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ThiefOfHearts:
he's likely to cheat for his wife not cooking for him yet he cheats on her with girls that havent worked a day in their lives
Again, I just don't get the logic behind it

1)Many men cheat,whether their wife cooks or not

2)However,a man is more likely to cheat if his wife doesn't cook/won't cook for him

3)If you are worried about cheating men,not cooking won't help assuage the problem.It makes it much more likely that he will cheat

obong:
the issue at hand is the image portrayed in the western media. the double standards, the fact that the issues that exist in the ND also exist in their lands, but is not presented the same way. if you are lost, go back and reread the titled then the subject of the posts that follow.

It can't be presented in the same way because the situations are significantly different.You can't compare Bilbao(Basque-Spain) to the Niger-Delta.Bloody hell!  

I said how come despite the old saying for African men,  "food is the way to a man's heart" they still cheat?

Food is not a way to a man's heart.The abscence of food does not help in finding a way to a man's heart though.
One can say that a married man is more likely to cheat if his wife doesn't cook for him.

obong:
fact remains, i've shifted your arguments from painting the ND problem in nigeria as all of nigeria to pointing out it exists in the so called bastions of civilization. the best you can do at this point is fake thar it is worse in nigeria. you cannot say it does not exist there in europe. and has existed a such for 40 odd years

Pass the weed bro.You must be smoking some proper ganja.Where in your flagellated mind can you recall me claiming that the ND problem applys "to all of Nigeria" or that separatist violence does not exist in Europe ?      

Go ahead,surprise me.Find where I said such

debosky:
Henry didn't walk out on Wenger, he is pissed that Wenger benched his ass for the whole season when he could've been fit after a month.

You remember that time he walked out,I believe it was a training session.Heard there relationship has not really recovered from that. What do you guys lose anyway.Etoo for Henry seems a fair deal to me.Did you hear the rumours about Trezeguet coming to Arsenal?

ThiefOfHearts:
I see that no one has answered my question.
Cant say I'm surprised.

What was your question?

obongistic reasoning:

1)The German Govt is more violent than the Sudanese Govt

2)Why?Because ,you stupid shit,it killed 6 million Jews

3)It might be peaceful now but we shouldn't take snapshots of history.Look at the whole history

omoge:
lol @ ayefe
macaroni and cheese + curry chicken for dinner
jamaica meatpie and milo drink for lunch.
next week, chicken lo mein and beef fried rice or my fav (curd bean) for dinner. your man will love you  
it's easy.

You forgot to add cardiovascular disease at the prime of your life

why must i show you it is more violent in the ND than in basque. why?

Because you made the following assertion

the ND problem is in small pockets of the ND, and frankly it is not as dangerous as the IRA in britain or the Bath (spelling?) in spain that bomb innocent citizens.

and called someone a "stupid shit" for saying this

dude quit it, to even compare the violence level in those countries to the ND is simply unreasonable. it cannot be defended in anyones imagination except yours

lmao, i'm sure mamaosisi lives to serve her hubby. whatever floats people's boats.    
I hope he pays her back with serious $$$ cash $$$ for her work.

Rich,coming from a lady who expressed a desire to get her claws on politicians and lawyers   Una feminism  no dey remove that innate "goldigging" quality many females possess  

WesleyanA:
i want to marry a smart liberal guy. if that clarifies my position to you.
he should be pro-feminism too.

There are smart liberal guys who are jobless/menial workers.Why did you specify lawyers/politicians?Its obvious the "kudi" has a lot to do with your stated preference.Brazen hypocrisy  

I don't know why you're bothering I-man, he is obviously deluded that this is simply about western coverage of the ND issue

Lawyers love a debate. I don give up for the man.He thinks being patriotic entails engaging in denial and utterly fatuous parallels.

9ja4eva:
How u see this Saha injury?

He will be available for the beginning of the season.Initial reports were exagerrated

I'm going to marry a politician. preferably, a lawyer.

Don't tell me you want to marry a man with a "healthy bank balance" .For someone who has been ranting against men for wanting women who can cook,you seem to have lofty expectations of your prospective hubby as well.

@obong

Cut the bullshit.In all your remarkable tour de force of incoherence,you have failed to vindicate the following assertion

the ND problem is in small pockets of the ND, and frankly it is not as dangerous as the IRA in britain or the Bath (spelling?) in spain that bomb innocent citizens.

You have told us that there has been violence in the UK or Spain,which was never in dispute.You have failed to show that it is more dangerous than the ND(presumably Niger-Delta).

The media potrays the reality on the ground.You asked why the media doesn't highlight the IRA problem in Ulster.The simple reason is that there hasn't been an IRA attack since 1998.The IRA has been disbanded since 2005 as a para-military organisation.

ETA's problem still exists but on a much lesser case than what we have in the Niger-Delta.Lack of media coverage of the violence is mainly due to the fact that there is little or nothing to cover.2 fatalities in Dec 2006,2 more in 2003.What are they supposed to cover again?

babyosisi:
wes,please create a topic about feminism and anyone that cares would join you there,you've succeeded in derailing this topic to what it's not.

There is absolutely no connection between a woman that cooks for her household and one that is oppressed and struggling to be let loose

lol,she is debating with the passion that naivety breeds.Its the idealism of youth.When she grows up and gets married,realism will take over  

See wetin food dey cause Medecin Sans Frontier,UNICEF,Clinton,Sukanorputri

These are the folks(Hamas) who are supposed to be Isreal's peace partners-http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/leading_article/article1929366.ece

Sixteen months ago Hamas transformed the political landscape of the Middle East by emerging as the dominant force in the Palestinian parliamentary elections. It then had an opportunity, in principle, to end its defining refusal to recognise Israel and represent the Palestinians in peace talks. Only the most deluded optimists believed it would happen, but even the most hardened realists have reason to be dismayed at how events since have actually transpired.

Not only does Hamas still call for the destruction of Israel in its rhetoric; it has torn up the powersharing agreement that was brokered in Mecca with Fatah four months ago, ignored successive Egyptian-sponsored ceasefires, and allowed its military wing to rampage through Gaza with the apparent intention of taking full control of the overcrowded territory by force.

@Davidylan
You forgot Zia  of Bangladesh,Sukarnoputri of Indonesia  

Isreal doesn't want peace? Well,what can they do when the other entity is disintegrating due to violence inspired by the the religious extremists-Hamas. http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/middle_east/article1929392.ece

Isreal ceased its occupation of Gaza,look kow Gaza is today for Palestinians

Henry has signalled to Barca that he is prepared to sign a 3 year contract with them.Barca are hoping to unveil him within the next 2 weeks.They are looking at a 25 million Euros deal plus Marquez.Wenger has not agreed yet.He and Henry will have talks on the issue very soon.If he does agree,its expected that he will ask for Etoo as exchange.

Source::My Friends      


There was an earlier rebuttal of this info by Henry's agent.The problem is,Henry's agent has actually been sidelined in the negotiations between Henry and Barca.

Relations between Henry and Wenger are not at their best ever since Henry walked out of on Wenger,upon hearing he won't be picked for a game.Henry is also said to heavily dissapointed by the depature of David Dein.He and Dein were best of friends,Dein's son(Darren),was the best man at his wedding.

topeorekoy:
DO You FRIENDS WORK AT THE EMIRATE OR THEY ARE JUST SPECULATING? I CHECKED BBC SPORTS NOW BUT CANT FIND ANYTHING LIKE THAT THERE

Na journalist be my source o.Don't worry,within the next 2 weeks we will know the outcome.There was an earlier rebuttal of this info by Henry's agent.The problem is,Henry's agent has actually been sidestepped in the negotiations btw Henry and Barca.

Relations btw Henry and Wenger are not at their best ever since Henry walked out of on Wenger,upon hearing he won't be picked for a game.Henry is also said to heavily dissapointed by the depature of David Dein.He and Dein were best of friends,Dein's son(Darren),was the best man at his wedding.

@proverbial

Superb!Proverbial,you are the man!

Seun:
Both men and women are forced into roles that they may not be interested in just because of their gender.  It's bad.

I asked the question earlier,whether the women are prepared to relinquish some of the expectations they have of men,particularly in regards to finances.I was met with no reply.

If they are not prepared to relinquish much,I wonder why they are up in arms about expectations we have of them.

proverbial:
you took the words right out of my mouth(text out of my typing fingers)
The argument can be made that most women aren't as interested in politics/ running for office as men are.  This does not mean women are being plotted against.

Don't forget that men are also a minority in tertiary institutions.I suppose we can deduce from that,that men are being discriminated against

WesleyanA:
you said yourself that you're not sure if she did it for a political purpose.

Where? When?        

anyways, nobody is saying females shouldn't know how to cook. the point is, whether they know how to or aren't interested in it, all females have values.

That's besides the point.That all females have values has never been in contest.That a female is less desirable as marriage partner if she can't cook/won't cook is in contest.

maybe there should be a thread that reads "what's the value of an unemployed man"

We know for a fact that women place "less value" on an unemployed man vis a vis an employed man.They place greater value on a wealthy man compared to a less wealthy man.Having such a thread will be entirely in order just as this thread is.

anabell:
@richyblack or whatever your bastard name is,   i can now see u are a bloody bleeped up bitch ass weaklin!Y else will u trade words with a girl, i feel sorri 4 your wife or girlfriend because she has a bitter old bitch 4 a husband or boyfriend, i really tot people like u have been erase from this earth how come u are still around bitch?like i said my dear bastard get a lifeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

From the above comment,not much of a life you got going on either   

Let's just put aside the question of whether Bill is a philanderer of international renown,its quite clear he is.Why would a woman who is prepared to put up with her husband's affair be more of a woman than one who accedes to her hubby's demands that she cook or learn how to cook?

this means that you do not know what a feminist represent.

So the fact that her hubby was a World renowned philanderer does not detract from her supposed feminism? If it doesn't ,having a hubby that demands that you cook or learn how to cook shouldn't so detract .

Ok teeny bopper,let me treat you like an adult._{a bit bored anyway}   Lets do some sparring

You fail to see the overwhelming sense of irony in claiming that Hillary is a feminist.She is the antithesis of what a feminist is supposed to represent.Publicy humiliated repeatedly by her husband's philandering behaviour,she is hardly the poster child for feminism.

In the context of this thread,given that many women interpret feminism as entailing that a woman mustn't cook or learn how to cook in a marriage.It beats my imagination,why one regards as feminist,a woman repeatedly cheated by her husband to the whole world's knowledge.What's more degrading to a woman?A man who wants her to cook/learn how to or one who repeatedly cheats on her.Take your pick

PS:I bet you Hillary cooks for Slick Willy 

adj.
Wishing or aspiring to be; would-be.
n.
1. One who aspires to a role or position.
2. One who imitates the behavior, customs, or dress of an admired person or group.


Ok,taking the 2nd meaning,he is imitating mysoginistic behaviour. He could be imitating mysoginists Still requires a teeny bopper mentality for "mysoginist wannabe" to make real sense .Lucidity eludes the teeny bopper's mind  

A misogynist wannabe is effectively one who wants to be a person that hates women.If that makes sense to you,you are probably a teeny bopper