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MSN1:
I stopped reading immediately after am 25yrs!
Bro. if @ common 25yrs, u have given up on ur dream, then pls just don't waste ur time in another quest because; u are yet to see the real frustration in life!, guy, na I.T u just dey do.
u have a lot u failed to learn earlier.
Life is not for the weak or quitters!.

modified....
thinking u can knack for 1hour automatically means a rare talent is a mirage.
I have a very nice d*ck and can knack for 2hours + without any substance and I am not seeing it as a gift.
Bro. there are millions of people better than u out there.
whoever u are; believing in ur self and trusting the process is the first and most important path to greatness.
Check the list of ALL great people in different fields and learn the act of trusting the process, Faith and Patience.
Alhamdulilah.

thank you so much

She is most beautiful girl on earth i love her she is very jovial

You guys are not helping matters at all it will interest you to know that for many people, gambling is harmless fun, but it
can become a problem. This type of compulsive
behavior is often called “problem gambling.” Gambling addiction is a debilitating condition, causing
depression and distress.
For someone with a gambling addiction, the feeling of
gambling is equivalent to taking a drug or having a drink.
Gambling behavior alters the person’s mood and state of
mind.
As the person becomes used to this feeling, they keep
repeating the behavior, attempting to achieve that same effect.
A person who has an addiction to gambling needs to gamble
more to get the same “high.” In some instances, they “chase”
their losses, thinking that if they continue to engage in
gambling, they will win back lost money.



The similarities between the symptoms of sex addiction
and gambling addiction can be attributed to their common
effect on the neurotransmitter dopamine. Every time
someone experiences pleasure, the brain releases
dopamine. In the case of most healthy individuals, this
response serves to reinforce behaviors that are beneficial
for survival.
Behavior addicts, on the other hand, have an unhealthy
relationship with dopamine. A compulsive gambler will
constantly chase the fleeting high of winning at the
blackjack table, and a sex addict will compulsively seek
the high of intimate pleasure. While the addictive
behaviors might look different on the surface, both
gambling addiction and sex addiction are manifestations
of an abnormality in the brain’s natural reward and
pleasure system.

Experts who treat behavioral addictions have long
recognized the connection between sex addiction and
gambling. In fact, many of them have observed that the
two addictions often overlap, resulting in individuals who
suffer from both sex and gambling addiction at the same
time.
By better understanding the common thread that runs
through these two behavioral addictions, we can begin
to approach treatment in a more effective way. IF YOU NEED ADVICE CONTACT ME

Assuming you have a shop and your Pastor came to buy something
Will you collect money 🤑🤑🤑

aQUINandmore:
baby, if it's true you can knack very well and can last between 30 minutes to an hour, please reach out to me, I am currently in Benin, I want to show you something

CONTACT ME ON MY NUMBER ON MY SIGNATURE

IF YOU ARE A MALE , i don't do male only female and lesbian

Most of this celebrity leaking their sex video are all inspire my Kim Kardashian, after kim video leak she became famous and makes more money than ever.. I dey wait for toto dikeh and bobrisky own

GATHER HERE IF YOU THINK MOYO CLEAN PASS TIWA

tochez24:
It quite natural and normal, infact 99% of men from 25 - 35 years old are confused about their lives, trying to find their life path and OP you're not an exception...

I was this confused in my twenties too, it happens to everyone!!! Even now I'm 30 years, i have found my path but still looking for capital to power my hustle... it's never easy for any man below 35 years.

But in all these, i never went astray because of the pressure, the pressure will always be there so OP don't do stupid things because of pressure!!!

You can hit the gym, hang out with friends, Chill with time it will pass.... you don't have to be a porn Star!

If music fails you try something else that is good and rewarding in a long run⚠️

BRO IS NOT EASY IF I WORK AS A PORN STAR AND SAVE FOR 5 YEARS THEN I THINK I WILL FIND MY PARTH

Trustmea:
Someone earning 27k it will take him 307 years to save 100m and that's without expenses e choke

BY THEN I MY GRAVE DONE GROW BUSH

Finally have giving up on my music career as it seems is not going to work, am 25 years from akwa ibom state nigeria, am very much interested in becoming a porn star i just need a legit connection, weather in nigeria or outside nigeria am ready , am very good in knacking most time i knack from 30 minutes to 1hr none stop, most times girls pay me to knack them am talking about peoples girlfriend and hookup girls, i got a lot of recommendation from one girl to another.
i need to start making money and take care of my needs please anyone with legit connection should contact me using my number on my signature

i base in benin city edo state nigeria and am also open for collabo with anyone who is interested in opening the business

Theweekend:
so u luv older women who would be petting u like a baby i think say na only me dey dis category

lol i love older woman

Abagworo:
Every woman is after material things and love is subjective. We all define love differently as it suits us but don't expect a marriage which you cannot provide materially to be peaceful no matter the love.

i disagree with you don't mention every woman, because girls on their early twenty don't even care about love all the want is money to live like their fav so don't be decieve

Evolutionlove:
Okay i respect your choice and decision.

But one more thing, When you Clock 30years of Age and beyond. Do come back here and share your experience.

I wish you best of Luck.

I WILL DEFINITELY

Ebymyk:
you have some level of experience but are you sure the 33 upwards are better? Please share your knowledge with me, thanks..

WELL BRO EVEN THE 33 UPWARD ARE NOT 100％ BUT BECAUSE OF THEIR AGE THEY ARE THINKING DIFFERENT NOT AS TWENTIES THINKS.

AT LEAST THEY WILL BE ABLE AND READY TO FACE IT WITH YOU KNOWING THAT THEIR AGE IS BEHIND THEM

erico2k2:
BUT IT HAS YOUTUBE

BRO IT VIVO S7
IT DOSENT HAVE YOUTUBE OR APPS
AM JUST PRAYING TO SAVE MONEY TO BUY PHONE

erico2k2:
i CAN SEE YOU GOT AN internet ENABLED PHONE, PHONES ARE NOT FOR TIK TOK AND naira LAND ALONE!

THE PHONE AM USING DOESN'T EVEN CARRY TITOK OR FACEBOOK, IT A 3.2 ANDROID VERSION PHONE

SO IT JUST FOR OPERA MINI

fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will admit the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

FOR ME AM NOT EVEN INTERESTED IN MARRYING GIRLS BETWEEN THE AGE OF 20 TO 28 OR 30 THIS CATEGORY OF GIRLS ARE AFTER MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS NOT LOVE, THOUGH AM 25 I WANT TO MARRY WOMAN FROM 33 UPWARD

erico2k2:
Bross I will be honest with you, whilst you are working learn a trade please.

WHAT KIND OF TRADE WHEN I DON'T EVEN HAVE TIME TO GO OUT

GOD PLEASE BLESS ME SO I WILL NOT CHOSE THIS PARRT....

erico2k2:
How do you survive with 27k/month, I pay my security man more than that in PHC

my brother the actual pay is 40k oo but the company and the agent takes thier share every months so i only work to feed my myself at the end of the new month i will not any saving

it crazy

i need a well paying job that can come with feeding and accomodation

Someone like me earning 27k per months
i don't even in the next 150 years i can save that....

really tired of the way things are going on in nigeria no good job for ssce holder

at 25 man don't even have saving

omo e choke for here

i need job

Regardless i love my country nigeria and i know we will get there, but will love to vist there

who go carry me go

A maid wanted her salary raise? her madam wanted 3 reasons why she wanted an increment of salary? asked why? maid: I can cook Better than you? Madam: who told you that Maid: your husband told Me? Madam: OK, second reason Maid: I can iron Better than you Madam: who told you that Maid: Your husband told Me Madam: OK, and the third reason? Maid: I am also Better in bed than you? This time madam was furious & was getting ready to break her head Madam: Did my husband say that? Maid: No the driver to me that I’m better in bed than you are Madam: Please lower your voice I will increase your salary ! In-fact How much Do You Want? Question : if you happens to be the maid how much will you tell her? Don’t Laff alone comment
happy new month nairalander

Dear men,
Not every woman walks with a good spirit, 30% those that walks with a bad spirit are more beautiful than 70% women walking with a good spirit.
Resist the urge to climb every woman you come across. You may give out your money, don't give out your destiny. The image of a young lady below is an example.

As a young man you are to be careful on how you run from one woman to the other, CHANGING women is not and never an ACHIEVEMENT!!

Some ladies with TATTOOS, WAIST BEADS, RINGS and LEG CHAIN are not real, some have mystic powers attached to it.

Some have special prophets who make charms for them to catch wealthy men as shown in the picture below.

You might not know this because your spiritual eyes are still blind, it takes spiritual eyes to see spiritual things.
If you mistakenly fall into the hands of any marine lady, your life will never remain the same again, you might be alive but dead.

Every single marine lady has many heavy task she is assigned to carry out, some ladies that belongs to marine kingdom once you come across them you will be feeling strange things happening around you and once they have succeed on getting what they want from you, they will leave you immediately and go to the next person to destroy him as well....

Do not be deceived by the beautiful women you are seeing out there, most of them are not humans like you, while some are human like you but are possessed with marine spirit.

Reduce the way you are running from one woman to the other, you might be living now but won't noticed that your life has been cut short by evil powers!

Resist the urge to climb every woman, you may give out your money, don't give out your destiny. Dont say i didn't tell you

They say Forgiveness is the first step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions. Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors. Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside. As a man, tell us;

freeborn02:
You copied the post from someone else. Shameless copycat

lol

Maybe you have seen a girl around, and you
have been dreaming of just going up and
talking to her. However, approaching someone
for the first time is nerve-wracking in most
instances; add your new crush into the mix,
and you might be a bumbling mess.
Sometimes, though, the result is infinitely worth
the risk.
1. Make eye contact. Spend a few days
catching her gaze every now and then. Don’t
just stare at her, though; instead, shoot her
small glances until your eyes meet and she
catches you. When she does, smile slightly
and look away after a second. You’ll probably
blush as well, which is all the better – blushing
indicates you’re nervous, which is a hint that
you like her.
2. Time it right. When you do talk to her, pick
a time that’s convenient. Don’t try to get her
attention when she’s obviously involved in
something else, and try to have a bit of privacy
– you don’t have to be completely alone, but
her attention shouldn’t be too distracted.
Make the interaction extra casual (and put a
time limit on it) by talking to her while you’re
both walking somewhere else. If you walk to a
class at the same time as her, or you start
walking the same way home, this is a great
opening.
3. Start with a compliment. Paying a girl the
right compliment makes your intentions clear
right away – she’ll know instantly that you’re
interested in being more than her friend. Here
are some things to consider:
Know how to deliver a compliment. Even the
best compliment in the world will fall flat if your
delivery is off. Keep a half smile as you talk – it
will make you naturally add appealing inflection
to your voice. (Try this trick out when you
answer the phone sometime and see if you
notice a difference.) Maintain eye contact with
her, and keep the tones of your voice up, but
lower the actual volume – speaking softly
immediately communicates intimacy, and it can
make her instinctively lean in closer to hear
you. If this all sounds a bit difficult, practice it in
front of a mirror first.
As anyone who’s ever had a stalker can tell
you, there’s a fine but definite line between
flattering and creepy. With this in mind, choose
your compliment wisely. Saying something like
“You always look amazing in that shirt” can
come off as weird if you don’t know her well,
and implies that you watch her. (Even if you
do, it’s best not to spill that information
immediately.) Instead, opt for something
general but cute, such as “Your smile is
glowing today. What’s making you so happy?”
or “I thought what you said in class earlier was
really interesting.” A good compliment should
naturally lead to more conversation, instead of
just hanging awkwardly in the air after you say
it.
Know what to avoid. If you’re going to pay a
girl a compliment about her physical looks,
stick to her eyes, smile or hair. Do not
comment on her body otherwise, especially on
the first interaction.
If you want to play it extra safe, pick something
you already know she’s proud of. For instance,
if you know she’s a dedicated violinist, say
something like, “I’ve heard you’re an amazing
musician,” and use it as a way to ask her
some questions about it.
4. Keep the conversation moving. You might
be tempted to stop talking and just stare at this
girl, but don’t let your nerves get the best of
you. Allowing a long lull in the conversation will
make things feel awkward.
5. Instead, have a mental list of backup
questions you can use if you stumble on an
uncomfortable pause.
Ask about what she thinks of a shared
homework assignment or an upcoming event.
Asking for her opinion communicates that you
care about what she thinks, and see her as
more than just an object.
Use the conversation to find out more about
her, but be subtle. For instance, if you want to
find out if she already has a boyfriend, you
could casually ask, “So, anything fun planned
with your boyfriend for the weekend?” If she
doesn’t have one and she’s interested in you,
she’ll let you know immediately.
Ask open-ended questions. For instance,
instead of saying “So, have anything fun
planned for the break?” (which can be
answered with a short “yes” or “no”), say
“What are you going to do to keep busy while
school is out?” A question that requires a
detailed response is always better to keep a
conversation flowing.
6. Make her laugh (optional). If you’re sure
you’ve got a joke she’ll appreciate, give it a
shot. The goal is to show her you have an
engaging sense of humor, but you don’t want
to come off as desperate or cheesy.
If possible, crack a joke about the current
situation or something you both saw happen.
Situational humor is more meaningful than a
joke you read online.
Don’t tell a dirty joke. It’s not appropriate for a
first conversation, and it might give her the
wrong impression.
If she doesn’t get the joke, don’t explain it to
her unless she asks. Just move on quickly with
a new point of conversation.
Good humor is really attractive, but bad humor
is a complete turn off. If you can’t think of a
joke that makes sense with the situation at
hand, leave it alone.
7. Close the conversation early. Follow that old
saying – “Always leave them wanting more.”
Find a way to gracefully duck out of the
conversation before it goes stale. Good luck!
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Approximately 95%of marriages in India are arranged, with the divorce rate at 1%. I come from a big family, with 25 first cousins
and many more second and third cousins.

Out of these 28, 24 are now married and 2 are engaged. All arranged marriages, with no divorce to date.

I am the black sheep of the family, with the first love marriage in the history of my family. I believe that I am the custodian of my own
happiness. I believe that God gave me free will.

So, I cannot marry someone my parents choose for me because even if they trained me from birth, they have limited knowledge of what
gives me fulfillment, especially in the area of choosing a life partner.

What are your thoughts about these