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drakeli:
Too Many People On Here Are Too Stupid To Know That These Pictures Are All Movie Scene. Not Real. Just A Ploy To Tanish Pastors. Everybody Give Yourself Brain.

People are eager to believe the worst about pastors. They pounce on any news that speak badly about pastors like Freeze.

They said there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage. It is no big deal. So why do you board a flight just after having sex and start praying to God for forgiveness .

Whether or not we admit it, we do not feel like we are doing the absolute right thing when having sex outside marriage. There is an uneasiness...not totally at rest.

Spending time with me and spoiling me silly

Ishilove:
You and your endless fake ass stories. You need to get busy. Lazy Nigerian youth like you

He is a creative writer

His smell...

A guy's smell always gets me

Why didn't she wear her nose ring?

This doesn't look real. The second picture looks like a studio picture and the lady there looks like the same one taking off her panties.

I think these people are just trying to stir up some kind of responses and attention from.people.

I don't even believe that a person in their sane mind will be gullible enough to believe this boy

shaybebaby:
But when they do, what happens then?

She should take the case to court. I am sure it will not be easy to see why she should have custody of the children.

Who knows if he has been paying the children's school fees and participating actively in their lives. Getting the children might not be hard.

Reelmii:
his refusal was for his selfish interest, he might have the intentions of leaving the marriage someday or marrying a second wife which he knows would not be possible if he had a court marriage. now he wants the marriage because of the travelling involved I am sure he has a hidden agenda he might run away wen he get to US with a white woman

He should have some shame now since he refused to do it. He should stick to the decision he made as an adult that he is.

If he tries to use the woman to threaten him, she should do everything to get her children

But what was his reason for refusing the court wedding initially?

And what is his reason for wanting it now?

Some men be using village sense and mentality. Has he seen his life now?

Your choice should be based on your career path.

Have you chosen to ne a teacher or are tou just taking it for convenience?

Is there room for growth in the real estate job? I know real estate is really profitable and a good career path.

You know what you want to achieve in your life. Think deeply and answer the question yourself.

freshghost:
God punish poverty.

And punish more those wicked parents who chose to have uncontrolled birth even in poverty.

Really annoying. The woman that cleans my compound is pregnant with her fourth child. She says she is looking for a female child.

I asked her what she wants to use her for. I even asked her if her sons are on scholarship. Because I could not understand why someone that is still struggling to feed herself and her 3 sons will choose to have another child in this present economy just because "i dey find girl".

Very sad.

Op you had to catch them twice?? What happened after the first time? You allowed it. And you are here saying your husband won't hear about the maid leaving...blah blah blah.

Who are you in that house? A maid or a wife. You are obviously a pushover.

When you can send her away when your husband is at work. You are talking about staying in the marriage with someone that can sleep with your maid without even trying to hide it from you.

You are obviously married to yourself.

A cursed gift. When people see me carry a baby they ask if it is my aunty's baby. It is that bad.

I wish i could reduce by age by 10yrs. Worse part is i look younger than 10yrs younger

Don't over familiarize with her. Maintain a safe distance. When she talks to you, give her short answers. Don't talk too much. So that she won't have any reason to quarrel and she will learn to respect you and give you

His sister must not catch a cold but you can. Why didn't he give her the cushions to sleep on the floor.

This kind of behaviour makes his family disregard you when you marry him. They can't treat you better than he treats you. He is meant to set the standard.

engineerboat:
You mean slay queens

Slay queens become mothers

chris31:
Yes but mothers are not inclusive

Who becomes the mothers?

TheUpsetGirl1:
marriage doesn't mean I'll abadon my friends when they're broke.

and as for your talk... must she eat??

didn't she take something before going to visit him?

she spent only 3hours.. smh

Who said anything about abandoning buddies when they are broke?

As i said it is for her to accept or turn it down but he should offer it first.

OP when he visits you, cook a very spectacular dish(if you can cook) a dish with an aroma that engulfs the whole place. Then dish out for yourself alone or cook only one portion and eat it in front of him.

If he asks, tell him if you had known he would be hungry, you would have cooked enough to reach him but you didn't .

You guys could make it a rule in your relationship not to feed each other when you visit so that there will not be further conflicts in that area.

TheUpsetGirl1:
lol.. you're comparing a guy that has always been with him and will continue to standby him despite the situation on board..
I rather purchase a phone for my fellow guy than purchase one for a lady.

Get the point!! As a host, when someone visits you, it is your duty to feed the person especially if the person as spent hours at yout place. It is left for the visitor to accept or turn it down.

For someone the guy claims to love, he overlooked that.

Will he marry his buddy? Whether he has been there for him since he was born, he won't marry him.

TheUpsetGirl1:
.....stories

Oh! So you see the point. But you choose to respond that way because you cannot debunk it.

Maybe guys should tell their girlfriends when they are coming to visit that it is BYOF.

fancy4eve:
Your boy frwnd is stingy nd selfish. He's telling u dat he would hv bought sumtin 4 u, so u will start jumping or dancing. As a man dat claim 2 luv sumone, u should know wat makes ur partner happy nd do it @ d ryt tym. Afterall u waited for good 3 hours, who does dat?.

My dear, luv is about caring nd sharing, so try nd teach him sum ethics.

Very stingy. And some guys are asking if he is her dad. If one of their buddies comes to visit and he is hungry, they will arrange food but as long as it is a babe, she does not deserve to eat.

I can't stand stingy guys

MissRaine69:
It’s not cold it’s you being melodramatic. What was stopping you from cooking or bringing something to eat?
There are no hard rules about this sort of thing.

So if i am going to visit a friend, i should carry my food along? If he is coming to visit me, will he bring his food along?

Even aside boyfriend or girlfriend thing, if i go to visit a friend and i spend many hours there, it is the person's duty as a host to feed me...and it is for me to accept or reject.

Not to talk of someone who claims to love you that doesn't care about your wellbeing,dad or not.

Please lets be objective and factual.

Op every relationship is a risk but this one has a higher risk of leaving you heart broken.

She is 17 and you are 27. She hasn't seen the world and enjoyed herself like you have. She will most likely still want to explore and not to be tied down right now.

It would have been better if you were 37 and she was 27.

Though a 17 year old lady is already mature but don't you think she is too young for you to start associating with her in that regard even if there is no sex.

If you were 18/19, I would understand. But 27 to 17....

Tochyodiks:
girls that have Brains are hard to find whereas the stupid ones are everywhere, and why did you mention me with these well known abusive girls on niaraland, are you okay

There are a lot of guys that date these ladies with brains. How come you are not one of them.You are obviously looking in the wrong places.

Most guys here are attracted to looks. When a picture of a lady is posted, it is always about "bwest" or "ass" not being big or she is not pretty enough. It is not hard to see why they keep dating these girls that they use to brand every other girl.

I visit Facebook like once in two weeks...so I guess it is NL.

Goddys Tochyodiks and every guy that keeps on releasing this same single about girls being after their money...pls do us all a favour and date ladies with quality and content;girls that have much more to offer you than just their bodies.

Please get attracted to ladies with brains and worth so that we can rest.

Cc 2muchblessing
Highpriestess
Soapqueen

2muchblessing:
Sometimes it just feel good to be single than being played by these sex starved guys who thinks relationship is all about sex and women wanting their money especially nairaland guys.

Most of these guys will still get attracted to the slay queen low class girls with nothing upstairs mostly because of the sex they can get and come and cry fowl.

These NL guys that keep singing the same songs...why not try to date a girl with content and quality and not an empty attractive container so that we can hear word.

Bellarod05:
Do you know I was once in your shoe?....Mil was deliberately making my home unbearable... I had to do all the cooking,wash my hubby cloth including my own the baby and even my MIL own,soon my husband brother joined us and he couldn't do anything too except wash his own cloth..I do all the house chores like Tommorrow no dey,
If am cooking and my baby cry,I will leave whatever am doing to breastfeed my baby,instead of me been taking care since it was just 5 days of childbirth I was the taking care of them...my husband understand and was trying to assist me but my MIL gave him some attitude that he is a sissy(woman wrapper)and my husband withdrew..
You know what I did.....I called my husband in the middle of the night and explain heart to heart discussion with him..I told him I need to start taking care of my baby and take care of myself too.he understood and told me he knows what to do..
To cut the long story short...I endure this for complete one month when I already knew my baby is stronger and jokingly Mil was trying to tease us she will be leaving...My husband gladly told her he will be dropping her off to the garage..I pretended I wasn't happy for her leaving but she said my hubby didn't want her maybe she was eating too much.
Believe me MIL Can eat more than 5 times and I have to do the Cooking,I was getting skinny my MIL was getting fat despite that she will still chose the food she want like. Iyawo( can I get amala with egusi soup? You know I ate rice in the morning)...Be patient with her because of her saying all sort of bad things about you if you give her attitude... At worst she might spend 6month with you guys..This is why most celebrities marriages don't last because they can't endure most of these things.....MY piece of advice.

Men!! I raise hand for you. You tried. I would have just carried my baby very early one morning and disappeared. My case was not that bad but not great.

I have learnt my lesson and for my 2nd, i will tell my MIL not to stress herself. I will go and stay with my sister and cross my leg and be taken care of. I can't do that stress again.

lefulefu:
so she wont cook for d children?

She and her son would have eaten at her mum's house where she goes to pick him up or just make something simple before her husband gets back.

She would just make sure there is bread in the house just in case. She said what is the point of cooking when he will do shakara and say he is not eating. So she takes a holiday