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Kobojunkie:
What if the reason Op seeks advice because his major concern is what he looses if he demands his wife contribute financially to the household. Certainly, in a partnership OP cannot sit as a god in the union. Maybe that is a major fear and reason why OP is here.

emmanuelbrown26:
I keep saying it that we hv too many bastards in dis generation. Some fathers failed to training their male children in manly way 9r children deviates from the training.
Just take a very good look at dis stupid question begging for advice.

Femmyfamous4u:
Hello all, I need to know if I'm doing some things right or over reacting.

My wife and I just married some months ago and we just spend here and there on stuffs. I bought food stuffs in the house and told her I will place her on 40k monthly to cover for soups and all and I expect her to add to it if it's not enough.

I foot all bills- house rent, Power, and all . She earns a decent 6 figures salary also which is slightly higher than mine without the allowances I get.

She expects me to still give her another allowance apart from the 49k I give her for food.

Each time she buys stuff in the house she always want me to pay back in full; most times, I just pay a part of it which she always frowns and complains about.

It appears she has a notion that her money is her money and mine is ours.

My income is more than hers though.

Do you think I should still give her personal pocket money?

Ndimkpurummiri:
https://mobile.twitter.com/BashirElRufai/status/1642455200089645056

flokii:
Yet again you argue blindly my friend..

Ceteris paribus, South East ought to be in the leagues of Dubai and co considering the fact that one SW state (Oyo State) is bigger than all 5 States in SE combined. That is a fact.

Niger State that houses Nupes is x2 the size of entire SE.. Infact I have been having this notion that Nupes are far more than Igbos in Nigeria cos they are predominantly in Niger and parts of Kwara. Do the maths and see their population.

I always feel sorry for SEners because you folks don't know how much y'all are taking from Nigeria despite contributing nothing to national purse.. What is your Igr in SE and what is that of Lagos, Ogun, Osun and co?.

Economic prosperity is not measured by fine buildings and whatnot.. it's the revenue you generate and jobs created for the people that will make your economy to be considered as working.

Princessstee:
Even though your statistics is wrong because most of the companies i personally know in oyo and ogun are owned by yorubas, show us prof if it is otherwise.

it still doesn't make any sense because larger percentage of the properties and investments found in developed countries like Dubai, UK etc is owned by non indigenes, could you also say these places are not developed?.

Dont doubt the obvious, its a fool's and losers game.

ThatFairGuy1:
How is it fake Please?

Tell us

tinsel:
Since yesterday, I felt only pity for Obi after listening to his audio clip with Oyedepo. The desperation in the audio is shameful. He lost hope of even winning the election before the actual voting started.
Obi is a dangerous man. He wants to destroy Nigeria with his ambition. DSS needs to follow this man more closely otherwise Obi and his supporters will plunge Nigeria into a religious war. He campaigned for the most divisive and dangerous campaign in the history of Nigeria. But God had exposed him for whom he is really. Nigerians, are not in a better position to judge this dangerous and humiliated man.

Princessstee:
How will a sane person compare abia with the likes of oyo state and ogun state.. Ogun state only has up to 50 tertiary institutions not to talk of companies which you can only compare to only likes of Lagos and oyo. Lagos, oyo and ogun only contribute up to 70% of the Nigeria total internal revenue without producing oil yet.
I can assure you life is even more easier and peaceful in their remaining landlocked states which is Osun and ekiti because they have everything they need nearby with a very small indigenous people's population because they also have lots of tertiary institutions.


Anyone who has traveled around will boldly conclude that SW is by far the most developed followed by SS as far as Nigeria is concerned. Grow up and stop deceiving yourselves

Jones4190:
who recorded the one tinubu give 170m dollars to inec? olodo

idealogical:
Why not just show us where Tinubu or Atiku said they are fighting a religious war?

Obi is a certified religious bigot and a dangerous and destructive element.

God did not let him win for a reason.

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Amunethseranu:
Helinues do you have a soul pls ?

lexyking:
I guess the turbaning ceremony part was lost on you. Kano is an Emirates hence the term turbaning and not crowning, and just so you know the Oba of Yorubas will be turbaned by the emir of the Emirates meaning that he will be loyal to the Emirates while representing the Yorubas.

Now can you compare this to the ones the igbos do in other people's land?

longifilis:
They stole my phone at Onitsha, I lost some valuables as well. Bullshit

tobolos:
I told a friend yesterday that Lagos Agbero still dey learn work compared to the ones in the East. I can't forget the day my girlfriend (now wife) was forcefully put in a vehicle at Onitsha. I was just helpless that day. So many ugly experiences I can't forget in a lifetime.

Those condemning Lagos Agbero are myopic in their sense of judgement probably they don't go beyond their zones.


Chk ur past comments, u said u rather die than step foot in the barren east, that lgbo women are ugly. Today u are now claiming to hve visited and hve lgbo wife. The way Yoruba man cooks up story to win online arguments is incredible

Belleful:
I use to think warri agberos were brutal, not until I started plying warri to Onitsha. Those agberos have degrees in wickedness. Any street u drive pass, u pay. if ur car boot open small, u pay. If u re in Keke and carry ur bag on ur lap, u pay. If u carry ur load on ur head, u pay. I have witness were some lorry drivers run over some of them. I have see tipper drivers block the express road to protest. I have never seen were u pay to drive pass any street in all the places I have travel to. Only in Onitsha. Ndi agberos I hail de

Irete26:
Eastern Agbero is worse, visited that part of Nigeria about eight different times and my experience hasn’t been palatable, to me their thugs are worse than Lagos. I’m talking from experience!

TheRealestGuy:
Interim govt can only be installed by the bigot in aso rock but still somehow Igbos are bearing the brunt.

Nigerians are mostly a terrible bunch of bigoted, uncivilised people with no sense of shame or national pride.

Tufiakwa!

seunmsg:
They are now backtracking. I thought they were insisting on interim government or nothing before.

lexxi:
Game to depopulate the SEners in Lagos:
1) Burn their markets or business settlements
2) Claim to be empathic to the inferno
3) Declare to rebuild
4) Delay the rebuilding or never rebuild
5) Reclaim the market-landed property by Government
6) If you build, decide who gets allocation based on tribe.
7) Mission accomplished
Add yours etc.


Solution: Secure Secure Secure at all costs.