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How can someone's condition deteriorate so quickly and badly? When I met Tiwatope in 2016, her case was not as bad as this! She is moving fast on a download spiral on the daily! Could it be the broken marriage, bad influence, drugs, a faulty upbringing, depression/attention seeking behavior, or an admixture of all of them?
Something is not right.

I have gone through the Google Form posted. No options for Ojo, Badagry, etc. Will transport allowance be provided for those commuting from far distances?

I'm up for the Yorùbá gig. If anything Pidgin is available too, I'm in.

blowjohn:
Am already in my village in ibesikpo asutan local government area of akwaibom state.
Av already had soft baby coconuts with the water ofcos.
With fresh large river prawns inside fisherman soup with pounded yam.
Am going out to get palm wine and roast pig suya.
Then follow it up later with plenty fruits before I disengage the day with Afang soup with snail and goat meat.

Sweet Lord Jesus! You want kill person?

topsyspice:
I just want a steady translation jobs/subtitling jobs. English-Yoruba-English.

Search for aleniboro here on Nairaland and check out his threads.

Omihanifa:
The main question is how many of these companies are working?

Because I know for sure that leyland in Ibadan is dead. And it's been like that for close to 15 years.

Same thing applies to Volkswagen. Infact that Volkswagen assembly plant has been converted to where they warehouse bottle water (mowa water)

Volkswagen in Lagos still operates.

Tools, tools are all I need to continue and improve my writing, research and freelancing hustle. Laptop, laptop power bank, etc. With these I can even empower others as I have done previously.
Anyone inclined to help should please DM. Blessings

Saving this thread. Very interesting piece. Well done, naptu.

2extremes:
This has been on my back since last year. Its not painful but its disfiguring. I can't pull my shirt in public without feeling embarrassed.
I have applied many creams and ointments but non worked.

You see a qualified medical specialist, that's how.

IAmStrange:
I have come to notice that most times when human beings fall in love, we lose our willpower. People mistake it for sense - meaning we lose our sense but it's not true in many cases.

The person who is in love can actually have His sense intact and functioning and in every event, he knows the right thing to do... But he just doesn't do it because he has lost his willpower and his resolve has become weak so he runs around seeking advice from people so that their comments can serve as a sort of motivation to carry on with what he already thinks or knows he should do.

Secondly, you were saying he loves you to a fault. I don't want to dispute that. But I want you to know that "love" is not the only thing to be considered when choosing a spouse. You must not - I repeat - you must not marry someone JUST because he loves you. Love is not the only thing that guarantees happiness in a marriage.

There are more important things to be considered.

Do you really think those husbands that send their wives to the hospital after beating them thoroughly do not love their wives? in fact, they sometimes do that due to extreme love and protective jealousy for their wives?

Do you think all those men who womanize and cheat on their wives do not love their wives? In fact, in many cases, they do love their wives and give her all respect and love she deserves and would never allow any man come near her. Yet, they are serious cheats!!!

You are going to live with the character of your man and the character of your man is one of the major factors that will determine if he will make a good husband, father, in law to your people and if he will make a good "head of the family".

So cancel out that idea that "he loves me to a fault" if you think that that's enough for you to give in to him.

It's better for you to marry someone who loves you averagely and he treats you like the "queen" you are than get married to someone who "loves you to a fault" and he treats you like you are "serving a sentence as a prisoner" in his house.

Then thirdly, I want you to know that, that man has serious issues and if I were you, I will flee from entering into a marriage with such a person.

Please open your mind - that guy is going to cage you. He's probably going to make your life miserable.

- He has anger issues.
- He has trust issues
- He is uncultured (calling your sister a prostitute and hurling insults at you)
- He is a wife beater
- he jumps to stupid conclusions hastily (calling you a prostitute and going to the extent of taking your pictures)
- He checks your phone and wrongly accuses you of different things
- His jealousy is overboard

Believe me, A man who has all the above will probably make life miserable for you.

He may be the kind of man that will make you sit at home and cut you off the world. Then he maltreats you and doesn't take care of you, making you age faster and weaker as time goes on. Then he will be giving outsiders the impression that he is taking care of you and when you try to complain, they listen to him and not you.

And when you now start looking miserable, he ends up cheating on you with more beautiful girls out there while he leaves you at home to your misery.

There are men like this out there - that guy may be one.

So I advise you to flee from him. Do not listen to anyone. Don't let anyone pressure you into accepting him. They are not the ones to bear the pain and when you die and they get to know the true story, they will still blame you for accepting him.

That's life!

Then, please, do not also think low of yourself and pressure yourself into accepting him just because single men are not coming or because of your age.

Marrisge is a beAutiful thing but that's only when it's with the right person.

Being happily single is better than being miserably married

If you listen to the stories of many married women out there, you will thank your Lord and consider your single status a blessing, thanking God for saving you from what those married women have experienced.

I don't know your age but I think you are probably "not too old" yet.

Please, think positively of your God, yourself and aim for good.

Leave that man and after you have done that, pray to your Lord to bring you a good man you can settle down with.

And while you are still waiting, please be patient and understand that our major purpose on earth is to serve God. That's the major and true success.

Being single doesn't mean that you are a failure, don't let society pressure you into believing that.

The one who is married doesn't necessarily have more superiority in the eyes of God than the single one. The level of superiority is measured by how much you are close to God, how much of righteousness you achieve on earth and how much you do things that matter to the whole world - things that affect people positively.

Being single may turn out to be a blessing on its own. I know some people who went to very great heights of which it would have been difficult to achieve if they got married. What matters is your happiness, your wellbeing and how much your Creator is pleased with you.

So pray to your Lord and hope for good and be positive that he will send you a good man. But while you are waiting, try to do other meaningful things in your life that will bring you happiness.

Don't settle for a bad man who will make your life miserable.


May God soften your heart and grant you your desires.

dannyla

This is the award-winning comment here. It puts everything in the right perspective. Lady, follow this advice. Marriage is not a license to happiness. Loving God and our neighbour is the major way to be truly happy. Every other thing is secondary. Peace to you.

aleniboro:
I hope we are in touch already?

Yes.

This is worth considering, coming from Jarushub.

aimeduconcept:
Kindly contact the director of international admission on Whatsapp or call directly via the contacts on the flier

Any lecturing opportunities?

Pete "Ogbuefi" Edochie!

mamajj17:
"AM HAPPY" dear

"I AM HAPPY"

Sent you a chat.

Harlequeen:
Yes i am. I am feminine, soft, good company, intelligent, just starting out my career, well read and so much more. The man who i end up with will be truly blessed.

The first question you should ask yourself is: Do I myself possess all these wonderful qualities and qualifications I desire in a marriage partner?
If you really do, the right person will soon discover you or be discovered by you.
But if not.... seriously, you're on a long thing!
Blessings.

kunyeo:
Audio professors!

My thoughts exactly!
Behold, fellow Nigerians, with great sense of dismay, utmost chagrin, and inexplicable quagmire, I present to you, more than 100 certified AUDIO PROFESSORS who have taken the audio culture to enviable levels!
We can now rest assured that we have highly qualified personnel who will greatly assist in training future audio graduates, audio managers/directors, audio girlfriends and boyfriends, audio wives and husbands, audio leaders and audio citizens!
Raise your glasses, people, drink to it!

Demi, we need to talk on possible collaborations on travel, toursim, and tourism writing. I have sent a DM earlier but not response. Use the number in my signature.
P.S: How is Youth Service coming along?

+12gb for the month. My, my!

phantom:
So we gon act like we didnt see that chick in red snapping away....
Congrats to the winner by the way...

Dude, are you a'ight bro? You should be scored 99% on paying attention to details!

Argue with your balls

[/quote]What if I ain't got no balls?

It think for the ANTS here I'll just spray a fumigANT!

Rhemidivah8:
. Pls show is your certificate

To what intent and purpose?

Nigerians and their sanctimonious wahala! When Professor Laguda delivered an inaugural lecture titled: " Esu, the Individual, and the Society" at LASU the other day, why didn't heaven fall? Yours truly attended and it was fun!
This is academics for God's sake, not religion!

Get someone with data analysis experience using SPSS, STATA and similar software. Then you're good to go. It doesn't come free though

humblemikel:
You don't have housing wahala until you move to Uyo,AKS
House na rare commodity here
And the landlords and landladies behaves like assistant Jesus

Seriously? But the place is not too populated now. What about Ikot Ekpene? I believe you can commute from there if the job is worth it and cultism/crime/curfew wahala has subsided. Peace.

ATS, Applicant Tracking System may be the reason. And of course, like someone said up there, most advertised jobs in modern Nigeria already has candidates. That's the blunt truth; I've been there.

Put this on LinkedIn too. There are serious connection there. Nairaland and LinkedIn are the go-to places for things like this. But for wider reach and international exposure, try LinkedIn.

The eyes...I see a psychopath and social misfit in there. A beast in all ramifications.. Adieu in advance!

[quote author=Stevecovey post=84045366]But he is sick. He has extreme adhd - they don't like crowds & are typically antisocial. Temi always does videos wt her brother on her instagram pages. Cuppy has a jetset lifestyle & is hardly wt her family. Tolani is private.[/quot
ADHD-Attention Deficit HYPERACTIVITY Disorder! That's a serious one. And that's something even billions cannot cure. I feel for him. It's a serious condition.