₦airaland Forum

SweetCunt97:
Nigerian women over there are hardworking. I personally have an aunt who worked hard and paid her husband and kids fee without rubbing his nose in it. And they still together today. So no b everybody go japa leave their spouse immediately dem reach jand abeg

I meant those coming from Nigeria to abroad.

SweetCunt97:
Ive known u down to all details if u know what I mean. Lolzzz

Unveil yourself.

cococandy:
Do you folks make comments like this hoping that you’re the only ones in the so called overseas and no one else can debunk it?

Liabilities indeed. A demographic that is one of the most educated of immigrant minorities In America? In fact if the population in general?
Lie small small please.
I’m weary of reading falsehood on this Nairaland

Coco candy what's falsehood about it?

SweetCunt97:
You've done an objective research on the subject matter to arrive at such figure huh? Anyways u still with AAH?

I have personal experience, I know friends n family too, there are stories littered everywhere. 2 our of 20 Nigerian men still bring their wives or girlfriends oversea.

They are wiser and look for an African girl or someone else to marry. Nigerian women are bottom of the ladder oversea, very few wants them. Make your research yourself. They Caribbeans, Mexicans are hotties.

Nigerian men are in high demand because we dey hustle die and we dey knack craze outta of them. They view Nigerian women as liabilities ....they only have brezz n sex to offer which isn't a big deal over there.

SweetCunt97:
You've done an objective research on the subject matter to arrive at such figure huh? Anyways u still with AAH?

Who is this? This person know me small. I left years ago. Identify thyself.

jumobi1:
I don’t live in fear brethren. I’m allowed to speculate. Do you know anything other than what they tell you??

May your speculation don't land you in trouble. It's not about fear, it's about facts, facts aren't necessarily truth but has 70% element of truth but when you speculate, there are few element of truth that when you are asked to prove it, you will be lost.

jumobi1:
Kyari’s death is suspicious. He may have gotten too powerful for the cabal and they did the needful.

Be saying what you don't know o until you will find yourself in an awkward position.

Same abba kyari they were trying to turn to a saint.

GistmeBlog:
https://epicnaija.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Cynthia-Morgan-2-1280x720-1.jpg
Cynthia Morgan has been in the news a lot lately but this time around she's been dragged by her Ex- manager Joy Tongo. Claims she’s owing over $30,000 and seeking for self-pity. Photos below. I think there's a lot of cover up here. Time will tell.

Joy Tongo wrote:



https://mobile.twitter.com/joytongo/status/1264447426515083264

She really looks manipulative and looking for self pity because if she wasn't guilty, she would have found a way out.

SweetCunt97:
"Some guys" Mr Man. Not all women who travel abroad wanna milk you.

The % is 95% so it's majority. They might not have it in mind but once they taste the good life n see what others do, they switch and change like chameleon. It's like bringing a village girl to the city and she tears eye.

dustmalik:
https://thenationonlineng.net/how-rivers-officials-withdrew-n118b-in-cash-efcc/amp/

Shut up yeye efcc, you haven't seen the lagos speakers story ? But you look away, may thunder strike you guys dead.

Never never bring a Nigerian woman over to abroad. You will always regret it.

LinLinGentle:
Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT AND MY WIFE IS NOT THE DEVIL. I HAVE JUST BEEN UNFORTUNATE TO BECOME A VICTIM OF MATRIARCHY WHICH MANY MEN SUFFER ABROAD...

I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I finally succeeded and my family arrived a few months ago.

I used to be hot tempered, but I have had enough time to gain insight into my inadequacies and reflect on them. I am now significantly calmer due to the determination to make my marriage better and as per ''abroad levels''. My wife on the other hand is fully taking advantage of me and the environment we find ourselves in. First thing she did on getting here was to cut of my entire family. She said she doesn't want to have anything to do with any of them anymore. She has also not been too keen to kickstart her career, as all she does is endless picture taking and editing for social media hyping. I know this might be due to the initial ''euphoria'' phase cos she is coming abroad to a big house, big car and having no limits on most things we used to manage back in Nigeria, and she thinks things are bread and butter. You would never think for a second that she is a married woman if you check her profiles on social media!

She has become even more toxic person than she ever was in Naija. Now very bossy, never backs down, always the attacker, ever ready for a fight, lazier, always on social media, communicates with me as little as possible, embarrasses me in the neighbourhood with the constant noises from our house, and finally her threats have now tripled! Madam is now so fierce that I have become the house chicken. Just within a few months of being here o! She tells me that she will show me for all the ''gra gra'' I used to do back in Nigeria. Friends advised me against bringing this woman here but I no wan hear word as per responsible family man wey I dey claim to be.

The popular threat is usually ''I will end your career''. I wasn't taking this too seriously initially, but she then started following through with the threats by constant calls to the police and other services, making spooky and baseless career ending accusations and allegations against me.

I have never been the one to first lay my hands on her, but I have spilled drinks on her before when she attacked me. My wife now gets very physical without having any element of self control, fear or restraint after the simplest argument and sometimes, she damages things out of anger. She does this so often and never hesitates to dare me to do my worst.

I discovered that she has signed up on dating sites and when I even caught her chatting about sex to a particular guy in our area, she said that it was all my fault. She did not apologise for this. She even referred to it one time after an argument that if I am convulsing like this over just a sex chat, she's waiting to see what I'd do when I see a man on top of her.

My productivity at work has declined significantly and I am now on the verge of depression. Neighbours called the police on us one time after a lot of noise from out house. She accused me of domestic violence. The police had to separate us and I was stuck at home for an extended period and could not go to work due to this. I am now being investigated for domestic violence, which is a serious crime as madam wants it and I have had to report the situation to my company! The whole thing is so messy that I am scared that I have not seen the worst yet.

I am so afraid of losing it all and returning to Nigeria broke cos I spent my last card and even racked credit card debt to bring them here hoping to pay off gradually. I still have a few years to get my citizenship and if I lose my job now, that is the end for all of us!

For now, I don't know what is going to happen to us, as this woman is so determined to cause great and irreparable damage that could ruin our lives, just to get back at me and she is being cheered on by her family and friends.

THE SITUATION IS SO MESSED UP!

UPDATE:

Divorce has now been filed. I also recently got lucky as I was able to secure a restraining order when she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men. All you need is patience and wisdom. Thank you all for your ideas. Still several hurdles to cross but I am on the winning side for now.

Dude the mistake you made is bringing a Nigerian woman to oversea. That's your Achilles heel. Guys don't dare do it, they all turn to something else and want your properties.

psucc:
You snatched somebody's wife "because her ex do travel".

If I tell you that you jettisoned another girl for her, yöu may disagree but true.

Now, the girl (your wife) will live in eternal regrets so long as she continue to see the guy.

To break free, you need to relocate from that area asap.

Somebody's wife? Are you okay?

If you are Christian you will know this is a rubbish question but it's clear you are not a Christian. It is as the spirit leads that's how prayers work.
There are different forms of prayers....prayer of worship, prayer of supplication, prayer of warfare etc.

Untainted007:
If to say he succeeded now and he buys Benz opposite sex will be eager to date him. His girlfriend will be saying he suffered with him before he made it. Hmmmmm what money will cause ehn. This ones doesn't deserve rest in peace rather than restless in hell.

Well said.

Vyolet:
We said they would.
Their nightmare has been confirmed.
Congratulations to the able diplomat, may your reign be a Blessing to Ilorin Emirate, kwara state and Nigeria as a whole.

You guys are clowns. In shock? What's their to be shocked about? So gambari will make Nigeria better? Turn it to Dubai. Mad people everywhere.

junior20202020:
Help Me Recover My Glory

THIS IS MY STORY

I started masturbating partially at the age of 19, I was a shy guy I don't have a girlfriend, everyone taught that I was a virgin. This masturbation became serious at the age of 24. I decided to quit Masturbation.

I said let me visit a prostitute, I paid her 3k, we started romancing each other, but I noticed that my dick did not erect. I was highly embarrassed, I thought because the lady was older than me, she was 33 yrs.

I visited 3 more prostitutes which are young girls in their twenties, it was the same thing, the dick did not erect at all.

Note: I normally have rock erection Even when a lady sit on my lap, early morning waking up I also use to have rock erection before I meet the first prostitute. From there I went back to masturbation again partially. At the age of 21 I made my first 1.5 million naira through business, but I noticed since I started visiting this prostitute my business collapse I could hardly boast of #200k in my account.

Around 2018 I decided to get a girlfriend, because all prostitute I meet my dick cannot rise to penetrate them. My first girlfriend was cute, I love her and she loves me. One certain day something led to something we got intimate, I romance her very well she was already screaming, she wanted me to put my dick inside but I noticed it was flaccid no erection at all. She noticed and got up and dress herself. After that day she started giving me attitude and that was how I broke up with her.

I got about 4 more girlfriend all of them broke up with me when the notice that my dick does not erect. After all this I felt like the whole world is gone, I finally got another girl friend. Anything that would lead to romance I normally tell her that as Christian we must not have sex until we are married. She would say that this is the first time she is dating a guy like me. That she loves me with all her heart. We have dated for one year now without sex, I promise her that we would have sex on our wedding night.

I am currently 27 yrs and I feel dejected. Does it mean that I may never have a child of mine own. I got tired of my situation I went into 3 days dry fasting praying to God to deliver me from sin and to restore my lost erection. ..

On the second day of the fast I was in a trance and I vommitted a lot of poison. I woke up and thanked God. After that fasting I don't normally have bad dreams of evil spirit pressing down my spirit. But I noticed that my erection have not yet been restored. Please I need help. I need God to restore my Glory. I would never use it for masturbation or fornication. Help me on what to do. I am in distress

Please don't blame masturbation for your trouble.

PROPHETmichael:
For the first time ever that i'll bevsaying thjsto Buhari....Welldone Buhari

Welldone for what exactly?

Honor10:
Tyrant wike.

Where are wailers, come and see your governor, I am sure if it is Buhari that did half of what wike has done in the past few days, socia media will have been burning with different name calling.


Hypocrites Shame on u now.

Wike continue flexing your power, it will soon end.

Buhari's is forever I get? Wike is overdoing somethings I agree but he is 5000 times better than that thing called president.

seunmsg:
If this shit had happened in Lagos or Kaduna state, all social media platforms would be on fire right now. But then, it’s Seyi Makinde’s Oyo State so he gets an easy pass as usual.

What's stopping you from lightening up everything.

If I see me a good woman and she's a Muslim, I'm not going to look back,amma wife her.

Cocolatti:
So to you am displaying ignorance abi? Coach Mourinho the special one!!!

Pepe is a flop QED

Just swallow your pride and admit it.

Cocolatti:
Pepe is one of the greatest flop of all time!!!

How is pepe a flop?? He has just spent one season at arsenal, he has 4 years contract.

Let me school you, Henry was a king at Monaco, went to Juve and didn't do well,joined Arsenal and you know the rest. Pogba didn't feature at man its first time out, was big at juve,hazard was a king at Chelsea, he has not done well at Madrid,he has 5years contract yet mumu pple never call am flop. You only call a player flop when he leaves a team, the list of players who experienced same are endless.

If you don't know a shit about football, don't display your ignorance.

I see alot of people who just swallow bullshits hook line n sinker. Sit down think and ask questions for once. Use your God given brain, exercise it for once.

Pepe's purchase is plus add ons which hasn't even come to play yet and is spread over 4 years. Football is business, all clubs with exception of few sign players same way but because it's Arsenal every clown's dick are raising.

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

Divorce her. No be by force.

JAMO84:
Low budget TB Joshua. If they don't die like chicken, come and kill them

Aren't they dying like chicken already?

DriggityDre:
Na the way o.
Just do good and keep good company.

Basic survival skill.

sotomayor:
THE NAME OF THAT LODGE IS UNIQUE SUITE AT ALAKAHIA, WHERE I STAYED DURING MY UNDERGRADUATE DAYS.
RUMOURS REACHING ME IS THAT THSE GUYS WHERE INTO YAHOO YAHOO AND A SHARING DEAL WENT WRONG after money came in, bright who was mentioned in the video is a cultist and likewise both as you heard the kidnapper saying that they shot one and the bullet didn't enter, which means his selena was active, so they had to use cutlass to behead him.
The only innocent person there is the Lady who was born in 1992. Her Facebook name is Joy adoki.

Not to judge, what are these little boys doing living those kind of life? Flashy,get all the cute girls in school and they have wasted that innocent girl.

DriggityDre:
Wawu. Na just to dey your dey for this 9ja o

Just do good deeds man.

jeffizy:
The essence of wealth!

Buys you time in the game of life.

Fellas, see why you shouldn't take the "vanity upon vanity " line too serious?

Death awaits anyone, won't buy you more than 100years.

sinola:
Please police should waste this barbarian immediately... Case closed.

Nah they need to get those who were involved.