Politics › Re: Helen Mbakwe: Meet The Amazon Dominating Political Conversation In Anambra Poli by histemple: 12:28pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Old Naira Notes: FG Will Obey Supreme Court’s Judgment — Malami by histemple: 8:58am On Feb 10, 2023 |
N3TRAL: Exactly. It's contempt ex facie curia for lawyers to be criticizing a decision of the supreme court because of emotions and political partisanship. The lawyers deserved to be jailed. There is no law prohibiting Lawyers from criticising the judgment of the supreme Court be it in Nigeria or anywhere in the world. And doing so does not fall within Contempt ex facies curia. The supreme Court is not also infallible. There are plethora of case wherein the SC has reversed its judgment or set aside its Orders. The recent supreme Court judgments are troubling and should bother any Nigerian. |
Romance › Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by histemple: 9:34pm On Feb 08, 2023 |
Zikonna: I need serious advice. I grew up an only child, raised by a single mum. My dad abandoned us as when I was a kid and few years later he died in an accident. My mum is the most important person in my life and I love and respect her. She is also a very religious woman and raised me so.
I am settled and ready to get married and I have met the woman I am sure is the one for me. My mum has met her once and although she had her reservations she wasn't opposed to it. But yesterday while going through my fiance's whatsapp status(bacause she has her number), she came across the picture below and because of it, she is now opposed to the marriage. According to her, she can't let her only child get married to a girl that wears bum shorts in public. She says "this sort of dressing is from the devil"
I have tried to explain to her that my girl isn't like that and she only wears clothes like that once in a while. My mum is still adamant. She wants me to end our relationship and find a "responsible woman"
I am currently torn between my mum and the woman I have decided to spend the rest of my life with. I am afraid that if I disobey my mother's instructions, it would lead to serious circumstances as she is also my spiritual mother.
I do not know what to do. Look at the picture below. I really don't see anything wrong. I cropped her face to maintain anonymity. What exactly is she sampling and for who when in public alone? But that your story about your father abandoning you and "died" later, you need to ask more questions. Some women are evil, mendacious and manipulative. BTW, is this your woman not 33+? |
Politics › Re: 3 Things To Know About Supreme Court Judgement On Naira Swap by histemple: 5:06pm On Feb 08, 2023 |
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Business › Re: Supreme Court Temporarily Halts Banning Of Old Naira Notes by histemple: 11:09am On Feb 08, 2023 |
Joevics: This current crop of justices needs to be investigated and removed. How can a case be move to the supreme court directly? So which other Court has the jurisdiction to hear a matter between 3 states and the federal government in Nigeria? |
Family › Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by histemple: 1:12pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Imagine   So, you wanted to follow a Nigerian woman to US as a dependant? That is like signing your own death warrant. |
Politics › Re: Protests Rock Warri, Delta State Over Fuel Price Hike & New Naira Notes Scarcity by histemple: 7:05pm On Feb 04, 2023 |
highchief1: eveeybody from ika abi Agbor are fools bro.It’s not an emefiele thing. Lol. |
Politics › Re: Naira Redesign: Atiku Is Nigeria's Number One Public Enemy - Tinubu Campaign by histemple: 6:01pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
nony43: Why do BAT and Kwankwaso always attacking other candidates ? You will never hear Obi and Atiku attack candidates. We have just 3 presidential aspirants, others are just catching cruise. Aside Obi, Tinubu and Atiku, have you seen any other presidential candidate go for rally in any state? |
Family › Re: Divorce: Court Dissolves Asiya Ganduje & Inuwa Uba's Marriage by histemple: 12:22pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
So Gandollar and his daughter will now be living together? I hope it's not what I am thinking oh! |
Family › Re: A Marriage In Deceit by histemple: 12:04pm On Feb 03, 2023*. Modified: 12:27pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Beremx: your sisters would have done the same too. Why would a man lie about his source of wealth instead of being sincere? Mind you the lady in question wasn't jobless. She had to quit because she was forced to relocate and stay with her in-laws. Learn how to comprehend before talking nonsense I think the lady and her people were not smart enough or probably beclouded by fleeting frenzy. Money does not hide. If a man has money, it will show even if you try to hide it. Worst is when you don't have but claim to, it shows and even visible to the blind. If blocking just one bank account makes him go broke, and he doesn't have any backup, not even rich friends to sort him out in the interim, what other evidence do they need to know that he is poor. Besides, banks block inflows just to verify the legitimacy of the transaction, and it is usually released once that is confirmed. This process cannot take more than 2 days. And in most cases, the lien is placed on the inflow amount and not the entire money in the account. They were not very discerning. |
Properties › Re: Landlord Puts Up Tenant’s Underwear For Auction For Owing Him Rent (Photo) by histemple: 8:52pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
Kenya, Uganda and Zimbabwe. I think these countries need a separate continent. |
Romance › I Haven't Dated Anyone In 10 Years But Having S3x -- Mr. Macaroni by histemple(op): 9:21am On Jan 31, 2023 |
Popular skit maker Debo Adedayo aka Mr Macaroni has confessed he has not been in any romantic relationship for over 10 years. However, the 29-year-old content creator admitted he’s been having s3x as an adult. He spoke at the podcast “Chook Mouth” with social media influencer, Adeherself and others where they discussed Nigerian men’s possessiveness’ among other things. “99% percent of Nigerian men are possessive whether they have money in their pockets or not. Even your ordinary male friends are possessive of you,” Adeherself said. Addressing the claim of 99 percent of Nigerian men being possessive, Mr Macaroni said: “Perception is different from reality. Even though we know most of the time, the perception will now want to take the shape of reality. “Let me use myself as an example. You say 99% of Nigerian men are possessive. I am not possessive. Talking about dating, I have been single for over 10 years now.” Adeherself and the others exclaimed, asking if he was alright or probably had a curse placed on him. Responding, the comic star stated: “You see, this is the culture I’m talking about. When I say it, you people don’t want to believe me. But it’s the truth. “How can I be flirting and if I’m not in a relationship? “If you want to ask me a question, ask directly. If you want to ask me if I’ve been having s3x, absolutely yes. I am an adult. I already said it now. I have been having s3x.” What do you think guys? https://thenationonlineng.net/i-havent-dated-anyone-in-10-years-but-having-s3x-mr-macaroni/ |
TV/Movies › Re: Who Is Nigeria's Best TV Interviewer? by histemple: 4:16pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
Patriotic9ja: Best is Cyril S. Seun, Chamberlain are also doing well. But that one called Rufai abi na Useni and Ruben Abiti are political tools in the hands of their paymasters You are obviously an APC or BAT apologist. |
Crime › Re: Robbers Raped My 65-Year-Old Mother In Kaduna - Twitter User Cries Out (Photos) by histemple: 3:01pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
naijainstinct: God visits the sins of fathers on their children. That's why generational curses exist. The pain and trauma caused by these criminals is not only felt by the victim (the poor old woman) but also by her children and loved ones. The same way you don't expect the son of a serial rapist or murderer to enjoy a good life except they re-dedicate their life to God. You are indeed an African! |
Education › Re: Nekede Poly Furious With Lady Claiming She Graduated With God Help, Private Part by histemple: 2:47pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
marsup: GOD and pussy in a one sentence? This is utterly ridiculous. God her heavenly father and POPSY her earthly father. |
Education › Re: Nekede Poly Furious With Lady Claiming She Graduated With God Help, Private Part by histemple: 2:46pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
She said God and POPSY. I don't know why people are twisting her statement. |
Crime › Re: Robbers Raped My 65-Year-Old Mother In Kaduna - Twitter User Cries Out (Photos) by histemple: 2:34pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
naijainstinct: This is absolutely heart-wrenching. So sad to read. I don't care about the robbers, they are doomed already for all I care. Both them and their offsprings if they have any.
My prayer goes to the poor mother. May God grant her strength to ris above this trauma.
Insecurity is ubiquitous across Nigeria now. Drug abuse and poverty is turning people into demons.
It is in situations like this, I question myself if jungle justice is actually a great form of punishment for criminals or not. I agree the perpetrators should die a slow and painful death. But why wish their innocent offsprings evil? What is the crime their offsprings committed? |
Crime › Re: Meet The Police CSP That Works As A Serial Assassin by histemple: 6:05pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
PatrickOkunima: Though I'm not in support of Hassan, his actions brought sanity to Abraka. His actions brought sanity to Abraka. So, why are you not supporting him? |
Career › Re: ICPC Declares Seun Samuel Ojukannaiye Wanted For Receiving Double Salaries by histemple: 11:10am On Jan 27, 2023 |
I saw this guy yesterday. |
Politics › Re: Frank Mba "Recommended" As Lagos Police Commissioner Not Appointed Yet by histemple: 7:54am On Jan 27, 2023 |
Guyman01: Frank Mba is from Benue and Benue state is in the North Try and be buying your loud personally. |
Crime › Re: Man Shoots His Brother-In-Law Dead For Cheating On His Sister In Delta by histemple: 9:32am On Jan 25, 2023 |
Gistomaniac: What's the big deal with a man cheating? The guy that shot him gan fit dey cheat himself Welcome back to nairaland |
TV/Movies › Re: BBTitans: My Father Labeled Me A Mistake, He Never Believed In Me — Nana by histemple: 9:21am On Jan 25, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by histemple: 8:03am On Jan 25, 2023 |
Cogs: Why please, how wife to be is a lawyer? If you are not a Lawyer too, forget it. Always end in tears. |
Crime › Re: Underage Prostitution In Nigeria by histemple: 10:43am On Jan 24, 2023 |
satelliteDISH: Op, make you go call police. That's your civil responsibility as a good citizen. This seem to be the right thing to do BUT, All brothel owners/operators have very strong support from the police to whom they make returns. |
Business › Re: Bet Company Refuses To Pay Me After Winning by histemple: 8:28pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
BetKingOfficial: Hello, kindly send us a mail at cs@betking.com and it will be resolved. Just reading this, BetKing should be avoided at all cost. A scam and fraudulent company. |
Romance › Re: Court Order Lady To Pay Man N150k For Not Coming After Taking N3k For Transport by histemple: 10:22am On Jan 20, 2023 |
ImoleNaija: Call me a doubting Thomas until the court & the name of the magistrate are mentioned. My dear, people just believe anything on social media even when the report is seriously lacking merit. First, he reported to "Enugu police". What is the name of the police station. Then, they charged her with obtaining under false pretences (a criminal case). But then the Chief magistrate "awarded damages". Damages are only awarded in civil proceedings. In criminal trial, the accused is usually convicted and sentenced if found guilty, whereupon the court may order restitution if and when practicable. Where in our laws does a magistrate derive the powers to award damages in a criminal matter? There was no mention of the conviction and sentencing. There is no charge number. Which particular magistrate court, in which jurisdiction, presided over by who exactly? |
Career › Re: Should I Quit My Job To Pursue More Education ? by histemple: 5:28pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
temitope66: I am in my mid 20's, I do things solely on my own financially. I work in a company with a take home monthly pay of 70k and at the same time I'm running a part time program for my National Diploma, I'm in my ND2 now. So I planned to quite my job by December and process a direct entry into a Federal University to get a BSc, I planned to save enough money to pay my bills during the course of schooling and I can still work during vacation as I am highly skilled in the field, the skill is highly sort for all over the country. But I'm confused on either to still keep my Job and further my Education when I make enough money and have a business of my own. Please I need advice. The skill is "highly sort for" all over the country, and you are earning 70k? |
Career › Re: Please Lawyers In The House, Can I Sue My Employer? by histemple: 3:46pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
siraj1402: I was working with a company since late 2015 and my appointment was terminated yesterday.
What was contained in the contract letter was that I either give a month notice or return a month salary in case I want to leave and vis Versa.
The HR called me that I will be paid for this month which I think I am already entitled to, having work for half of the month already.
I feel the company has already breached the contract agreement else I am to be paid at least have of the month I have already worked for.
Please the lawyers in the house should advice me before taken any step.
Thanks In the said contract agreement, are there exceptions to the one month notice or payment of one month salary in lieu? What is the reason for the termination? In some contract agreements, there are grounds for termination without notice. However, it must be contained in the employment contract agreement. |
Politics › Re: Kwankwaso Mocks Obi At Chatham House: I Am A PhD Holder, Not A Trader by histemple: 8:26am On Jan 19, 2023 |
I just don't understand the relevance and significance of this Chatham house to Nigeria. |
Family › Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by histemple: 12:06pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Not just children of separated parents, even children who grew under a very toxic environment are a potential threat in marriage.
A lady whose mum controls her father is dangerous to marry because she will try to control her own husband as she learnt by observing the mother.
Similarly, a man whose father who grew witnessing his father abuse and suppress the wife is also a potential abuser in marriage.
So, before you marry, study the family diligently. |
Family › Re: My Friend's Future In-Laws Live In Kaduna, How Safe Are The Roads? by histemple: 3:51pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
Let him just save up some money for ransome before proceeding on the journey.
That's all he needs. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Neighbor Is Pressuring Me To Accept God by histemple: 5:04pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Lostchild: She is one of the rare kind of women I have seen in my life. Very peaceful, humble and meek in nature. She a person that doesn't like trouble at all.
She has told others that, she likes me a lot. Me too like her in return because of her peaceful and gentle nature.
Even yesterday I was going out. She called me and asked me to come. Immediately I went to meet her, she squeeze better money into my hands. She told me to use it to buy what I need.
She is my friend. I hope it's not a married woman you are playing this hide and seek with? |