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Mercychen:
As if they disclose theirs.

Some girls need to wise up.

I used to do that in the past but discovered they end up using it against me. So I've gotten wiser.

Now, don't come asking me if I've aborted in the past, that's not what I'm talking about. I don't have such past. Biko.

**Mouths sealed**

I jiya!!
Keep your mouth shut
Old things are passed away.
In the eyes of God it never happened,so it never happened.
Period.
I am glad you have learned.

Men have been sleeping around from time immemorial ,it seems not to make news,many don't see it as a big deal anymore but it is.

The news is different when a woman cheats,in fact men who sleep around would cry blue murder when their own wife gets caught in adultery.

The question is why do women cheat?

Men and women cheat for different reasons.
Men do it for the thrill of it, opportunity availed itself, stolen waters are sweet the bibke says,, some to prove their manhood and boast of their sexual conquests etc
Women cheat for an entirely different reason.
No woman who is emotionally satisfied in a relationship will cheat.
I repeat.
If you are handling business well, no woman will cheat on you
Never.
Women cheat when the emotional connection is not in the marriage or relationship.
She is talking to you,you are flipping through your phone,glued to the TV
She is pouring out her heart, you rush her through or shut her down, start snoring
She is telling you the housework, babies and your family members are sapping her emotionally and you carry your own wahala join ,yelling at her like she were a kid
You don't listen to her
You don't connect to her
You disrespect and call her names
You are hardly there ,always gone
You are there but you seem faraway,engrossed always in your own stuff.

She will look for other means to fulfill those emotional needs youre unable to meet and it will happen in one or two or both ways.

1.Some will become church and religious junkies. Running from programme to programme,from one prophet to another looking to fill the need with church activities

2.Some will seek out another male to pour their hearts to ,a co worker,an old flame or even a pastor.

Those men will listen to her, give her time and attention, empathize accordingly to the things she's been trying to tell you, be concerned with her about your lack of love and naturally she becomes emotionally attached to them.
They are listening to her
Something you've been unable to do
That bond she could have had with you,she has with that other man,sometimes the pastor who has been listening and praying with her will become that man
Once a woman is emotionally attached to another man,she sees him as very physically attractive too.
It's a matter of time.

If your woman cheats on you,you are not providing her emotional needs.
If you are sincere with yourself,you'll agree.
You can argue all you want but this is the truth

1.They don't really love them

2.Temptations

3.They have been there before

4. Abuse from " the one they love"

5.lustful spirit

6.The one they love is not good in bed

7.The thrill of it

8. Their partner is not emotionally connected.This last point is why women cheat

I dont even know why young ladies feel the need to confess up and down to men things they would never know.
Ladies please learn to keep your mouths shut.
Stop telling boyfriends how many men you have slept with before you met them.
Stop telling them when you err
Stop seeking forgiveness up and down
Stop being needy.
Please stop it!!

If you've committed abortions ,tell it to God,repent and do it no more.
You don't need to tell your life stories to boyfriends.
Your past is your past,keep it there.
Stop getting too emotional ,not good for you.
These things only hurt you in the end
Many of these men have procured countless abortions for people,raped women, raped little girls,slept with people's wives and grandmothers,some have slept with their fellow men, paid and slept with prostitutes,done yahoo, were cultists on campus, stolen and done all manner of evil in their past, they don't tell those stories to every girl they meet.
They ask God to forgive and turn a new leaf and move on.
But females will let their emotions take over and be answering questions no one asked them.

This is a timely advice
Ladies please stop tarnishing your image with your own mouths.
Those same boyfriends will be sharing your conversations all over the place even on nairaland.
Zip your mouths
Pass on this timely advice to your friends.

I dont even know why women feel the need to confess up and down when she claimed nothing happened, something this man would never do.
Ladies please learn to keep your mouth shut.
Stop telling boyfriends how many men you have slept with before you met them.
Stop telling them your when you err
Stop seeking forgiveness up and down
Stop being needy.

If you've committed abortions ,tell it to God,repent and do it no more.
You don't need to tell your life stories to boyfriends.
Your past is your past
Stop getting too emotional ,not good for you.
These things only hurt you in the end
Many of these men have procured countless abortions for people,raped women, raped little girls,slept with people's wives and grandmothers,somehave slept with their fellow men, paid and slept with prostitutes,done yahoo, were cultists on campus,, stolen and done all manner of evil in their past, they don't tell those stories to every girl they meet.
They ask God to forgive and turn a new leaf and move on.
But females will let their emotions take over and be answering questions no one asked them.

Ladies please stop tarnishing your image with your own mouths.
Those same boyfriends will be sharing your conversations all over the place

BBBricks:
reminds me of one nairaland moniker



#hungerbad!



#itiswell!

Of blessed memory

ProfGday:
U sure say na inside bush ur bros killed this pig so?

Cos it looked like a domestic pig wey strayed go bush go see him sidechick

Bush pigs are hairy and brown in color,this is a domestic pig

Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

Speaking to you as a female, a married female i will tell you sincerely that she is not the one for you.
She wants to keep you on the side while she gives herself time to hunt for a better catch.
I can bet money on this
She will leave you within the 4 years and marry someone else.
She will only only marry you after the 4 years if she doesn't find a better alternative.
If you were my brother or friend I will say find someone else who loves you now enough to marry you as you are right now.
She is not the one for you and that is exactly what is saying by that condition she gave you.
Cut her loose now!!

Na today?
Hopefully the borrowed European fund go reach una.
Bubu is werking

And OBJ wasn't among them

varmint:
In a move that could become a major boost to the Nigerian economy....

How can exporting syringe be a major boost to the Nigerian economy

Are you minding them
Sensational news

Hmm
Syringe kwa

kehinde1588:
IPOB be like: He can't even stand well, people by his side are supporting him to stand .

Ever since I was born, I have never seen daft people like this IPOB. Their mumu na strong one

This is about Thienubu but you are hallucinating on IPOB
Who is the daft person here?

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

Where is your father?
Did he run away from your mother because of her religious craziness?

Why is she this superstitious?
I hope she loses that mindset fast .
Tomorrow now one innocent girl will marry you and enter one chance

ugodson:
Am in owerri and there was no welcome for him. We were all at home only some apc members that was paid welcomed bubu

God bless u all for shunning him.
If our women dance troops don't come to welcome you with a dance in Igboland,you have not been welcomed.
Almajiris welcomed him

To do what exactly?

asainco:
In enugu its called Lion building.

Because of Indabosky

Sule has backed down from the case what does that tell you?

There may be someone who needs to hear this today..
Most especially if you and wife were looking for the elusive " fruit of the womb" for many years and then she began to visit many prophets and attending deliverance sessions and miracle services then voila she became pregnant, I advise you to take that kid to do a paternity test.
There is a high probability the baby is not yours.

Things happen at those one on one private prayer sessions.
The pressure from inlaws and society for an African woman to get pregnant after the wedding is too much.
Many women have tried other means to bring babies into the marriage.
Granted some women do it with the passive consent of their husbands especially when he suspects the problem may be his.
In other instances he may not be aware.

If you are reading this and your babies came " miraculously" after years of waiting and wife going to deliverance and retreats ,it may not be divine intervention afterall but by the good old way.

They even sleep with those prophets.
Husbands take note

Shame on uzodinjo.

3rd grade okirika wake up

Na wa o
God help us o.Presido wore 3rd grade okirika wake up trouser to go and commission gutter.
We don suffer for Imo.

slim75d:
people are wicked, i swear the tailor that sewed this trouser is an ipob member. He has suceeded in making our dear president look like a motherless kangaroo. Mtceww

Handsome man.Dem no dey win votes with bedroom voice o

1F30M4:
Nne iwe na ewe kwa gi o, pour away the food kwa no chill at all

I have to clean the house na

Okporoko ndi Igbo

Sisijetue:
There is no point to prove..me as the wife will eat your portion and my portion together :. My oga knows me so well instead he just ignores me totally and I really hate to be ignored

Same feelings
If a man will not eat because he is angry at me,let him not eat.
I will pour away the food and wash the plates

Doesn't this girl have one single friend with commonsense that she can listen to?

Low life man
Why tape a conversation? so u can use it and shine?
So unmanly