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Ningen:Don't end it! You are on to a good thing. The present dynamics of the relationship is to your favour. Maintain the dynamics like that and you will keep enjoying your marriage as she strives to win you over but you will never completely succumb to her wiles. Perfect situation for a marriage. Kudos. |
victorian:You are right because the young husband has been so emasculated that he becomes a shadow of himself such that the wife despises him and no longer pays any attention to his miserable self. The worst aspect of marriage is that when a woman has succeeded in dominating and emasculating the husband she totally loses desire for him and no longer wants anything to do with the poor wretch. The now impotent husband can only wallow in self-pity. |
victorian:It almost always never ends well. |
In Genesis 19:30-38 Lot's daughters got their father drunk, and over two consecutive nights had sex with him without his knowledge. They both got pregnant. The daughters were the instigators and orchestrators of the Incest. Abeg, make dem free the man. He is a victim of a daughter from Hell. |
ModestGal:Both parties are guilty. The grown-up daughter should not escape sanctions from this incest. How can you stop your father from remarrying, and then start sleeping with him without remorse. She became vengeful because the father has finally taken a wife. |
ImaIma1:Last last you will still turn to his enemy. MARK MY WORDS! Friendship between the opposite sexes is not sustainable, as they have divergent and irreconcilable interests. What is best for the male is at the same time disadvantageous to the female, and vice versa. |
We can all contribute to issues without being obnoxious. Yes, yams are indigenous to Africa. Same as the mighty Oil Palm. During the the European voyages of discovery and international trade they succeed in being the principal agents of intercontinental dispersal of food crops, herbal medicines, local technologies, etc from one continent to another. No need to be shocked at Ankara being foreign, because the tea, chocolate, and coffee the Europeans have appropriated as an essence of their own culture is not indegenous to Europe and cannot even grow there. They took it from other continents too. The Europeans found out that Ankara resonated well with the preferences of the Africans and started selling it to them, that's all; And the Africans have now made Ankara a cornerstone of their culture just as the oyibos adopted tea, coffee and chocolate drinking as their culture because they liked it so much. The people that grow all those tea, coffee and cocoa do not even like consuming those items the way the oyibos do. |
The maxim is never give out what you can not part with and forget. Always forget what you give. That being said, in the game of love (A.K.A battle of the sexes) it's sex for the male against material resources for the female. So denial of sex might prompt a temptation to retrieve material resources if it is believed to be far in excess of the sex received. However such attempts are dangerous and could backfire because in the universe of the womenfolk even a round of sex is a fair and sufficient exchange for all the riches of the whole world were it to belong to a single man. So she may resist and fight this 'injustice' with her last blood, or worse still, seek to recover what she has lost by subterfuge, and failing that revenge. It hardly ever goes well for a man to attempt to retrieve resources. Even when successful it might turn out to be a pyrric victory. Best bet is to count your losses, work to recoup your losses, and in future follow the MAXIM of NEVER GIVE WHAT YOU CANNOT FORGET. |
Mraphel:Apapa port is on the PortoNovo creek |
FlordFlorez:My brother, sorry to burst your bubble, but that is no guarantee that you won't meet with surprises AFTER you have married her. Even bestie of 10 to 15 years offers no remedy. Women are fluid and changeable and they themselves do not even understand the forces and motives pushing them hither and thither. The game of love, the quest to procreate, to tangle with the female, is very perilous to men. You may find all this hard to believe or accept but finally you will realise that you also have failed and fallen at the same place where your betters fail. |
Fraternities are indespensable for the smooth running of society. Throughout history, in all societies, fraternities exist as elite guardians of culture and society. Note: There are fake fraternities |
BLUELemon:Many paramilitary groups all over the world use the same symbol. You identified it right: danger symbol, signifying deadly potency for its cause. It's not necessarily negative. |
You resign your job because of what trump said on Facebook. Meanwhile Trump is still keeping his job as presido. Classic case of cutting off your nose to spite your face. Foolishness of the highest order. |
No chance. The child will remain with the mother till adulthood. However you may be given the right for him to identify you as the biological father. Your best bet is to maintain the best of terms with your girl and her family, if not they will indoctrinate and brainwash the child such that if you finally get in touch with him after 18 years or so it will be worse than relating to a total stranger if not an enemy. All in all, its a bad market. The best advice for you is to forget that episode, move on and get a child from another woman anytime you are ready for it. |
mofeoluwadassah:She probably lured him into it. I mean there are ways to nip this type of behaviour in the bud before it even manifests. Instead she was more interested in filming. Some of this behaviour is on the borderline of the natural mating ritual between males and females. You are supposed to firmly object when not interested, then it will become an offence if the unwanted attention continues, not recording video. Nonsense. |
Yeah |
Carchoice:On 2nd thought... You know there are 3 or 4 states of matter, and you can move an object to higher or lower states by applying or removing energy. And some materials require higher energy to transit states. Now, women in relationships with men, has as their default state, liquid form. They constrain themselves to the nature (shape) of the man after testing him vigorously to ensure his worthiness and fitness for purpose. The man has to expend energy/resources to withstand and overcome these tests. If a woman appears inflexible it may mean the man is not acceptable and has failed her tests (does not have capacity/energy/resources), or she has already adjusted to another for a long time (It might take more resources to melt) etc... Now, capisce (understand)? |
Carchoice:I for break am down, though to give proverb and also to interpret dey tire person. Suffice it to say, 'a word is a enough for the wise'. Again, 'He who has ears let him hear.' |
drmikeadams:When that happens look very well...she has already been shaped by ANOTHER previously (it will just take more energy than usual, and you may not be equal to the task), or is presently in the process, in competition with you. |
To start with, you call another man a simp but what would make you invite a woman to your house for some days and you don't touch her, after spending on her and you are now spending more on tfare to send her back. Don't you have better things to do with your time and money? Why won't she disrespect and mock you too just like her simple father who failed to discipline and provide a good masculine and fatherly role model for the daughters. No need to spit out the morsel of cake already in your mouth by sending her back. There are no 'good' or 'bad' women. They are like liquid and will take the shape provided by their container ( their male partner). You, the man, must provide her 'shape', though not usually without some emotional/psychological clashes as she vigorously tests your mettle. |
Just look at how he was posing with his hands in his pocket as he was nonchalantly strangling a human being with his knee in broad daylight without fear of witnesses present. We dey talk say SARS bad, but SARS still dey learn work compared to American Police on blacks. God's own country? Really! This guy's are masters of propaganda and hypocrisy. |
Good one |
chiboyo:I guess you meant as Modified? Just kidding. |
StubbornGENIUS:You should be talking of thousands not hundreds. Only fulani herdsmen has killed more than 200 since covid-19 started. Don't even talk of boko haram. Thousands have died due to the lockdown alone. The lock down has killed thousands of Nigerians. At the same time we can console ourselves with the thousands that has been born to replace the lost. |
KingAzubuike:...or Andromeda or any of the other galaxies. You think God is a man like yourself living on the earth counting days using the rotation of the earth? |
See am? Who is fooling who? |
Okortor:Definitely before Adam. Remember, the animals were created before Adam. The 6 days of creation are allegorical. One day of creation in the narrative of an Immortal being ( GOD) literally means 100million years or more in the reckoning of man. Who knows what cycle GOD is using as HIS day. Definitely not the rotation of the Earth. Perhaps the rotation of the Milky way Galaxy about ......who knows... |
Spark2:You cannot have a meaningful and painless relationship with girls in the 18-24 demographics because the pressure on them from other males will be too much. Several men of higher value than you will approach them and this will diminish your worth in their eyes. It's better for you to avoid any affairs of the heart at this point in your life. Play the dating game and catch your fun while you build up your potential. When you are ready it takes less than 6 months to choose and evaluate a woman for marriage. |
No one cares, ma. Keep disgracing your little son. |
The lean one in blue is using boxing techniques, but his more stocky opponent appears to be bent on wrestling. The wrestler makes repeated attempts to grab the boxer and wrestle him to the ground but the boxer keeps fending it off with repeated blows to the head. A pity. They both must have invested so heavily in the punany that they couldn't cut losses and walk away. For a man, what's your gain in keeping an unfaithful partner. You can keep taking your share of what's on offer - that is, if it's so special, while you continue with more serious relationships elsewhere. |
rationalhuman:Dear Sir, with all due respect to the points you have raised, may I submit that, in the interest of science, you need to keep an open mind always. Let the concoction be tested clinical before you conclude. Definitely it's not killing the malagasians. Test it to prove its efficacy for covid, because sometimes " what he has hidden from the wise and prudent, he has revealed to the babes and sucklers". Again " the race is not always to the swift..." |
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, Also read your first comment and this last comment and tell us if you are not confused like bubu. The man doesn’t understand the situation of Nigeria anymore.