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Crime / Re: Policeman Kills Policewoman In Rivers State During lockdown Enforcement by holocron: 6:02pm On Apr 24, 2020
otokx:


The gist says they fled the scene but were chased by plenty keke who intercepted the taskforce hilux and some of the unarmed taskforce boys.

The police have arrested the police and are also in custody of the taskforce hilux.

Pun intended. Double wahala for Dead body wey get accident
Foreign Affairs / Re: Armed Protesters In Camo Demonstrate Against Stay-At-Home Orders In Kansas, US by holocron: 3:26pm On Apr 24, 2020
CrazyOptimist:


Trump is a prodigy. A proven genius.
Hahahahahaha

Yeah!!! You are right.
He has shown it several times, especially when he was asking yesterday if people can drink disinfectants to kill the corona virus in their bodies.

Genius indeed.......

Mr man, trump never said that. Every body watched it live. He was only rubbing minds and encouraging the research team to think out of the box to solve the problem. But as usual CNN and the rest of the globalist media twisted it into another thing. Don't fall Mugu to that. Use your head.

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Politics / Re: Ben Ayade Wearing Ankara Face-Masks by holocron: 12:19pm On Apr 23, 2020
If you don't have coronavirus yourself, how can the face mask protect you when your eyes are still open to be contaminated by the virus. Besides do you think that viruses are not so small that they can easily pass through the weaves of the so called face mask?
Family / Re: Mothers, How Did Your Husband React When You Were In Labour? by holocron: 10:10am On Apr 23, 2020
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
He was right beside me and held my hands. He fainted when the baby started coming out grin and since then accorded me such huge levels of respect because what he saw in the labour ward that day ehn.... He still tells me till this day that women who give birth are such powerful creatures because for them to go through the whole birth process and come out alive is amazing. grin grin

Nonsense. Giving birth is natural to all mammals even without assistance, like the biblical Hebrew women. Abeg let us hear word.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Lockdown Lifted In Accra And Kumasi, Ghana. Ghanaians Rejoice by holocron: 9:28am On Apr 20, 2020
Fulanis have killed thousands of people all over Nigeria and just killed 40 something people in Katsina yesterday and nothing serious is being done. No emergency on Fulani marauders! How many has coronavirus killed?

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Pets / Re: Do Dogs See Spirits And Witches? by holocron: 9:23pm On Apr 19, 2020
flokii:


Listen to yourself.. now slowly

A dog that has been bred with another specie of animal like wolf can not produce a dog. Just like a goat can't breed with a sheep to produce goats. Get it now?

Dog was never a wild animal but domestic. Reason you keep them at home and as pet unlive wolves, lions, hyenas etc.

Fact: The German shepherd dog breed was produced by crossing a dog and a wolf.
Politics / Re: Why Is Foreign Education Of Nigerian Leaders Not Translating To Good Leadership? by holocron: 8:36pm On Apr 19, 2020
It's not surprising that no commenter has a clue to the answer of this vexatious question! The answer is not straight forward.

1) The fact is that any education you receive abroad is likely tailored to solve the prevailing problems currently existing there. Thus the student will remain clueless as to solutions to real problems at home.

The process of teaching or imparting education has been described "the art of assisted discovery". Thus real education is home based or grown and must involve personal research and discovery. Yes. You must re-discover even the proverbial wheel if you must know it. Only then can you ascend to the discovery of helicopter rotor blades. Except new knowledge is linked or associated to old knowledge, learning will not take place. So, in terms of problem solving education, all those western educated blacks went there for nothing.

2) long before these people left African shores to overseas their psychology has already being twisted by the perverted form of education and indoctrination our colonial masters bestowed on us, and which has not been eradicated till date. They lack self belief and live in awe of the White man. They have already relinquished the African identity with the ambition to become a white man. Thus their ultimate aim in life is to emigrate or retire to the western world or At least relocate their descendants there. To them there is no point in making things good in Africa since their goal is to relocate themselves and /or their descendants to a better place.

3) the present state of things though disadvantageous to the vast majority is of great benefit and profits this western educated elite. Any system that benefits the vast majority will automatically lower there benefits, power, and privileges. So this is a further disincentive to any of them that might be tempted to be altruistic and self sacrificing.

4) the western educated elite is a strongly knit caucus. They will hound and crucify any of their members that might be tempted to dissent from the groups chosen path.

Etcetera etcetera...
Health / Re: WHO : Africa Coronavirus Cases Could Hit 10 Million In Six Months by holocron: 12:31pm On Apr 18, 2020
WHO has been infiltrated by the globalists or the NWO. They have an evil agenda for the world. It should be disbanded with immediate effect. Teacher don't teach me nonsense. The person wey you teach finish yesterday don die today. Me and you no dey for the same category.
Politics / Re: . by holocron: 8:26am On Apr 16, 2020
Naija, u see your life?
Health / Re: 37-Year-Old New Mum Dies Of Coronavirus At LASUTH by holocron: 9:15pm On Apr 11, 2020
Puerperal sepsis is an infection in the female genital tract within 10 days of childbirth, abortion or miscarriage, experts say.

“She had a baby but she developed an infection. Then, it was noticed that her blood sugar was very high and she had a cough and fever and we suspected there might be coronavirus.

“So, we sent for testing and kept on managing [her], with universal precautions being taken.

Bastards! So from the above now...did she die of Corona virus? Or was it the infection she was struggling with. Why must you now add it to the statistics of Corona virus death? Is it not for your greed and quest to loot govt money and foreign aid grants?

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Romance / Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by holocron: 9:52am On Apr 08, 2020
Crazychris:
If you have to give money to your woman in other to make her happy, then she is not truely yours. She's just faking her love for you but weak guys like you won't catch the scope..

Every woman's love is fake, brother. It's a performance that has to be coerced out of her with money, macho dominance, influence, or what have you. ...and it's quickly extinguished when the quality that instigates the 'love' ends. Sad but true. You pay for a woman's love with your money or with your time worshipping her, or both.

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Politics / Re: Boko Haram Members Catching Fun - VOA (Throwback Video) by holocron: 9:54am On Apr 07, 2020
dazzlingd:




The bullet from a 14 year old is as effective as that from a 40 year old.
Child soldiers have been known to be the most deadliest, they have nothing to lose and see war as a movie.
Pls respect the men that faced these guys bullet for bullet while u are here typing behind your keyboards...

Meanwhile , many of those soldiers are even below 25...where was your dad, brothers,and uncles when these man risked their lives for your nation. Some of them suffer permanent disabilities.

You cowards should respect the army, they are not the cause of your frustrations , they suffer more from the incapacity of your government....please they deserve one thing, respect them or rather keep shut

They are not denigrating the ordinary soldiers who are just victims of the corruption of the political and military hierarchy
Romance / Re: Five Killed In Kaduna As Police, Youth Clash During Coronavirus Lockdown by holocron: 9:36am On Apr 07, 2020
Corona virus - 5, Police - 10
Romance / Re: What Are The Top 14 Best Lessons You've Learned From Marriage? by holocron: 10:25am On Apr 06, 2020
Apart from 1,3,10,13, do the opposite of all the rest to enjoy peace of mind in marriage.
Family / Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by holocron: 12:30pm On Apr 05, 2020
DexterousOne:



Did you know WHY polygamy was the ideal thb back in the day?


Like I mentioned before

1) Labour was the gold back in the day. The more children you have, the more manpower you had at your disposal (and soldiers when your village gets raided, as this was rampant back in the day)
Unfortunately one woman cannot give you that, because one woman cannot bear 30 kids back to back
So you need more wives to give you more kids.

2)our forefathers were not sex driven but sensible providers and defenders of their family.
Character and fertility of the woman was what was looked at.....
Sex appeal (big ass big brezz) was at the back burner, and most importantly our forefathers were not slaves to their penis.

Many women then will not get a second look by most men today.


Why polygamy wont work large scale today


1) Most of the men seeking polygamy today are slaves to their penis and are lust driven
This combination beclouds ones judgement and picking multiple wives in the basis of this is disastrous

2) we are In a tech driven world with less emphasis on labour
In this economic order, many dependents at the base of the population pyramid is not the best way to go.
Many kids in this era is NOT Ideal.

And other reasons sha


Now can polygamy work?

Maybe

Is it for me?

Lai lai

Can a lust driven man run a successful polygamous home?

That's a disaster


Can polygamy breed jealousy and bad blood?

Absolutely !
Especially if the first wife was married to you when things were so bad, then you then make it
Then you think it's a good idea to add two bimbo wives after your first wife is burnt out (we know this is often the case in Nigeria)

From that day going forward
There would be no peace

But if you married them all when you were well to do, and you were honest with the first wife from day one that you will have additions, the frictions will be reduced

The variables are so many

Your analysis appears good when examined in a cursory way. The economic conditions in the time of our forefathers is not too different from where we find ourselves today. Those men were men of steel who built a supporting culture that kept men and women in check to behave for the overall good of their society.

The fact that polygamy is now difficult to operate is due to the fact that this culture is now damaged if not irredeemably destroyed. All the problems generated by polygamy can be summarised as the jealousy of women as they scheme to sabotage the institution to maximise their personal gains. And this were easily accommodated and neutralised by certain cultural practices which has now been abandoned. For instance, Our polygamous ancestors did not dwell in the same house as the women. Each woman has her own house/kitchen, and the patriarch maintained his own quarters independent of them. The culture also retained several practices to checkmate the machinations of the women.

On things you say are obsolete:

1) Labour: the need for labor is still not outdated as you say. Manual illiterate labour, yes. We are in dire need of skilled, technical, and professional labour. We don't have enough of this that's why we are economically backward.

2) population: we are not out of the woods yet in terms of unsustainable low population. Southern Nigeria is depopulating very fast. Average birth rate now is 3 or less per woman, with many women having none due to delayed marriages in pursuit of education and work and the stigma of child birth outside marriage. Africa is currently underpopulated as a continent, and the negro race is the least populated race in the world. Even, Indians alone are greater in population than all the blacks in the whole world. We need the population to drive economic development (In economics, a formidable youth bulge is a primary driver of economic development). Wars and other martial conflict are still not outdated, we need the population to prosecute these. What do you think facilitates the present Fulani expansion down south? You guessed it, their youth bulge - a large youthful energetic population. And they will prevail if their adversaries do not have the population to defend their turf and combat the marauders.
Family / Re: Are There Advantages In Marrying More Than One Wife? by holocron: 1:26pm On Apr 04, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
There is a huge advantage to polygamy, but only if a man is mature and emotionally balanced; and is able and willing to take care of all his wives. Only then can the following benefits be reaped...
For women:

1. It helps take care of women in society. If everybody who is able to do so marries many women, there will not be any single women running wild, lining up for 'special prayer', competing for husbands and becoming baby mamas. Even widows and divorcees will find husbands (if they have good characters).

2. It promotes harmony in the house; the strength and maturity of the man is key.

3. Women have more peace of mind. They know who their 'rivals' are, and if they suppress their innate desire for troublemaking, can even make friends.

4. Women rest more. The burden of running the homes is lighter when shared by more than one woman. When one wife does not feel like cooking, or having sex etc, the other(s) can step up. Child caring etc can also be rotated.

For men:

1. They have more peace at home. A woman should never feel she is the only sugar in her man's tea because she will inevitably misbehave.

2. He need not have extra marital affairs with all its attendant problems. Anytime he meets a woman that he likes, he either marries her or keeps his hands off. Having an assortment of women in the house will make him not even want to look outside (remember I made his maturity a condition from the beginning).

Women don't like it only because it takes away their power to dominate their husband.

Weak men don't like it only because women say it is not good and they want to look like nice men to those women.

Gbam! Your head they there. It's only for strong capable men, not weaklings. The generation of men especially in the southern part of the country have been degenerated by indiscriminate adoption of western cultural practices. They can hardly cope with a single wife plus sidechick talk less of 2 or more legal wives, hence the tales of woe and tears read from commenters above. Before the coming of the White man polygamy was the preferred cultural practice and only the weakest and poorest of men had to endure the troubles and disadvantages of only one wife.

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Family / Re: Rejoinder: Marrying A Woman Who Makes Money. by holocron: 10:55am On Apr 04, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
Now, I know this is going to be controversial, but I really don't care for crowd cheering. For the sake of clarity, and so everyone is able to weigh their options carefully, I'd like to state a few things.

Marrying a woman who earns is really great, it would make life a lot easier. But there are so many things you must consider.

1. Most men marry in their early to mid-30s. Are you marrying a girl who's your age mate? If she's between 22 to 27, then she's probably just leaving school or rounding off with NYSC. Excuse me, Sir, did you did you get financially stable right after school? If not, please marry your mate who's in her 30s. Oh, wait a minute, y'all call them evening newspapers! grin

2. Do you realise that life is in stages, and these phases come at different times for different people? So she's not earning today, is that how things will be forever?

3. You must realise that you should marry a woman who can live within your means... who can be content with what you're able to provide. Anything other than that will simply frustrate you. Why do you think you commonly find men marrying below their status?

4. No matter how much you wish things were different, women are not naturally wired to be providers. From the beginning of time, it was Adam who was cursed to till the ground for his daily bread, not Eve. That one was cursed with tortuous childbearing. So if you make a woman do the things that you're supposed to do, you'll create anarchy in your home. She'll most likely be disgruntled and it will start manifesting in her actions.
If you're tired of being or don't know how to be a man, just come as a woman in your next life. undecided

In a house she's paying rent for you want to start keeping late nights, or having shady movements, or having her tether to the needs of all your village people who troop in by the hour. Hahahahaa. She'll throw you out!

5. Some of you men talking about the women in your offices, did they tell you they split bills 50/50 with their husbands? I have lots of female colleagues, and women talk. You guys know nothing! cheesy

6. Even if she's gainfully employed or running a thriving business, I think the mindset that she must split bills with you is a problematic one. Yes, it is natural that when she earns, she would help around with bills in the home. But don't bank on it... don't make your plans around your wife's income. A man's primary responsibility is to provide for his home, anything else is support, assistance, and you know what those words mean, yeah? If the rent or kids school fees get due before you're able to pay it, no hassles l'll pay it ASAP, but I'll be expecting a refund! cheesy
My area of support without expecting reimbursement are;
If you bring 100k for monthly upkeep, and the foodstuff or things I want to do around the house require more than that, I'll make up the balance without stress.
If the gas runs out before you get to refill, I'll top up.
I'll fuel my car myself, buy all my weaves, and maintain my wardrobe myself.
I can give my children whatever treat I feel like, make them look good, without asking you.
If the utility bill comes when you're not home, I pay up.
I buy you random gifts, and throw surprise birthday parties for you.
If you need a loan, I give to you, and you pay back with interest! grin
Should you fall on hard times, and your income isn't coming in, I'll naturally step up and take care of everything until you get back on your feet.

Having said all that, a woman who earns tangibly is actually doing herself a world of good. Personally, I can't for the life of me fathom why anyone would want to be a fulltime housewife. But it's not in my place to criticise. Everyone's got their peculiar preferences. I understand the need to be very much involved in my children's lives.
Actually, I'm still wracking my head on how to get around that when the time comes... build a solid career, raise intelligent and very well-behaved Godly children, look after my home and husband...
So maybe some women simply see holding a job and achieving all these as an impossible task. Some men, too, simply prefer to have fulltime housewives for their unique reasons. Each man to his own.

All the long story summarily is;
1. You want to marry a woman who's earning money... think about her age and prospects.
2. Even if she's earning, providing for the family still remains your chief responsibility. That's what being a man is.
3. Stop condemning people who would rather be, or marry housewives. It's their call. Not yours.

You are a wise woman. Such balanced reasoning and judgement are beyond the capabilities of most women (no offense intended).

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Family / Re: Invitation Cards: Is It Not The Man That Is Supposed To Wed The Woman? by holocron: 12:44pm On Apr 02, 2020
In the western tradition which we are copying, the man enters into the marriage in service to the woman who is his master ( in this case mistress). That's why you kneel before her to propose. Una dey always copy without adequate understanding of what you are getting into.

African traditional marriage, and western wedding are different and irreconcilable institutions, but we keep trying to combine them.

1) African marriage, woman is subordinate to the man as symbolised by the bride kneeling to offer drink to the husband. In western marriage the reverse is the case.

2) African marriage is between two families, hence the marriage continues even upon the demise of the husband. In western marriage it's only till death do us part.

3) African marriage, polygamy is allowed. Western marriage is monogamous.

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Celebrities / Re: They Want To Use Coronavirus To Destroy All Of Us And Establish A New World – FK by holocron: 11:32pm On Apr 01, 2020
Coro is just a trial run. Nothing dey happen now. The real event is to happen in a few years time.
Family / Re: COVID-19 Lockdown: Side Chicks & Side Guys, How Have You Been Coping? by holocron: 10:55pm On Apr 01, 2020
Kenmatt:
There is something I said once among my friends, most of them that are married took it personal.

But truth be told, if I get married tomorrow, I'll never keep a girl outside my wife.

Not that I'm holy or it has anything to do with spirituality but it's just my decision.

That's why I must take my time to get absolutely who and what I really need in a woman as a wife.

She will be my everything, infact, my World.

And when you do that,...the very fact that you have made her your everything will make her turn into your worst nightmare...then you will bend and fall where your betters fell.
Family / Re: What Character Traits Do Your Parents Have That Annoy You So Much? by holocron: 3:10pm On Mar 30, 2020
Sermwell:
I love my parents so much from the depths of my heart!! But my dad is a chronic gambler which I hate so much about him. he has been doing this for like over 20yrs now. We have sat him down to talk to him on several occasions but he refused to stop, even when my mum threatened to leave. I send 70k for both of them every month(40k for dad and 30k for mum)since December but my dad squanders his own in less than 2 weeks and be disturbing my mum for money.
Now I just sent them for the month of March but this time around, it is 50k for mum and dad 20k. I will continue reducing his own share and even eventually stop giving him if he continues to gamble.
As for my mum, she's the best woman in the world!(No flatteries). She's peaceful, calm, respectful, beautiful and most of all, lover of God. She's both a good mother to all of us and a good wife to my dad. I have been trying to find fault in my mum but cannot. My mum's kind are very rare. I say this with all sense of honesty!!


abeg give my mum some likes jare!! lol.


I hesitate to bust your bubble, but...be very careful. Try and do a careful and independent investigation of this your dad's alleged money squandering before you conclude. Women are known to be very manipulative-including our dear mothers, unfortunately. For all you know the facts of the matter may be a complete reversal. Because women are loathe to give money to their husbands, whereas it is instinctive for a man to give to his wife.

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Politics / Re: Coronavirus: Bala Mohammed Says He Is Healthy And In Good Spirits by holocron: 11:17am On Mar 29, 2020
JAOS:
i hope he recovers quickly

Recover from what? He has not manifested any symptoms
Politics / Re: Boris Johnson Tests Positive For Coronavirus by holocron: 12:48pm On Mar 27, 2020
E don happen
Health / Re: Coronavirus: Wike Reveals Identity Of Rivers Index Case, Close Down Markets by holocron: 12:44pm On Mar 27, 2020
chrisxxx:

If it's possible I would recommend you are quarantined. I mean isolated and quarantined in a psychiatric hospital. Your environment which includes your family, compound, village or town are in big shit if they have people that think like you more.
I have concluded that there are people with negative Gene modifications. You typify them.

Do not rebuke the poster for what he said is not far from the truth
Family / Re: 5 Ways Men(boys) Are Different From Women(girls) (Feminists Should Take Note) by holocron: 9:32pm On Mar 11, 2020
Wow
Crime / Re: Ikenna Unegbu: NIMC DG Defiles A 2-Year-old Girl In His Office In Owerri by holocron: 8:49pm On Mar 07, 2020
6digitscomrade:
i am particularly bothered about ur doubt.. because it reeks of ignorance.. I will again refer u to extensive studies and research..

What can be wrong with a HEALTHY SCEPTICISM that demands for investigation and evidence before drawing conclusions? On a faceless forum we don't know who you are, and you don't know us, but be aware that you are speaking with intellectuals and scholars.
Crime / Re: Ikenna Unegbu: NIMC DG Defiles A 2-Year-old Girl In His Office In Owerri by holocron: 6:55pm On Mar 07, 2020
sinaj:
A 2 year old child will frame a grown ass man? Please delete your post

He is talking about the mother of the two year old. Two year old can not yet talk coherently.
Crime / Re: Ikenna Unegbu: NIMC DG Defiles A 2-Year-old Girl In His Office In Owerri by holocron: 6:51pm On Mar 07, 2020
6digitscomrade:
u guys are lame,myopic and daft ,crass ignorance personified I suggest u guys read vastly so u can prevent future public display of cognitive dissonance...

People even rape babies and even their own for that matter.. guess what ? before u drown in ur black race notion please note child pornography is a big problem here in the west and offenders are dealt with ruthlessly both by the law and angry inmates waiting to defend an innocent child or children..

Oga, abi madam, use your head to reason before calling names. Nobody questioned the occurrence of child pornography or child sex abuse. The issue is the gullibility in consuming and digesting an incongruent story about sexual intercourse with a two year old baby without seriously maiming and disfiguring the baby. Total acceptance of the story without any analysis or criticism.
Crime / Re: Ikenna Unegbu: NIMC DG Defiles A 2-Year-old Girl In His Office In Owerri by holocron: 3:07pm On Mar 07, 2020
Goddys:
My gf of 24 years can't handle my D during s*x and always cry out of pain. How then can a 2 year old take a D of an full grown man and not pass out?


Why are people so irrational, subjective and emotional when assessing issue like this?

I repeat no 2 year old girl can take an erected D and be able to stand up for days

Abeg tell them o! I think the IQ of the black race especially Naija is just a little above animal level. That's why they are where they are. Critical, logical thinking and analysis - zero!
Crime / Re: Ikenna Unegbu: NIMC DG Defiles A 2-Year-old Girl In His Office In Owerri by holocron: 2:57pm On Mar 07, 2020
senatorude2:
How can 2 year old baby narrate what happened to her.

You are one of the few sensible ones here. Mark my words, this is nothing but a frame up.

Any man who has ever tried penetrating a real virgin knows that an adult penis cannot penetrate a two year old without tearing the legs and abdomen to pieces. This is nothing but a love affair between the mother and the accused gone wrong.
Crime / Re: 4 Men Gang-Rape Lady In Lagos, Swindle Her Of N3.2 Million by holocron: 9:50am On Mar 05, 2020
The Criminal Code – this is applicable in all the Southern States
The Penal Code – this is applicable in all the Northern States
The Criminal Laws of Lagos – this is applicable only in Lagos State
The Violence Against Persons Prohibition Act – this is applicable in only the FCT Abuja.
The Child Rights Act – this is only applicable in the States which have domesticated it


Criminal Code (CC): Under the CC, rape is when any person has sexual intercourse with a woman or girl, without her consent, or incorrectly obtained consent. Consent can be incorrectly obtained where it is obtained:
by force/threat/intimidation
by means of false and fraudulent representation as to the nature of the act,
by a person impersonating a married woman’s husband in order to have sex
Under the CC, sexual intercourse with under aged girls or people with unsound mind is the offence of defilement, and so technically a person could be charged for rape and defilement

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