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[quote author=dami_paul link=topic=571215.msg7370073#msg7370073 date=1292801919]Since LadyT wants me to spill, spill I will.
The girl's 18,just got out of High Sch, she has a fine phone (how did she get it,knowing that her family's, ),she speaks good English (must confess that's a plus though), she kept smiling (wouldn't say sexily, mayb something close to it) throughout our conversation, she's not so beautiful but on a whole, she can pass for 'fine', her confidence is another matter completely (even in my presence),  I'm a guy, abeg I no want that girl.[/quote]Cool . . . trying to apportion blames to the girl for being who she is rather than dealing with your problem which is YOU.
So what happens when u step outta the door and jam other 18 yr olds,fresh out of high sch,bubbling and fresh,has a smile that rivals Cheshire cats own perm. on the face and oozes with confidence?
    You have to decide to stay faithful to your wife.Btwn,are u not getting enough se.x from your wife or your T.J just loves to explore and go on adventure?

chaircover:
@pslm23 & Ify both make a good points.

What may be considered unfaithfulness for couple "A" may not be a big deal for couple "B".

Lets also not forget that there is sexual and non-sexual unfaithfulness.

@Bolded so true.
Spouses pausing to think when they get to the next of kin line especially when it comes to money matter.People staying glued in marriage and enduring it just cos of the damned pre-nup(either they cant afford to lose out everything or they are actually saving to pay-up and be free ).Wheres the trust gone to

Timmi:
A faithful husband for 30-years.

wow wow wow
Congrats.

^Room 419.

LMAO.
Honestly,the speed and ease at with Sagamite goes abt with the "M0r0n" word is . . . .dat word go soon finish for dictionary,Preserve some for the future generation,biko.

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dvd:
No hard feelings, just asking cos someone said imagine someone like a sleek fine girl or guy wouldnt need to come online looking for dates, i mean, they work,school,go to church and meet people, so y come online? Share your opinion.

Not true.

Good for him.I hope the wife prevails upon him to stop all those his senseless and scary fights with[i] Flair [/i] .Without my WWE,na TNA i dey manage so make dem step-up dem game
Congrats to them.

zayhal:
Good to hear. The way it's going is as if no man is spared, especially when you see those you hold in high esteem doing it.
You speak in parables. I don't quite understand you.

Do you think this is good enough? Will couples in this kinds of situation be truly happy with themselves? Can such wife say then that her hubby is faithful?
Good for you.

ZayhaL,Im not in a position to say or decide if its right or wrong.I wud say whatever works for any couple.
Personally though,i dont think that is good enough,atleast for me.
Psalm23 explained in detail what im trying to say,faithfulness and trust is soooo very relative,at the end of the day,each couple knows the standards they have set for themselves and understands the benchmark for what they define as trust or fidelty.The good old rules applies but probably not as rigid and static as before . . .for everyone.
I know what I and mine have defined as fidelity and trust,we are both 100% true to that.

Hahahaha.
The babe apparently moved on and stepped up her game but unfortunately most peeps on this thread are still dwelling on the past . . . People pls move on,Its 2011 _almost

Sallams.
Would it be strongly not recommended or haram if a Muslima joins/participates (solely for fun) in traditional practices like new Yam festivals,masquerades etc ?
What other aspects of are culture do u think a Muslima shld not partake in and why?

Andre Uweh:
I learnt that Aros are the first to pick a lobe of kolanut in Abia state during passing round of kola nut in Abia gatherings. Anyone from Abia to to clarify this issue?.

I think its true.I have witnessed it thrice.

Andre Uweh:
Lovers of Igbo culture travelling to Igboland this christmas period, the main attraction is Iwa Oji Ezinaihitte (MBAISE). It is rich, colourful, informative and attractive. Mbaise will through Oji Ezinaihitte present to the world a significant aspect of Igbo culture.
Safe journey and happy xmas to those attending the festival as well as those travelling home for xmas.

What is it all abt?Is it like Iwa akwa Mbano
I wud have enough time in my hands this hols so im looking for festivals and places to go.
Who wud be in Umuahia for ekpe,anyone?

larimo:
Recently Orji Uzor Kalu spoke about what he admires in the Yorubas that the Igbos don't have. While i will not debate about that, its very rare to hear that in Naija. Often than not, we hear Nigerians speak about the ills of different tribes and ethnicities and it has always been counter-productive.

Why not re-direct these energies in talking out what makes other tribes or ethnicities thick and how we can exploit them for the growth of Naija??

I admire the Igbos for their creativity.
I admire the Berom [/b]people of Jos for their [b]peaceful nature
I admire the Yorubas for their academic prowess and excellence.
I admire the Edos for their frank talk and intelligence. I remember the times of old when quizzes when broadcast on national TV and the students from Edo were always on top ! They are also always bold.

Lets be positive! Lets hear more!!!!

@Bolded ,anyway,thats ur opinion abt them but ask me abt them and what comes to my mind is the opposite.
@Topic,The Itsekiris for better and good food.

y me:
come on you all saying the Man got served right, w[b]hy didnt the father sew up the daughter's womanliness?[/b]
was she(the girl) forced to it? as far as i am concerned the man had no right to take away another man's  di>>ck just because he finds him inappropraite for his daughter
yeah i agree that the Man is too old for her but hey it was her choice and what she wants
there are so many young girls out there who loves older men and vice versa so no biggie on she dating an older man just that he happens to be too damn old but nah wetin she like
i get the anger of the dad but he went too far

Viola.
I wish he wud be castrated b4 thrown into prison.

Infidelity and trust is now relative.In some quarters,so long as he/she remain married to the spouse,pay bills and fulfill all matrimonial duties . . .who cares abt what goes on outside while to some trust means for as long as i have not caught him/her . . .all is well.
Im signing in 100% faithful and trusting.

Any good news ?
sad and scary If its otherwise 
Outstrip and Baby-me raised good points.Attach a compensation,find and post clearer pictures of the guy.

Congratulations . . . Hope u wud send me a big Fat envelope/letter too.

favouredjb:
Not a fan of either of the two actresses,but omoni shld av it

Care to explain why she shld have it,especially If she did NOT win it ?

who cares If they went or not?how do u know the reason for their absence?
MAMA has gone and gone with or without their presence.

Chaaaan:
I'm gonna miss him so bad , he's irreplaceable. The only reason I watch CNN is because of his show. N[b]ow what's going to be new name now he's gone.[/b]

. . .Pier Morgan Live

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=567861.msg7357630#msg7357630 date=1292613029]Dolemite<<<<<<<<<<is mad cos she is ugly,be niice to me and i'll nyansh you, i know u must be Ibo, truss me(no offeinse)[/quote]Erhmmm,bros,i owe you 1 nyansh and 2 boobsi,trusss me.
cheeres

Such a cutie,i cant even begin to imagine what the parents are going through now
Is the man the driver?wow.
I pray for Gods mercies on her,wherever she is and may she be speedily found and taken back to her Parents.May God protect us all and place all our affairs in order.Amin

You guys are clowns

Corky Joe.

Thread title is changed.Gbomo Jomo is a freaking noise-maker.
I dare u,auction Omo-Ibo,Dayokanu and El-razur . . .If u are a man   _{u and i know say ur power/kpomo no reach theirs}  

kITA TITA:
Why not all the money?

why shld i do that?
Na me send Organizers do ojoro?For my stress,time and most importantly rubbishing my image and bringing me in to this kind of mess.5k is not much but me,i still gotta do it.

Specialist900:
enugu begins life at 11 for where? When at 8p.m you really get transport to move around the town. I almost got stranded once i arrived the town at 7.30p.m.

High rate of Armed robbery made the east that way.

bashr4:
lets aloow people that live in the cities to share with us their experiences , lets not bring a single bad experience we had into this or hearsay after all no where is safe in nigeria.

@Specialist,pls educate urself.

Trust NLD,everything turns to my tribe is better than urs
@Topic,Poverty.

[quote author=Missy ★ B link=topic=569341.msg7346944#msg7346944 date=1292496589]Actually, with the first line of my previous comment, I wasn't trying to excuse or encourage corruption/unjust manipulation. It's more like an expression of normalcy.
Seriously, is the issue of unfair election and corruption in general a new phenomenon in Nigeria? It's not right but we cannot turn a blind eye to its existence in our society. That is what my comment implied.

I agree that Omoni has some dollars to return- Yes.
For so many reasons, I actually blame the juries. Some important questions I would want to put forward- [b]Can Omoni be blamed at all? [/b]How many people would reject the award, even with full knowledge that it isn't theirs? If you were Genevieve, what would you do?[/quote]@Bolded,NO.
But as it is now,If i were her,i wud do the right thing;call a press conference,distance myself from the fraud and declare myself ready to refund half the money .