₦airaland Forum

DonroxyII:
When You dedicate Your Brain to Greater Course, Smaller Course become Non-existent and when the body asks, You know it's normal just Hormone and the body doing their routine Job. It shall pass with time then reoccur and pass again.... You just go on with your adventure and the search for Universe !

BePrepared:
We have animals in human form here o

4 weeks o

So what of prisoners serving thirty years

pocohantas:
Oga rest, nobody will beg you for anything. Say you be who? Men are CHEAP! Ashewo gender that can be fcked with N4 text message. Who go beg una?

Woman wey never fck na say she no wan fck. Message 20 men, including married ones and 25 would reply! You fit still use scope collect money from them join.

Make una thank God say women no get evil mind to do rituals. Una population for done reduce by 99.7%. Make I see mouth una go use dey insult women online.

C’mon leave this place osiso.

Acidosis:
Hathor Hathor Good morning o

Edusouls:
My sister men get serious problems no be small, most are equivalent to dogs, very irresponsible, tomorrow now u hear them bashing women here and there, and mind u am a man but a very reasonable one..

reservd:
It's not o, but people are different in mind and body

Acidosis:
Excellent literacy rate, and better healthcare. Takeaway these two and some of them will be competing for the number one spot.



Okay. Good


And when sexually active people avoid or delay marriage due to these factors, what happens?



When you define harmful in the context of the society at large, you'll understand the point.

Acidosis:
How do you explain the fact that South Africa (despite having a higher rate of literates and standard of living) has a higher HIV/AIDS prevalence than "the over religious" Nigeria? Don't you think our "hypocrisy and holier than thou" have helped in some ways?

The world is getting there so what do you recommend? You mentioned how our mothers married as teenagers, hence, they were able to practise abstinence. Since today's teenagers can't get married, what do you recommend? Condom?

Yes, certainly, and destroying the family structure will pose even a bigger challenge.

No, I didn't. I only gave a reason why humans can't afford to have sex like animals. That was a response to a claim that sex poses no harm or sin. If it poses no harm, why do we have sex in the secret and frown against public sex - the way animals do?

I don't support slut shaming people.

Acidosis:
No, I disagree and I have data to prove that. The numbers only seem higher because we have a high population. In fact, given our poor literacy rate, we are doing excellently well.

No amount of help can invalidate the topic of abstinence. I belief the only education a teenage girl or guy should be receiving about sexual activity (not sexual organs or biology) is abstinence/dangers of premarital sex. While we all know that teenagers of today now do all kinds of acrobatics in bed, I don't think buying them condom or contraceptive is the way to go. I don't think I would be part of those who would be distributing condoms in secondary or primary schools.

I have no issues with adults who choose to have sex before marriage. I only become defensive when they try to make obsolete the topic of abstinence with false claims.

I agree
Well, when they make the topic of abstinence impracticable or obsolete, they come across as addicts.

Acidosis:
We can't afford to engage in sexual activities like animals so those who choose to promote abstinence or safe sex with one partner are doing the world a favour. We should celebrate them rather than make them feel backward when we obviously know that the other alternatives can destroy the world. When HIV/AIDS was almost going to destroy the world, these people played active roles.

We have STIs to contend with, consent and legal issues, we've also got teenage pregnancy, and so many other wahala, all associated with sex. Two strange adult goats can afford to knack on the highway but humans can't.

No. Don't forget that the argument is not about whether people should have sex or not. Of course, people will always have sex.

Barrister026:
I thought I was speaking with someone mature.

@your first comments.
Saying 4weeks, you need to be more reasonable before making inputs.

Acidosis:
So long as the majority of ladies out there will ignore, insult, abuse, or sue a random guy that comes asking for sex, then sex will always pose some degree of harm and dirt.

The argument about what is right or wrong will always be subjective. A drug addict will also wonder why someone who has just left the rehab is celebrating.

Barrister026:
I can't recur, but probably the ending of November.

Barrister026:
Did you calculate the last time we did it last?

Acidosis:
I don't judge them, they judge themselves with their lies. In reality, I have never seen or heard a guy approach a lady for sex on the basis of test driving a car before paying/buying. It is better to simply claim that they don't have power or control over their sex hormones (this is a more scientific and trustworthy response).

Bragging may seem "off" but celebrating abstinence from sex shouldn't ordinarily provoke anyone. Even ex-prostitutes celebrate their freedom from s.ex addiction.

descarado:
When more than half of your Brian cell thinks about sex always, this should be the situation you find yourself in.

Few weeks without sex and heaven will fall.

Men are busy exploring how to go to Mars and Jupiter, my brothers are only interested in sex and food.
Tomorrow they will look for whose head to cut off for money ritual.

MrBrownJay1:
the above is the sad truth ...but a man who respects his wife and/or their union, would have no other option than to masturbate. and as much as many men will come here now to say that cheating doesnt mean anything... let their wives cheat and see if they feel the same way. lol!

KillIgbohoN0W:
Na your type go fight her bf when he ignore you for just 6 hours. This una fake "I can stay 1 year without sex" story has been tried, tested and debunked by me.

No Nigerian woman can go a day without sex if her man is around.
No Nigerian woman can stay 2 days without sex generally.


Argue with your postinor tablet.

MrBrownJay1:
you are using your female brain to jusge a manly issue....you cant do that!

4 weeks without sex is indeed a lot and this man should have waank himself to sleep every night, to quench the konji demon that was taking possession of his body!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Make una get out jor!

I can't marry who I never nack. Wetin concern me with honeymoon? All na scam jor. We must have sex.

Acidosis:
Well I see reasons and I agree with those who say no to premarital sex. For those who want sex before marriage, their excuses or rather reasons for desiring sex have never made sense to me, especially when they use the test driving narrative. I think people should have sex if they want to without trying to rationalize their actions.

MrBrownJay1:
you are absolutely RIGHT, but it certainly aint "difficult" as many homemaker would like us to believe. i am just calling a spade A SPADE!
sadly, many women get offended when we have this honest discussion because they somehow convert this (in their brain) as:" you are useless" and/or "you dont do/bring as much as husband does"

maid/houseboy that cost less than a modern day slave?!?!? come on!
as for one income per family, it shouldnt be advised but sadly, many women out there are content to be home all day while hubby slaves away, because they are lazy like that. who are we kidding? who wouldnt want to stay home all day while their partner brings the cheddar home and takes cares of "everything"?


i blame society for this nonsense, because so man men would gladly accept that their women stays home idle all day, due to their misplaced egos and the failed notion that "thats what a man should do!"
***spit on floor***

Acidosis:
I see your point

MrBrownJay1:
true....and i am sure you understand what i am getting at....aka being a "homemaker" is not that difficult, especially in Nigeria where every Jide, Emeka and Ibrahim has a maid/Houseboy.

Acidosis:
Okay