Supreme145: I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.
In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.
She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am t o 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.
She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.
I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.
It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.
I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.
Do you guys think I am over reacting?
Boil on her lap man? Make I leave that one first but which is “why are you staring at a ladies private part..? Una well so? I don laugh tire.
Guy, it’s either you are a kid or a simp. Any lady who is easily accessible by men is a big time 🚩.
Na you no want get peace of mind. You go put your heart for where u suppose dey put only ur penis
BOSSkesh: Imagine the amount that was spent on this project Only for it to lay in waste and ruins Nigeria needs to seriously wake up And we even borrowed money to execute this project smh can you just imagine
Wake up fire. Until we put away tribal sentiments and vote for competent individuals, hold every officer holder accountable, Nigeria won’t get better.
See people father dishing tribal insults on Nairaland and you think Nigerians have sense?
Solofresh2: Their is this female colleague that was transferred to the branch I work like three months ago now. So I have been nice to her from the day one, just like others do but I noticed that she always wants to be around me,going for lunch with me and sharing other marketing work with me to the extent that everyone have noticed and I don't like it I don't want any woman wahala in my life because I know what they are capable of.I have shunned her to give me space but she never listen.I am not afraid of being sacked because I have a business of my own but I don't like it when a lady keep forcing herself on me. I am not ready for any relationship talk less of marriage.My mum do advice me to be careful with women.My colleagues now believe we have something serious together which am not happy with
Just keep it professional. Tell her less about yourself and let her assume more. That way, you will be out of any controversy except your boss has an eye for the girl…
Racoon: It is normal with politicians when the going goes bad. Woe betide you if you enter their black book. Once upon a time Comarade Shuibu and Adams Oshiomhole were buddies, then later he teamed up with Godwin Obaseki. Now they have parted ways again. Politics; a game of backstabbing.
Comrades? They are brothers man. Shuibu father adopted Adams on paper man. Why do you think Edo state sponsored Shuibu’s Fathers burial? They are brothers who have shared a meal together and a plate of food together.
Adams wanted his brother by adoption being Shuibu to run against Obaseki. Because he fell out with Adams, Shuibu refused the offer and stood by obaseki.
Now, obaseki is fighting him off screen because Shuibu wants to run for Governor…
Whatever you do in this life, remember that the man who sells his brother to a foreigner won’t be trusted by the foreigner…
yinkus6750: Na them them. Niger Delta oil belongs to the entire country. But gold in Zamfara belongs to private individuals, and the FH is turning a blind eye to happenings there.
YoungDaNaval: Greetings naira Landers, my only sister is happily married to a lawyer and this guy have been instrumental to me and my family since he got married to my sister. Now I intend getting a car for my sis because her office is a little bit far from their home, the problem now is I don't know how her husband will feel if I use my sister's name for the car papers. Now I'm contemplating between using only her name or including her husband's name to the document which made me to bring the question here. Please married couples in the house,I need your sincere advice.
Note: I don't want to discuss this with my sis and her husband because I want the car to be a surprise
Seek your sisters opinion first. No matter how una use sentiment take reason am, it is a gift. Let’s assume your sister was doing her wedding and you decided to gift her the car as a wedding gift, would you still be considering whose name would be on the documents?
A gift to the husband, is a gift to the wife and vice versa.
AllenSpencer: Update yourself before you start an argument!
What has Biden got to do with this?
Was it Biden that selected fake state electors?
Was it Biden that forged signatures?
Was it Biden that made a phone call, urging for votes?
Is any democrat a witness in all the cases? They all republicans!
Hello! Georgia is governed by a Republican who is not on Trumps side! Is that also Biden’s fault?
Where does Biden or Democrats come-in all of his indictments.
Stop giving excuses for a criminal! His own people are turning on him, and you are here busy accusing democrats
Which his own people? Trump is having more numbers daily ooo. Stop watching CNN. A lot of people are tired of the Rainbow people now forcing their nonsense on children. You think people care about the capitol riot anymore? They just want a sane America. How can you be teaching n eight year old about masturbation
😂 More customers for kidnappers oh. Because people will ply the road route more. Use less country and Government causing inflations with their stupid stupid actions….
Loveabove: Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.
My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.
Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.
God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.
House rent has expired and problems everywhere.
Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.
Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.
Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.
Please advise me on what to do.
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You do not love them. You never did. You never loved your sister also. See the way you explain am like say na cloth your won dash. If you truly love those boys you won’t even
IconicR: I so much dislike men that don't know how to keep shut and coming to the public to rant like a woman. If a woman is hurt she would rant and it's only natural which a real man understands. Agbaya alagbaoshi
Oga are you simp? I don’t even understand. Someone was accused of being a gigolo and he had to come out and clear people the main reasons why he ended the marriage. You reason am, why will a man end a marriage of two months? He said she is very promiscuous. Abi you no read that part? He was evening bleeping her when she was with her ex husband… bleeping numberous men steady ooo.
Now she went to the bridge to pull a suicidal stunt. Person way won jump from bridge go go where people no too dey, jump. People are now seeing the man as a bad person and you say he should keep shut and cover a cheater because she is hurt?
olaric: Yes you are correct, especially those whose houses and homes you demolished and those you left with sorrows and tears.
You dey mind am. They gave you FCT minister and you went straight to making people homeless without any form of compensation. I love the way those senators stood up against his Minister screening… You can’t always have ur way
Brokeandnolove: Hi fellas, I will go straight to the point. My girlfriend of over a year hardly ever initiates sex, so sex between us strictly depends on when I make a move. Sometimes it might coincide with when she's Hot and everything goes well. Again I don't like going for more than one round of sex because I hardly cum during the second round till it eventually turns to hard work. She will still be the one that will complain that she's tired. I believe that sex is meant to be enjoyed and not stressful.
Now I am not a freak for sex, and can comfortably go for a week without sex depending on the situation of things between us even though we stay together for now. I don't initiate sex if we are having issues and sometimes she complains that other men come crawling to their women for sex at night after an argument with most times leads to reconciliation but I always lock up as if I am staying with a man thereby making some of our issues linger longer than necessary.
She gets moody each time she's Hot and I don't make a move, I simply told her to initiate sex anytime she wants because with the economic situation on ground sometimes sex is the last thing on my mind.
We had sex yesterday afternoon and later that evening we were gisting and we talked about early morning sex, she pointed out that I hardly initiate early morning sex and I told her it was because she hates being disturbed when sleeping. I proceeded to tell her we will have early morning sex today. Unfortunately I worked all night and slept around 4 am so I couldn't initiate any sex. She woke up moody and angry which made led to an argument that culminated in her leaving the house.
While chatting on WhatsApp she told me not to carry my boring sex life into marriage. So guys is there anything wrong with a lady initiating sex when she wants it I am pretty sure if she initiated sex this morning I wouldn't have refused.
For this economy, your penis still dey stand ?
Sexual compatibility shouldn’t not be ignore while going to marriage o. Many men have side chicks because of it.
Poten111: I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
Office romance never ends well man. You could actually keep your relationship with her healthy until one of you leaves the company.
If you follow ur emotions man, you start your fling or dating, your colleagues will observe and if someone reports you to HR…. You know the rest L
Minjim: Why are failed transfer so rampant in Nigeria? And most times some will be unresolved
Is it like this in foreign countries too?
It’s becoming something else. Weeks ago, Zenith debited twice for a single transaction I tried doing online with my card…. They told me to wait for 10 to 15days for reversal. That is after waiting for 4days o. Banking System is becoming to bleeped uo and the banks do not want to pay or employ the right services to sort it out. They rather cut corners and hire contract staffs that will take 10mins to process a cash request.
StudyBarn: Hey halfwit not everything is about politics, I voted for a new Nigeria but You're not only being callous you are also an idiot, she suffered heartbreak and public collapse of her marriage. Now run along half man
There is no difference between you and the person you are correcting. You can always air your point or perspective without insulting them.
🇷🇺 Russians got richer last year even as the war in Ukraine raged on, while the US and Europe lost trillions of dollars, UBS reported.
Russia added $600 billion of total wealth, the Swiss bank found in its annual Global Wealth Report, published Tuesday.
The number of Russian millionaires also rose by about 56,000 to 408,000 in 2022, while the number of ultra-high-net-worth individuals — people worth over $50 million — jumped by nearly 4,500.
But the US lost more wealth than any other country last year, shedding $5.9 trillion, while North America and Europe combined got $10.9 trillion poorer, UBS reported.
There were also 1 million fewer American millionaires by the end of 2022, although the US still accounted for over 50% of the world's ultra-high-net-worth individuals, the bank said.
Russia's wealth gains came despite its invasion of Ukraine in February, which has led to the West imposing sanctions on the Kremlin that led to its economy shrinking and triggered a slump for Moscow-listed stocks.
UBS acknowledges that "wealth trends in Russia are difficult to determine at this time," but did highlight it as one of a handful of countries that had gotten richer in 2022.
Rising oil prices could be one factor behind the wealth increase, with exports of the commodity a key economic engine for Russia. The cost of a barrel of benchmark Urals crude jumped by about $7 last year, data from Refinitiv indicated.
Mexico, India, and Brazil all also added significant amounts of wealth in 2022, UBS's report suggested, while the US, Japan, China, Canada, and Australia lost the most.
And CNN are saying the sanctions are affecting Russia? If you a lot of nonsense people believe because of the media. If you own the media, you can control peoples behaviors and minds
[quote author=lavylilly post=125149170][/quote]You need to sit her down and talk to her. You guys are into a union called marriage and not a dating relationship.
Before you talk to her, ask yourself if you have been approaching her on days she has been stressed out? Do you do stuffs to spice up the marriage ? Or you just put ur penis whenever u want?
The truth is that everybody likes sex. Some people wear it on their sleeves while others don’t. You guys must have dated for a while? She never though of sexual compatibility? Or she was just eating shawarma and updating status with images of locations?
A lot of men cheat outside marriage because of sexual compatibility. Woman bear children within years of marriage and then the stress of them taking care of the family is something else… At the end of the day, a man who values his family will get a side chick.
Ellioto07: Most girls are picky about it, so I would suggest you to get her drunk and use her bum hole, or while you're having sex slide your dick in her ass and pretend to be a accident or force her to serve you.
Having sex with someone while the person is drunk is rape bro. If you try these in a sane society, you go spend years for jail oh and still registered as an offender.
I no dey use ear hear rape or stopppppp it and I don respect myself.
JAYTUNEZ: Venita Akpofure, a contestant in Big Brother Naija All Stars, recently opened up about her traumatic experiences of domestic violence during her childhood.
In a conversation with her love interest, Adekunle, Venita revealed that she was a victim of physical abuse by her father, Mr Akpofure, during her childhood.
She shared that her father would use harsh and sharp objects to hurt her and even push her down the stairs. Additionally, she mentioned instances where he locked her out of the house for extended periods of time.
However, she noted that during her introduction ceremony, her father acknowledged his abusive behaviour and expressed remorse for his actions.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Military seizes power in Gabon by IamtheTruth1(m): 6:55am On Aug 30, 2023
