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PulaPower:
But this one like Bag of Onions isn’t a fine girl..

She for let fine girls do the talking..

every girl thinks she's a queen. Every girl.

Very annoying thing.

Diamond098454:
it doesn't matter what matters in life is, if you are doing well. Even the person that rejected you will come back to appreciate and apologize to you.

why would I want that? Will the apology add something?

Diamond098454:
DNA is not necessary any child born under your roof is yours

and you fit no be your papa pikin o

AdventureRoom:
Many brothers avoid successful, older women because of fear or intimidation.

no man is intimidated.

People avoid older women because they are older, uglier, have drier půșșy, have more tendencies for complicated pregnancies

And even more importantly, if a woman can stay up to 30-35 without getting married, a man would be weary why no one wants her, so why should he?

And more importantly, why would a man go for a 35 year old woman close to menopause where her sex life is essentially drying up in the next 5 years when he could go for a 19 or 25 years old with 20 more years of enjoyment?

Why would a man want to go with a 2002 car when he can get a 2025 car that's more beautiful and filled with vigor and exciting new features?

A woman's money is never a man's money. A rich woman can go pick a poor boy from the village and marry him.

But they don't do that because a woman's money is never the man's money.

So of what benefit is the richness of a woman to a man?

So, no. Men are not intimidated by older rich women. That's the lie these toxic women tell themselves so they can sleep well at night.

Men love softness which these women don't have anymore.

This question is something a lot of us think about.

Should you do DNA or continue to live in paradise believing that the child is yours as long as there is no pressure?

I think it's the same thing as "should you check your partner's phone or rather not risk the potential issues it may cause?"

Personally, in both cases, I'll chose to go the hard way.

I'm not a coward. I rather face any problem that may arise squarely instead of living in a fōøl's paradise.

So yes, I'll run DNA test. I'll check my partner's phone.

Peace is not the absence of war. Living in delusion should never be mistaken for peace. Living in pretense or running away from reality is not life.

Namaster:
"I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness."

I stopped reading this DRIVEL at this point.

The author is trying to VILIFY her husband for the same thing she's GUILTY of!

She's complaining that an EMPLOYED man goes to bed at 9 PM at night.

9PM!

MADNESS!

omo the matter weak me too.

Cheating dey her eyes and she's genuinely looking for justification to do it.

Like she said, there are other more "masculine" men she depended on while they were dating.

Those were not willing to have anything marriage to do with her. So she settled for this her husband.

Now she's comparing him to them and thinking she's made a mistake because he's not measuring to that "masculine" idea she has.

No worry, leave the man already and go outside. No need to paint him black to justify your own shortcomings.

UkoAnnang:


This is the kind of person I want to surround myself with

do they want to surround you?

NovaraPacks:
I will ask you only two questions as regards this topic:

1. If tables were turned and you're one of those ladies, will you prefer to follow people that are still as confused and naive as you are?

2. You yourself, will you want to date yourself at that time.

The only thing I see wrong with this narration is that, no serious student should have the mindset of even dating at all at 100L, because you will end up been misled. Why? You don't know anything yet, you're still blind, you need clarity, you need more information to be able to navigate and stand on your own.

But it is very cool to follow your seniors or people who knows more than you not even for dating sake but for adequate information to move & get ahead of others on time.

Shalom!

you think everyone was as clueless as you were in 100l and so you stand on that and talk senselessly

arantess:
Oh Chim oo.

Can you focus on your studies first and leave girl matter for now.

You should start praying and fasting at 300L for God to direct your future well and give you his own purpose

omo relax abeg. no be all of us dey approach life with fear

6 month marriage. no be them again?

ednut1:
Your mates in 400l are not interested in you still. They are ready for marriage after nysc while it will take you guys 5-10 years to balance after school lol

Some of una go siddon for una bed dey formulate statistics.

This is not the first time I am coming across something like this.

I've seen this sort of messages in my class group and also in my school general group.

They seem mostly from the ladies.

If you're infected with HIV please do not go around sharing it with people just to exact revenge.

It's painful that you got infected but it's not the end of life.

Sharing it around won't cure you or lessen the degree of the disease. Instead start focusing on taking your anti-retroviral medication and be faithful to it.

That's what will help you and keep you healthy for a long time.

Sleeping around while infected can also put you in more danger. There are different strains of the AIDS virus.

Some are resistant to certain medications. If you get re-infected with such a strain while taking the prescribed medication, it may end up not working well for you.

Besides, what goes around comes around. You have family members. Don't joke with how easily this can easily get to your loved ones through someone you share it with.

Let's stop the spread. Let the change begin with you.

Always abstain.
Always use protection.
Stay faithful to your partner.
Get tested today
Take your meds faithfully.

Commentor:
You really don't read well, do you?

that guy is a well known măd man on nairaland. Trust me he talks without connecting what he reads with what he writes

KingDashx:
Una dey try oh
Una go school go dey chase woman.. we wey smart for school na them dey find us, even all those yahoo boys babes hear am for my hand.

for your mind the rest of us no smart. you dey use cgpa and we no dey even use at all. go figure

Commentor:
He should wait until he has a duplex and G-wagon.

some of them no too get sense

I am going to say this stuff and most guys will probably relate with it.

You may have noticed it too. But if you have not, as I describe this you'll understand it once.

So, when we just gained admission newly and resumed school, for most of us we just want to get the best grades.

But not just grades sha.

I personally made a vow that I'll have my first serious girlfriend from 100l.

My goal was that we could grow together from there and probably get married someday.

Don't blame me, your boy was young and naive then.

Most girls in 100l with us then just won't date us.

I mean some did but never anything serious.

Their eyes were rather on the senior students. These girls were going with guys in 300l and 400l students.

Omo, senior men wey we dey respect as guys naim these girls dey call 'baby'.

100l was tough.

You will toast this girl today and both of you'll be feeling it and the next day same girl will break up with you.

Not that you did anything o. Na senior student Don toast her be that.

Now here's the problem. It's 6 years after and we are in 400l.

We are now the 'highest' in the school.

And the obvious now is some of these girls are now trying to cling to us.

It's funny now sha. Person wey dey feel like say dem no fit look your side a few years ago now wan dey follow you package stuff.

Unfortunately, me no too send them again. Fresh babes are coming in every year and they seem better, look more eager and tends to demand less.

So why would I leave such for my mate who dem chew for my front and she's still demanding something serious?

I also think this same thing happens in the real dating world.

These girls in their younger age will go after matured men leaving boys in their age groups.

A few years later, these boys will catch up and the girls will want to come back but then younger girls go don already dey.

oluwaseyi0:
Google their population number Vs UK or Japan and you will understand
Infact all Europe plus UK is not up to them

I know their population.

A population of 1000 using a 10 seater bus will require only 100 buses on the road.

If the 1000 people drive individual cars, there will be 1000 cars on the road.

If holdup is a problem, population is one factor but vehicle is equally an important factor.

So more people travelling in one vehicle is the way out since they can't kill their people to reduce the population

Lekan239:
your point is top notch, but owning a car in such environment does not mean wealthy or rich. Cars are cheaper and affordable and there are loan options. Only in Africa they see cars as being wealthy or rich.

you just buttress what I said. I don't see where there's any disagreement

ledaman:
How many times were Christians caught sponsoring terrorism?
The genocide going on Gaza I guess the Jews are Muslims as you paint it !
You knew little or nothing about terrorism globally.
Either you like it or not, the fastest growing Religion in the world is Islam.
It is either you accept it or hatred would just consume you.

This is the problem y'all have.

You're in competition with people who don't care.

Why should I care if Islam or Christianity is the fastest growing religion?

Like humour me, of what benefits is it to me if everyone in the world becomes a Christian?

I don't care about Islam growing or not.

Leave people Tf alone to live their lives just as they allow you to live your own.

Stop bombing people. Stop kidnapping people. Stop burning people.

Just how hard is it to understand that people just want to breathe?

I think what the Jews are doing in Gaza is worst crime and needs to be punished.

This has been my personal opinion right from time because no one deserves their lands to be taken simply because you feel god promised you that land.

But again, you talk about tolerance but glory in Islam being the fastest growing religion. You forget that for such growths to occur much are being killed and displaced from their homes. Much the same as the Jews.

Problem with wealth and everyone being able to afford cars.

The government should engage in propaganda to make more people use public transport instead of personal cars.

30 people in one big bus is 29 less cars on the same road.

36 lanes and there is still holdup. It's a problem of cancerous growth.

ledaman:
Go and sit down if you can't tolerate each other.
Moreover, I didn't post to seek for your opinion.

lolz.

Your desperation to make this a Muslim vs Christian fight is appalling.

It has never been a clash between Muslims and Christians.

It's always the Muslims attacking other religions. Either threatening them to do this or that or actually killing them.

It's never us "attacking each other" or "fighting one another".

No one fights or clashes with the Muslim. They are always the one brandishing their weapons

It's the Muslims always poking their hands and weapons in the face of everyone.

And then turn around to tell everyone to tolerate them.

It's annoying and appalling.

ledaman:
As long as we keep attacking each other, progress would be an illusion.
Be an ambassador of your Religion.
Don't look at the loop hole of others Religion

again. We are not attacking each other.

Muslims are attacking everyone. No one is suicide bombing Muslims. No one is burning Muslims alive.

Muslims are attacking everyone else. Stop trying to drag everyone in the mud to make a non-existent point. Jeez!

FIRDAUS3:
hijab is a concept of modesty and humility associated with women, it is for a Muslim women to cover their hair and neck. It is a voluntary act of worship, an outward symbol of inner faith, modesty and devotion to God.
it is the Quran's instructions for modest behavior and dressing, the hijab embodies the Islamic ideal of modesty (Awrah) Wearing the hijab is an outward manifestation of an inner commitment to worship (ALLAAH) and a reminder to embody the dignity it represents.
you can't give what you don't have, this is a school that belongs to the Government how possible some disgruntled element enforcing an act which is against what the law interpret.

The decision to wear a hijab is a personal one, rooted in religious principles and individual interpretation, who are you to tell us how practice our religion? if your religion permit you to used the restroom and use tissue paper to clean yourself , what's my business telling you the proper way to clean yourself after visiting the toilet? you can have S*x with your partner and go to the church, your religion didn't say anything disregarding the action but my Religion guides my way in every of my steps and actions.
who the Fu*K are you to tell us on how and where to use hijab

the way you are talking I'm sure you'll soon throw bomb or light someone on fire or stone them to death.

Tolerance my așș.

ledaman:
I don't know how we got to this stage that we can't tolerate each other again.
Hatred for each other Religion would not make us progress as a Nation.

the hatred from Islam is too much.

No one hates Muslims. It is Muslims that hates everyone else.

Jakarta:
See your wide mouth like tolerance, you force others to take what you yourself can't accept. Can a female Christian student enter a Muslim dominated school without wearing hijab? What is the essence of putting on uniforms in the first place if a Muslim can use hijab, a native doctors son dresses in a shrine attire, a Christian girl student put on scarf? Even for a Christian to comment on a Muslim thread here on nairaland he is made to swear, and here you are talking about tolerance.

don't mind these guys. Na dem burn Deborah a few years ago o.

Coming here to talk nonsense about tolerance.

The people talking about tolerance burn Deborah alive a few years ago.

I mean you killed someone for less than hijab and then you turn around to talk about tolerance?

No Muslim should ever talk about tolerance unless advising other Muslims

This guy has gone through a lot in recent times sha.

Health issues. Wife divorcing him and now his mother.

Na God dey console man

My younger sister via face ID.

It always work for her

It was crap because till date no one knows the meaning of doro