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I really don't mind girls toying around and experimenting with me. Actually, I encourage it. The problem is that most girls get too emotional and want to keep this toy to themselves alone. Girls, please share your toys among yourselves. It make for a happier world.

ontop:
I don't consider it a success for a woman who is not married no matter your level of material possession, education, family background and social status.

The impression I got about an un married lady when she is due is inability to be submissive to a man.

It is irritating to see women who refuses to bow to the authority of men.

Men are the crown of women.

When you are due for marriage and you are not married it is just like a king without a crown.

I am speaking to the highly selective ladies who are waiting for MR PERFECT.

I can't believe you're able to access the internet despite your level of ignorance.

As much as I love hip hop, every rapper ought to bow-down, listen and learn from the queen herself. None of them got nothing on Oprah.

Canada v China

Chinese come to the West to study.

Because fat women like Nigerian men. How is that for a dumb question.

Celebrities around the world are prone to identity theft crimes.

A Sacramento, California man used Tiger Wood's Social Security number and got a driver's license and charged $17,000 worth of luxury goods in the golfer's name, despite the fact he looks nothing like Woods. Before some of you start thinking, the guy wasn't Naija. I confirmed.

STC - Bonum Eligere

Great Lion - UNEC

Most Nigerians are just frustrated with the way things are. Despite the way we potray the country, usually amongst ourselves, we still identify with the country. There is still a sense of pride introducing yourself as a Nigerian rather than the generic connotation of "African".

He was one of the finalists on ESPN "Dream Job" contest in 1994.

In developed countries you have a realistic choice between city and village because basic social amenities are not an issue. Your choice depends on personal issues like job preference and family.
But in developing countries, the unequal distribution or outright lack of basic amenities makes it very difficult to choose the village over the city, even when you have overwhelming personal reasons to do so.

Good idea if it can be strictly monitored to prevent slave labor. It's not enough to say that a prisoner who is dissatisfied can return to the public system, because prisoners could be worked to death in exchange for a better living condition.

BigSis:
Idekeson,
Your problem with me is I know your game, an outsider.

It's no game honey. Expand your horizon about Naija men and you will see that your assumptions are completely off the mark. Except you're one of those ignorant types that I can't stand because you can't reason with them.

mamaput:
I have not discovered one lie that bigsis is telling here,

They are lookin' to 419 you -- desperate for an American woman to secure a green card. That is what special about you. You are a US citizen. You are potential prey. They are stealth predators. Don't let them 419 you. It is a real problem that America women need to be aware of when dealing with foreigners who don't have papers.

This is how it goes. By the way, I am a Black American woman. Every poster knows why they are interested in you, but none will say. The are often agressive in the manner in dealing with you. They look for women they deem as needy or weak in some area. They wine and dine you. They cater to you. They appear to be the perfect man. The goal is to get you emotional attached, and before you know it, they profess their undying love for you. He can't live without you, and ask you to marry him within a very short period of time. Their only goal is to use, abuse, and discard you as soon as they have their papers. They spread their net wide, knowing some lonely, desperate woman will bite. It is a scam dear. Don't fall it. This is one way the marriage 419 aka scam works.

They are interested in you because you are an American, and they are desperate to get papers. The easiest way in the US to become a cititzen is to marry an American. That it in a nutshell. Sistah girl please don't be a sucker. Once these men are finished with you will poor and a basket case. They fake nice until they have what they want.

Nigeria is a desperate country, with no opportunities. They can't go back there. There is nothing for them. So desperation rules, and they will use anybody to get what they want. - BigSis

Maybe this will bring home BigSis ignorant views of the Naija man.

@BigSis
Were you spurned by a Nigerian guy? What's the beef? I'm pretty sure you know that your theory do not apply to most Nigerian guys. Give yourself another shot. There are many Naija guys that will treat you real nice. But you must be sweet.

Nutter:
What assumptions? Is Burger King not bigger than Micky Dees?

No it's not. McDonald controls close to 50% of the entire fast-food market in the U.S.

The potency of any religion depends to a large extent on its mystic. Whether it is the tongue speaking of Christians or the incantations of a witch doctor, it's all aimed at the same effect.

@ ajia23
Tolerance and respect for other people's religion is encouraged, but never forget that it is not a right. Freedom of thought and expression is key to human existence. Although society promotes respect for other people's views, because it makes for a better co-existence, you have no right to maim and kill anybody that disrespect your views, no matter how bad it makes you feel.

The interesting thing is the reaction of Christians to this movie, following the barbaric reaction to the Mohamed cartoons.
Can you imagine a movie on Mohamed? 9-11 could've been repeating itself now.
Muslims should take a clue and control their zealots. The world is watching.

Even the most generous guys do not appreciate throwing around gifts for no return in investment, especially if the goal is to impress, and the girl is aware of that. So girls, if you see such gifts as "manner from heaven", just remember, "one day monkey go go market i no go return".

LoverBwoy:
wherever she lands still she's still going to get hassled in nigeria! no escaping that

True talk. A friend of mine almost missed his return flight recently at Abuja (despite the claim that it's much improved than Lagos). Hear this! The security agents seized his resident alien card, so they can verify if he is impersonating someone else. Save for a quick phone call to a top govt official he would have missed his flight back to the US.

mrlawng:
its so amazing how the onl response of the so-called rational people to things they can't explain is: There must be a rational explanation to all this"

On the flip side, the faith guys believe there must be a supernatural undertone to the unexplained. But I remain more comfortable with scientific discoveries, that have served mankind well over the years, than religious dogmas that has brought mankind division and enmity.

I'll help the much I can, but you must know and willing to cook. I'm sure there are overwhelming majority of women that will meet this simple criteria. Just like I'll be willing to take care of the kids and home improvement without fussing about it.

@Rare
There are many scholarships and grants in the US but like Consultant advised it all comes down to the strenght of your application. No mago-mago. If you excel in your field you shall surely get one.

It all comes down to individual make-up. Some people just can't handle rejection and this keeps them away from even trying. You can't succeed if you don't have the courage to try. Courage and the ability to face rejection is something you have to develop in yourself.

donnie:
However, if you want to grow and become strong, vibrant, bold and on fire for God, You need to learn to charge up your spirit by praying in tongues.

I've always known that people learn this stupid act of blabbing away and pretend to be overcome by the holy spirit.

Did he really graduate from a New York Law School as a lawyer as the interview claims? I searched the New York attorney's list on line, but his name is not there.

nightrider:
as far as i'm concerned Nigeria still doesn't have a footballer like him.

Amokachi has the heart, but limited skills. Nigeria has produced way better footballers over the years.

The only reason a comparison like this will even arise is the need for competition. Roger is the man hands down.