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What's wrong in marrying someone who has had kids before? Nothing. If you love the man/woman, and you are open to the idea of marrying someone with kids, i think you'll be alright.

I personally I'm open to the idea. But we are gonna have some rules especially if his baby/child still has a mama living somewhere.

I don't even know what to say. I want to curse you and call you stupid, but hey, no be me you do bad thing to.

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On a more serious note, you are a F-u-c-k up. I mean come on now. U should never even allow a woman to talk bad about YOUR WIFE, talk more of agreeing to some of the things the woman says. Then u went further n showed your wife those awful words, another woman said about her.

Now sweetie, u have realized your mistakes, so i won't waste time pointing them out again. All im going to say to you is, STOP trying to defend yourself. Admit that u are a major f-u-c-k up, and you've screwed things up. Talk to your wife sincerely. Show her how much you love her.

Yes things can still work out. Pray, Be sincere with her, Let her know how SORRY you are. Dude, CRY! Don't fake the funk. These are things you should already be doing. I'm not saying that u should pretend to your wife.

Forget your ego and show your wife that u really love her. I didn't say TELL her that u love her. I said SHOW.

SOme men just . . . . Urgh! *shivers*

I mean you have(had) a woman that is beautiful, intelligent, has a fucking good job, helped u write a CV, helps financialy at home, and obvioulsy loves you, and u still had to mess up.  Jesus Fucking Christ, what else do u want?!

Why not just download directly from the website. I mean Microsoft website.

Then u wont have to worry about some fruit.

GermanLady:
she can start driving when she has her own money to pay for the expensive driving license ( about 1.500.- €uro) ,the car insurance and the gas for driving - and not one day sooner 

Say what? U pay 1500 euros for drivers lisence? Okay i don't know about that, but apart from my driving school fees which was 350 (which gave me my drivers permit), i think all i had to pay was 20 dollars to get my lisence at the drivers lisence office.

16 is just perfect for me oo. Start learning at 14/15. U get a car at 16 if u are a good child.

Okay Walelead. I know u miss NIgeria, u miss NEPA. But seriously darl, trust me, NEPA FAILURE aint a good thing. Im sure you were amongst the people that yelled "NEPA OLORIBURUKU" back then in naija whenever the power supply was interrupted.

Okay fair enough, u got to meet your neighbours when ur power supply was interrupted for TWO HOURS in the UK. But please don't let people that actually go through days and months without LIGHT in Nigeria hear you. They just might chop u raw.

I started driving at 15 with my learners permit. Got my lisence at 16. Same thing is gonna happen to my children.

Gotta love the last one.

_{@ iice, That used to be my signature. I love dat quote.}

Seun, are u being sarcastic?

All evil things in Life are NOT good. Come on now. Jesus Christ!

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@ Walelead, i understand that if not cos power supple was interrupted, you wouldn't have met your neighbours, but uhmm. . . u know u could have met them if you wanted to when there was power right?

U could say things happen when u least espect them, or say something like every dissapointement is a blessing.

Trust me, if they interrupt your power supply the way they do in Nigeria, You'll hate everything and u will no longer say NEPA failure is a good thing.

Just cause it happens once in a blue moon - - - u don't really know wat not having 'light' is.

Now i perfectly understand what you are saying, that u wouldn't know ur neighbours if not for what happened. But please NEPA failure is not a GOOD thing. Not in NIgeria at least. Noo, it's not a good thing.

Okay sweetie. It's hard to hear, but have you ever thought deeply that maybe he's just not that into you?  

Now you've been dating for a year and 3 months. Do u know his views on marriage? As he ever said things like he'd  love you to be his wife someday? Does he give hints that he'll wanna marry you? Do u know whether or not he's in support of marriage?

I espect that you know all these stuffs. I mean u should have in one time or the other talked about family.

You might already know the answers to this questions, but maybe u are just afraid to admit that dude just aint that into you. If he loves you so much, excuse me but he'll give u hints that he wants you to be his wife someday.

Now u have people already asking you to marry them. WHy not start up a conversation about this 'marriage issue' with your boyfriend? At least know his views on it. He might not be 'ready' to settle down. BUt at least he should let you know that he wants to be the one to marry you.

Don't Threaten him by saying "if you don't wanna marry me, i already have a whole bunch of guys asking for my hand and leg in marriage". Now , that's just wrong.

@ husband a.ka. goodguy.

Thanks sweetie. I know im not getting OLD. Im young. U always know how to make me feel better. Muaaah.
Ohh really uhn. 17 days after. I no even count am oo. lol

@ Christino, well, my husband said im getting younger, so i dnt care what u say.
Okay i admit, im getting older. ANd my 18 is on d way. Hmm, i love d sound of 18.

@ nyceguy
Welcome to NL. Enjoy ur stay sweetie. And thanks for the birthday wish.

haha, i love the 69 one. lol

Am i really old? *sobs* *Cries* OMG im OLD!!!!

Yes a man can be raped by a woman.

Infact a teenage girl can even rape a grown ass man.

Just that, this is mostly impossible if the man is in his normal senses and if he's not cripple, or tied down.

Need i say more?

Picture please.

Christino darling. Im now 17. This is two birthday wishes joined in one thread.


Thanks alot though. I appreciate this.

Oracle:
That will make it 3face

Abi now!! Word!

Well okay oo, the guy just depositing sperm everywhere.

Ohh come on. This things happen.

Coincedence?

Thanks alot Teezy. Muaah!

Im taking my boobs and ass and pretty face to the grave, why would they wanna fight for those?   lol, J/K

On a serious note, i dont think so.

Haaaa Nike. Now ur nails are long? U stopped biting them uhn? Ohh u learning well well from me.

My nails are Long and clean too. lol, no more biting.

WOW raymand!

It's the same bible. Same words.

UHmm Okay? Celebs get dissed EVERYDAY.

I actually like that Jones lady. hehehe, but that's rude and mean. WHy she hating?

ABi ooo!!! WHose breast is he sucking now? He doesn't even remember how his mother's breast taste jare.

lol. . . . Good joke!

Keep repping Naija.

Good to hear that we still have patriots.

Well tell ur child that no one will hala her oo. lol

Ohh you have a bad mind sir.

LanreDaMan:
it's murdeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

uhhh---ohhhh WRONG!

It ain't ur wife and bestfriend. This is girlfriend.

I need an angel -- can't remember the dude's name. Ohh wait ruben something