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vpaymoney:
People BEWARE! don't ever go to this people o. You will definitely regret doing so aswear. Wise ones don't need wise words its the unknowing ones that needs it.

Please reveal what they are doing ooo, save people from 1 chance

ProGSM:
The car is brought in from Canada and never used here before. What if its starts giving me problems?

How has your experience been?

wrex001:
More people needed. Make that call.

Can we still do business together?

Microwhy:
Women don't know how frustraring and mental draining it is for a man that has been the breadwinner to becoming a dependant.
Its extremely difficult for anybody who has not been in that shoe before to understand. Find any means to say a sincere sorry to your husband, even if na to carry toto go meet am for im friend place, just do it.

God bless you ooo.

To say the man even fund the creation for the business for her makes it more painful.

She has rocked the boat of that home by herself.

Zeeknow3245:
Oga did you read the write up at all? She didn't employ. She asked for help for him to dishes.
Which department? He used the money to open a business which is commendable but Oga things are not the way they are. Oga drop this your pride . When you will move abroad you go know say this mentality stinks.
Men wash dishes, men drop kids, men take out the trash,men do groceries, men do Laundries and men cook same with women. Do you know how many leaked pictures about David Cameron have been leaked with him cooking and even Washing?
Things are hard and you shouldn't make it harder. He refused to even get menial jobs so as to feed his family. Oga you shouldn't hear people's stories ooo. There's a man who was living in my area, he lost his job because we all knew he worked. So he started helping his wife wash,cook and keep records if his wife isn't around . We dey help am dish food for small pay if his wife wasn't around.His kids were little then. His wife does same exactly same. They've apportioned delegations to each other. If the man washes and cook for 2 days,the woman cooks the rest 4 days. From there he focused on keeping records and accounts before he later got a job. The wife was bad mouthed but still gives him respect too. But as long money go drop and everybody wins,no wahala. Life can never remain like that. His wife still runs it with other workers. FUNNILY the man is Igbo
The truth is Until you know your problem you can't solve anything

Aunty, I read it into to. And I purposely used the word employed cos the wife kept on mentioning, he is jobless, not doing anything which means she thought dish washing is employment for him.

Thats not how to seek help. And I am sure she knows her husband better and should understand what he will do or not do.

You don't need to commend him fakely for opening the business, asking him to turn dish washer is enough appreciation. When the woman was not doing anything and the man was fully responsible for his family without help from anywhere, how many times has the man asked her to come to his shop to sweep the floor? As a woman will you even do it? No. You will ask him to find a cleaner. So, leave pride alone, what she did is wrong.

Yes, men do trash, wash cloth, picks kids, do dishes yes men cook yes. For their family.
If he has to do it abroad as a job, he will do and know how much he will be making. At that point, its a job or a sacrifice for his home.

Yes David Cameroon. And how many video of his wife yelling orders at him have you found on the internet? When you are polite, respectful and have a good approach, a husband can do anything for you. But when you feel, this is 21st century na, why can't he wash dishes for me cos I have customers. He will show you like this man had done.

He refused to get menial jobs? Imagine what you are saying. How much will menial job earn him? Someone with a wife and two children.... At most 3000 naira a day of hard labour that he is not used to. And doing a day, he will be useless for a week.

Have you done menial jobs before? You don't know what you are saying.

As for the man living in your area, with the way you narrate it, there had been a discussion between the wife and the husband on what to do with their life and he agreed. Good for him, even with that, the wife still bad mouthed him.
But, there are choices in life, this man refuses to settle for less. I won't blame him.

If you don't have challenges as a man financially, you wouldn't know the kind of woman you are living with. He knows his wife now, fairweather woman!

Zeeknow3245:
She said asked him to HELP. Her Communications might be fringy though but you see that your wife has little workers and can't afford more and sense did not tell you to do the needful. What is this love people are talking about? Sex? Buying gifts and Trips?The man has a stupid pride and we should be objective in our argument. Some people didn't even read and are commenting like fools. The Restaurant is a business and the man is unemployed. It's not that he's even doing something that one can say he's trying. What is bad if you help in the business and try to improve customer's service. If the business is booming, everybody wins. If you wash plate will you die? If you wash plate will your life be ruined for ever? It's just a phase of life, everybody has issues.
The business is dropping and you comot hand? You left the kids and went to stay with your friend because you don't want your foolish ego to drop. I hate bias comment many people are blind truly. The man messed up by slapping.

What stops the woman from doing the plates and have the man do something else? It has to be plates?

Then, that's not her first day in the shop, the pressure must have been an everyday thing. Why didn't she discuss needing more hands or assistance with her husband before that incident.

Then, this man was responsible for setting up the business for his wife 100% and because his business was scammed, he has to be employed by his wife? And no better department for him than dish washing? Abi? Fear God ooo

DaCharis2016:
What's totally bad? Considering the pressure on her she mentioned. I think her asking for her husband's help was justified.

By HIS special grace, same will happen to you

BonPatrick:
A mother of two who pleaded anonymity has taken to social media to ask members of the public whether it was wrong to ask her husband to do the dishes.
According to her, her husband lost his business to scam and she has been the one catering for the family with the little she earns from her restaurant business.
She said: “Truly, My husband was the one who opened the restaurant for me, I cook very well and I still do my cooking by myself as I only direct my staffs on what to do.My husband lost his business to scam and since then it’s been me carrying the responsibilities, most of my staffs left because I could not pay them and at some point, all of them left and I had to do everything by myself.

“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.

“I ignored the embarrassment and even most of my customers left, when I got home I noticed that he moved his things, I called his phone and he said he is in his friends place till he gets a job he will come home, that I should take care of the kids.

“He cut the call I tried to call and the next he blocked me.

“What did I do wrong, who is supposed to be upset? I just need to clear my conscience.”

As a man, if I am among the customers waiting to be served, I will leave you restaurant and never patronise you again. Why would you treat your man like that? I just hope you still hold a special space in his heart.

All you people will no be patient enough to understand what it means to be a man and what is very important to us. Our Ego and pride of being a MAN, you hurt us most when you attack it. Men hardly forget it, even if they manage to forgive.

brimdans:
I would have loved to remain anonymous, but what's the point?

My problem is I'm a jobless graduate, who works for a friend. This friend I work for, doesn't even pay, he just gives me stipends after every work I do. It's a laundry work. He owns the shop, so he's in charge of everything in the shop including, collections of money and all. My work is just to work. I do virtually everything in the shop.

My problem is this guy almost all the time collects the money and doesn't even give me my share. The only time I see my share is when the I'm around when the monies are given to him.

I'm hooked because I mostly feed in there house, because the shop is just within the house. I tried to get a good job, but nothing is forth coming. I even tried applying for casual jobs, still no luck.

I'm currently in a dilemma because my parents are tired of me staying in there house, so currently I sleep in the shop, and it's not even conducive, but that's the only option I have.

I tried contacting my relatives in Lagos if I could go and make a living there, but they aren't really interested me coming.

Please I kindly need advise and help, because I'm heading towards depression.

I'm actually 30 years old. With nothing to show for, except "I'm a graduate" tag.

If you can drive, find someone to give you taxi to drive that better than what you currently do. But pls, dont cheat your employer or the person who gives u the vehicle to drive.

Seun:
https://punchng.com/sokoto-approves-n155m-for-clerics-to-propagate-islam/

This has to be some kind of joke. I mean, they might as well send the motorcycles directly to bandits, ISWAP. This is unbelievable.

Haaaaaaa!

Let this country break up already

majamajic:
Am yet to understand what countries gain by fighting Israel

The fighting will continue the way things are going, Is real claims the land by force based on biblical inheritance of the area they left scattered all over the world many many years ago.

The Palestinians had also owned the land for many many years, they have no other place to call theirs.

Solution should be that we rewrite history, Israel should not expand beyond it present borders anymore, Palestine should be recognised as a state, Palestine should forget about collecting any land back from Israel. An International Israeli-Palestine Peace Agency should be set up by the super powers led by China, Russia, US,UK, Japan and Germany with Israel and Palestine as members. To monitor, build and sustain peace in the area.

Israel should pay Palestine a big amount of money as a resettlement allowance, this may come as rebuilding Palestine, providing social structures that they could not provide over time as a result of deprivation egg housing hospitals roads telecoms etc and in return Palestine's Hama sign an agreement to never send rockets into State of Israel.

If they achieve these then other peace moves can be made.

Note: the ignorant Nigerians never understand that the war is not a religious war, its a crisis over land and statehood. As Israel has Muslim population and Palestine has Christians too.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright .....Gal Gadot my crush....abeg tell your country make una rest for fight matter


You are not a real niggarr....lets preach peace...
Nobody be super man...if he really set .....that Israel go hear am hot
Make una nor dey allow all those biblical say deceive una say Israel hardly lose battle.....if Israel do anyhow these days....them go hear am for body

I agree

tolexy007:
Let peace rain. Many Palestinians are were jubilating about the cease fire, they are good and loving people, only Hamas is the problem.
Iron dome will be one thing people will google most this year. Long live Israel.

See as this one carry bow leg enter Israeli Army, if naija paramilitary police or military, them go don screen am out.

olabode23:
Nscdc seems to be an organization that lacks coordination, not even a press statement from CG to assure the applicants of their readiness to conclude the recruitment process despite Reps approval! Very bad

Recruiting senior officers, level 8 and above is done by the board. Junior 7 downward is done by the department. It is the board that should make a press statement not the agency. And Infact the junior officers intake that the Dept is empowered to do, is not totally free from the control of the Minister and board. The only advantage that has is the fact that most senators, ministers are usually not interested in the junior category.

So, please be calm. They will not issue any address but so far immigration has started their screening, that of NSCDC is not far away anymore.

All you need to worry about now is whether your contact is still working for you. I also have a candidate, and I have been silently following.

Origin:
Men will eventually cause the 3rd world war.

What is there in saying i dont have funds and would prefer to have the wedding and trad on same day.

Why must you include your advisor's name. That is why some of us refuse to advise you. And it is all for abosi.

Calling your mother's name or any other person's name can trigger that reaction as she feels it is a couple's affair.

Take ownership of the decisions you need to take and lay your cards clearly to your fiancee and see her reaction.

My mother said even makes you sound like a mummy's boy.

See advise from women who will nearly take permission from their mother before sleeping with their husband.

OP there is nothing wrong with your statement, you cannot pretend that your mother isn't a stakeholder in this programme and you did not seek her advise, she offers it. And you are a good man for been transparent to your would be wife.

She is just too immature to see the positive side of your discussion. Your mum wants the best for you two, there is hunger in the land, squandering funds is not advisable.

Lastly, don't allow her to withdraw you from you mother or father in the name of we are couples while she runs to hers for support and advise every opportunity she got. It will bring you tears.

Shallom!

Chris2863:
2 million for wedding. Ha, you get money oo

I dey tell you.

I just pity him.

Where do you ladies meet crazy guys like this. Leave that angry man. And continue living your life. He will leave you worse that you are.

Dalil8:
G.O.A.T

If Mbappe, somehow ends up at Madrid next season then PSG are getting Ronaldo.

But I'd love to see him back home at Real Madrid where he belongs.



He's won 4 titles at Juve genius

100 Goals in just 3 years. Is that what you call failure?

His home is Manchester United, stop bluffing

Thannny:
I really appreciate it! I think a lot of my contemporaries don't truly appreciate or understand Africa, and to be fair neither do I. My career is mainly in English and Film, however I'd be lying if I said that I don't have an interest in Nigerian cinema or culture. I really appreciate the offer to teach me Yoruba, I'd be down! I'll request your email and we can decide what communication you'd prefer! Penpals seem to be a thing of the past, so meeting people from other places that I have never been would certainly be fun!

Thanks!

Its alright Thannny, there are many things of fun to experience and explore in the world, making friends from different culture and race is definitely part of it. Penpal is old fashion, I agree. Well, WhatsApp is very popular and most people use it.

Charmingrascal:
Isreal is surrounded by terrorists yet they can't be defeated.

The earlier y'all terrorists realize that God Yahweh himself has convenant with Isreal and he has vowed to protect her and give her victory over her enemies the better for y'all.


Hamas will attack Isreal from residential buildings when Isreal fights back y'all will be screaming massacre.

We all know that if Hamas lay down its arms today there will be peace but if Isreal tries that she will be overrun by terrorists from right left and centre.





Y'all Islamic terrorists should know that the days of Isreal suffering have passed.
Yahweh punished them, gave their lands to the uncircumcised and scattered them all around the World.

Same Yahweh forgave them and made a convenant with them, he said he will gather them from all over the World where they are scattered and give them back their land and no enemy, no Nation will rise against them and win them.


That is the convenant. Terrorists can try all they want but they can never triumph over God's people.


Isrealis might not be Christians but they are God's people.

Isreal houses Christian heritages and monuments.

The Jews have no other home or other place to go Isreal is there only home, the Islamic terrorists surrounding them have other homes, they Saudi, Afghanistan, Iran, Iraq and other Islamic States.

O ye Lebanon be warned don't interfere in this war if you don't want to be destroyed.
No one wages war against God's people and win.

O ye descendants of Cain be cautious attack not the people of God else you will experience God's wrath and he will destroy you.


Isreal is the only home of the Jews which Yahweh has given to them and no one can take it from them because it is God's convenant.




Modified: Y'all that are saying where was God's convenant when Hitler killed Isrealis should understand that God Yahweh himself vowed to punish Isreal for going against him, he vowed that they will be attacked and their enemies will triumph over them and they will be scattered all over the World.

The same Yahweh in the the most Precious book in the World (the Holy Bible) also promised them that after all their travails, he will restore Isreal lost glory, he will gather them like the sand and no enemy will triumph over them. His convenant his glaring and the era is here.

Everything in the Bible is happening right before our eyes, Jesus is coming soon.

He is the Lord and he has spoken.

What is playing out in Isreal over the years have made me believe every word of the Bible. As small as Isreal is and with the fact that she is surrounded by descendants of Cain with their evil agenda for her she has never been defeated and has God liveth no harm can happen to Isreal.
Man is not God is promises and convenant don't fail.



Hallelujah!!



Selah!!

NAwA oooo and you are Satan's people. That's why He left your to burn to ashes in Nigeria abi? What exactly is wrong with Nigerians sef? Let's assume you are our President, this is the rubbish you will be putting forth as our foreign policy right? Smh

FoolishBoy419:
So if you contribute to the world, you have the right to burn down people and snatch houses?

I don't blame you. I blame whoever the idiot is that invented religion

Lol e dey always shock person how people defend wrong thing just to advance their own view of things.

Fulani did not contribute anything? What of cows? At least they did something.

Either food or science, its not a reason to start land grabbing and burning people in their homes while sleeping, killing children and women.

I pray we start using our brains and remove sentiments.

Danisaint112:
If the Palestinians would watch evil (terrorism) unfold before their eyes and they do nothing other than to support the act.

Then when bombing this terrorist location, no one should be considered for they are all terrorist.

I just watched Al-Jazeera this morning, you need to see the way Palestinian children were busy throwing stones at the Isreali Army while their parents sit and watch.[/b]

Terrorism is in this people called Arabs blood. And I don't think anything can change that fact.

When their adults do same and they get shot, the whole world would cry wolf. And complain on how they are being killed for protesting for right.

The first [b]100 rockets fired into ISREAL were from residential streets in Gaza. And their people watch while the evil unfold.

What Isreal forces did was simply return bomb to them from where they were projected. Did you expect them to sit and watch. And plead with HAMAS.

No. A big NO!

You know the MOSSAD has gathered more than enough information about this deadly terrorist and their future plan to unleash Jihad on the state.

For the Isrealites, this is an opportunity to destroy them with every info gathered.

HAMAS you know is somehow regretting but they just have to keep going in other not to be seen as cowards

You don't negotiate with terrorists man you fight and dismantle them.

And ISREAL is a country that knows how to handle them.

Which parents? Parent that has been killed by Israeli Airstrikes in their homes. And let me ask you, when you see somebody that killed you families, neighbours, friends and destroyed your town driving Humvees through same town, you will hug and smile at them right?

See, what the Fulani people are trying to do in Nigeria, land grabbing around is what Israel did to Palestine, while you all complain about Fulani but embrace that of Israel.

Let assume a group of nomadic people came to just wake now and say the entire Nigeria was their ancestral land and put across verses from one of the holy books to back it that they live on it during the time of Maybe Abraham and asked us to vacate the land. They sought Wester backing and fought a war to chase Nigerians away to a small corner in the country.

Used connection to seek that that small corner is not recognised as a country etc etc

Pls who is the terrorist here?

Don't give a dog a bad name just to hang it. Treat Isreal-Phalestine crisis separately.

Thannny:
I checked out Papa Ajasco and I laughed hysterically at the scene where the guy puts a hot iron to his head instead of his phone!!! I'm interested in learning Yoruba, at least conversationally if I ever do visit Nigeria so I can enjoy the TV shows and movies. Thanks for the reccomendation!

You are welcome, you seem to be an interesting personality. Most westerners are not really interested in African traditional language and culture. I hope you have a successful career like Profeasors Kareen Barber and Susan Wenger, who took serious interest in African culture.

I am a Yoruba man and I can volunteer some time after work to teach you Yoruba. The conversational level. And if you decide to go academic, I know a professor of Yoruba at University of Lagos, he was my guardian while I was studying, he will surely add value to your knowledge of Yoruba language and culture.

You can request for my email if you want to learn the Yoruba language.

Gbajure:
Aside from Windhoek, where else in Namibia. And that city economy is smaller than that of Ibadan. They don't take light yes, but if u can pay same in Nigeria, u will enjoy light nah. Many places in Lagos are enjoying light 24/7 under the willing buyers willing sellers scheme.

Why is it that when some people need to make any derogatory comparison in terms of development or infrastructure, you people will mention Ibadan
You think that terrible footpath the FG called express road that they could not fix in 30 years (shameful) and the 1920s mud housed you see as your bus passes through is all Ibadan offers? No. You don't know Ibadan at all. The city is more viable than your current believe or rating.

Ibadan will line up where major cities in Africa is and in Nigeria, the city is in the class of Lagos, Sokoto,Kano, Enugu, etc.

If you want to know Ibadan, go there and seek data's about her economy and other statistics and stop relying on what you see while peeping out of your vehicle's window, those views does not account for 25% of Ibadan.

You can ask non indigenous business people here who are investing and developing their businesses there, if they do not economise with the truth, they will make you understand that Ibadan ranks higher than you rating it.
Show some respect pls.
Thank you.

Thannny:
Unfortunately not by name, I believe I have seen Mr Ibu in films with Osita Iheme. I don't think I have seen Okele though. Mr Ibu reminds me a lot of Hitoshi Matsumoto, (see pic attached). Any funny films you reccomend with them?

Okele and Sanyeri are funny, but there movies are majorly in Yoruba language.

Saka and Ajirebi acts English movies that you will easily flow with. Therefore, search for Baba Ajasco movies on YouTube. It's in series, you will laugh yourself away.

Thannny:
Hello Nairaland!

My name is Than and I am from Ireland. I don't know if you get many westerners here, however I am very interested in Nigerian culture and history. I had a friend in college who introduced me to the music of Fela Kuti, and I have become obsessed with Nigeria.

I am a student of film and one of my works is in globalisation, so I have studied Nollywood's impact on Africa as a whole. Some even watch up to FIVE films a day!!! I am very excited to talk to Nigerians, be they Igbo, Yoruba or other tribes I have not yet been aware of! Though I write here to learn, I also write here to provide any questions you may want to ask me, be it about Ireland, Europe, film or my perspectives as an outsider on Nigeria!

My favourite Nollywood director is Lancelot Imasuen, his eccentric behaviour and his passion are inspiring! My favourite Nollywood actor is Osita Iheme!

Ask me anything you would like!

Have you heard of Mr IBU and Okele? These are comic characters.

Oblongata:
I think all Lexus ES cars are V6

Yes boss, Infact all Lexus brand, I think.

Swolf:
Valencia now has another campus at Oluyole estate, behind victory church

Okay thats nice.

The school is really a big shot now

Ginaz:
He asked me what I was afraid of and I couldn’t say anything. Truth is, I’ve been to his family house , just normal visit as you would visit a friend till his bro told me I’m only girl he has brought to the house . We have a connection but how do you love with a heart that is unresponsive? Everything takes me time ! I’m not the “I wanna be in a relationship and fall inlove “ kinda person and he knows it. Not that I don’t care about him, fact is I do.

I can like someone today and just get up tomorrow and don’t wanna have anything to do with you. I don’t want to treat him that way. I just feel a lot would change and I would lose this friendship I value so much. Like being free and happy with a human who is deep minded like you. I don’t know how to explain myself again sef , I’m tired! I will let him be, I’d be fine.

First time in 6yrs I would text him and he didn’t message me back . I felt it .

You are both in love. Just face the reality and move on. If your decision remains No, and you cannot love someone who loves and is kind to you and let this man go. I pray you don't regret it.

cydophobia:
Bashorun,Bodija,Oluyole Estate and all cool places in Ibadan.

Thank you boss.

I don't know about Oluyole. But as for Basorun axis, you can go for Valencia Schools around Kolapo Ishola estate. If the fee is too high for you .... There are other options around the area.

Take a drive round and visit some schools to get more info

Which area?