Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 1:54pm On May 27, 2015 |
OK. Do you know anyone here? Where would u be staying? Looking forward to seeing you and your wife. Safe journey catalano: Yes we have 1 yr visa to expire in december 2015. I do not have any Doc, let get in first. we will be coming to Toronto. A day to our departure i will get in touch with you for further assistance, hope you will not mind since i wil be coming to Canada for the 1stime. all i need is good counsel. thanks about d airline. |
Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 4:41pm On May 26, 2015 |
I guess you have gotten visa. Any airline is really ok.as far as they are.coming to Canada and the city in Canada you are going like KLM, Ethiopian airline, BA. 7k is good and also mention to them that you have your cards in case. Do you have doctor already and where to stay?
[quote author=catalano p
ost=34111365]Hotstepper: That is not true. People who weren't allowed inside are those that lied and it also happens in the US as well. A family friend of mine I helped just came in yesterday with her hubby nd even da customs officer told dem he's happy they said the truth cuz a lot of Nigerians will come and lie when it is obvious why they came. It is not illegal to have a baby in Canada just have ur money, paid accommodation nd doctors appointment nd you are good to go. My family friend applied in Jan nd was given 4 yrs visiting visa. She was asked if the embassy in Nigeria knew she was preggy when she applied nd she said no cuz it was an online application and nowhere to input it. The key is to be truthful cuz ur visa application is in their system nd they will pull it is once they swip your passport. At 7monthd plus, r u sure any airline would agree to take u?
Please my wife EDD is 1st week in August and we are planning to come in June but with ur last statement as per airline, can you suggest any air line can take us cos am about booking. And confirmd 7k CAD cash at d port of entry. thanks.[/quote] |
Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 1:39pm On May 20, 2015 |
I wish you a positive outcome. When u get to the airport and they ask, just like my family friend, just say there was no spot that asked if u r preggy or not. Just be truthful, Datz all Canada wants Goldie10: Hey everyone, finally submitted my online application for renewal of my visa.
will keep you guys posted on outcome. Feel free to ask questions on visiting visa application for online submission.
its pretty straight forward and like hotstepper mentioned there's no section for stating if one is pregnant or not. However there's an additional optional section for any explanation in support of your application where you can upload an explanation letter if you want to. |
Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 1:38pm On May 20, 2015 |
Oh nice Tvegas: Coming with wife and baby. Lovely and friendly city. Stayed close to CN tower during the last visit. Montreal has a unique aura though. Lots of underground walkways.  |
Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 3:50pm On May 16, 2015 |
Nice. Lovely cities. U will enjoy Toronto. Who r u coming with ? Tvegas: Toronto and most likely Montreal. |
Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 12:38pm On May 16, 2015 |
Which part of Canada will u be visiting? Tvegas: Hhhmmm following the thread.
We should be visiting Canada this year. Will investigate more on this and drop feedback. We need more participants to make this lively. |
Family › Re: How Much Should I Give Her For Monthly Upkeep by Hotstepper(f): 12:44pm On May 14, 2015 |
Thank God it ended in praise. It is always good for couples to communicate because it solves a lot of problems. Good job and may God continue to bless you financially dollarlander: @Dyt
MrsOJ and @Dyt, I want to thank these characters that were involved in supplying real life stories of theirs and others that contributed wisely. Someone said Nairaland is not the place to get solution to my question, but I want to tell that person that he/she was wrong.
I think Nairaland is the best place to get solution to issues like these because you avoid telling your stories to people, family, friends or Pastors that know you and can use your case to spite you in your presence or absence.
I don't know MrsOJ and she doesn't know me. She may even be my neighbour but the e-partition between us makes it easy to share my mind with you guys.
So, after all you peoples ideas, bashings and wise suggestions I sat down with my wife and I realised that I need to do more, it is not easy. In my mind I decided to add extra 40k to her monthly allowance but I told her 20 which she greatly appreciated and was very happy about it.
There are problems that are easily solvable if due diligence and round table solution are applied. I was able to understand what I did not see that were happening. And I also see that, since I have been getting pay rise to be able to reach 500k salary, which is still continous, my wife also deserves pay rise.
So people, thank you very much for your input God bless you. And the person that is collecting below 200k, you will be promoted to 1million naira per month. All of you will experience economic turn around that will change your stories for good. It is already happening, those who stole Nigeria money are already returning them and courts that will accellerate probation of corrupt politicians and government officials are being setup by the President elect to collect substancial stolen funds. Ah!!! Patience Jonathan da'ran(she is in trouble).
Thank you guys God bless.
Thread continues please, don't close it let others come here to learn and drop their first class experience. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 1:05am On May 13, 2015 |
Amen! Thanks and bless your home too bukatyne: Happy Birthday to Mr. Hotstepper & Mr. cococandy.
God bless your homes and make your homes even more blissful
Long life and prosperity. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 1:03am On May 13, 2015 |
Amen. Thanks and God bless thorpido: Happy birthday to your hubby.He is my brother's birthday mate.May the love between you both continue to wax stronger and stronger. A blessed new year to him. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 1:02am On May 13, 2015 |
Wow! So cool. Many more years to them quote author=cococandy post=33680708]yours and mine share the same birthday. That's nice  Hbd to our loving hubbies.  [/quote] |
Family › Re: A Heartless Woman Dumped This Baby Latelast Night (pics) by Hotstepper(f): 12:22pm On May 12, 2015 |
[Nigerians sef. So it wouldn't have mattered if it was a girl.
quote author=WukedP post=33656935]Baby boy for that matter[/quote] |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 3:05am On May 12, 2015 |
Amen! Thank you Aunty Osisi herself babyosisi: May Almighty God continue to bless and prosper this young man who won your heart May God add unto him many many more years of good health and keep him loving you. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 2:50am On May 12, 2015 |
Today is 'Obim's ( my Heart) Birthday. Please say a prayer for him that God will continue to bless, guide and protect him for me. Thank you |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 8:44am On May 11, 2015 |
U got that right lol thorpido: Happy mother's day to you.You are a natural lepa.I bet you don't have to do any workout for you to return to shape after giving birth. Good for you. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 8:43am On May 11, 2015 |
Thanks! At least it got the thread going small small again hehhehe gleatz: @Hotstepper Yipppeyyyyyyyyyyy, I did not miss dis one. Keep being you. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 8:42am On May 11, 2015 |
Thank you Phema: ^^^^Same to you dear.
Nice bod!!  |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 3:44am On May 11, 2015*. Modified: 8:44am On May 11, 2015 |
Happy Mothers Day to all the lovely mothers here. May God continue to give us wisdom and all it takes to raise our kids |
Family › Re: How Much Should I Give Her For Monthly Upkeep by Hotstepper(f): 12:48am On May 11, 2015 |
When my hubby thought I spend a lot on feeding, I started writing down every single thing I buy even if na 5 naira and at the end of the month, I will present it to him. Infact, there was a time he went to the market to buy stuff and came back.and told.me na wah oo, everything is so expensive and feeding went from 30k to 50k cuz sometimes i.will put 1 fish instead of 2. At a point he started saying ' I won't suffer to make money and suffer to eat it' lol. Even at that, he has bought lands and will soon start building yet he's training his siblings nd taking care of his mum.
I.dont think any woman won't want good thing for her family like owning their own house etc. I still think you have to discuss with your wife. Mind you, I cook soup everyday cuz no light where we are etc.
We also have education fund for our kids for uni with put money every month. I don't get any allowance nd it's from the feeding that I use to do my hair but then we don't live in expensive and big city |
Family › Re: How Much Should I Give Her For Monthly Upkeep by Hotstepper(f): 1:25am On May 10, 2015 |
Why don't you communicate well with her? Lay out monthly expenses and the two of you will go through it. If you are in Naija, 50k for a family is four is ok if not enough. I will use myself as an example.
I was not working and only my hubby works and it was just myself, him and our son of less than 2 yrs old but 50k was given to me for food. Food item increases everyday and now with fuel scarcity, market women will increase the price of food stuff as transportation cost also increased .
He also provided fuel as power was in my house 24/7. I mean, we had all the sizes of generator plus Lester, inverter and rechargeable fan and he wasn't making up to you plus have family members he supports, although no school fees to be paid for my son but was for his siblings in uni. Etc.
Each family is peculiar so you need to lay out things with your wife. U can also buy inverter if you don't have any yet and rechargeable fan as it will serve her during the day. If possible, take a trip to the market too etc.
It's well |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Students In Canada: How Do You Survive? by Hotstepper(f): 11:30am On May 09, 2015 |
Don't pay him kobe and he is not a representative anything kykybfo: hi Guru's,please i need your urgent advise,i just received offer of admission from durham college,and their rep here in naija is asking i pay 8300dollars to book my seat,if not that if the embassy contacts the school,they will say i didnt book a seat with them,the money i have now is what am supposed to use to boost my account,what do u advise pls. |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 10:31pm On May 08, 2015 |
Amen! God bless you too kenny987: It's really good to see/read of good relationships/marriages. Hotstepper, may ur home remain blessed! For those in abusive relationships...hmm, it's tough but with d pieces of advice already here, I'm certain it will turn out better. There's no excuse for any man/husband to pour food on his wife so there's no reason to even remotely imagine or suggest that the abused woman in this regard is not without blame or does it mean she had it coming then? Mbanu! No way! |
Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 4:05pm On May 07, 2015 |
They accept naija test here and depending on how far you are, some tests can't be done again anyway and they go ahead and ask you to do necessary test. My family friend came at 8 months and it's only 1 test that she did Goldie10: Hi Nita2013,
Please can you ask your boss about more details of her birth in Calgary? Doctor, Hospitals, what tests were accepted from Naij etc.
I'll appreciate your response.
Thanks |
Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 4:03pm On May 07, 2015 |
I am in Toronto. And she used Humber River, the Finch site.
It will be much better for u to get naija travel document for just 1 way cuz it will be much easier for u. A lot of mess goes on at da naija embassy. My family friend got hers within 3 days so she will get naija passport for her son in naija.
quote author=Goldie10 post=33501952]@Hotstepper thanks. What city are you in? what hospital did your family friend use? Sorry if it seems im nosey.
How about getting Nigerian Passport for the baby? which will be faster a visa on the Canadian passport or a Nigerian Passport.[/quote] |
Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 3:53am On May 07, 2015 |
Unfortunately I do not know anything about hospitals in that city but you are lucky that your sister stays there. You can get passport in 2 days sef once you pay for express, under than that, u can get it within a week. Goldie10: Hello All,
Been following this thread for a bit, like someone mentioned we should make it more active.
I found the below, it could help those of you still considering hiding your pregnancies.
http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/resources/tools/temp/visa/processing/birth.asp
@Hotstepper thanks for your updates, I'm going to be asking you a few questions if you dont mind.
first do you have any information on doctors in Calgary? I am currently looking for a doctor there as that's where im interested in birthing.
I know there are only 4 hospitals in Calgary Foothill, Rockyview, South Health Campus and Peter Lougheed Centre.
My sister has booked an appointment with her family doctor to ask on my behalf but I just wanted to know if you had any info on ObyGyns there.
Secondly do you have an idea what the process of securing the baby's passport is like? duration, process etc.
I'll appreciate your feedback.
thanks |
Travel › Re: Giving Birth In Canada by Hotstepper(f): 11:06pm On May 06, 2015 |
No they are not. Benefits is only given to kids who live in.Canada whether their parents r citizens or not ozzy2: Hello all, this is a long awaited topic. Pls let's keep it alive. Thanks for you contributions. @ hot stepper are canadian born children to non canadian citizens entitled to any kind of monetary monthly benefit? |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 9:27pm On May 05, 2015 |
In my next world, I will still be a virgin as that's how God intended it to be. I have no regrets MojAyo: dats why its good to marry with some sex experience,I can't imagine two virgins trying to d thing without experience |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 3:14pm On May 05, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 2:40pm On May 05, 2015 |
Lol lol! 1 more by the special Grace of God. I will now hand the baton to the next person thorpido: Okay o.That 6yrs will be after you have had all your babies. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Woman Among Rescued Illegal Migrants Gives Birth On Mediterranean Sea by Hotstepper(f): 1:00pm On May 05, 2015 |
That's a miracle child as God kept her mum alive. She will be an Italian citizen |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 12:34pm On May 05, 2015 |
Thanks! Foto don disappear till 6 yrs to come lol U came.late lol
[quote author=thorpido
post=33439371]Hotstepper,ebe bu foto? Yours is a beautiful story.[/quote] |
Family › Re: My Wife Just Put To Bed by Hotstepper(f): 3:48am On May 05, 2015 |
Big congrats. May he be a source of joy and happiness in your family. What's his name? |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 3:34am On May 05, 2015*. Modified: 6:22am On May 05, 2015 |
Lol. This thread is the real deal. Daughters hair @ 6 months babyosisi: Elderly kwa E don reach like that? Efemenaxy please come o Insult don enter 
Just kidding |