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Companionship and friendship are the most important factors in marriege.

Yeah right! Would you marry a truck pusher? I'm sure many truck pushers will provide you with companionship and friendship.

Razorr:
I-man  , look, is it a cook you want to marry or a life partner? 
Like Seun said, if you need a cook, employ one!
There are more important things in marriage besides food. Companionship and friendship are the most important factors in marriege.
You want to marry someone you can grow old with and still be fond of. Someone you can share memories with in your old age on your rocking chairs.
Typical african men, all you think of is food!     Then after your wife has cooked the food to make you happy at home, you would still go outside to chase pretty girls to have fun with.
Nonsense! 

Stop blithering  Its horrible to have a life partner who can't cook.Yes,food is very important.I want my kids to live a healthy life.Did you say cooks?In London?You are having a laugh 

We are not talking about sharing cooking responsiblities.We are talking about women who can't cook for sh*t.

Just picture that.Your life partner can't cook.This is someone you are going to spend the rest of your life with and who you will raise kids together with.

Someone was blithering about the "backwardness" in demanding that a woman knows how to cook.For goodness sake,most women in the Western world know how to cook.It is important for a variety of reasons,primarily health, that you can cook .

Gullible women!

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He was the man who persuaded Sheik Muhammed Al Maktoum to make a £450million bid for Liverpool last December. Now he is looking to the Gunners to fulfil his ambition of owning a major Premiership club.


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But it was also learnt that some powerful forces are planning to downplay the issue, warning that the final outcome might go further in denting the image of Nigerian Police Force.

You would think that sweeping this issue under the carpet would dent the image of the NPF most.

outlaws:
Nigeria and Saudi Arabia have so much oil. Why is Saudi Arabia different from Nigeria? Saudi Arabia is so well developed with the nations natural resources. What is Nigerian government doing with the oil money? Saudi Arabia have so much money that they give thousands of full scholarship to their students each year to come and study in the US. and in the You.K. I have yet to meet some one who got a full ride scholarship from Nigerian government to study in the US.

Saudi Arabia has a population of 27 million but produces 10 million barrels per day of crude oil.Nigeria has a population of 140 million with crude oil production of about 2.2 million daily.Consequently,Saudi Arabia produces 4 times the amount of oil but has only 1/6th of the population of Nigeria.This diffference is more acute with small nations like Bahrain,Brunei,UAE,Kuwait,e.t.c.Some of which have populations of less than 1 million.

We have relatively little oil resources within the context of our large population.To be like Saudi Arabia,we need to be producing 60 million barrells daily.Hence,even though the Saudi regime is extremely corrupt,there is still enough to develop the nation

Luish:
I'm an American woman married to a Nigerian, HELP! Any advice? I'm new to this forum and what I have read thus far has been enlightening, thanks everyone.

Are you crazy? Haven't you heard of Nigerians . .dupe you for all you are worth.Run girl!Run!

Which wingers are available to be signed? Arsenal could try Simiao Sabrosa.There has been a lot of speculation about him moving to England,primarily Liverpool.Its hard to find a decent left footed winger in Europe these days

Mamajama working on LLB. . . . .emphasis on the working He needs a lot of work

Its actually difficult these days to find quality wingers.That's probably due to the diminishing popularity of the 4-4-2 formation.I never rated Malouda highly,don't know what the fuss is about.Malouda is about 27,not particularly young.

Who else but an Arsenal fan would come up with the idea of signing Kanu

omogenaija:
na beans ? jgril is with dr. dre , who u be ?

4play,I'm telling you. . .our traditional marriage is going to proceed soon

@militia

The guy want people wey dey plural to advice am.You dey plural?

Ladies!Ladies! Why don't you just kiss and make out

omogenaija:
so has dr.dre and jgirl finally hooked up ?

J-Girl dey Naija.I'm going there to marry her soon

kaydee:
Owen is coming!

Owen is coming where?

ikamefa:
i see that he is still running a dead race

still a lot of life left in this race. . .ain't over yet

Why are people making a big deal about this cook thing sef

Its safer and healthier.Imagine,taking a trip somewhere. . .your wife is left at home with the kids and she can't even cook.What are my kids going to eat ? fast food?

Personally,I don't care about the cooking bit but I would prefer ,for the sake of my kids at least,if we could both cook.Healthier for everyone

naijaking1:
If the couple plans a traditional african family where the man works his ass off every day contributing his 100% to provide food for the family, the best the woman could do is at least try to learn how to bring the food on the table.

Many women expect the man to "bring home the bacon"_{Lord knows,Nigerian women are notorious for this},we might as well ask,"can you cook it"?

Omo Eko:
Na fast fast we go eat or garri and groundnut

Na fast food I prefer  Na why i talk say,im dey better women no sabi cook than to cook rubbish 

Imani:
Not all women are concerned with such trivial issues. You are right, some place unrealistic value on fickle things like money. However, some consider character, personality, attitudes to life and maturity as more important.

There is a great deal of pride in being able to cook for one's family. However, we just have to accept not all women will be able to do so. However, that doesn't make her less a women. As long as it doesn't become an issue in the home and the woman is creative and comes up with other idea to compensate for this "anomaly" there really shouldn't be a problem. But ladies should make sure they let their intended spouses know of their cooking ability especially if they are african men

A coherent woman. . . . at least you concede the need to be "creative" and to "compensate" for the lack of cooking skills.If women were you to ignore some of the qualities they have come to expect from men,perhaps it would be easier to ignore those we expect from them

ghettochyk:
evidently, i'm not willing to go back and forth with you since i know i'd be hitting a brick wall. i know what i mean and i SAY what i mean. get it? if i say non-Nigerians, that can include those with high or low divorce rates and high/low level divorce rates. Non-Nigerians period. this is not a discussion of how to keep relationships long and stable. and even if it is, it's not dependent on whether a woman can cook or not. If you can read, and i'm sure you can , you will see that the topic of this thread asks: "what is the value of a woman who can't cook?" IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU NEED TO REPLY TO WHAT I HAVE JUST SAID, [b]KEEP IT TO THE POINT OF WHAT I HAVE JUST SAID. WHERE CAN YOU FIND MY POINT? IN MY POST. NOW, YOU HAVE ANOTHER CHANCE AT IT, BUT IF YOU DON'T THINK YOU CAN DO IT, THEN I GUESS THIS DISCUSSION BETWEEN THE BOTH OF US IS OVER. [/b]

Pardon me.  . .but you are a bit incoherent

mukina2:
so Imani you actually clicked on his link

Not used to hearing that Arsenal are Number 1,she was bitten by the bug of curiosity   Don't worry,you won the female version  

ghettochyk:
Now if non-Nigerians come here and see this they'll think that Nigerians are full of sexist goats. *rolling eyes*[/b]

Non-Nigerians? You mean those ones with a sky high divorce rate? You mean those ones with record levels of single parenthood? Give me a break  . . . .very few non-Nigerians have much to teach us when  it comes to stable and long lasting relationships.

Women look at vain issues when deciding whether to date a man . . . income,good looks,phallic lenght,e.t.c(last one was a joke) when we simply ask whether they can cook . . we are supposed to be embarrassed?Utter drivel!

Imani:
No weapons formed against the mighty Arsenal shall prosper

The weapon of 4th place  is prospering already  

Hey!Look,you guys are Number 1   -http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport1/hi/football/eng_prem/fixtures/default.stm  

@topic

UNN.Why ask?