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RomanceRe: A Man must Either Drink, Smoke Or Womanise. by humurphia(m): 12:49am On Jun 06, 2021
For me.. it is food i like
Technology MarketRe: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by humurphia(m): 9:46am On May 26, 2021
My 10 kva elepaq petrol generator makes a lot of noise. Very loud than usual.. pls what could be the problem
RomanceRe: How Do You Feel Been Alone Or Single by humurphia(m):
Just ended a long distance relationship not to long ago and to be honest i feel happy and at peace. I don't have to worry about calling , settling fight that exhausts precious time.

Devoting my broke ass to make someones child happy.

There's more time now to formulate my plans and hustle .

Although genuine love is a beautiful thing as i did experience ,i don't think i will be entering a serious relationship for now. Just vibes, hustle and insha allah for now
RomanceRe: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by humurphia(m):
Never ever cheated. But its all in the past now
FamilyRe: Haire Thermocool Freezer Defrosting Fast by humurphia(m): 3:33pm On Feb 28, 2021
musabayokanu:
Hello Nairalanders,
I bought this Thermocool Deep freezer HTF-319H december and I noticed it defrost in a matter of 4hrs despite after running for a whole day with everything inside completely blocked.

I have complained to the seller and their responds is that because I have some cans of bottle water n two plates of food is the problem. That if I load the fridge it will definitely retain the d ice for a long time.

Please people using this same type of fridge is it true? Or should I return it since its still under warranty.

Thank you
Same problem here. I got the 319h 1 week ago and i noticed it defrost fast in 3hrs. How did u manage the situation? please as i am thinking of returning
CelebritiesRe: Ernest Asuzu Now Healthy As He Is Spotted At Roban Stores Awka- PICTURE by humurphia(m): 9:07pm On Jan 27, 2021
KingAzari:
Dude is a serial beggar, alcoholic and a squanderer. He will soon be back but dead this time.
hmm.and it did. One cant cheat life
FoodRe: How To Make Kilishi, A Northern Nigerian Beef Jerky (Pix, Video) by humurphia(m): 8:52pm On Jan 15, 2021
angelfallz:
Those of you that say the preparation is so gross, why not see it as an entrepreneurial opportunity.
Get in touch with those who are into kilishi making, offer to improve the preparation process and hygiene.

That would be one of the selling points of your product, it's hygienically prepared.
Exactly my thoughts.
FamilyRe: Man And His Friends Storm Pastor's House, Demand For The Car His Wife Gave Him by humurphia(m): 8:39pm On Dec 27, 2020
Wahala
Car TalkRe: How To Get Your Car Out Of Mud In Nigeria by humurphia(m): 5:26pm On Dec 14, 2020
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RomanceRe: Relationships are Overrated by humurphia(m): 2:54pm On Dec 14, 2020
TemmyT002:
Some women actually add value to some men's lives. They help them with business, advice, protection, welfare, and so on.
The problem is that they are not many.
You are ranting because you haven't met ladies like that.
Pele my dear.
Where would one meet them? At shiloh?
PhonesRe: Tecno Camon 16 Premier Vs Oppo A9 : The New Against The Old by humurphia(m): 4:30pm On Sep 18, 2020
Guess what people? crappy Infinix hot 10 will soon be released . Like i don't get, hot 7 was released last year January..
Technology MarketRe: Come here for ALL gaming consoles and accessories. Ps4, Xbox, Switch & Laptops by humurphia(m): 12:03pm On Aug 01, 2020
MCMAYOR, ur WHATSAPP HAS BEEN COMPROMISED. WHAT'S THE PRICE FOR the PS4 slim 1TB BUNDLE?..
CrimeRe: Fulani Herdsmen Attack Kajuru In Kaduna, Kill Many (Graphic Pics, Video) by humurphia(m):
From the look of the names, these were mostly Christians targeted cry
Christianity EtcRe: Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian by humurphia(m): 12:41pm On Feb 02, 2020
what is ubi Franklin's picture doing there?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Drok Energy Nigeria Limited by humurphia(m): 9:18pm On Dec 23, 2019
Do u work there now?
PhonesRe: S8 Plus For Sale!!! by humurphia(m): 8:54pm On Apr 18, 2019
Ssthorm:
New s8 plus for sale. Black. 4gb ram, 128gb rom,dual sim

Price 145k..
Still available?
PhonesRe: S8 Plus For Sale!!! by humurphia(m): 8:52pm On Apr 18, 2019
Still available?
Technology MarketRe: New Samsung S8 Plus Dual Sim 128GB Needed ! by humurphia(op): 8:20pm On Apr 18, 2019
If u have..let me know
Technology MarketRe: New Samsung S8 Plus Dual Sim 128GB Needed ! by humurphia(op): 10:51am On Apr 11, 2019
Sellfish:
I have one month used s8+ duos Gold Color....no scratch on it

Bought from Samsung Nigeria....

4gig ram and 64 gig memory

Complete with accessories minus earphones...

145k
. No thanks,its just the 128GB version i need .
Technology MarketNew Samsung S8 Plus Dual Sim 128GB Needed ! by humurphia(op):
If you have a brand new Samsung S8 Plus with 128GB for sale .. just let me know .
Technology MarketRe: UK Used 128gb 6gram Samsung Galaxy S8 Plus Dual Sim 140k by humurphia(m): 7:02pm On Mar 24, 2019
available ?
Technology MarketRe: Huawei P10 Plus 128gb by humurphia(m): 2:11pm On Dec 06, 2018
110k?
CareerRe: Meet Daniel Adekunle – Security Guard Turned Software Developer! (Photos, Video) by humurphia(m): 5:34am On Sep 29, 2018
FarahAideed:
Nice one but I hope he know how to code because many Nigerian programmers are just thrash
In what way do you claim for most to be trash?
RomanceRe: How Can I Become A Prostitute In London by humurphia(m): 1:04am On Sep 06, 2018
Learn how to speak correct Queens English
TravelRe: Nibo-Umuawulu-Awgbu Road Cuts Into Two After Heavy Rainfall In Anambra by humurphia(m): 7:50pm On Sep 05, 2018
Donald95:
Wahala dey o

Person fit dey inside house the fuc.k his wife, next thing is that he is inside water all of a sudden. Na wa o
Cant the person be eating food
HealthRe: Rats, Mosquitoes Or Bed Bugs: Which Is The Most Annoying To Have In The Room? by humurphia(m): 10:24am On Aug 24, 2018
three of em at the same time!
RomanceRe: 5 Signs That She Likes You by humurphia(m):
Dd
CelebritiesRe: Blackface Sues Wizkid And Banky W For Copyright Infringement by humurphia(m): 5:51am On Aug 17, 2018
The truth is that ,this blackface of a guy is going through the stages of ACRIMONY
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by humurphia(m):
HARDDON I really need help on a pressing thought


A girl i planned dating in school ...distance got us apart because i had to go for IT in another state..We called on phone often ,afterwards i wasn't feeling the vibe she was giving(she missed my call and didn't call back or acknowledge till after a week and some other stuff.i felt she wasnt investing hard enough) so i stopped.


i remember i genuinely forgot about her when i stopped calling .i was moving on.but when another guy found her.. i felt the feeling rushing back.

after a month later, i found out she was in a young relationship already . she messaged me on whatsapp days later ,but i didnt really chat with her,so the chat died .

i later got in touch because my feelings for her kind of came back .and then we talked about why we stopped talking. According to her i didn't make my intentions known to her(i didnt tell her i wanted her for keeps)..she wasnt sure if i really wanted her again because we stopped talking (but she knew i wanted her)..Nd my - i really dont give a fu** attitude made her stop calling and me saying annoying words like " i dont think this relationship could work that easily.(lol) and some other life threatening relationship killing words"


she then asked "if we could still be friends?"..i told her "no. she asked why .i told her i have enough,i didnt plan being friends with you" .anything she was saying just flew past my other ear..



i need advice on what i did wrong and handled the situation from the onset ..what i feel i truly did wrong was how i used those annoying words on her.i didnt mix most of them with wit and humour.it was like i sounded bloody serious.i used my own hands to destroy the attraction i built and put her unknowingly in the Friend zone.i was just saying the opposite of what i felt for her.the tone of my voice during calls .i made her feel angry and sad but i didn't blend the happy talk well.it wasnt balanced .With how i started to talk she felt i wasn't interested and decided to move on(lock up) .

my question:
1: with the way this relationship died and how i could prevent it in the future with another . what did i do wrong? did i over do the bad guy?
2.what was her aim of chatting me up after months of not talking on the phone even when a guy was already on her case in school ?

3.deep down i still want her to be close because of her personality(she is a good-bad girl )so can a friends with benefit stuff work with her like she agreed? close but not to close? in her life but not too deep? .i still want her attracted to me .
RomanceRe: Am I Also Mentally Disabled by humurphia(m):
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