Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Henix(m): 7:22pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.
I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.
What is the way out of poverty for me?
One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.
This thing don come big pass me.
I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.
They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.
Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.
No two ways about it except ...
But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.
For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?
When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.
Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.
Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.
Life happens.
How do I help this family better than I am trying?
Wishing you the best in all you do. 5 children at 38yrs, with 40k monthly salary? Where were u running to, for u to have given birth to such high number of children at 38 with a peanut salary? Quite a terrible situation! You and your wife are not aware of family planning or what? You were busy impregnating ur wife with the energy U ought to have channeled towards thinking and strategizing on how to get urself and ur unborn children out of poverty. How u are surviving with 40k monthly salary in today's Nigeria will be a topic for another day. |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Henix(m): 12:37pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
terrezo2002: Happy hormones triggers when you are about placing bets.
Happy hormones continues to rush in you head as the match is about to start.
Some minutes into the match, your heart begins to raise.
When the match is still at even after much time, your heart beat increases.
When you begin to lose before the end of the match, your emotions changes from bad to worse. Your heart beat begins to pound.
As you see your money fly away, depression sets in and you are in a terrible condition.
Guys, my advice to everyone betting is to always check your blood pressure and your mental health state. Betting is not for the poor |
Politics › Re: Abia State Governor, Dr Alex Otti Receives Obi Cubana (Photos) by Henix(m): 9:34am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Money is good |
Politics › Re: PEPT: Why There Would Be No Crises If Tinubu Is Removed by Henix(m): 6:30pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Tinubu can't be removed in today's Nigeria. Even if the opposition has any strong case, the court will use technicality to struck it out. Let's face the reality |
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Sports › Re: 1.40+ Odd Rollover Batch 2 On Whatsapp by Henix(m): 3:07pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
I actually expected u to post a recovery winning ticket, as u did twice last week and thereafter claimed that u won 5/5. Continue searching for the newbies U will fool |
Sports › Re: 1.40+ Odd Rollover Batch 2 On Whatsapp by Henix(m): 2:04pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Lol |
Politics › Re: How Will This 8K Favour Me And My Family by Henix(m): 1:46pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Miracood2: If I can get 5k right now, I'll be the most happiest student alive. Want to study but, I cannot cheat nature.
Hunger is beginning to bite my stomach. Been on garri since morning.
I will drop my account number on request from well meaning Nigerians. What party did u vote for? |
Politics › Re: How Will This 8K Favour Me And My Family by Henix(m): 1:45pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
What can 8k be able to buy in today's Nigeria? For me, it's just a waste of resources. Why not invest that money in agricultural sector, which in return will empower the targeted poor masses they intend giving 8k peanut that can't solve anything |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Henix(m): 10:03am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Bergavis: Are u his PA? Busy body. Wetin concern us with that link. Una dey think say we be foo.ls abi? Mtcheeew One of his numerous alt accounts he is using to deceive his naive followers |
Sports › Re: 5 Days Rollover Of 1.40+ Odds starts tomorrow Saturday on WhatsApp by Henix(m): 7:20am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Gamestar1: OMG you haven't been scammed by me, but you believe I'm a scammer and would soon get me exposed. But to be honest you're foolish to have tagged me what you believe me to be without a single proof or evidence whatsoever Anyone who knows me here is aware that I don't label people without 1st carrying out investigation. U are a deceiver whose mission of deceit is just to be collecting 1k from Newbies who are not aware of ur modus operandi. I have flagged u for people to be aware. Ur details and modus will be posted in a nutshell |
Sports › Re: 1.40+ Odd Rollover Batch 2 On Whatsapp by Henix(m): 7:00am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Don't waste your time and resources following hungry boys who create new Monika every day to hunt for 1k on Nairaland |
Sports › Re: 5 Days Rollover Of 1.40+ Odds starts tomorrow Saturday on WhatsApp by Henix(m): 6:57am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Gamestar1: lol please I'm begging you now to state how you were scammed by me or consider yourself a big fool to say what you just said now. Please the whole forum is waiting to here from you now I usually don't exchange words with hungry boys/petty scammers but don't worry, I will soon furnish your details and your modus operandi on this forum |
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Sports › Re: 5 Days Rollover Of 1.40+ Odds starts tomorrow Saturday on WhatsApp by Henix(m): 6:51am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Gamestar1: Good morning everyone Expect today's win to be posted here before night fall We're in day 5 of the 5 days rollover Petty scammer |
Health › Re: How To Remove This From My Teeth by Henix(m): 12:04pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Fryx: Note that I brush my teeth three times daily cause I hate it when plaques started building up after eating. But those stains have remained.
And I be fine boy fa. I no want make that stain dey there. What do you do for a living that afford you the time to be brushing teeth thrice daily? |
Health › Re: Ngozi Okoronkwo: The Hypocrisy Of Abia Health Commissioner - Onyebuchi Ememanka by Henix(m): 12:01pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
shiwex: The problem with most people that comment here is that they have not been out of the country to see what a proper hospital should look like. Just because the ex governor built this building and called it an hospital does not mean experts should not identify faults in it. The health commissioner is exposed, she has worked in the UK, Us and with WHO, she knows what international standard should be. From what i deduce here, the commissioner is disappointed that with all the money spent, this is what the governor has to show for it. U have a point |
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Business › Re: See How I Was deceived By Loan App Agent by Henix(m): 7:01pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
obembet: My dear Nairalanders, kindly save me from this loan Marchant. I was deceived by Thier agent.
Please ignore my typing errors.
According to Otijah
I have been borrowing from this app for sometime now until I decided to stop due to the one week duration they do give and the high interest rate during this interval
After 2days an agent of them chatted me up and told me about the increment in my loan to 50k and and extended duration of 1 month, I told him if its not what he said then I will wait he said no problem. He even said I should carry him along while doing it.
I went to the app clicked on it and saw 55k to pay 66k and after I did it I received an alert of 38k in my account instead of the 55k and a one week duration at that to pay 66k.
I chatted that agent to tell him about the outcome but he ignored me, I called him up he refused to answer, I told him I want to refund the money because I don't need it, as I did tell him initially yet he was ignoring me.
After three days I contacted another agent of theirs and told him about the incident he later gave me an account number to refund the principal, which I did immediately
Fast forward to one week later these people started threatening the hell of my life that I must pay those interest, that is non of their business. One even openly told me that they are trained to Deceive their customers and tell them lies do at to attract them.
Even till today am still receiving threatening messages from them
please I need an appropriate place to channel this. thanks Just ignore them. Let them do their worse. |
Family › Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Henix(m): 4:28pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Report the issue to your brother, for him to handle as her father. Porn addiction at such age is not something to be overlooked |
Politics › Re: House Approves Tinubu’s Request For N500billion on Palliatives by Henix(m): 2:12pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
500 billion naira national cake |
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Crime › Re: 3 Nigerians Held With Drugs Worth Rs 1 Crore In Decoy Op In Bengaluru, India by Henix(m): 12:20pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
The quest to answer odogwu by all means back home |
Business › Re: If You Earn 2.5m Everymonth How Do You Invest? by Henix(m): 12:43pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
leetech: Landed property Betting shop biz Is betting shop still lucrative these days? |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Malice Among Ministers In The Church: What Should Be Done? by Henix(m): 10:01am On Jul 09, 2023 |
Pastors are also humans just like you and I. Most of them even live dirty life in their closets than you can ever imagine. Forget the outward holiness U see them display. |
Education › Re: Innoson Vehicles Withdraws Scholarship From Miss Joy Mmesoma Ejikeme by Henix(m): 4:13pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
Innoson as a company should also reshuffle their PR team |
Agriculture › Re: Poultry Farmer Cries Out After Losing 100 Broilers In A Day by Henix(m): 11:14am On Jul 08, 2023 |
airprince |
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Education › Re: Report Of Committee Of Inquiry On Mmesoma Ejikeme Matter by Henix(m): 7:52am On Jul 08, 2023 |
Innoson as a company couldn't verify a simple jamb result before awarding their supposed scholarship. I guess there must be so many employees working for them with fake certificates. This is quite a bad PR for the company |
Education › Re: I'm The First Male Virgin Graduate In The History Of Taraba State University by Henix(m): 5:12pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
Cruise Nation |