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Guys, which do you think is better for the Nigerian environment?
A smart Android TV? Or the combination of a LED TV + Android TV box?

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Different strokes for different folks.
Certain parts of Lekki is actually quite habitable and serene, if you have the funds to support the humongous rent, that is. Otherwise, find serene places close to the Island, like Yaba, if you work there. I stay in Berger axis and it's cool for me as I work from home.

Our generation has been told a lie about sex.

Sexual abstainance is honourable before God. And if you've fallen before, no one condemns you, there is grace for you to rise again.

Sex is 100% worth waiting for.

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What you get is a reflection of what you surround yourself with.

Above all, marriage works. And for every dysfunctional union, there are numerous functional marriages. I am a testimony & you can be one too

LOL. nice copy tho.

Sexual immorality is a sin against your body. Stop now while you can bro. Don't let your erection be your direction

The quoted is a good saying. Hear.

The truth is your life lacks results and it further frustrates you to know that your mum of all people is rubbing it in. One thing to do, stop blaming your father or mother (or whoever) for your present predicament. Take responsibility and make sincere deliberate efforts to improve your self worth & outputs.
Also, work on your anger. One legit way is to give your life to Christ & let the Holy Spirit help you.

COOL10:
. I wasn't going to say anything at first but seeing how judgmental people can be with their comments I decided to drop something here. First of all,calm down. Trust me when I say I understand how remorseless and inconsiderate females can be when they think u'r of little or no beneficial value to them anymore. Urs is ur mother,mine was my mum and my sisters. Here's what u should do: Stop entertaining her by reacting to her tantrums and negative speeches(it will be hard but u can and will overcome). About hitting her,well if u do,that's a burden u will carry for a long time and u will feel bad not necessarily because u felt she didn't deserve it but because u'll feel and know that ignoring her would have been a lesser burden to carry. To y'all blaming the guy for feeling bad to the point of frustration(which could lead to a lot of things including suicide) which is as a result of his mother's constant degradation of his person,u'r not only validating his mum's actions,u'r also being bias and I got a simple reply to y'all:NOT ALL MOMS ARE THE SAME. I don talk my own,bros just ignore her and with time hopefully she'll come around by being more understanding and considerate. PEACE.

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Adekunle has become too rough-looking and very unkept after that slimy simi came into his life

Marriage (your spouse) mostly brings out a part of you that you either were unaware of, or were too weak to display. It doesn't really change you

If this story is true, this is such a sad dilemma.
Our judgmental posture on this group reveals what we're each capable of. God does not condone sin, but he hasn't made you a judge of character either.
Back to oga, You must understand that present gratification will get you into trouble, but so many prospects await you in the future.

So, Man up and brave the seeming embarrassments, then ride on it and soar.
If you keep that child, you'll likely have more dignity in the sight of those whom you thought will be ashamed of you.

Abortion is murder but beyond this, there are several future prospects for you & that child.

Act wisely.

I usually don't mediate these kinds of issues because the information is one-sided. The story will be different when she gives her own side of the story. As a matter of fact, these things should have been ironed out in your courtship phase.

I'll however ask you to be

- a bit more patient and loving (I mean you just got married this January). Loving doesn't mean buying her all the stuff. Loving means finding out what she wants per time and giving it to her (Do you even know her love language?)

- Be more empathetic and less judgmental; the weight of the pregnancy informs many of her present decisions and since its her first, she can't deal properly well with it.

- When you have to correct her, correct her firmly, but in love. I'm sure you married her because you love her, but what exactly is love to you?

- A time should come (and soon) when you both will have to sit down and discuss these issues

I could go on and on but the duties of a husband are quite heavy. When the Bible says love your wife, even as Christ loved the Church, it's not a joke ...

If you'll care to listen to good counsel, follow the below.

Sex is worth waiting for. All these try before use counsels are not complaint with the human body as well as with God's instructions for mankind. Even if you were once sexually active, make a decision with her to never have sex before marriage, and find out each other's weak points and avoid them. It won't come naturally, but you can set boundaries & depend on God's grace. I speak from experience (3 sweet months into marriage & stayed chaste through courtship, don't mind all that nonsense about loveless marriages; what you look at is what you'll look like). Stop looking at negativity. You can do it. Chastity till marriage still works and is the way to go.

P.S. my wife and I have a series going on YouTube that can help you guys. Marriage is def worth it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOvz_Bu5-BI

Cheers.

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Good, she is obviously a good girl hopefully.

I and my hubby didn’t even hug as well not to talk of sex and we courted for a long time. If we can do it, you can also do it with God’s help.

Get closer to God, Meet at open places, do not accept private visits...devil is very tricky, try to control your mind and thoughts, feed your heart with the word of God, don’t masturbate, stay away from porn, stop admiring other ladies especially the ones who reveal so much. Remember, time flies really fast and before you know it, it is your wedding night. The wait would be worth it.

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Question:

Is booing a representative at that kind of event respectable?

Such beautiful news.

Incidentally, what should be normal is now becoming abnormal... Our generation has believed in so much lies.

Staying chaste before marriage remains the best way to go.

Please watch this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cpxxPAp1X9A

Go for counselling and prayers please.

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Y'all talking about the brilliance of German coaches as tho Gernot Rohr doesn't coach the Nigerian national team....

I think the problem is saving what's left after spending. The right order is spending what's left after saving. Assign a percentage to save every month, and you'll find that you can actually survive on what's left.

Meat is my reward for finishing the food.

Need someone proficient in statistical tools like SPSS/Nvivo/excel/tableau to provide insight to a data set

Reply here

Hmm

Please I received a mail from Unilag that I got 42.5 in the total aggregate. Is there still hope for me?

Our president has been long dead. It's a secret hidden in plain sight, but we can't see it.

Oh my

Wow. Still rocking my Mipad tho

Yawn

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