₦airaland Forum

dominique:
Good for her, other patients were not so luck but 2 cancers under the age of 20? Some people's T cells are not trying at all

wetin concern T cells with cancer?

pneumaticos:
So op said he needs 40k
I don't know if op has parents or not
But here is another game
40k will be given to op to payback on that day
Op may turn out a scammer
Or give several unconditional excuses
As per say na exam.things
So here is it
We give op the 40k
He collect his laptop from the said friend

Perhaps op is too young to understand who a friend is, meaning he still leaves the laptop with the friend

I'm not a sc*mmer boss.

You can see the screenshot here too.

Also I can give you my ID card with a selfie or video call for verification. It also has my matric number for easy tracing.

Payment no dey delay at all.

I'm going to get the laptop from him this afternoon though.

Problem is selling it. My power bank is on sale on fb at the moment no one to price it yet.

If Natasha sell her whole constituency shey the money go reach 200bn?

As we all know the case go drag for court and she go tire ontop the matter.

Las las na she go go beg am in private

Madam rest abeg.

So after everyone ask for proves you didnt provide anything.

The moment attention shifts from you, you suddenly want to provide proof.

Na attention dey hungry you.

You know those girls wey you go give them attention yanga go wan kill them then the moment you start treating them like trash and no longer want them,

Dem go come meet you say you have changed o. That you're no longer toasting them again.

Na wetin Natasha dey face for akpabio hand now.

He was treating her special and she was feeling herself.

Now that he has withdrawn all attention and benefits, she's realizing that she's not that special and is suddenly hungry for attention.

You go suffocate ma

Olatundex22:
and you forget village is now fast turning to city

are your churches not enough for you to worship?

Why the loudspeakers outside or the crusades?

If they ban churches from using loudspeakers now or having crusades you'll call it persecution.

But when you do it to others, it's God's will.

Extresmists and bigots everywhere

So will he ban Christians organising crusades with loudspeakers in public spaces?

How about churches and mosques in his states using loudspeakers disturbing people?

Or those doing morning cry with loud speakers in the morning and waking people up to listen to them shout?

But he wants to limit the traditionalist to village squares because theirs is dangerous or infringe on human right.

This pastor governor is just an extremist. A religious bigot.

In his mind god made him a governor and he wants to do away with the traditionalist because they are devilish to him.

This is the type of extremist that will bomb Christian churches if he were a Muslim.

Worship your God, let others worship theirs in peace pastor governor.

A nurse, big house and money and she thought she could buy a man

The dreams feminism sold to this women

Moveittothem:
Believe everything people post online at your own foolishness.

Beech might even be a sit at home introverted girl looking for engagements online, hence posting whatever that would bring attention to her.

I think as a sensible person I'll rather believe what she wrote about herself than what you imagine her to be

papiSNEH:
na why dem talk say put ur trust on God, man fails.. you self no try you should've borrow the money and keep in safe place from him earlier two weeks ago since he was willing to lend it to you...since you're working try explain things to your boss ...person with money no dey stay.

it's online work so I can't just get the money from my "boss".

He's into this their crypto stuff. So he told me to wait for him to withdraw the money first which he'll do that Thursday (yesterday)

Unknown to me he has withdrawn it on Wednesday or so.

This na money of over 200k o.

And I needed only 40k.

I'm thinking of going to collect my laptop from him and selling it but how do I get a buyer between my now and Monday?

I'm just really weak this evening. Like guys I don't even know where to start from right now.

So, I have my exam next week starting from Monday.

My arrangement was with this my friend to pay my school fees.

The thing is I get paid on the 16th of this month, about a week+ from now.

So, I'll need money to pay my fees before my exams.

I made arrangements with him since he said he has funds with him.

This arrangement was about two weeks ago. He lends me the money and I pay my school fees and then pay him back on that 16th once I get my money.

I spoke with him physically last week and he assured me that he's with the money and I will get it on Thursday which is yesterday.

Since yesterday I've been trying to reach him and couldn't. Visited him multiple times but his brother kept telling me he's not around.

Today which is Friday, he came to my place this night and was telling me that he has spent the money on some clothes.

I just weak. I no even fit talk anything once he said that.

All that kept running through my mind was where do I start from?

I understand it's not my money. But why give me the assurance and then at the last minute just cut me off?

This is the same person that I gave my spare laptop to and he's currently using for his business because he couldn't afford to pay for it o.

He's the same student as much as myself and knows that this will mean extra year for me o.

How do I raise money between now and Monday eh?

If you can't help at least let me know. I knew he had money then and that was why I made the arrangements and now this?

This cut me really deep this evening honestly.

Video dey the link for my profile sha

This is terrible. Netflix always producing garbage woke movies

Kobojunkie:
The free benefits that a man gains from being married. For the average married Nigerian man, marriage provides him with his personal housemaid/chef/nanny/sex-worker/laundry woman/therapist/assistant/house manager, etc.— all of this out of a woman desperate to cling to the Mrs badge from which she finds her worth — all at a cost that is next to free when compared to the market value. It is not easy to give all of that up, even when he has sidechicks who he knows can leave him at the drop of a kobo.

I think that's a big assumption on your party.

Most men run their homes/apartment effectively and efficiently before bringing home any woman.

Most men live fairly comfortably, no need for therapy, housemaid or a sex worker before they got married.

In fact, they have no reason to get married because they were already getting the sex and whatever "imaginary" benefits you think they are getting from the woman before the marriage.

Instead, they wanna build a family and this is why they always get married.

The woman on the other hand is not so much interested in this family in most cases. All she want is to cling to a man for survival.

This I say is almost 90% of the cases.

Hence once they get a little money, the family is no longer their problem. Instead they want out because they want "happiness"

For someone who is not happy but staying in the marriage shows her happiness is hinged ontop the resources and not love for the man

dollyjoy:
I am certain that more women in Nigeria would leave their husbands if they were economically independent.

and yet we turn around and blame the men.

Yet we all know women are the problem. Just as you pointed out.

When a man is economically stable, he wants to provide and protect his family.

But once a woman is stable, she wants out of the marriage.

So, how's that the fault of the man?

And then you hear them telling the man, "go for therapy", "take her more on dates" "do the dishes"

And all the other nōnsense.

Yet behind our mind we know exactly what the problem is: the selfish nature of a woman.

One that made her marry a man simply because he can provide more and not because she care about him.

This same selfish nature let her abandon her family as soon as she can provide for herself without a care about how the separation will affect the husband or her kids.

Then you hear things like: "do what makes you happy", "she's chasing her happiness"

A woman's happiness does not involve the happiness of her kids or husbands or the family.

Just hers.

This selfish nature is what every law in the UK favors. It's what every influencers focus on in the UK.

Once she gets there she's bombarded with a daily dose of "happing without a husband or kids or living on child support"

And suddenly divorce becomes a shining medal for her.

Omalicious1:
The African mentality and tradition about marriage, can never work in an environment of western tradition and mentality. They will need to unlearn, learn and relearn the new ways.

no.

It's not the african idea of marriage. It's the toxic nature the women over there have built where they rather walk out instead of figuring things out when issues comes up.

I say this because, the white people over there are facing the same high divorce rate.

So much so that they are 1. Leaving their women behind and going to Asia as passport bros to get married

2. There are numerous podcasts blowing up encouraging the men not to get married.

So, your theory of African men mentality causing the problem does not hold water.

The problem is uncontrolled freedom one partner has over the other. And that uncontrolled partner is the female.

Hence they end up filing for divorce at any slightest provocation.

They know they will always win.

When you know you'll alway win in a game regardless of how you play, you stop working on yourself. You ignore redflags. You don't care about the algorithm no more. Even when a woman cheats, she will still win in court. Get the kids and child support while takin over the house you built.

How exactly do you expect them to put in the energy to make the relationship work? When leaving you is more lucrative than staying?

This is the problem.

Kobojunkie:
The laws in Nigeria also do same. No be general tradition for Nigeria say if a man gets tired of a woman, all he needs is to send her packing? Problem is religion and society makes it harder for me women to walk out of marriages in Nigeria.

so what keeps the Nigerian man in marriage despite the laws favoring him divorcing and yet can't keep the Nigerian woman in the UK once the law favours her divorce?

okomile:
If marriage is not working,better to separate
Nothing like have your mental health intact

Good luck to both of them

the problem nowadays is not mental health.

People are plain lazy at working out their problems.

Rather than sit down and talk things and look for ways to solve issues. They want to prove point that they can do without you.

It's a toxic thing we've done to ourselves.

PapaNnamdi:
Women live longer than men because "they" don't have a wife.

Your principal died because 😷
He lived longer when he was single don't you agree?

this is senseless so I won't bother debating on it.

Average life expectancy in Nigeria is 54 years old.

A Nigerian man on average is expected to live up to 54.3 years old before dieing.

Op, you're 45 years old. On average, you still have 9 years ahead of you.

This is on average. You could still make it up to 100 years old.

But let's be sincere with ourselves. Now is the time to really settle down.

I'm not saying spend your 2 million on a woman in marriage or wedding.

You can impregnate one and start living together. Start a family.

This is the best course of action I'll suggest.

Then proceed to learning a skill.

Business is risky right now but a skill will actually help you a lot.

I don't have an idea of the skill to learn but learning a skill will ensure regular food for the family.

Forget the hustling now. Focus on how to grow a family.

Forget "chasing money now" or the idea "making it big".

Focus on family and how to provide for the family you want to start.

I'm not saying family will attract blessings. But if the big dreams will not come at least work on the smaller dream of family before you loose both the small and big dreams.

Some people come into wealth very late in life and you might be the same but how will you enjoy your wife and children when you're 60 something and they are so little?

Please be strategic o.

PapaNnamdi:
If you have these type of friends, you will die of depression and poverty,

lolz.

I think some of you have decided to serve money all your lives without anything else.

And worst still, you'll die a pauper after all the money chasing.

It's almost laughable.

Money is not the be all of life. Most people will never have the lump sum of money in their bank account.

Heck, more than 90% of people will live paycheck to paycheck all their lives regardless of how hard or smart they hustle.

If you can sustain a family living paycheck to paycheck, do it.

If you want to wait until you have it all figured out, you'll miss out on the pleasures of having a family.

I have a principal then in high school. He waited until he was almost 50 before starting his family.

He rose from being a mere secondary school teacher until he became a vice principal and then the principal of the school before he started his family.

That was either in his 51 or 55 years of age. His wife gave birth to two boys.

She was a younger woman. I think about 6 or 7 years after his marriage, then we were already out of secondary when he died.

I remember this vividly because we contributed money to support the family at the time.

His first son was barely out of primary school. Now he has left all that hustling and family as a burden to someone else.

Did all that hustling payoff? Was he a rich man? Of course not.

This will be the reality of most people. Either they make it too late without much to show for it or they make it too late and won't enjoy the family they started.

The average life expectancy in Nigeria is 56 years at the upper limit.

On average, not wishing the op bad but a man in his 45 years is expected to have a life of 10 or 11 years ahead of him with all things being equal.

If op should marry today, his first child will be 15 years Old when he dies on average.

At 15, that Child will still be in secondary school with the younger ones following closely.

Now, assuming the op continues his hustle. He has been on earth for 45 years and has saved 2 million in his 45th year.

Now do the maths, do you think he'll suddenly amass a billion dollars in the next 15 years or he'll become super wealthy?

I understand that anything can happen. But let's be realistic.

Op you have been hustling. And you need to keep hustling. Never give up.

But if you've done something for 45 years, maybe try something new.

No one is saying Starting a family will attract blessings.

All I'm saying is starting a family now will put you in the best position to enjoy them and help them enjoy you too.

Because you'll have a longer time to spend with with them, take care of them and actually train your children in way you want and live a legacy.

Thank you.

lilsmart:
Please can you highlight the Rubbish

everything he posted is highlighted

Fiscus105:
If someone ask you, if you have robbed in the past won't you angry? Or you want to tell me, you are type which everyone can throw every insult on and still not angry.

no.

I won't get angry instead I'll want to know why or what prompt them to ask the question in the first place

And then make Changes.

It's not accusations for your loved one to ask you questions. What's important is why they are asking such questions.

Something prompted them. And it's good to know such because others might be thinking the same thing.

Again two people starting a relationship require trust. Trust is earned not given.

The man has done nothing wrong. If my woman is receiving calls from numerous guys I'll ask questions.

If one guy keeps calling her, I'll ask questions. If a lot of guys are hailing her on the street I'll ask questions.

If e reach your turn, no ask.

buttlover:
2m not bad. Try give girl belle na

I support this though.

45 you suppose don start family o. Not like there's a time line but from personal point of view I'll start a family.

If you won't die rich, at least let a family come from you.

Because na rubbish him dey post

64kent:
so i stared talking with this babe i liked and we seem to be doing well ......but i noticed that she gets different calls from different guys and the tone in which they speak often gets me worried and i had to ask this question ??
but no she is angry and not wanting to talk to me
help what do i do ?

na normal gaslightin tactics from them.

If she has not done it before she won't be getting angry

All these boastings mean nothing if all your political nonsense don't translate to solving real life issues.

I'm this. I'm that politically but are we enjoying anything from you?

See how everyone is looking serious like they don't know they are just going to loot the money.

It's too comical this country and to see they don't even laugh makes it funnier.

The state is expected to earn a total of 1.6 trillion.

The state will spend exactly that in the new budget.

No savings from it. Even more so, the state will borrow in the next year because it's typical that we will always spend above budget when executing the proposed project.

danvon:
If 2baba was American he would have been cancelled long time ago

do you need red pen?

Mirasteel:
Her choice, her life.

She can do whatever she likes.

she cannot do whatever she likes o.

No one can