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Farfalla:
Do girls lose their virginity through scanty dressing?

Oga nobody who is not sexually active will dress and use tape to cover her nipples. Leaving everything for Kid and David to see.

DyshApp:
A disturbed young man has taken to social media to lament his marital plight as he contemplates getting a divorce.

The individual in question expressed his difficulties maintaining harmony in his home in an anonymous email sent to a relationship counsellor.

According to his narration, his wife agreed to marry him with the condition that his mother would live with them.

However, his wife turned his mother into her worst adversary by accusing her of being a witch, even after they moved his mother to another apartment.

Read the post below,

“When I met my wife I told her my mum is leaving with me I’m her only son. I last my dad when I was 12 yrs my mum may sure I went to university to become a graduate. I ask her hope she will be friend with my mum? She said yes. I married her.

It all started after she gave birth to my son. She started giving my mum attitude. I rush my second house and completed the 4 flat in same compound, I rented 3 out and furnishes 1 flat I moved my mum there to leave the duplex for my wife.

My wife is a full house wife. I bought her a car and beg her to be greeting my mum yet she refused . I invited my auntie and my mother inlaw to reconcile my wife and my mum. My mum said my wife didn’t offend her and she believes she didn’t offend my wife but she don’t no why my wife hate her. I told my wife to express herself since her mother is here.

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What did I just read? My head don full. Wait oh! You had only your mother from 12yrs of age. Now you are married and you wife forced you into moving your Mom to another apartment. Then you beg you Wife to greet your mother? Then she told you not to eat your Mom’s food. The same woman’s food that you ate from birth until you go married? Your wife told you that your Mom is a witch and she is still in your house? You even had to call a meeting to plead with your wife?


It’s either that you’re a simp or the story is not complete. How long do you think your Mom would live?

And if you check well your wife’s mother has free access to your house. Your wife doesn’t need to inform you self that her mother would be coming…

You are just a simp. Don’t come at me with all those alpha male story….



Jesus Christ.


Guy, even if my mother is witch…. I would still love her and do my best to please her. I might not always agree with my Mom because we have different perspectives but no woman can call my Mom a witch…

Discovery4today:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRFYJeHt11s?si=bo_utGijrzFGsJ8O
NIGERIANS IN SHOCK OVER ILLEBAYE OUTFIT ON HER MEETING WITH DAVIDO IN LAGOS, IN THE VIDEO SHE WORE A CLOTH THAT REVEALED HER FULL BREAST

And she said she is a Virgin? With these much body exposure?

ednut1:
Why are some Nigerians always wanting to play smart or cut corners. The bill from the hospital will be nothing less than 70k Cad to 100k Cad.
https://www.instagram.com/p/CzUA-Ytuxvi/?igshid=ZTdwdzNqeHpvZTh4

Who goes on vacation when the baby is almost due? And you came for vacation but scared of deportation?

Odewaleadesoye:


DAILY POST

Once an Okpetu talks, you must know. Even a fool is considers wise when he keeps his mouth shut.

NaijaCoverBlog:
Source: https://tribuneonlineng.com/mother-of-nine-commits-suicide-in-delta/

Which one is “Though fingers are pointing to the Evonomic hardship…”


Do you know how many people that are jumping into Lagos lagoon weekly?

coolh3ad:
A risk taker should have a "plan b" in this present Naija wey we dey.

"Most" and not all business owners are risk takers. Treat your business like an investor. You do not need to tolerate risk to start a business. Don’t buy into the myth!

Bro, all investments carry a degree of risk. Are businesses not investments?

Lordsonn:
As posted on Facebook by Khalid



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid01CHGC7oWAWBAyc2E3Pi64qMUojGH8kX4SfsgCyfAse3o7A8SxkQvtJXUWWGvJeB5l&id=100057670164901&mibextid=2JQ9oc

When Burna said “This 9ja… No love” people said he had pride…. No love in Nigeria

coolh3ad:
Normal level. Na to dey thank BABA GOD o!

But why put hand inside that kain situation wey you no fit control in the first place? Is it risk taking?? For this same Naija and man no know anybody (connection). Just asking though...

If we don’t take risk, how the hell do you expect one to get rich?


All business owners are risk takers.

CoronaVirusPro:
How do people commit suicide? What do they think about?

In my down times, the moment I think of cat-fish pepper-soup, Egusi with stock-fish, Isi-ewu and Ofe Nsala, I always have more reasons to be on Earth!

Mere knowing that their is no beer and peppered meat afterlife, is enough reason to make you want to stay on Earth.

Continue thanking God that you have not been in situations that you can’t control. Situations that you are only happy when you’re asleep. Situations that you are scared of being alone because of your thoughts. Situations that will make you question life and your God.


Depression is Real. Na person way don feel fit clear you wella

nairalanduser23:
I am tired of my wife's quarrelsome behaviour which I think she reserves for me. I can be having a honest conversation with her and out of nowhere it will lead to a quarrel with her. It surprises me.

Strange enough, I have observed her communication with neighbours, work colleagues and she knows how to compose herself but when it is me even a funny comment can upset her. Even when I tell her I didn't mean her negative interpretation of a comment, she will still insist on her negative interpretation.

She sometimes talks to me in a way that seems unfriendly to the point that I desire her talking to me the way she talks to outsiders. I have talked to her about it but it is not helping matters. She acts like she is not ware of her tone but there is a stark difference between how she talks to me and other people.

I earn far more than her and take care of the house bills so money is not an issue. I feel like I am the only one proactive about peace in the marriage while she is care-free.

How can I deal with this?

Ur ordeal reminds me of “Dax To be Man”


Married man are going through alot

Wawelexy:
Let's wait for the autopsy reports on her... A lot could have led to her death.

Her last meal..
Her last conversation on phone
Where she visited last
Etc...

This might not be ritual related like everyone will speculate, but her boyfriend should be thoroughly investigated too.

May her soul rest in peace

You didn’t read where the Police went to her place and found foam coming out from her mouth and also an insecticide beside her?

Opanka44:
Hi Guys,
I've been so confused and worried lately. I have never met a Virgin girl in my life and I am not praying to meet any either. Been a virgin does not translate to being a good wife or girlfriend.
My girlfriend of 28yrs says she is a Virgin. But I'm finding it very difficult to believe it. Because,
She always wants me to be using my fingers on her clitoris without allowing me to use my dick to penetrate her. At times I wonder if she's a chronic masturbator. If I refuse using my fingers, she'd be angry at me. Why should I be using my fingers when I have a Dick?
Secondly, she always wants me to give her a Mouth Gig. I suck her pussy.
Thirdly, after sucking, she tells me to mount her while she closes her legs. While I mount her, she will tighten her legs and ask me to rub my pennis on her pussy. She will never open/spread her legs for me to penetrate.
I'm really fed up because it is becoming childish to be doing all these nonsense on bed. At the end of the whole thing, I see myself at the receiving end cos I begin to feel pains in my scrotum since I'm always unable to release. What she does is just to lie down like a log of wood. She doesn't reciprocate. I am not her first, second, third or fourth Guy so I can't understand why she claims to be a virgin. I have told her countless times that if she allows me to penetrate and I discover she's a Virgin like she claims, I'll respectably stop asking for sex until after our marriage but she doesn't want to grant me access. I feel I'm been played and manipulated here. I'm not a player and have never double dated. I am a man and can't continue like this anymore.

If I ever get to find out that she's not a virgin, I swear she's gone. I'll so mess her up for all the punishment she has meted out to me in almost two years of our relationship

You have gradually been reduced to a simp. It’s up to you to continue.

No let blue balls kill you.


Come out straight and clear her.

Just tell her she can’t always be at the enjoyment end. That if you wants to continually keep herself, that you are not against it but forget about anything sex. Be it pre-intimacy or mouth action. She will agree with you.


Next time you are Hot, self-service your senses back. You will be the first to make the sexual move. When you does, tell her to stop straight up.


After 1week. You go turn Makanaki

Righthussle:
E don do. Let's move on.

Sorry for your loss.

Move on to more hardship?

koolaid87:
The real Israelites are still scattered abroad. They are still oppressed all around the world. The ashkenazis (Israelis) are the heathens from the synagogue of the satan according to Revelation 2.

Focus on Hamas, you children of perdition and stop killing innocent civilians.

I disagree with your first sentence. Jews are one of the richest people in the world. In the USA. How can oppressed people be allowed to accumulate wealth in the land of the oppressor ?

kestolove95:
Wike is stronger than Atiku and obi put together

So? To what end? How does a Governor becomes a Minister? Is that now a new low

michlins:
These ones have been sent to God for him to forgive them or judge them accordingly.


In this Buhari times, you decided to steal the sweat and blood of others.

Omo!!!!

Have u been hibernating?

atiku4President:
What is wrong in buying a presidential yacht? Fake #RevolutionNow crusader.
You believe only you can save Nigeria and every other person is a thief. We have not forgotten the same people have used you in the past, and for the fact that you have been paid off and abandoned didn't make you any different.

You must be so stupid. Just read what you wrote? You don’t know what is reduction in cost of governance? I seriously dislike who are just stupid.

alizma:
Don't say what you don't know, this is a fight between a brother and his sister and at this point, both have to shield their sword, if not for anything, they have to reconsider their positions in view of the forth coming election and in honor of our dear late king, Ado Ibrahim who had been trying to resolve the difference between the two before his sudden death.

Is that how you fight with your siblings at home? It’s either you are benefiting from Bello or you just senseless

spyder880:
This is a Federal government road that collapsed, we should be talking about what the federal ministry of works are doing.

So the state Government can’t force the hands of the Federal Government? So if it’s takes the next 6yrs for Federal to award the repair to a construction firm, the state would leave their people to continue being miserable

spyder880:
In this previous thread with the link below, we reported a bridge collapse that happened at Kilometer 1, Enugu - Port Harcourt Express road

https://www.nairaland.com/7892846/bridge-collapse-enugu-inner-city

This thread will be used to review the happenings since the bridge collapsed, the near silence from every government authorities about any planned repair, and the degradation being suffered by the inner city roads as heavy trucks invade the roads, causing damage in many parts of the roads. The pictures I showed below are the current state of the bridge as at today.

I don’t really what most Governors are doing. Go to Edo state, you will cry your eyes out…. Go to warri… to Epe … Good to some parts of Anambra. Even Kogi na die…


Nobody holds anybody accountable

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

You want to someone to tell you she is seeing someone else? You just have to keep an open mind to see all the red flags. I hope you know once a lady knows you love her a lot, dey will manipulate you. I been dey blame Samson for Bible but once I grew up I no blame am


In as much as you love her do not be a simp. Always keep a open mind that women are smart cheaters. Trust me, even if you see something that is not strong enough and ask her. She will play the “You don’t trust me game…” become aggressive and all. If possible find someone else or something else to keep your mind and emotions in check.



One thing is I know is, as a man just enjoy the cruise while it last. Dem no dey die put for woman matter. Even after your death, another man would continue where you stop.

post=126661384:
Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/10/bolt-driver-surrenders-to-rivers-police-to-prove-his-innocence-over-missing-lady-2.html

His story seems to add up. The police can actually confirm if truely he only dropped her off and left alone.


Why are people disappearing in Lagos?

taylor88:
No long Talk here I need strong advice We’ve been friends on Facebook for over two years I never asked her for a dime you wouldn’t know she was a man before surgery we do video calls I see boobs and pussy with beautiful face sexy body till she broke the most scary news to me

I took off stopped texting or calling her for a year now she came back last month with the communication told me she likes me(God forbid me that hates the word gay) offered to make all the necessary paperwork’s and send money to me to take care of my own parts here like passports and all the rest she even connected me to a Ghanaian man who married one of her nurse friend so the guy Dey always instruct me here too

She’s 34. Black American, tall and a Registered Nurse she Bought her own house lives alone in Atlanta promised to get me a job ASAP

But I can’t even swallow the thoughts of marrying or making love to a transgender I might throw up on just a mere thought but she’s serious and u know how this country hard reach

She wants to send money down here on Monday but I need the money but don’t want to go, what do I do now on the other hand I wouldn’t want to be tagged a scammer or played her for her money

I would have given it a chance if I had a brother or married with kids but I can’t right now

Guys what do I do Monday it’s almost here please advice

Which one is she is 34? He is 34.

chiagozien:
We Yoruba Muslims agree with you.

Na why una no get sense. The question is how will it bring investment? Would be make people look into biogas and Solar?

Naaa. Una rather dey suffer dey follow people like Ram

misano:
Okowa did very well. Close mouth.

Meaning you follow chop… You don’t know how much he borrowed before leaving?

ijustdey:
https://thenationonlineng.net/breaking-tinubu-moves-to-clear-10bn-forex-backlog/

Why is no one talking about the documents that are about to be released soon by FBI?


No one is talking about David stating that MC oluomo and FCT man are planning his assassinated him

mokwechineme:
3 In the third position is Abiodun - governor of Ogun state. I have been hearing so much about his ineptitude. Even though Ogun state is the home state of some of the most prominent Nigerians, the state seem to be lacking in good governance and Abiodun happens to be a typical example of this phenomenon.

2 Sitting in the second position is Uzodimma - the one fondly called Ozodimgba is the governor of Imo state. He has literally supervised the carnage in his state encouraging the federal government to create theatre of war in the state he governs. There has been incidence of massacre of innocent civilians, displacement of communities and burning of villages by the Nigerian soldiers and he feels that will guarrantee his hold on Imo state.

1 Sitting in the first position of the worst governors is Chukwuma Soludo - Governor of Anambra state. In one of his numerous promises is making Anambra the Dubai/Taiwan of Africa. He also promised Anambra would be one huge construction site during his tenure. As we speak, we never see Awolowo's head, talkless of Azikiwe's. He has been in Ekwulobia with the out of priority project for more than a year constructing one flyover while Willie Obiano adjudged one of the most incapable governors did three flovers in a space of three months. In the Omanbala region where i reside, he has closed all refuse dumpsites leaving people with nowhere to dispose their refuse.
The hungry boy that is paid to defend him here on nairaland, should help tell me where in Omabala region comprising of 5 local governments does Soludo have one single project going on other than hanging banners of solution is here in every nook and crany of the state especially where the previous administrations sited projects.

Soludo remains a total tragedy to Ndi Anambra

Which are ur worst??

Okowa suppose dey that list even if e don comot.

FreeStuffsNG:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/10/20/my-church-bazaar-business-and-money-making-stay-away-if-you-wont-donate-father-mbaka

I don’t know why churches are not paying taxes…

These people are milking people more than FIRS. A church should be a platform for spiritual, mental and physical help or growth. Jesus whom you guys claim to emulate chased away people doing buying and selling…

This one is clearing stating his bazar is strictly business.

ijustdey:
https://punchng.com/blending-petrol-with-ethanol-will-save-n49-marketers/

No one is taking about the volatility of mixing it. Before you buy fuel finish, you don blow up.

Offpointng:
To be Frank, I never got to meet this Uncle of mine cuz My Dad and Parents in general were not this "meet my extended family typa of parent" plus, we live in a state very far from them. This is cus of Some Sensible reasons which we the Kids din really have problems with. So Basically, We the Children are really not used to My Aunt, My Uncle typa of thing when growing, we just know them by name and by pictures.

So this my Dad's Elder brother in particular happen to work as a Secret Police who is a very big Officer, Mum told me of how big and much his properties are. Mum also told me how this man use to issue gun to thieves to go rub and then they return with his share, As an Officer, he really did alot of atrocities. The one that even shocked me the most was the one my Mum witnessed or lemme say Overhead when she was still living at his house. That time, my Dad had to let her stay there cuz he travelled to another state to go hustle for the family.

This One so happen that he issue these young armed robbers gun and during that day's operation, they were caught and knowing fully well he might go for it if the case is transferred to Abuja, he ordered his boys they do like they wanted to transfer the young armed robbers to another state and on the way they carry them to the Bush and kill the 11 of them. Mum said they brought back their bodies and lied they tried escaping and were shot. momma said the sight was gory and you'd know they are freshly k!lled cuz blood kept pouring outta em as they paraded their bodies at the state Division quarters. Mama said the sight disturbed her for a while cuz she said they were really young boys in their early 20's.

Mum said that is small compared to the atrocities he committed that he has even told my Dad, his brother, to his face, he'd kill him if anyone offers him money to do so (He'd literally do anything for money).

Shortly after he retired in 2004, he took a very short trip and had accident that cost him both of his legs, and was confined to a wheelchair. After some couple of years, the children he trained to the University kept dying one after the other. it was now like a curse, anytime they finished University they'd Die. Over the years, 3 out of the 6 children died, the 4th one got killed by cultist in his final year in a gang battle (head smashed with stones). He's now left with 2 almost useless kids. He's currently battling with Stroke even with his legs absence. And sometime ago, we heard one out of his 2 left children beat him to injuries and is now recovering in the hospital. the last one is busy selling his properties without his knowledge and living a riotous living with the proceed. Wife left him some years back and he's now a lonely bird battling different complicated problems at the same time.

On the other hand, We my Dad's kids finished University well and are now taking care of him.

The Truth is, if you're doing evil today as a Force personnel or anybody you can be, Kindly know your Children will also not be spared if you you're suffer for ur atrocities while alive. To be honest, I sometimes wonder why many serving or past Police officers or Security personnels don't have responsible children. Could this be the Reason??

Karma no get religion. E no get tribe. If you like repent. Whatever you do, it will come back to you or your children… “Sins of the fathers”.


You will see someone who lived a criminal life. Killed people and caused pains to families will repent tmrw and say the Lord forgives… they will even become pastors and start giving birth. Their children will become hoodlums and people will wondering that their Father is a pastor so where did the children get all these traits from

nlfpmod:
https://www.aa.com.tr/en/middle-east/israel-okays-emergency-regulations-to-close-al-jazeera-office-in-israel/3027237#

Once a government start making moves to shut down a media house… it’s either the media house is not for their interest or it’s reporting against them.


The second reason means to the Media house is saying the truth about the war. And they don’t want the world to know that Isreal are killing children in these war.


We all saw how CNN was saying that Palestine killed 40 babies. Which turned out to be a big lie. Who shut down CNN?



I thought Nigeria was corrupt until I started watching CNN and Fox News… I got to understand that CNN are in support of Biden party and against Trump. You will never see them air how Hunter Biden has been collecting bribes… it’s everyday Trump this… Trump that… Biden was with confidential documents which he ought to have returned after his stay then, but he held on to them. Yet neither the FBI or CNN has made a comment about it.

The West understands who controls the media, controls power and the people… 2pac no lie.



Then you come to Nigeria to see TVC and NTA ass licking any government in power. NTA own is understandable…. You see Channels and Arise TV actually giving us the news and you see NBC sanctioning them for doing their work… God go bless Rufai and The Other channels man.