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LutanFyah:
Calm down before you burst an artery and suffer a stroke.


The man being irresponsible is not the meat of the argument rather DNA testing is the bone of contention.


That a man cannot take care of himself and his family gives the wife the right to be a LovePeddler?


Quite saddening your hate for the superior gender won't allow you to reason objectively on a matter that doesn't even affect you in any way.

@bolded, of course YES. What do you expect? You can't take care of a woman and even yourself and you expect that she should not attempt to save herself, but perish with you? How?

Na wah o

justosee:
That is why I said the child is not biologically his. It is a plan between mother and daughter to return her to the biological father.

You can't win a rape case with just words of the month. you need proof.

Gbam! You are one of those blessed with wisdom. Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you.

Winneygirl:
You underestimate the upper body strength of someone who has lost the ability to walk.

Underaged detected!

daddymummy:
Imagine now that you are in your house and a stranger comes in and ask you to go out and labour,expend your energy to find money so that he can eat.

You will definitely be very angry with the stranger.

That is what is going on in marriage.

The thing is so subtle that even men who hate it if someone is trying to exploit them, do not see the exploitation of the male gender as far as marriage is concerned.

It has reached a point that women now believe that every male that is passing on the road owe her something.

That is why if you give a woman all the money you have saved since you were born, she would not think you have done anything.

She would say how much is the money afterall other men are giving more than that to other women.

Imagine your life savings is given to someone but she doesn't appreciate because she believes it is her right to collect from you and from all men.

Because it is her right to be fed by men.

Imagine.

@ bolded, no be lie at all. It's mind boggling.

Moblux:
Paternity fraud exposed again? Whatever reason she did it, I feel for the children. Having children in a marriage should not be the ultimate. Marriage is for companionship and not only essentially for procreation. Unfortunately, African culture put premium on procreation.

If it's for companionship then no need to sign a contract over it. Do you sign contract for friendship? The primary purpose of marriage is to procreate and jointly raise kids. Every other thing is jara.

'Fools Die', wrote Mario Puzo. If you know you know. If Africans allow their zombie Governments to inject them, then they deserve to die like fools, they don't deserve to survive.

Anto2001:
u don't have to insult me. If u can't understand, it's okay. But don't insult someone's pain.

I posted my number and. Called some people. I even posted my brother account number and my sister phone number.
I will not do it I'm not serious. As for work, if I fit find, will I be here.
I can screenshot chats with family begging me money. Most people will tell girls to have sex, I can't.

You are a very unintelligent male scammer masquerading as a girl.

Praxis758:
Yahya Bello's failure to believe in the existence of Covid-19 doesn't erase reality of the pandemic. He's merely deceiving his gullible follower.

Has he forgotten that this same Covid-19 killed Justice Ajana, the state's Chief Justice.

Nigerians, pls always stay safe, this pandemic is real.

Nonsense.

bizme:
I really enjoyed your exposition although I disagree with your prescription of polygamy as the solution. If your premise is correct it means everyone of the polygamously acquired wife will eventually lose taste for sex. So the cycle continues... How many wives would a man then need to keep to sustain his sexual desires?

Approximately One every 10 - 15 years of his life span because It will take that long for the novelty of sex to wear off for each successive wife. Let's say a man starts at 30 or 35, then one after 10 years. The 4th one at 60 just like Trump or Ned, can then stay to the end.

Note: Oyibos are already practicing this.

It's part of the game of shit-testing. Play along. Accept the call and with a straight face affirm your willingness to give but on her fulfillment of your conditions, and don't waiver. She may accept or vex and go. Then forget her. If she decides to come back it means she has finally accepted your terms.

1Sharon:
You know molestation can involve inserting fingers too right?

Do not quote foolishly. My response was to the poster's outrage alleging penetration by an adult penis.

The accusation is outlandish, and as such require enough evidence to substantiate, not just the careless words of a woman.

GayPontiff:
I cannot even imagine what some men can venture into these days.
7-10inch prick inside the anus of a child less than a year old?

Like what d heck?

And you believe the story? Just like that? How is it even possible without tearing the tender flesh to pieces leading to certain death? ...more like the rantings of a lunatic woman.

sirjamesjnr:
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacation with me.

...and with all these, you think you're enjoying life?

Very correct. Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you.

In fact, I give it just 5 years.

We MOVE!

drblessed100:
Adultery is not illegal but it is also unethical when it is between two employees of FCMB.

Yes, If it can be proven it is unethical. It will be difficult to prove.

Jestin:
What if Dangote vex increase cement price now? Just think am

Make dem no go provoke that man Oo. A lot of things are hanging by the balance...

premierlead:
You have just commented like a dummy so to say. FYI, The MD knew right that his surbodinate, Mr Thomas's wife is a married woman yet went ahead to have illicit affairs with her to the extent of impregnating her twice and here now you are vituperating gibberish. Kiddo!

Adultery is not a crime in the Laws of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. MD has not contravened any Law.

Chai!

pquaver:
No u miss the point. The messenger here is not supposed to be the one bearing this message. He was in bed and frolicking with Jonathan that he did not point this same things out. You do not have the moral right to condemn what you enjoyed. It is exactly what happened in the house. Pdp asking gbajabiamila to declare defected members seats vacant and he simply asked them saraki, dogara and Dino etc defected did you declare their seat vacant. Don't you see if apha was the one demanding this it would have been a different story..

From what you have written, clearly you find fault in the messenger ( for being hypocritical). In the interest of rationality we need to clearly separate the messenger and the message. The messenger may be inappropriate but the content of the message may be true. It is not logical and it is woolly thinking to reject the veracity of a message just because the messenger is considered inappropriate. It's a fallacy.

majole:
Plain Truth from Bashir. Truth is difficult to accept. Jonathan practiced NEPOTISM to the core, it was SS/SE though Buhari took his own NEPOTISM to the HIGHEST LEVEL EVER. The problem is the Media that does not point out the Truth instead framing it as it suits their Regional/Religious Views

One problem most of us have is illogical reasoning. If someone points out a flaw in 'A', instead of addressing it, you point out a similar flaw in 'B'. How does that remedy the flaw in 'A'? If Jonathan was also Nepotistic, does that then justify Nepotism. No. Jonathan also stand condemned as he indeed was having been voted out in favour of Buhari who was believed to be better in all respects. So why calling attention to similar flaws in Jonathan when flaws are noticed in Buhari? Buhari is supposed to be better, that's why he won Jonathan in the election!

BruncleZuma:


Make una kukuma give them Borno nah make we rest, since una no wan treat their fûck-ups and clear their lingering doubts.

Imagine Nigeria wen defeat Biafra in 3 years dey form ajebo for Bokoharam.

For your information, Biafra was never defeated. Biafra just gave in to the counsel of some of its senior citizens and just surrendered. It's on record. The Biafran Army defeated the Nigerian Army at Owerri and pushed them out of the town just a few months before the surrender. Nigeria Army fought the war mainly with foreign mercenaries. Egyptians were the pilots. The British navy bombarded the Biafrans at Bonny from their warship. The Nigerian infantry relied mostly on Artillery attacks against entire civilian populations to sack towns because the Biafrans had no Artillery.

The North has brought this on itself

internationalman:
The Nuclear weapons he was scienting on would have still killed him...

Iran and accidental discharge are like Aboki and darger

@ bolded, what is the meaning of this for Christ sake. I mean, I understand the new word in the context used but...I mean we can't all be inventing words just like that, else pretty soon nobody will understand each other!

Vaughanlanrewaj:
I hope this is not fake news

I'm sure you meant YOU hope IT IS FAKE NEWS!

ibuildstuff:
Hope u realize Chinese are also dealing with u Muslims seriously?

It's their country, and their right. Islamic countries also do not tolerate the practice of other religions in their own country.

Thats not new. The Roman empire did it first. Do not be deceived. Christianity as you know it is not what Christ taught but a Roman invention.

Anything institutionalized has been corrupted. To get the true word of God, go back to the Torah, or the Holy Koran.