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DonBenny77:
Na churchill not kpokpogarri

My bad then. Forgive me.

TheGift:
Is this advice for Men and their girlfriends or for Men and their Wives?

Men and their girlfriends na. Your wife is on another level man.

As a woman, try get wetin u dey do with ur money for the family. If na you go dey buy food stuffs when ur man pays for tution fees and rent or car insurance and co.

Just look at men that pay all the bills even as little as tissue paper, dem no fit reach 75yrs na. Na stroke from overthinking dey usually kill them.

YinkaOlusesi16:
Most men like to show they are financially stable all the time but Why do they find it difficult to ask their women for money when they are broke?💞😍💘💔💓❤️💋

On the long run, you will regret asking your lady for money man. The more she assist you, the lesser respect you get. When you eventually breakup, she go use am yab you.

My advice to guys is; not matter how much you think she loves you, never ask for assistance man.

swiz123:
Matured response, even though wizkid never sold out that stadium capacity; not even nearly.

True. Even Davido didn’t sell out his last arena. It was also covered and hidden. The only Artist that truly sells out is Burna… That dude is on another level. Waiting for his next project.

skj1377:
I heard Tonto dike did such

It’s just clout man. Prince Kpokpogri na my neighbor for Asaba. The man is rich man. I know am well. I have seen a lot of Nollywood actors acting on set at his house severally. Forget all those things Tonto said. That man is rich. You no see him house for Abj way government demolish ?

ebenholer2:
KANO STATE SEEM DOOM WITH MISRULINGS...THIS GOVERNMENT SEEM TO BE ON ATTACKING MISSION. THEY HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO PUT IN PLACE ANY OUTSTANDING PROJECT NOT MAKE OUTSTANDING MOVE SO FAR. WHAT A FAILING STATE.

Omo. The former dollar pocketing governor showed dem pepper. Kwankwanso could not even stay in the state. He was at Abj. Funny enough na Kwankwanso former boy o

fuckJones:
The Niger military with a combined force of less than 15,000 boots including Airforce personnel isn't up the 82 composite Division Enugu, 3 Armoured Div Jos, 81 Division Lagos Garrison Command. They can't withstand Land and Air forces of the Nigerian and Ecomog forces. The after-effect of the military action is the reason for caution. Let's not add the 1st Division in Kaduna and 2nd Division in Oyo.

Why Then has the 1st and 2nd Division in kaduna not been sent to stop the insecurity in Nigeria? Or the 81 Division Lagos?

Jewessgratitud3:
A colleague of mine called me last week and Said a woman needs a sounds teacher to come and take the child on sounds this summer to enable the child read before school resumes and that she wants someone with British diction.
So, because I'm a diction instructor and have done that kind of job in the past ( like nine years ago) my friend recommended me.

Back then ( 2014) when I was into this home lesson full time, I was charging 25k per child and its three times a week and I pick the places I go to. No long distance thing.
Now with the current situation of the economy and considering my age, I charged this woman 50k three times a week and she said it's too much. Meanwhile, the school the child is attending was where I taught before I left and started doing home lesson and their school fees then ( 2014) was 95k for prep class. By now it should be around 150k. My friend already told me the school the child attends.

She said it's too much that she can only afford 20k. I just ignored them. They will pay 150k for school fees, nothing much to show for it but will want to give you peanut and expect you to perform magic under 1month.

If I handle the child, no doubt, she'll read and her accent will change but definitely not for that amount. I'll now be trekking that long distance cos no bike and somebody is telling me 50k is too much.

Did I do wrong by ignoring them cos they want me to come and start this August but I have zeroed my mind there.

Would you accept such amount for home lesson?

If you want Quality Education, pay the charge. If you can’t afford it, look for alternatives.

Never charge people less for your worth man because people do not value free things

Flamemignon1:
First and foremost, nobody is asking you to be gay,I don't know why you homophobes keep bringing the "I'd rather do this than be gay" line, it stems from insecurity because basically no one asked you to. Moreover,the way some people like you are obsessed with gender roles especially in this 21st century is not just funny but unrealistic because of the economical system we are in, it's no longer the industrial capitalist boom of the 20th century but to each their own and "cooking" isn't a feminine thing,you cook for the one you love if you want to and even if it's a feminine thing..... what's the problem there? No one is a 100% masculine or feminine,no one was appointed into a gender box when they were born,it was all social programming from ancient times,we all have both energies within us because gender at the end of the day is a social construct so I don't know why society feel the need to always shame feminity and praise masculinity because of how the former is deemed "weak", that's just misogyny and where homophobia stems from,the fact that femininity and women are seen as less than so anything that takes on submissive role is less than to homophobes,it even happens in the gay community where the tops shame the bottoms for being submissive,have you ever asked yourself why tomboys never receive half the hate and scrutiny femme boys receive?.

Also,if you were knowledgeable about same sex relationships,you will know how much we throw away gender roles and norms out the window,the whole dynamic of a same sex relationship is the exact opposite to an opposite sex relationship,even straight couples are beginning to copy the same sex relationship model, couples like Beyonce and Jay-Z say their relationship is genderless,they both work,cook,clean and buy each other whatever they want because they found gender roles to not just be shallow in today's climate but completely limiting,you are gonna put yourself in a box because you are a man, where's the diversity and spontaneity that they say is the spice of life in this regard?

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_roles_in_non-heterosexual_communities

If I knock ur head this boy. I am not gay. Are u madt or something?

GodWrites:
If you still struggle with finance, then you are not as knowledgeable as you think. Money is a byproduct of knowledge.

Yes na. Solomon. Why you no dey forbe list. As you get knowledge na.

GodWrites:
When you are knowledgeable, you don't give a damn if your spouse can cook when you can hire a live in chef.

And how many people can hire a chef or eat out? With this economy. Let’s be sincere

NwekeUG:
Niger Coup - Junta Warns ECOWAS Leaders Meeting In Abuja Against Sending Military Troops Into Niger

ECOWAS has issued a one-week ultimatum to the coup plotters in the Niger Republic to release President Bazoum.



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/7/niger-coup-junta-warns-ecowas-leaders-meeting-in-abuja-against-sending-military-troops-into-niger-2.html

U never use ur power send troops to Nigeria to clear Bokoharem na

StoriesUpdate:
Abuja Event Planner, Real Estate Agent Engaged To Her heartthrob In Grand Style

An Abuja-based event planner and real estate agent, Adaora Anuamadi was at the weekend engaged to her sweet charming prince, Mr. Ugochukwu Okonkwo a businessman.

The event at Grand Cubana hotel Abuja brought together friends and family members of the couple where a reception was held in their honour.

The glamorous event got guests more excited when the fiancé knelt down before the crowd of friends and family to pop the question to his wife-to-be.

It was an exciting moment when Miss Adaora, also a hair stylist said a big yes to Mr. Ugochukwu, agreeing to marry him.

The couple are both from Anambra state and have in the last couple of years been in relationship.

Adaora is known among friends as "show stopper aka Ifeabata" because of her generosity with money, not only at social functions but in the lives of people around her.

She is a philanthropist who has made significant impact in the lives of many by showing them ways to self-reliance and entrepreneurship.

Preparations have commenced for their wedding later in the year in Abuja and high-powered committee has been set up to make the wedding classy and an event to remember.

If that girl ride that man, the chances of him passing out is high

GodWrites:
Equating cooking with femininity shows you are far from being knowledgable. You be olodo. Better embrace your sexuality. This is the 21st century. No one cares.

Okpetu. Oya marry woman way no sabi cook na

GodWrites:
You seems to know a lot about gays. Are you sure you are not one? Stop hiding oh and be yourself. You only got one life.

Just because I’m more knowledgeable than you, makes me gay. Cooking for a spouse is more like a feminine thing. Have sense!

nairalanda1:
So it is millitary rule that would fix all those problems you mentioned?

Oga, I am not here to say that the corruption under civilian rule is OK. I am angry myself with APC, and yes even this subsidy thing is hell...it is the fact that I have seen the worse hell that happens when you run out of money totally that is making me tolerate subsidy removal, otherwise, I would have long since been on the street.

But millitary rule in Nigeria did not fix bad government, did not fix corruption, did not even fix any of the issues you mentioned. Infact, in 1966, when army overthrew the corurpt government of the first republic, everyone was happy. By 1975, the same army was running a corrupt show. Wasteful projects? E dey. Looting? E dey. Letting people go because they were from the right tribe? E dey kampe. Muritala taking over did not change things much...after the initial gra gra...infact that was when there was missing money in NNPC then, and the famous ITT contract corruption scam.

In 1983, Millitary overthrew civillans. Same reason, corruption, stealing etc. Within one year, the same issue were happening under Buhari and the economy was collapsing. IBB came , took over, inital gra gra...but the economy went down hill. Abacha came, and yes, he kept inflation down, but it no reach common man. Refineries were begining to fail under his regime....yes, that's when issues started. Did I mention that there was routine fuel scarcity under army rule.? Or there was repeated strike? Or the idea of mass jakpa began under IBB, continued under Abacha, etc etc.

And you want us to go back to army rule...because of some nice words by Nigerien leaders. The same thing Nigerien millitary leaders said, was said in the 1960's, 1970's even 1980's by their army rulers. New set after set after set. And their nation remained broke as eff.

Plus if Army rule was so nice in Nigeria, why did people die to bring you this civillian rule that you are crying about now?

Am sure you are one of those Obidents who is angry with Tinubu winning, that you want to get tinubu out because revenge? How about people like me that have never enjoyed any civillian ruler since 1999? Yes, all the civillian rulers we have had...TINUBU inclusive...have never ever met my taste, or are the kind of people that I imagine should rule Nigeria. Yet, because I know that under millitary rule, I would have been jailed incommunicado for writing that i hated millitary rule in a newspaper....I prefer our flawed civillian rule.

Yes Buhari ran us for 8 years. Yes he was harsh...but when he was a milltary ruler...oh my gods , the man has softened since that time. Back when Buhari was millitary ruler, he would jail people under laws that did not exist at the time, then pass a decree and backdate it to legalize the law. You want that to happen again? You want us to be run by the whims and capricies of a single man, because you feel we are not developed enough, and you are not having enough cheap stuff?

Finally, let me even tell you self, you guys sit down here and cry all day long about Nigeria not being like developed nations. Yet, when it is suggested you pay market price for power and petrol so that we can have functioning systems that work, you will cry poverty. Pay better school fees, poverty. Jail corrupt leaders, you will cry that this one or that one is our son, and he is being persecuted. You bypass meters and you wonder why you have no light. You prefer we have an economy based on just one income source, instead of doing the hard work that was done to diversify the economy. You are haling China...do you know how many years China took before it reached where it is? The harsh economic polices that needed to be done? You think it was by fighting corruption alone?

And you want us to be like CHina,....where people are jailed for life for being of the wrong religon, wrong belief, wrong tribe even? Ok. o.


You guys should stop thinking army rule will solve our problems. Nigerians themselves will solve Nigeria's problems. Yes our democracy is flawed, but part of the problem is that we don';t want to do the hard work of democracy. We want someone to spoon feed us good governance. It does not work that way.

What the Bleep are u saying? Paying for better school fees and better power from where? Have funds not been released for Nigeria to Partner with Siemens, for us to have better lights, who stole the money? When has no one been held accountable?

Now you want the common man to pay extra for the looting done by the politicians? You want to tax the soul of Nigerians yet their minimum wage is as low as that of Siri Lanka. How would it work?

omohayek:
As if you too wouldn't be crying if a bunch of thugs with guns aimed at your head were clearly planning to offer you up to the mob as a scapegoat to ease their way into power, regardless of what you might or might not have done! This sort of cheap propaganda has been the stock-in-trade of coup plotters right since the 1960s (e.g. Nzeogwu), yet they continue to roll it out, as they know there are masses of gullible, disgruntled souls who are ignorant of history and ready to eat it up.

What exactly do you suppose will happen if the coup-plotters get their way and stay in power? You think corruption will magically go away simply because the leaders are wearing khaki? That must be why the Nigerian government has recovered so much of Abacha's stolen loot abroad that he makes all civilian leaders before and after him look like a saint, or why $12 billion could simply disappear into thin air under Babangida's watch.

Anybody who supports this rank illegality is seriously stupid, especially if you happen to also be one of those simultaneously bleating about Peter Obi's "stolen mandate" [sic]. You cannot be complaining about alleged political irregularities in one country while cheering on the ultimate irregularity - sedition - in another, unless you have no moral principles whatsoever and are only motivated by a raw hunger for power at all costs.

When you govern people and you do nothing for them, everyday they quality of living declines daily, insecurity and crime is one the rise… only those in power remain rich and the governed get poorer. It’s just a matter of time before the governed revolt.

E no dey hard to know intelligent people that have become stupid just because they have compromised their sense of reasoning. You so love Tinubu that you now allow corruption and see


You just dey gibberish. Go and look at Countries with strict sanctions against corruption. Don’t even reference the military because they are also corrupt.


If you are against them then you must be stupid also. Until African countries impose strong rules on corruption then Africa will raise again.

Do you know what China does to corrupt leaders that take bribes? They execute them or face life in jail.

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A poor man is always submissive. Your true nature as a man is vivid when you have money and can afford all your temptations.

ManirBK:
Good development The coup won’t hold. They know that. They would vacate the position either in peace or in pieces.

Ecowas chairman Tinubu is holding emergency meeting to set right the situation

Why dem no stop the one for Mail and Guinea ? As Tinubu enter him give matching orders na.


Who else saw their Finance Minister crying after given 24hrs to give account of Money looted or face firing squad.


Nigerians can’t brag about constant light, yet Nigeria pays the light Niger consumes.

Bobloco:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/atiku-pdp-govs-brainstorm-on-partys-future/amp/

How e be Atiku now?


Where is the Ayu that refused to step down? As a leader, if you can’t improvise to get what you want, then how can u lead people when the pressure is at the highest.

You must not always win, but when u have passion for ur dreams, u will do anything to see it come through.

Pride would so blind a man that by the time he recovers, it will be too late.

TolkowskyCut:
Are you the one who drills your partner in the ass or are you the one who gets drilled in the ass?

He’s cooking. Obviously he is the bottom.

Dear God, instead of me to be gay, let me a fool.

Jennyclay:
Muslims are busy lynching people and burning down posters in the name of God

Christians are busy scamming the poor members in the name of God

So what’s ur point actually?

Almiron:
Messi has turned the MLS to NBA, when was the last time celebrities watch any MLS games. It can only be the 🐐 effect. They all came to witness greatness. These are some of their reactions after meeting King Leo for the first time.

You dey mind Ronaldo… just open mouth dey cap nonsense. Since e join that club, hun just dey cut my ticket daily. Even against Benfica for friendly oo.

Nvestor02:
Everybody want to go to heaven but nobody want to DIE.

People want a working Nigeria but not ready to sacrifice for it.

Nothing good come easily. We are closer to greatness this time than ever.

We can't go back to the burdern of subsidy when we have dying Infrastructure and out-of-school children to cater for.

Government can only help citizen to pay for some certain things, when economy is stable.

Not when it's dying.

Minimum wage will be increased when Ministerial position is fully formed.

To people wey dey complain too much ( we are not the one wey talk say make you poor)

We only need little patience but people are not ready to give it.

A little patience for what? A revolution or famine ?

You must be benefiting from these government, to be capping nonsense.

Morbeta11:
https://www.pulse.ng/entertainment/celebrities/nigerians-buy-the-cheapest-fuel-in-the-world-eniola-badmus-defends-tinubu/jvc6kvc?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=social

I was telling my friend the other day that he should mention one fat person that has ever invented anything in world history. I’m so sorry if you feel hurt or if I sound like I’m stereotyping. But it’s just fact.

Even as poor as Siri lanka earn 38USD as minimum wage is now Nigeria that still has an economy?


My joy is that, be you Yoruba, Hausa, Igbo, Fulani, Ijay, Urhobo, Efik, Tiv and co… everybody go feel am.

Imagine you Senate President voting for “Let the poor breath”


Useless country

Curse777:



Laycon is a philosophy best graduating student, he is more like Peter Obi when speaking philosophical Lamba

Miracle a pilot in training has the mindset of a skilled mathematics and geography Pro

WhiteMoney is a Natural born trader and a talented hustler, an Ibo man that can sell anything to anyone

Efe is a top class Economics graduate

Reality Show is not for Everyone... It's Psychological game of mind play, it's not wrestling or boxing...

If your Intelligence Quotient no reach, simply stay off


I remember when WhiteMoney explained how he made millions selling Puf Puf, egg roll , around Yaba UNiLAG side, how much he made daily while people laughed

Miracle explained the concept of Flight take off and also weather system that a 5 years old would understand




.

You too dey lamba wella. Which 5yr old in Nigeria that understands the principle of flight take off? Even some universities graduates don’t. Most graduates don’t even know the fuel aero planes use. Average will just tell you kerosene.

wrongman665:
Why always south east?

Na so. You are blind to the news from Ogun and Kwara na

FacilitatorLekk:
Emeifele is the CBN governor, his job involves controlling the banks against such economic sabotage, for their selfish reasons. His job was to manage the CBN and guide it's policies, for economic growth and fiscal transparency and accountability, not to suffer Nigerians and destroy our economy.

This is my last reply to you. Just sleep on these questions please…

1. How is ur economy now?
2. How is the floater Naira doing?
3. Do u purchase fuel daily?
4. As a Nigerian, are u enjoying? Like right now?

It’s vivid that living right now is more hard than what we experienced during the cashless policy.

FacilitatorLekk:
You are missing the point. His job is to enact the right policies, his job is not to enact policies not well thought through that jeopardized the lives of Nigerians, and nearly brought anarchy to Nigeria. Emeifele seized currency totally from circulation, this has never been heard of before in the world.

Lol! You still don’t know what happened man. He didn’t seize any new money from circulation. It was bank directors who owes loyalties to certain people I won’t mention that seized the money from circulation. Are u not aware that he started using EFCC to go to banks ? Or u didn’t see images of money in banks vaults ?

FacilitatorLekk:
Controlling vote buying is not part of his job, he has no right to do that to the detriment of national life and progress.

But control of currency distribution is also not his right?