted in their realist attitude to life. For example, if a realist has #1million to carry out a project and he needs #100,000 to actualize it and you have the money as the last thing in your account, be sure that if given the opportunity, the money is gone. They are for the most part very pessimistic. There is a lot I could have typed but to understand better try reading about the various(7) attitudes to life. There is an article on perfection by Darius foroux.

I just had to come back to do this. The same personality traits that allows you to be spiritual is the same one that allows you to also be vindictive. And it applies to anyone anywhere in the world who has such characteristics. Majority are realists(perfectionist) who are mostly vengeful. I will try to create a thread on this in future

first of all you are endomorphic( don't ask me how I know) and so like someone said, reduce the amount of carbohydrates you eat, eat protein and fruits and do exercises that works the entire body(soccer is advisable).

I am not trying to derail this thread but if any of the mods is active, I want people to create a thread concerning the collection of PVC in Lagos State.

The insecurities in Nigeria cannot make them do the show again. I really missed it.

Zico... I think you need to be paid. If I were you I would stop updating so that the owner of nairaland would be forced to negotiate with me. That is if you are not be paid already. Take it as a job.

This babe is probably histrionic.

olatbs:
Pls what is happening on Lagos /Benin expressed road?? Pls tell any member of ur family traveling through that road to pls go back ...herds men are stoping vehicle and shooting people to death..NO JOKES OH HELP TO SAVE LIFE

If this is true then you could have created a thread to better inform the public.

Colleverage:
The best way to deal with depression, this has worked for generations


1. Fill your pockets with rocks
2.take a bus going to obalende or cms
3. Drop at 3rd mainland bridge
4. Hop off the bridge into the water and let the waves take care of the rest

You are welcome

Not too long ago, someone here complained about being depressed somewhere in rivers state. He was looking for sniper to drink but eventually drank tea mixed with cement, then he closed his account. You might still be naive, but depression leads to suicide and comments like these are what triggers it. I would like that you do a research on depression to avoid taking it as a joke.

My brother, you have done the right thing by coming here to seek advice.I would tell you that your brother has a trait of narcissism. I would like that you read more on narcissism there are articles on the possible ways to deal with a person who possess the trait. Once you read on it extensively, anything your brother does won't bother you as much. Wave off the attempt to commit suicide. I always say that a large part of the reason why people are suffering so much is due to not asking questions. But make sure you read on narcissistic personality disorders and how to deal with a manipulative person. Good luck.

I WANT YOU TO TAKE THIS MESSAGE VERY SERIOUSLY YOUR FATHER IS SUFFERING FROM NPH( NARCCISSIST PERSONALITY/CHARACTER DISORDER) I CANNOT TYPE LONG EPISTLE NOW BUT THE SOLUTION IS NEVER SHOW WEAKNESS AND YOU JUST HAVE TO RETALIATE. IF YOU AND YOUR SIBLINGS CANNOT GANG UP AND BEAT HIM, ORGANIZE BOYS TO DO IT FOR YOU, AND LET HIM KNOW THE REASON FOR THE BEATING. I CAN PROMISE YOU HE WILL BE THE HUMBLEST MAN FROM THEN ON. PLEASE TRY AND READ BOOKS ON NPH. IF YOUR MOTHER DIES AND HE REMARRIES, THE CYCLE WILL CONTINUE. I EXPECT A TESTIMONY VERY SOON. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. I HAVE BEEN THERE BEFORE. DON'T LET YOUR MOTHER DOWN.

Christianity.

This thread is filled with so much insight. I stumbled on it while i was trying to find answers to why atheist believe what they believe. Sir if you can send me at least 5 pdf files on some of the most important books on this topic i would be very grateful.

So he wants to win ballon d or ahead of messi and ronaldo. He should win world cup first. Anyway what is the prize money for this nonsense they call FTC

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