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 Education › It's NEVER Okay To Spank A Child For Being NAUGHTY. by iamuye(op): 2:47pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
I have seen a post about child education recently and it made me to think and do a bit of research. Here is the reason why I refuse to use violence to educate. 1. Spanking shows that “stronger” is right When you use physical punishment to show a child he/she did something wrong, you are sending the unintended message that whomever is bigger and stronger decides what’s right and what’s wrong. Does this mean your child can determine what’s right when he or she becomes stronger than you? Could this contribute to why elder abuse is so prevalent? 2. Spanking demonstrates that older people have a right to hit younger people You’re sending the message that older, bigger people have the right to hit younger, smaller people. This is especially confusing when you’re disciplining a child for hitting someone. What do you think can happen when your child grows to be bigger than you? 3. Spanking gives the example that violence solves problems Spanking also shows children that violence is an appropriate way to solve life’s problems. “If I don’t like what you do, then I’m going to hit you.” Physically punishing your child can be perceived as a form of bullying, sending the message to your child that this is an effective way to get others to do things your way. 4. Spanking damages self-esteem When children are hit by the very people who are supposed to protect them, it causes a child to question, “What’s wrong with me?” Self-esteem is a critically important and fragile thing. If you want your child to succeed in life, the level of his or her self-esteem will be a major determining factor. 5. Spanking can increase the likelihood of developing mental health symptoms According to this new study, links have been found from later mental health diagnoses to higher incidents of childhood spanking for disciplinary purposes. I am willing to bet that when spanking your child, your intention wasn’t to create long-term psychological problems. 6. Spanking damages your relationship and trust Do you remember being hit as a child? Do you ever remember thinking afterward, “I’m so thankful my parent loves me enough to hit me?” Of course you didn’t! You were probably thinking, “I hate you” or some version of an anti-relationship building comment. Of course that doesn’t last long if parents do an overall good job of parenting. However, spanking can shake the foundation of trust between you and your child. Your child trusts you to always have his or her best interests in mind. Spanking can greatly cause your child to question this premise. 7. Spanking reduces the influence you have with your children When you think of those people you listen to, trust and seek out for advice, it’s those people who support and encourage you, not generally those who “smack you down,” either literally or physically. Do you want to have influence with your child? Then you might want to stop hitting him or her, even if it’s for “his own good. |
| Education › It's NEVER Okay To Spank A Child For Being NAUGHTY by iamuye(op): 1:56pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
I have seen a post about child education recently and it made me to think and do a bit of research. Here is the reason why I refuse to use violence to educate. 1. Spanking shows that “stronger” is right When you use physical punishment to show a child he/she did something wrong, you are sending the unintended message that whomever is bigger and stronger decides what’s right and what’s wrong. Does this mean your child can determine what’s right when he or she becomes stronger than you? Could this contribute to why elder abuse is so prevalent? 2. Spanking demonstrates that older people have a right to hit younger people You’re sending the message that older, bigger people have the right to hit younger, smaller people. This is especially confusing when you’re disciplining a child for hitting someone. What do you think can happen when your child grows to be bigger than you? 3. Spanking gives the example that violence solves problems Spanking also shows children that violence is an appropriate way to solve life’s problems. “If I don’t like what you do, then I’m going to hit you.” Physically punishing your child can be perceived as a form of bullying, sending the message to your child that this is an effective way to get others to do things your way. 4. Spanking damages self-esteem When children are hit by the very people who are supposed to protect them, it causes a child to question, “What’s wrong with me?” Self-esteem is a critically important and fragile thing. If you want your child to succeed in life, the level of his or her self-esteem will be a major determining factor. 5. Spanking can increase the likelihood of developing mental health symptoms According to this new study, links have been found from later mental health diagnoses to higher incidents of childhood spanking for disciplinary purposes. I am willing to bet that when spanking your child, your intention wasn’t to create long-term psychological problems. 6. Spanking damages your relationship and trust Do you remember being hit as a child? Do you ever remember thinking afterward, “I’m so thankful my parent loves me enough to hit me?” Of course you didn’t! You were probably thinking, “I hate you” or some version of an anti-relationship building comment. Of course that doesn’t last long if parents do an overall good job of parenting. However, spanking can shake the foundation of trust between you and your child. Your child trusts you to always have his or her best interests in mind. Spanking can greatly cause your child to question this premise. 7. Spanking reduces the influence you have with your children When you think of those people you listen to, trust and seek out for advice, it’s those people who support and encourage you, not generally those who “smack you down,” either literally or physically. Do you want to have influence with your child? Then you might want to stop hitting him or her, even if it’s for “his own good. |
| Nairaland General › Re: How To Create A New Topic by iamuye(m): 1:46pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
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| Celebrities › Re: Bizzyaski Bisola Ojikutu Explains Why Having Tattoos Is Not A Sin by iamuye(m): 2:04pm On Aug 05, 2017 |
fidet1:No, na catalog for client to choose.  |
| Romance › Re: Please Rate My Girlfriend [pics] by iamuye(m): 8:43pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
I won't be surprised if d girl is finer than d op.. Pls let us see your pic  |
| Celebrities › Re: Man That Took Hushpuppi As His Role Model (Photo) by iamuye(m): 8:03pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
medolab90:My blooda any news that has hushpupi has been set to automatically move to front page on nairaland. |
| Phones › Re: How I Lost 120,000 Naira In 20days For Buying Blackberry Keyone by iamuye(m): 5:59pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
coalcoal1:Let's just fry fufu instead 1 Like |
| Phones › Re: How I Lost 120,000 Naira In 20days For Buying Blackberry Keyone by iamuye(m): 5:57pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
ollah1:Nna this one weak me o 2 Likes |
| Education › Re: 16-Year-Old Zambian Student Breastfeed Her Baby During Examination In School by iamuye(m): 5:05pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
snazzy5050:Responsible is not just the perfect word to use 1 Like 1 Share |
| Health › Re: I'm Addicted To Codeine , Weed, Tramadol And Many More by iamuye(m): 4:55pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
All of you suggesting rehab centers,, pls do we have em in Nigeria, if yes, are dey functioning well?? Is ask I ask. |
| Celebrities › Re: Davido Brags About His Very Expensive Shoes (Photos) by iamuye(m): 2:02pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
helphelp:Free her, na Slay Queen b this one na, why you Dey write too much grammar. |
| Celebrities › Re: Davido Brags About His Very Expensive Shoes (Photos) by iamuye(m): 12:41pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Buking1:So the app has its way of detecting ugly peeps and automically removing em from the platform abi.
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| Romance › Re: No Man Deserves To Be Called A Broke Ass: Do Not Judge Him by iamuye(m): 7:41pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Arccangel:You just gave a definition to justify all the nonsense you have been spewing, the word "BROKE" is either the past tense of break or being bankrupt, not having money. Abi which dictionary defines it as all d rubbish you mentioned above?? |
| Romance › Re: No Man Deserves To Be Called A Broke Ass: Do Not Judge Him by iamuye(m): 7:21pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Benita27:But patoranking too was a barrow pusher na  |
| Celebrities › Don Jazzy Launches Free Wifi, Says I Know How Expensive Data Is. by iamuye(op): 2:11pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
On Friday, Mavin Records founder, Don Jazzy and technology company Tsaboin launched Flobyt, a free WiFi service for Nigerians residing in Lagos. According to Dele Odufuye, Tsaboin MD/CEO, disclosed that the WiFi service can be accessed in locations like eateries, parks, taxis, buses, restaurants, and cafes. Odufuye said, It's quite easy. You simply walk into any of our partner outlets and patronize them. While you are at that, you can log into Flobyt's free WiFi service available. Join the "Flobyt FREE Wifi" If your browser pops up for authentication, just visit www.mavinrecords.co mor click on "Free Access" button shown to you. "We are using state-of-the-art WiFi technology equipment that balances speed, quality of service, security and data consumption. These equipment are light weight and easier to manage. These are the technological and business edges". he added. Don Jazzy, in his remarks, stated that I believe so much in this. This is one of the few other investments we are going to be sharing with you. I have been on social media for a long time. I know how expensive data is. I give free airtime, now its time to give free WiFi, he said. Flobyt is currently installed in Bar Enclave, Ilupeju; FoodHouse, Ikosi; Lounge 9a, Anthony; Massimo Bar, Ikeja; Grace's Cakes, Ogba; Jazzment Salon Lekki; Kayz Place Barbershop, Lekki; Amala Express, Lekki; White House, Sabo, Yaba and Road Star Burger, Lekki. |
| Romance › Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Not Telling A Girl, You Have Feeling For Her? by iamuye(m): 8:39am On Jul 20, 2017 |
fastgyal:I actually admire such confident from a lady, I don't see it as being cheap or desperate, I see a goal getter, I see a lady who knows what she wants, I see a lady who understands that life is not gonna give you what you really want because you deserve it, most times you have to take it by force. 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Juliet Ibrahim And Boyfriend, Iceberg Slim At The Beach by iamuye(m): 3:33pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Pavore9:Sorry how do you define a yahoo boy look  |
| Crime › Re: IG Idris Fires 4 Policemen Who Wrongly Arrested Man For Being A 'yahoo Yahoo' by iamuye(m): 12:00am On Jul 10, 2017 |
idris4eva: |
| Crime › Re: Lagos Police Raise Alarm Over New Tactic Used By Kidnappers by iamuye(m): 10:30am On Jun 25, 2017 |
As the card Dey enter, I Dey do Mtn sub straight without even wanting to know who sent it. I would just believe it's the Lord's doing. |
| Education › Re: University Of Suya, Faculty Of Meatalogy Spotted In Lagos (photos) by iamuye(m): 6:14pm On May 02, 2017 |
 dis one na dog meat o |
| Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Rescues Man Thrown Out Of A speeding Keke Napep (pictured) by iamuye(m): 5:18pm On May 02, 2017 |
"...Everyone thought he was dead but I TOLD them that as long as my hands have been laid on this young man in prayers he will be fine..." she trying to form Jesus Christ or Holy Mary?? or is it not d Tonto Dikeh I know?? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: President Buhari Must Not Die - Bishop Adeoye by iamuye(m): 5:44pm On May 01, 2017 |
smartty68:are you sure that dude is not GAY?? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: President Buhari Must Not Die - Bishop Adeoye by iamuye(m): 5:38pm On May 01, 2017 |
saharacable:pastor be sounding like he wants d dude to cheat death.. bubu is an old man, and want happens when man grows old is that he becomes weak physically, falls sick easily and eventually dieds. bubu is obviously at that stage where all d above happens, it's only a matter of time before he finally kicks d bucket. |
| Romance › Re: "I Will Be Your Loyal Servant For Life" - Kenyan Lady Tells Her White Boyfriend by iamuye(m): 1:38pm On May 01, 2017 |
Nickizoe:"white unseasoned albino chicken" chai see fatality... by d way I understand ur plight.. fair girl + fair dude can equal to "white unseasoned albino chicken baby" eheheh!! 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: "I Will Be Your Loyal Servant For Life" - Kenyan Lady Tells Her White Boyfriend by iamuye(m): 1:37pm On May 01, 2017 |
Nickizoe:"white unseasoned albino chicken" chai see fatality... by d way I understand ur plight.. fair girl + fair dude can equal to "white unseasoned albino chicken" eheheh!! 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: "I Will Be Your Loyal Servant For Life" - Kenyan Lady Tells Her White Boyfriend by iamuye(m): 1:30pm On May 01, 2017 |
dingbang:my broda we have something in common here... |
| Fashion › Re: What Is Your Best Perfume? by iamuye(m): 5:58pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Paco Rabani |
| Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode: "Buhari Is Looking Like Gollum, Behaving Like A Goblin" by iamuye(m): 4:37pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
kpaofame:it is as long as you are paying tithes to men in black. 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode: "Buhari Is Looking Like Gollum, Behaving Like A Goblin" by iamuye(m): 4:31pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
kpaofame:Yahoo is your only option. |
| Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson Kneels Before The Ohinoyi Of Ebiraland (Photos) by iamuye(m): 4:03pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
metronaija2:OMG!!! how is this news worthy,, nd dis made fp?? she for hang on air to greet now.
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| Family › Re: When Your Wife Is Richer Than You by iamuye(m): 3:56pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Omotayor123:
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| Celebrities › Re: Efe's Fans React To His New Single "Based On Logistics" by iamuye(m): 3:35pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Oreoo:Fatality!! 2 Likes
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