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Education / Re: FCMB Bank In Search Of Dele, Girl Who Used ATM Light To Write Her Assignment by heilige(m): 8:14pm On Feb 10, 2020
God punish Nigerian rulers
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage: ‘I Don’t Check Price Tags No More’. Celebrities React by heilige(m): 8:11pm On Feb 02, 2020
Otedola sef still dey check price tag.....
What of bill gates? Hin sef dey check tag.
Sawage or wetin den call you, make sure you borrow some brain. Word
Family / Re: My Wife Is A Thief & Greedy: My One-Month Marriage About To Crash by heilige(m): 10:58am On Feb 01, 2020
A thief would lie and cheat
Religion / Re: Bishop Oyedepo Denied Visa By US Embassy by heilige(m): 9:59am On Jan 31, 2020

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Politics / Re: Buhari To EU: We Will Defeat Boko Haram With Civil War Experience by heilige(m): 10:40pm On Jan 25, 2020
I dey laff in Greek grin
Travel / Re: Why US Is Mulling Visa Ban On Nigeria, By Diplomatic Sources by heilige(m): 5:52pm On Jan 25, 2020
I beg lef Story. These people are the biggest hackers, considering a weak nation like Nigeria, they will just hack what they want instead of asking Nigeria for it grin
Family / Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by heilige(m): 11:13pm On Jan 23, 2020
Drink water make you go sleep thereafter cheesy
Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?
Romance / Re: Hisbah Quizzes Jeanine Delsky Planning To Marry Sulaiman Isa In Kano by heilige(m): 8:29pm On Jan 19, 2020
Some embassy officials go soon warn them for questioning an American citizen
Foreign Affairs / Re: 3000 U.S. Soldiers Deployed To The Middle East After Soleimani's Death by heilige(m): 2:42pm On Jan 05, 2020
OL Boy, una dey sww gears. Wey nigerian army dem grin grin grin grin grin grin ?
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage And Yemi Alade Hug As They Perform Together At Tiwa's Concert by heilige(m): 3:39pm On Dec 24, 2019
Na who dey buy this market

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Health / Re: I Am Dying Of A Chronic Pile by heilige(m): 6:51pm On Dec 19, 2019
I laff for Chinese. Wetin you think say doctor go do? Nurse go tell am make him pull off and wait for doctor to analyze. When doctor come, if him equipment hin go insert camera inside so as to know if some kin pile or hemorrhoids

zoezoelogistics:


Haba, picture of his pile?
You try.

I am sure if he posts it now, you will be the first to say it’s disgusting.
Health / Re: I Am Dying Of A Chronic Pile by heilige(m): 6:48pm On Dec 19, 2019
In addition to this you could drink a table spoon of olive oil before or after your meals. This would aid the stool to slide out easily without injuring your shit hole.
This could replace the Anusol

meum:
Consume food with high fibre content to avoid constipated stool. When the stool is constipated it irritates the rectum. Keep using the Anusol suppositories as prescribed.

Forget all those myths about inability to impregnate a woman now or in the future. Unless you have a mistreated STI from one of those 3mins ecstacy moments, I see no reason why you shouldn't be able to impregnate at the slightest "touch".
Just follow your doctor's advice.
Health / Re: I Am Dying Of A Chronic Pile by heilige(m): 2:24pm On Dec 19, 2019
Go to specialist hospital

dauddy97:
Good evening Nairalanders.

I am dying in silence embarassed embarassed

I discovered that I had pile during my secondary School days (2014). I didn't even know this has been on me for long, until I went to defecate with a friend of mine in the bush. Immediately he saw that red flesh coming out on my anus. He shouted "What is this!!". That was when I knew I had PILE.

I told my mum about this. She said she noticed something like that from the day I was given birth to. She said, she didn't keep quiet, and she asked the nurses what was in my anus. The nurses replied that, "it is normal" That it will still leave there. Now, I am in my twenties. This thing is now paining me seriously. In fact , I can't defecate easily.

Please, nurses and doctors in the house, come to my aid.

Note: I noticed that, I ejaculate within 3 to 4 mins during sex. I don't know maybe it's because of the pile?

Also, I have used and inserted some drugs (Anosoid or so, I can't really remember it spelling) recommended by a general hospital doctor yet, this thing is still stubborn. I have also visited Alagbo (herbal). In fact, The money wasted can't just be mentioned.

This night, I discovered the that its now out itself. Since all these while, it has been in, I only feel or see it while defecating.

I can't just imagine what people have been saying. like, "I wont be able to impregnate a lady" and all sorts of things like that.

Pls, help your boy.

Help for wider view .

I will appreciate all comments, remedy, solution, cure etc just to get this out of my anus.
Politics / Re: Falana To Malami: You Risk Being Removed As AGF If You Fail To Release Sowore by heilige(m): 10:02pm On Dec 17, 2019
He will hand over the case to the presidency once the heat is on him grin grin grin

Islie:


https://www.thecable.ng/falana-to-malami-you-risk-being-removed-as-agf-if-you-fail-to-release-sowore

Politics / Re: Court Affirms Ganduje’s Power To Dethrone Emirs by heilige(m): 9:56pm On Dec 17, 2019
Power is toxic

AMvanquish:
I just don't understand what Sanusi is wasting his time doing with this Emir stool, dealing with this local politicians that have no moral compass, and On a normal day are not even close to his level. Sanusi should just resign and relocate to the world stage. Being in Kano is limiting his potential, he has a lot to offer elsewhere.
Music/Radio / Re: Kanye West Remix Davido’s 'IF' Song With A Mass Choir by heilige(m): 7:31am On Dec 17, 2019
Jus gi am arand of apus

vizkiz:
Watch Born again American rapper Kanye west sings a gospel version of Davido’s “IF” single live on stage with a mass Choir.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EsRITfZqZCY&feature=youtu.be
Education / Re: Mass Communication Student's Project On Ganduje Bribery Video by heilige(m): 8:35pm On Dec 11, 2019
ThisisBuhari:
Final Year Mass Comm Student Did His Project On Ganduje Bribery Video: Photo

This might be incomplete because he certainly did not conduct any interview with gandola, to hear his own story
Education / Re: Mass Communication Student's Project On Ganduje Bribery Video by heilige(m): 8:34pm On Dec 11, 2019
globalresource:
Hate Speech..... grin

Sahara reporters account has been frozen


Better no let Buhari freeze your future

Wetin dey pain me pass say this next level just began cry cry

Why do you fear. You sef fear for the air around you
Culture / Re: Photos Of The Rolls-Royces In Emir Sanusi’s Garage by heilige(m): 8:25pm On Dec 11, 2019
Wetin concern almanjiri system with primary school?



dokyOloye:

Him no fit talk say "build 1 primary school"
Politics / Re: Photo Of Buhari In 1983 And 2019: Spot The Difference by heilige(m): 8:10pm On Dec 09, 2019
I beg nor dey deceive yourself. Fake or original we go use am till 2023. Na una bring us for this situation

KINGYAGAA:
The 1983 is dead and the 2019 is a fake Buhari from Niger
Politics / Re: Femi Adesina On Sowore’s Rearrest: Less Than 100,000 Nigerians ‘Making Noise’ by heilige(m): 7:55pm On Dec 09, 2019
One thing is constant in life and that is change. Nigerians experienced Buhari, Babangida, Abacha and now Buhari again. Tomorrow will be another president,.

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Politics / Re: Olawale Bakare Mandate Speaks From Hiding (Video) by heilige(m): 4:55pm On Dec 08, 2019
This reminds me of the military days when military take over. Only a matter of time before the hungry and not angry Nigerians wake up

Ventura1:
Omoyele Sowore's co-accused, 22 yrs old, Olawale Adebayo, AKA Mandate, has spoken from his secret hiding.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6nh8q7chfLQ

Crime / Re: Thieves Caught And Tortured In Makoko (Disturbing Photos) by heilige(m): 9:31pm On Oct 31, 2019
what about your politicians stealing in billions ?
Politics / Re: 4 Safety Steps For Public Office Holders When Invited Abroad - Shehu Sani by heilige(m): 8:01pm On Oct 29, 2019
lagdmark:

German police will arrest & prosecute you, and you pay heavy fine (körper Verletzung) if you dear touch or molest anyone
You can talk and protest but don't fights and touch.

two fighting, bros, nobody dey wait make police come
Phones / Re: Can Two Phones Have The Same IMEI Nunber? by heilige(m): 8:07am On Oct 27, 2019
Not possible, but that number can be manipulated if you know how to do it
Politics / Re: Imo Monachs Tell FG To Allow Nnamdi Kanu Come Home To Bury His Mother by heilige(m): 1:27pm On Oct 26, 2019
Bohari no understand cease fire
Education / Re: Yobe Adopts Hausa As Language Of Instruction In Schools by heilige(m): 5:34pm On Oct 22, 2019
edoairways:
It is not a good initiative as local languages are restricted to a particular region. Secondly graduate from schools can't compete favourably with their counterparts globally. Thirdly Nigeria is a multi ethnic state with English as the main lingua franca spoken in business clime. The ministry of education should have critically examined this development before making sure decision.

ENGLISH will be learnt as a second language
Education / Re: Yobe Adopts Hausa As Language Of Instruction In Schools by heilige(m): 5:33pm On Oct 22, 2019
LastSurvivor11:
The truth is that it’s good and bad at the same time..

Good because it will enhance learning and understanding..

Bad because it will be difficult for such students to compete internationally when he/she only understands hausa..

Seems waec question will be set in hausa too..

I laff for Spanish. Spanish man, German man, Russian man, Arab man and all dem dey learn for dem language and dey compete effectively

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Celebrities / Re: Timaya Carries Toke Makinwa Up: 'I Am Not Wearing Pant', She Screams by heilige(m): 5:47am On Oct 13, 2019
majamajic:
when stop actually means " continue !

agbaya

Olodo. Stop means stop

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Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by heilige(m): 11:29am On Oct 07, 2019
ejitest1:
Well, for me I don't think it's even sensible for a guy to think about marriage in that state

So OP, how much do you earn? 2 people make a home

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Travel / Re: Bullion Van Collides With Tanker In Ghana, Money Scattered (Photos + Video) by heilige(m): 2:26pm On Oct 05, 2019
If this one happen for mushin or oshodi. Boy oh boy

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Education / Re: Uchechi Promise Echefu, The Best Graduating Student Of Nigerian Defense Academy by heilige(m): 11:40am On Oct 05, 2019
Very good that she will not be drafted to fight Bo**Har**
We cant afford to waste our best Hands to a useless agenda

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