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Seems this is a new trend. Any misfortune girl who the devil pushes to try this nonsense with me will receive deliverance the harsh way. I will beat her like an armed robber and cut off one of her breasts.

Idiot. Imagine the audacity. You wouldn't date a broke guy, but when a guy manages to arrange himself, you now want him to stick to only you as per say you be wetin? The sheer sense of entitlement of these useless girls is shocking. Why should a guy have only you in his life? And what makes you feel entitled to destroy his property because he uses his own money to date as many girls as he can afford to?

What's the point of those four fools in suit blocking the doors when the car is fully armoured?

Hustle wouldn't take you here; even ambition wouldn't take you here. Only grace can, and you can't force grace, neither can you seduce her. Grace is like an erratic woman. It falls for whomsoever it pleases.

Just do whatever it is you do and keep an open mind. If it's destined, the opportunity will fall on your laps. Remember to be smart enough to grasp and execute that opportunity if and when it comes.

timilehin007:
I'me 32 yrs I run a mini oil@gas business (owned by myself ) and have a site am developing living very comfortably in a 2 bedroom flat with equipped and have just a ride..very clean golf4..
Im I am broke guy?

Yes my hommie, you are a broke guy, just as 99% of us are. It takes only a small whiff of life's dreaded 'curved ball' to scatter your modest sandcastle 'achievement' so far and you'll find yourself begging to eat...

Before you get annoyed, I don't wish you misfortune. What I'm trying to point out is the very scary fact that most of us are not made yet, and most of us will never be made until we die. We are all hanging on by the sheer grace of God, and it is the same grace of God that is helping us avoid a million problems that can come from nowhere at any time and instantly render us penniless paupers.

Only 1% of Nigeria's population has conquered brokeness for eternity. That's the 1% we all know who have amassed enough fortune to permanently insure themselves against the worst of life's vicissitudes in this lifetime at least. For the rest of us 99 percenters, there's no need to gloat about whether we have money or not, because frankly, it is a question of comparative or circumstantial brokeness.

norris123:
Am telling you bro, what is there in having a car? I don't know why girls can't learn from other girls that supported their men when they didn't have anything. I might worte 6m naira but because of nature of business I wil not consider owing a ride that moment beacuase I can't buy a car worth 2m when I can still use that same amount for an investment that can yield at 100,000 every month,the should wait while I invest for the future. Let me tell you story, my elder brother worth at least 30m but he doesn't have private car not even one although he has two buses that he use to distribute his goods, so when a girl sees him will she say he's broke, how much is the car? Its all about what you want at that particular time, everyone wants a good life including him but there are things u consider first, to him his businesses first. As a business man, I can not buy car when I have my business hasn't gotten to the stage I want, there are ccompetition everywhere in business so the right thing to do is try as much as u can to be the best in your business first before any other things. How much is car self?

People overrate many unimportant things in this country. I don't even drive all the time. Many times I use uber/taxify, other times I even use Okada and tricycles. It all depends on where I am (I live concurrently in different cities), what I want to do, and what I feel like doing.... Besides, I really enjoy the total freedom and anonymity that comes with moving around town in an uber for instance, rather than with your own car. Ask any car owner that drives frequently in Lagos, and they would tell you the hell they're going through - traffic, LASTMA/VIO wahala, fear of car theft, wrongful parking/one way wahala, etc.

What's most important to me, as a man who values a pleasurable lifestyle at all times, is to have cash in my pockets 24/7. It's not by driving a car up and down living a fake life when you don't have kobo in your account. I can't imagine driving around broke (like many guys I know do in Lagos and Abuja), looking for who would buy you beer when you hang out or looking for stupid girls to deceive with your car and Bleep for free (too bad they are many of such girls). I'm beyond that.

oyb:
and once again, juvenile rubbish made it to fp.

may as well start calling this forum chewinggumland

Very juvenile indeed.

comshots:
Can't you buy one for your boyfriend?After you enter your supposed boyfriend car what did you gain?

Anytime I score a cheap girl within hours or days of meeting her, and I can sense that the car was a major pull factor, I shake my head in pity and ask the same question: what exactly did she gain? I wouldn't 'dash' her my car. She certainly cannot even access the car unless I want to see her, and I may only want to see her a few times before discarding her - at my own convenience. She can't see me whenever she wants to see me. It is me that would see her whenever I want so what's really the point from the girl's perspective?

The level of poverty (especially poverty of sense) in Nigeria is shocking.

The evil name 'Buhari' is always associated with death, destruction, and doom.

mvem:
...just imagine if the white man never came and everybody or race developed at their pace, where do you think we will be now?

We would still be exactly where we were before the White Man came - dancing around in the bushes, mating and procreating, and living close-minded lives devoid of grand vision and purpose.

The Black Man's specialty is moving around in circles - rigorous, energetic (and ultimately meaningless) motion without movement.

dhardline:
You guys are just waking up Abi. Even the managing director of primero services, the company that would soon take over all the transportation in Lagos State is managed by Fola Tinubu. Same family milking lagosians from every angle and you guys will just keep voting them in. Wake up lagosians.

http://www.primerotsl.com/our-team/

See his fat, greedy, pathetically ugly face..

okwyee:
screw you. He spent most of his childhood in SA.

White South Africa or Black South Africa? Are you honest enough with your self to admit that there is a world of difference between the two?

FarahAideed:
My dad always told me to immediately leave the scene of a small accident because usually the same ill fate that caused the smaller one will still be around to cause a big one if care is not taken and from this case I must say he is very right

Your dad must be very wise. This has always been my approach.

I try to be extremely careful not to hit anyone (and I've been lucky for many years now), but in the rare cases where other road users hit me, I simply shrug it off and carry on. I don't mind bearing the expenses. After all, how much person dey waste on top frivolities (including women, drinks and other yeye things)? Why now make a big fuss over nothing? Most times we're guilty of making life difficult for ourselves when it might have otherwise been very simple, and we can avoid a whole lot of problems if we just stop all this unnecessary gra gra behaviour over irrelevant things.

amnesty7:
Sad. If she had known the unseen, she would have forgiven the okada rider. Inexorable death, though.

It pains me when I see people involved in all these senseless arguments and fights over who dented whose car or whatever. Most times it's just better to let it go. These are occasional incidents that happen once in a while, and not borne out of malice.

As we can see in this tragic example, the cost of fighting over one stupid minor dent can be very very steep.

desreek9:
I am beyond amazed at this point, no remorse whatsoever for what she did, but then it's her daughter's bday, she gats celebrate the little girl

How you manage to pack such stark contradictions into one short paragraph is beyond me. In one breath, you're "beyond amazed", and in the next, you're justifying her action because "it's her daughter's bday: she gats celebrate the little girl".

Tufiakwa.

LadyHeaven:
And probably that's his picture with his mama, parents should learn to question the shady wealth of their kids because every thief has his/her off day and when that day comes no crocodile tears allowed...

But if a young man is struggling, you women broke-shame him, and frankly, nobody gives him 'face'. It's quite traumatic for anyone in that position.

And whether we like it or not, making it the legal way is difficult (that's why 70% of the population is very poor), let nobody tell you otherwise.

If only our society would stop being so money-obsessed and materialistic, maybe things would be a lot better.

Well, his problem isn't masturbation. His problem is brokeness and the accompanying misery, frustration, and severe lack of opportunities for leisure and sexual exploration.

The key is to help him overcome his brokeness and teach him how to hustle to make money. His brokeness and frustration is a major reason why he is finding solace in porn and masturbation.

Trust me, being broke is the root of all evil (Rick Ross, 2012).

This mediocre 'lawyer' buffoon called Festus Keyamo is having a blast under Buhari. Making loads of money at EFCC/NDIC and buying properties here and there. What else do you expect from him?

Anyone with a functional brain would be very worried by these jobless, uneducated, and dirt poor abokki crowds who waste productive hours under the scorching sun - climbing trees like monkeys and chanting like pre-civilisation brutes to welcome a character whose government is impoverishing them. If Buhari was any good, shouldn't these jobless crowds be gainfully employed in different factories, farms, business outlets and offices? If they were employed, would they have the spare time to hang on trees to asslick a useless politician like Buhari during working hours?

The kind of people who are able to access the social media to express their genuine political views (not paid agents like the so-called BMC crew) are educated, enlightened and empowered. They are champions of political participation. They know what is going on and they know what is and what ought to be. That is the hallmark of a liberated, civilised society. Shouldn't this be what any sensible person should encourage?

What kind of idiot (Keyamo) would be happy that millions of almajiri hopeless urchins are jobless enough to follow a president's convoy all over the place and potentially vote for him to their own detriment? Do these kinds of poverty-stricken and uneducated urchins even know their left from their right, or are they merely mindless puppets and zombies who unquestioningly take instructions from their local Imams and Emirs?

haaaaaaaaa:
tears falling off my eyes now. So sad such a beautiful woman passed on in pain. May her gentle soul rest in peace.

Exactly. It would have been less sad if it was an ugly woman.

progress69:
Times have changed....get that fact.
Do u see any seriousness with any opposition, u know y? They know it us almost impossible.
During GEJ's era....2 years to election it was already certain that there was an opposition that wanted to grab power....the energy was everywhere. .
What do we have now? Lol
Less than a year to election....doesnt even feel like anyone wants to contest against baba.

You have a point though. I can't understand why less than a year to elections things are still generally lethargic, in spite of the widespread disaffection against Buhari and his woeful performance. I must say that the PDP has been too docile for my liking.

By this time in the build up to 2015 elections, Lai Mohammed and other APC attack dogs had been making life very uncomfortable for Jonathan. Billions of Naira had been exchanging hands, the traditional media and social media were already agog with propaganda, mudslinging and campaign rhetoric.

I honestly don't know what's going now. It's so annoying.

That would be great for the PDP. Kwankwaso wouldn't get even 2% of the southern votes, so he is a dreamer if he thinks he'll ever win.

But at least he would divide the Northern votes significantly, thus allowing the PDP candidate to coast home to victory with some Northern votes and bloc South East/South South votes, along with some Yoruba votes and a majority of core North Central votes (Benue, Taraba, Plateau).

PNomsule:
Who else thinks Patience gifted him these wealth he possesses especially as there hasn't been a claim to an enterprise he indulges?! I may be wrong though...

No be one only Patience. Na endurance. Nothing concern Mama Peace with this one.

He worked hard for it (with the right Information and right contacts) and got very lucky.

Emeka hope say you go soon strike another instrument? The other one money go don dey deplete by now.

I would have groused about her 'synthetic' looks but then, we learnt the hard way that looks/packaging is not the way to distinguish between hoes and non hoes. We know many wey dey wear long Deeper Life skirt with double brassiere and no make up, but na dem get wide pucci pass.

So for Olamide and his 'slay' looking mama, what can we say? They probably fit each other, so besta luck fi dem...

Billyonaire:
That happens when the Love is conditional. Unconditional Love sees beyond the past and embraces the present. So, in essence, Conditional Love is Lust dynamics. If you love unconditionally, you will forgive unconditional.


'He, who has not sin, let him cast the first stone." - Jesus, the Lord of the Sun.

Story. There's no such thing as unconditional (romantic) love. Would the yeye girl love you if you were broke and hopeless - if you were down and out?

So that's it.

Billyonaire:
Love does not care about body counts.

Yeah, as long as it is 'imaginary' body count with random guys from the distant past that you don't know and will never know.

But when you're dating or married to a girl and then you find out that this dude, that dude, and that other dude that you know personally (e.g. your friend, neighbour, colleague, biz partner, your pastor, the lousy talkative guy that frequents your favorite bar, or even your bitter enemy) has spanked her ass, it's only certain that you would begin to view her with disgust and the so-called love would die quickly. That's for sure.

Man checks out his wife's backside.

Or the lack thereof.

The guy in the middle looks the part, with his Afonja cap.

IdiAmin2:
BACK IN THE DAYS OF OUR FORE FATHERS, THE BRIDE PRICE PAID IS AN INDICATION AND APPRECIATION FROM THE GROOM'S FAMILY TO TAKE A PURE AND UNTOUCHED WOMAN THAT WAS RAISED IN HONOUR AND TAUGHT TO BE A WIFE AND MOTHER.

THE GROOMS FAMILY PAY A HIGH PRICE INCLUDING LAND SOMETIMES TO THE WIFE'S FAMILY FOR RAISING HER AS A VIRGIN, SO THAT THEY WILL HAVE A PURE VESSEL TO CONTINUE THEIR FAMILY LINEAGE.

BUT NOWADAYS WHERE THE PUZZY HAS BEEN RAN THROUGH BY AT 5 BOYFRIENDS IN SECONDARY SCHOOL;, 5 BOYFRIENDS ON UNI CAMPUS + 2 LECTURERS THAT COLLECTED TO PASS HIS CLASS + 5 MARRIED SUGARDADDIES + 5 BOYFRIENDS WHEN SHE LEAVES UNI INCLUDING THE MANAGER THAT COLLECTED HIS OWN BEFORE HE GAVE HER THE JOB. THAT IS NOT INCLUDING 1 OR 2 ABORTIONS/MISCARRIAGE

AND THEN THEY WILL BE DEMANDING HIGH AMOUNT FOR BRIDE PRICE, AND THE RING MUST COST AT LEAST SO SO AMOUNT, AND THE WEDDING MUST BE BIG.

PLEASE LADIES SHIFT AND PARK WELL ABEG.
MARRY IF YOU WAN MARRY,
BUT THE HIGH DEMANDS ORIGINALLY WAS FOR A PURE VESSEL TO CONTINUE THE GROOMS FAMILY LINEAGE. TIMES HAVE CHANGED

You should start a new thread with this EXACT same post, and title it "the ORIGINAL reason behind payment of bride price in Africa".

Lol. This old cargo has always liked them long enough to tear whatever is left of her womb. Just like that dudu fine boy Omo Alhaja (name withheld) wey dey Bleep you Shere Shere for Opebi that year (if you like claim say you don forget).

She needs to retire though. For an old hag in her late 40s, this kind of comment does not fit at all..

shankara7:
Imo is not Lagos or Kwara state.

Imo is probably worse than Lagos and Kwara combined. How the hell did Imolites allow Rochas rig himself into a second term? How did he win the election for his second term, with the loud noise across the South East against the half-Hausa fa.g.got called Rochas and against his widely despised ofe.mma.nu party. How did this happen? None of my Imo friends has been able to answer that question satisfactorily.

Since Rochas won that his so-called re-election, I've stopped taking Imo people seriously, politically speaking. Na so so loud mouth dem get. No action.

deomelllo:
Market women gossiping ipob, do you have a copy of the receipt thet says he bought any private jet and the amount he paid for the jet.

In fact, the man left public office a decade ago and he's a businessman so is there any law that says he can not engage in a private business or but any jet if he can afford it?


Are you ignorant ipobs aware that such items are sometimes leased or paid for in installments for several years?



Lagos is fast moving ahead and leaving Nigerian behind, it's now almost the 3rd largest economy in Africa while your villages are still in the stone age, but instead or worrying about your hell hole and backward villages, you losers are running after Asiwaju's agbada.

Is Asiwaju even responsible for your miserable lives and existence...?



Jobless ipob trolls..

Looks like your brain has been replaced with fufu. What a shameless clown.

Let them come and implement the law in private schools let me see. Bastards. Shebi na dem dey help me pay my child school fees?