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Fear of the unknown. It's a natural thing. Whites prefer Whites, Asians to Asians, Blacks to Blacks etc. Of course there exceptions to the general rule and it is encouraged. Maybe you can be one of them.

Zahymaka:
I started this thread hoping we men would confess to what makes us behave the way we do. Personally, I don't cry because I've found it hard to cry since I was little. As for fraternising with other boys, I don't think I'be hugged any boy before not because I see anything wrong in it but because the other person might find something wrong with it.

Men need practical solutions and advice for their problems, not hugs and kisses

I get confused when everyone talks about charge cards to replenish the minutes, because that is synonymous with pre-paid service. Maybe there are other service contracts available, where you get to pay your bill monthly. That's what I want to know.

Thank you Rhea. What can I do without Africa and all the goodies it's got to offer?

JosBoy4Lif:
@ Radiant
y you go yarn this, e be like say you dunn play mugu one 2 many timez, co ya?

You can bet on that. A girl spurned.

gigitte:
i don't see anyone hating on anyone on this thread, if some people choose to believe that nudity or near nudity is warranted only for truly artistic purposes (of which sports illustrated is not one) , please respect their viewpoints and do not ask them to loosen up

but honestly in this shoot, she did not need to take off her top so why do it?

Subtle hating!

Thanks demmy. I love to know about the successful exploits of Nigerians.

We're blessed to have her as a worthy ambassador for Nigeria. If you guys realize what it takes to be in a Sports Illustrated- Swimsuit edition, we should all be toasting champaign in her name.

Like I said, It depends on your man. Do not fall into the trap of thinking that because he is a Nigerian or "African" like a lot of Jamaican say, that he will be a good husband material. Nigerians are very smart so you must know what you want out of the relationship and express it early.

chinani:
[quote author=chinani link=topic=8815.msg253142#msg253142 date=1143223682]@ Idekeson
[color=#990000]Why is it that when women get angry they're called emotional but when men are angry they're just angry?

[/quote]In a conflict, men can articulate and clearly express their grievance but often times women project numerous conflicting signals, most of which are not directly related to the original disagreement. This is clearly because they let their emotions dictate their reaction. This fault of the female specie hinders conflict resolution in most relationships

The only difference between a Jamaican man and a Nigerian man is the language. A Jamaican man that grew up in Kingston has the same attitude as a Nigerian man that grew up in Lagos. Not every Jamaican man is a "hustler" or "rude boy". Same token, not every Nigerian man is a "guy man" (con man). Forget stereotypes, there is no standard behavior of a Nigerian man. It depends largely on the orientation of your man. Nuff respect.

[quote author=b_e_b_e link=topic=8815.msg252208#msg252208 date=1143178386]Tough decisions? Like what?

How to play video games?
How to play with the remote?
How to yell at the TV when sports are on?

_{Just kidding Idekeson- - good to see you} [/quote]It's really really tough to give up the remote so "madame" can watch her soap when a game is on. But we just have to do it and make do with the bedroom TV to allow peace and tranquility reign. You know women can get very "emotional" over stuff like that

toshmann:
i read in the guardian newspapers(reuben abiati column;24th march) that a minister in uganda was saying that the opposition is not capable of ruling uganda.and he compared their incompetence with the" nigerians who can't count themselves".

whew! even uganda is among those insulting us. see where nigeria has come to.

No matter how bad it has become, we can't stoop low to respond to the likes of Uganda. I say annex them and make it a training ground for our ECOMOG forces.

Nigeria's problems must be solved from within.

Seun:
Do you happen to have some info of what is the best school in Port Harcourt? I heard about University of Port-Harcourt but was told it is a federal school. So, does it meant it is not that good?

And what do you consider a good school I know my questions sounded so stupid, please forgive me. But I would very much appreciate if you can shade some lights on this or can refer me to someone who has knowledge in Port-Harcourt.

Enquiry by: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=16364

Are you an international student seeking admission in Nigeria? I'm sorry but some of the questions are kind of weird.

Emotions often clouds judgments. Since men make most of the tough decisions, we often trade in emotions for the good of mankind.

Jakumo:
Chris Uba is a biological brother of late Stella Obasanjo.

Chris Uba is not Stella Obasanjo's brother. Stella is from Edo state, Chris is from Anambra. The Uba's are connected to Obasanjo through the marriage of Chris' brother to Stella's sister/cousin.
There is a claim that they helped Obasanjo after his travail with Abacha. So he is rewarding them for that. But to allocate the destiny of a state to a "nobody" for that reason beats my imagination.
A few years back Chris was known in Enugu circle as one of the "Arthur boys" ie Chief Arthur Eze, former Triax airlines, who had vowed to go on exile if Abacha doesn't succeed himself. I wonder what happened to him.
Chris Uba is the typical example of everything that is wrong with Nigeria. He moves around with all the paraphernalia of authority, while his only claim to power is been a patron of the PDP.
It's really really sad that people like Chris Uba decides the affairs of my beloved country Nigeria.

Igboman. Nothing better.

Do phone companies in Nigeria offer service contracts to those who meet the requirements or Nigerians limited to pre-paid service? I think there are Nigerians with adequate financial security to sign up to service contracts, because in the long run it's cheaper than pre-paid.

@nikinash
Interesting study. What was the result of the Cambridge University research? That spelling isn't important?

@Grizzly,
If you know where it was copied from, speak out. No plagiarism!

TYPOP:
I forgot to tell you. Never write here in all caps.
Sorry, all CAPITAL letters.

What's up with this rule on capital letters? Just want to know the rational.