Some people arguing like total a-holes on this thread, a simple googling of Nigeria's topography, relief and drainage map would have given a clue to why parts of these states in the Niger Delta region are flooded when excess water is released from a dam in Cameroun
Wittyglam: Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.
Be friends with their friends. A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.
Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.
If this is the type of family planning she did in the youtube video below then I believe it is safe for her...
Just this morning, I was given 1.5k as tfare to go look for work and after all said and done, I was left with only 600. Cos I really went to a lot of places.
But the onus of the matter is that I just bought 2 #50 biscuits (#100) some minutes ago. And I'm now left with only #500 for tomorrow.
I'm afraid I will finish the 5h on biscuits this night. I don't know what to do.
nlfpmod mynd44
Reminds me of one blue muppet called "Cookie Monster" of Sesame street.
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Blessedmercy8: Hmm.. he's 40 and I'm already 41. When are we now going to start having children if we still delay?
No wonder the question, there is pressure due to age too.
Apart from his monthly salary of 100k, how much do you earn? (if you also have a paying job)
At this point in time, na teamwork tingz, not parasitic dependence on only his salary for your upkeep and your future children, my advice is to go and learn some skills if possible(if you haven't), either vocational or online(work from home).
Jennyclay: It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!
God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!
Some years from now, you will join those ladies in prayer houses to sing "carry me dey go my husband house" , you'll totally forget about your current attitude/character and settle for any man that comes your way. Keep observing...
My advice, even though I suspect that this is a scam(not well-planned cos of the 12days interval and sudden involvement of the mother) go do the DNA Test(CVS test in particular) as soon as possible if you can afford it, don't wait for 9months to clarify this issue, conduct the test as soon as possible.
Make sure it is done at a neutral/random hospital where she and her mother doesn't know anybody there o.(To prevent tampering with the DNA tests or result)
Also during this period don't tell your wife-to-be anything until after the DNA result.
The earlier the better.
If you escape this one, I believe say you go lockup and face your wife-to-be except you be okpo-erong like my friend Austin then...
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Picktrust: Good day all, please judge this matter and see if what my brother is doing to me is fine or not. I also need your advice.
I live with my senior brother. We are all managing life because we are struggling. He sell for person in the market while I am an apprentice. Last year November, I started learning fashion design and I am barely 3 months. So we agreed I will be the one refilling cooking gas always and buy other little things like salt, pepper, soap and so on while he'll buy most of food items.
Since I cannot sew well yet, money does not flow my way so common but there is how my boss will send me to go deliver work to someone and the person will dash me N1000 or N2000 sometimes for my effort. Another way I make money is by amendment of clothes when i have. That is how I make little little money for survival. I have been refilling the gas as far as money is in my hand but this January, things are very tough that I hardly see N100 especially the last two weeks.
Because I don't have money to refill gas, my brother is now eating from outside or sometimes borrow a neighbour gas to cook noodles and he will eat alone without minding if I have eat or not like what happened yesterday which i was very hungry, saying when I have money to refill gas, we will start cooking in the house again and I will eat. I have try to tell him I don't have money these days but he is saying I'm hiding my money and be looking at his face. This is coming from a blood brother who is my senior.
Note: I am 23, SSCE holder. I decided to learn the trade after my attempts to go to university failed financially and otherwise.
Please is this alright because am beginning to keep malice with him.
Honestly your brother is a shitty person but don't let that bother you. You can turn this gas problem of yours into a business idea. At least you being here on Nairaland shows that you're literate enough to implement what I'm about to suggest to you. Go and research on Biogas, how the biodigester can be built for domestic purposes using a couple of drums, PVC pipes and bicycle tubes. You can even upscale it for gas refilling business by getting a compressor and valves just like Vulcanizers and be selling it at your own rate for profit.
Edit: Sorry I didn't drop links for you to check it out. I don't know if it is allowed. Here is one:
Rachel98: Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.
Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!
What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up. I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.
I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.
Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.
Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??
This might be a psychological problem for your boyfriend. Do you squirt heavily on bed? I know guys that can't sleep on damp beds even if you invert the mattress. Then there is a condition called Hyperosmia where one can experience strong discomfort and even illness from certain smells such as body sweat, pussy juice and even certain deodorants etc. So maybe any of these OR maybe it is one of the conditions he was given to by one baba he met in a shrine.