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I dont really think your gurl is still interested in that relationship,i still can't understand the reason why cheated and after doing that,she's still ignoring you,i think she's going out with someone else.


I think she's just taking advantage of the luv you have for her,i don't think she's worth all this trouble,even though,ladies tend to be driven by pleasure,i still feel its wrong for your gurl to start acting weird because you can't afford to buy her a car.


Nevertheless,you can still try to sit her down and talk to her,and don't make the mistake of correcting her rather you two should rub minds,listen to her n c if she's got anything thats bothering her,then you can draw a more reasonable conclusion,you will then knw if you can hold on or move ahead.Gud luck.

i dont think there's a big deal in that but you guyz should keep thta to yourself n dont discuss it with others.

thats not a very good thing to do.

This is kinda ambiguous,are you jealous or she's very arrogant.

If she's very arrogant,i don't think the best thing is just getting a better job,you also need to dump her.

But before you that ,you need to assess yourself and see if you are not the one with low self esteem.

Awwwwwww,thats really depressing,

i think you really need to Behind up a lil bit as people have advised earlier and don't dont raise an argument because of this,try n observe him and c if he's still interested in the relationship.

What the hell does he need that for??

I think two or three is cool.

McDoe:
Should I say that poverty or cost of living has affected a lot of people's mindset. To me, having enough babies is not a crime. One thing is fundamental here. If our parents were to have just one or two babies, some of us wouldn't be enjoying our present lives. I believe what we should be concerned about is how God can bless us to raise a good family irrespective of the size. However, a bloated family size co-rellates with hardship..

Not everybody that decides to keep to few kids are poor.

soulpatrol:
peeps, i think we need to also come up with a new topic "Do Husbys Deserve a slap or Three to Caution Them"? how about that? cowards!

I agree with that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ABOMINATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Its really bad to think of doing such a thing,can't you just ignor her when she's doing annoying stuff,ladies you better run away from guyz like this.

not all Nigerians but some

I dont bloody care,i can hug n kiss ma guy @ anywhere,anytime n any day
I just turn deaf hears to wot pple say,but rmemba its got to be a serious relatinship.

am afraid but seem like your gurl is really serious abiut that,i suggest you visit her talk it through probably she's got some complaints.

ijogbon:
@Luxoire

Let me give you a gift.

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Answer every question and answer truthfully, it will predict if you guys are perfect for each other. Really creepy.

Then send it to your boyfriend with your own modifications.

Happy hunting.

I feel you,have done this for many people though but guyz aint that interested in stuffs like that n they feel in lotta wrong info n can be misleadin somtyms.

Sounds like he is cheating but you need to be double sure before you opt of the relationship,i think you need to try n have a face to face discussion after your exams,long distance relationship can be difficult but i think you need to travel to Scotland and see your guy.Then you can draw reasonable conclusions from that discussion,guyz are not alwez very reliable but after you still need exercise patience n try to understand your guy.All the best and good luck in your exam.

this trend is not meant for under aged people like me.I need to run oooooooooooooooooo,

I don't think i will want to date an ugly guy not for any reason,i think you should go for the guy whose beauty you really appreciate,don't settle for something else,if your guy is ugly,you aint going to fancy him after a while,look for a guy that's alright n that wont cheat on you not because he's ugly but because your feelings matters to him.

This is so complicated,i dunno which of them to pick,when am experienced,i will come back oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo,

my attitude i think,thats what i think makes people feel attracted to me,but everyother thing about me is still cool.

Every thing has its own beauty.Every lady is beautiful in her own way,it all depends on your own point of view,if you think the lady is beautiful,then its cool,too others, she may not be, but one word,beautiful is absolutely different from hot,

Its not necessary,it all depends on how you get to know each other.

I think you need to ask the gurl whom she really loves,or else she will end up cheating if you go out with her,worst still,i guess it's goin to be a long distance realtionship.

I think i will appreciate a masters degree,because i will definitely be a degree holder if not a masters holder before geting married.

Well,i think it is in two ways,at times,i think situation demands for this,i still think a woman can quit her job for the sake of her home,because your job can never mend your home if broken and if you loose your home,your job will never bring you so much happiness.
Its worth looking into this critically,women shouldn't just get it into their head that if her husband asked her to resign,they are doing it for ego or one useless reasons,you need to see reasons with them.
It might be for the sake of the kids or any other important reason,you need to sit down and talk about it.No responsible husband will ask his wife to resign without a reason.The most important bit is for you to look before you leap,make sure you're married to a responsible man.

Its alright if the husband is responsible and will take good care of his wife.

However,no husband should force his wife to do that,it should be within the wife's consent but if the woman really needs to resign and she's not ready to,you can always make her see reasons with you or she may learn in a difficult way,

There was this story of a woman who lost her home because fo job.Its no new thing,we've  all heard stoties of husbands impregnating househelps and stuffs,be wise,quitting your job or if you must work,consider a job that gives you time for your home,its important.Or consider a private business.

It is advisable to forget about the gurl,its a lost battle.

Not all guyz are arrogant,i try my very best to avoid arrogant guyz and ladies still need to respect their guyz.

she probably doesnt like you but are you sure she actually visited that guy or it was a make up story.And the guy might be kinda close to their family.You need to clarify all this.And one more point,dont conclude that she loves you.

Search for ladies in the right place,we all have ladies that are not after money,we still have those ladies somewhere.

I think true love still exist,keep an open heart and you will definitely find one.

to young to post on this topic, i need to leave now ooooooooooooooooo

I dont think i can cope with that though,

i can cope with drinkin,not wit smokin

I think you should go back to your excess,,the major source of your problem is distance,talk things out,i think he really feel something for you.