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Lanretoye:
Always shooting his own leg,pele can do very well as the coach of the Brazilian national team cos of his experience,he will be able to select and organize good players too...translate that.

same way Tinubu will do well as an adviser or a king maker

Matix222:
Apologies for the long write up……..

I have been dating this girl for like 2 months now and the relationship has been affecting my mental health that I can’t think properly.

I do love this girl but recently I have been having this feeling that she is seeing someone else and caught her to a point Yesterday. She couldn’t deny……

Firstly, yesterday was my birthday, she was supposed to come see me in the morning and spend the day with me, this girl didn’t show up after calling her like 17 times… had the feeling she was with a guy so I decided to go to her house.

On getting to her house, I saw her she was very weak. I asked her what she has been up to. She said she went to the farm. Then I asked who was aware that she went to the farm, she couldn’t say and was speechless. She later contradicted her statement that she didn’t go to the farm that she just strolled out and went to her cousins place thereafter all which are lies…..

I’m thinking of leaving the relationship for my peace of mind and sanity but she is begging we still stay..

I’m just confused right now

A cheat will always cheat, move on if you want to enjoy the rest of your life.

casualobserver:
Your Mom is wrong.

1) there are 2 sides to every story, no reasonable man abandons his children without good reason. If your mother married an unreasonable man then whose fault is that..the man or hers? Your mum isnt going to tell you she messed up if she did is she? Seperated/single mothers tend to brainwash and weaponise their children against their fathers.
2) it is bad enough that you grew up without a father but to remove his name is to deny who you are.
3) secondly it is emotional blackmail and selfish for your mother to use her children to fight her battles, you are suffering enough as it is without a father, she shouldnt add her drama to your life. your mother should be looking to sooth the fact that you have no father in your life (which is very important for any child) not to further damage you pyschologically.
4) I assume you are an adult, it is your decision to make not hers!!! She cannot deny who you are simply because of her mistakes in life. And yes it is her mistake because she made a choice to have children with a man who is no longer in the picture for whatever reason...whether it is her fault or his, it shows bad judgement on her part. It shows at the very least she chose to have have children with the wrong man...thats on her..thats her fault!!!!!! The fact that she is weaponsing you children says a lot about her if you ask me.

thank you, many people don't know the extent most women go with lies about their partners. I witnessed one where a lady took her husband's money and took their children along with her. In the future she'll tell those children that their father abandoned them.

pargelenis:
After reading all this below, I wonder why you want to continue bearing the last name of that deadbeat individual?

”…My dad was never part of the family.
They both separated because of infidelity and harsh treatment.
Since then, my dad, I guess erased our memories from his life…”. .

was she a witness to her dad's infidelity or she was told about it by her mother. You would be surprised how hard her father is trying to locate them now.

Alexxx2000:
It's a long story but I will try to abridge it.

My mom raised I and my brother of 5yrs old single-handedly. There's a separation in the family so we're shuffling the deck. She's an hairstylist with meagre wages.

My dad was never part of the family. They both separated because of infidelity and harsh treatment. Since then, my dad, I guess erased our memories from his life.

I must confess, she's trying but the bills is weighing her down. My little brother was to start school last year but we couldn't pay for fees but after saving, we decided to put him in a cheap school close to the house.

Now, my mom want to stop us from bearing my father's name. She mandated me to change mine as well to her own dad's name.

Yesterday when I returned from the Pos attendant job I do, she brought the topic again and she said, nothing is holding her back on her decision.

Is she right for taking such decision? What will you advise me to do please?

how old were you when your parents separated?

What nonsense did I just read, if he had taken her to a hotel wouldn't the same thing happen. Most of you guys on twitter need your brains examined.

marlow1962:
Two of my last relationships ended like that too. I don’t take nonsense from my family talk more from ppl outside.
My last gal uses foul words on me too, I don’t like it especially when it’s coming from a gal ( I can understand it when it’s coming from a guy that’s my frnds, we do use foul words on ourselves knowing it just jokes) my last gal always use those foul words, I don’t know what gave her that impression that am cool wit it. I can’t beat her, cus when I do she might go see her maker from there. My dad never raised his hands on my mum, so me doing that is stupid.
I ended the relationship cus she fought me cus of food that I bought wit my own money. Cus my turkey was bigger than hers, she was like I bought for her a cheap turkey ( turkey wer be 2k each) I got pissed by that statement I have to tell her she’s ungrateful that next time she’s buying wit her own money( ungrateful part touch her, so na there the quarrel start)
I cherish my sleep and peace of mind, I don’t want no woman to play me when am sleeping.
Have been single since then, and dahm I feel so much alive, just make my money and take care of my family and my son.

comrade stringy men association is open to new members . 99 percent of women are ungrateful, talking from experience, so next time when you start a new relationship, avoid certain things like the ones that ended your previous relationship. If she's hungry, let her cook. That's how reasonable women think.

They want to defile the laws of nature . Action and reaction are equal and opposite, me trying not to react is going against nature.

In the voice of FELA You dey go your way, the jeje way
Somebody come bring original trouble
You no talk, you know what?
You say you be gentleman
You go tired
You go suffer
You go quench
Ah mee I no be gentleman like that

dark404:
You get a dog last month and the next thing for you is breeding? Unfortunately, I can't help since her details are unknown.

we like your new Monika o oga oluomaadebayo

wizi44:
what is there to be explained exactly. He asked the guy for the dogs pedigree details of which the guy said he doesn't have, then he asked the guy to ask the former owners of the dog for the details.then you come up and say stuff about him not having a dog which I don't really understand. he simply asked for he details because he wants to make sure the dog is of registered lines and how sure are you that he has been breeding for only 5 years.

go through their chats again for better understanding.

LordviccoDaGuru:
more photos

e shock f00ls say Buhari dey New York they flex

illiterate, he was there for strategic meeting. When dem tell you say make you go school, you dey busy dey pursue ashawo, now you no fit read simple heading before you post am.
Where in your post said he was flexing in New York

budaatum:
Was Putin even invited?

https://en.as.com/latest_news/six-countries-including-russia-have-not-been-invited-to-queen-elizabeths-funeral-n/

abegi.

Slynation:
Or what will happen?? Davido ain't an ordinary citizen like me and you, he is free to meddle out things in the midst of Men...!! when your products and success are in human capital, nobody can bring you down, that's Davido for you...

But if the government wants to cripple Dangote, it won't take more than 24hours...

just revoke few License and he'll be out of market.

Righteousness2:
The Signs of the times are Everywhere.
Deception is at all time High.

The foot soldiers and False Prophet of the antichrist are all over the place watering and preparing the path of the government of the antichrist, the New world Order, One world government, One world religion, One world currency.

There is no more time!!! It is time to get serious with God. It is time to cement your relationship with JESUS.
The Rapture is Imminent! Be Ready!!

how did you think Christianity was formed , if you think it came from heaven, then you need to have your Brain checked. For more answers ask emperor Constantine

Throwback:
Not Tinubu's fault that your candidate has nothing significant to project his competence and capacity while he was Governor.

what if he has no candidate? You southerners will continue to embarrass yourselves online, paving way for the north to rule you again.

Tinubuwins2023e:
You people will not stop amazing me with your foolishness. Everyone that supports Obituary have proven times without number that they are very useless animals with no sense. Go and arrest Tinubu if them born you and your kind papa well

so you believe he's supporting Obi and not Atiku. The south will loose the next election because they are dumb to realise that their common enemy is from the north.

jrusky:
Yea you are right but by your own people who are naturally land grabbers who come to any land, settled down then claimed they developed it and claimed its no man's land naa.

southerners are not normal people again, so everyone who's against Tinubu is from South, what happened to Athifku candidates. The North is really playing on the intelligence of the south, and I fear they'll loose the election

wizi44:
oluomaadebayo is a seasoned dog breeder and trainer especially in the field of the Belgian malinois.

comrade, It's too early for this. Just because I have a breed of dog for five years automatically makes me an expert in dog training and breeding. There are lots to dogs that breeding, which if he had a knowledge of wouldn't take me a breath to explain to the gentleman.

mrvitalis:
Not speed trains. They are just faster than planes( if u add boarding time , checkin time ,and check out ) reason it makes sense

Google sha

planes travel at 600-800km/hr, speed train travel max at 600km/hr

mrvitalis:
Those are standard gauge trains similar to what u have in Europe ...high speeds ( billet Trains ) are mostly in Asia

120km/hr a bullet train records 600km/hr.

Danidosky:
Can we talk on Whatsapp please. Though I've seen a stud, I'd love to gain from your wealth of knowledge. My contact is on my signature. Thank you

the guy no get dog, no stress yourself.

Favourdman:
Reach me here

you're replying a 2018 topic

temitopteas:
I really need ur help guys my dog needs to eat , even when served with rice(jollof) she would only eat the biscuit bones and drink her water ..she won't touch the rice ... but funny her she would finish coaster biscuits when served ..imagine
she just finished 200 naira biscuit Within 5mins..but I think coaster biscuits can't sustain her.

since 2018

abioyeayanfeolu:
NICE DOG U GOT ANYWAYS BUH D COAT MY PB.

MY OPINION NO SHADES

you see am abi

fasa199:
Hello, if you need a good security adult dog for free contact me.. You must be in benin city. The dog will be too tough for my parents to handle hence the reason why I want to give it out.

N.B: Benin-city alone.

pics, and where in Benin?

fasa199:
Hello, if you need a good security adult dog for free contact me.. You must be in benin city. The dog will be too tough for my parents to handle hence the reason why I want to give it out.

N.B: Benin-city alone.

pics

garriAndsugar:
Can't you read the handwriting on the wall? Or you need glasses?

what if her son is naughty or poorly trained

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

how can you say he hates your son, if he's actually shouting at him in your presence then it means he's not a pretender. Your son would need a man's presence in order to be a man. Ask yourself, was your son guilty of what he was shouting at him for?

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