goodnewscliff:
Asaba is just 2 streets when compared to benin


ONLY IKPOBA HILLS BIG PASS ASABA

Thank you for this comment. Comparing Benin to Asaba village. Rubbish

OK2NVME:
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If white Supremacists are behind the looting and rioting why are white Hollywood liberals who hate Trump raising bail money for those arrested for rioting?

Use brain.

You have great insight to the tangled intricacies of American politics. Tangled, no thanks to the lying American media. All your comments here are accurately on point. Kudos


Many blind people here though. Brainwashed by the globalist media and their evil agendas

Divine89:

My children are in the custody of the french authorities, according to them I will never have custody of them till they reach 18 years old because I am an unfit mother. only God grace can help me to have them back. Thank you

There's a book you should read. Covenant Child by Terri Blackstock. A novel. Read it, it will help, especially with your kids

Divine89:
Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.

When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.

But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.

Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.

After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.

I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.

I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?

Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.

Please pray and ask God to direct you to a new church. You need other believers around to build and strengthen your faith. Don't let one bad experience prevent you from having the love of true genuine Christians around.

Pray and ask God for guidance.


Also, please keep building your faith. Read good Christian books and listen to messages on YouTube from pastors like T D Jakes, Myles Munroe and Paula White


I pray that the good Lord will heal and restore your life, and also restore your children.


You didn't go through all this for nothing. God will use you greatly for His kingdom. He will bring beauty out of the ashes of your life.

God bless you sister

ademidedavid:
It's no longer a story that pastors divorce their partners, imams divorce their partners, highly educated people do same and even the so called marriage counsellors are not left out in the order of the day and it has always been a thing of worry for me with the thought that they never loved each other before marriage but getting married has changed my thinking and has made me realised that marriage only takes the grace of God to work out.

I have been married for 3 years with 1 beautiful daughter with a loving wife (maybe before and some years into the marriage). I have always believed that I cannever raise my hand on my woman since my father never did such but I find it hard to believe I did the unimaginable today although It wasn't intentional.

It was due to annoyance after she asked me to stop sitting at home and go work for more money like other men even though I am a federal worker with above 100k monthly income and still do personal work as a civil engineer apart from the federal job despite the lockdown.....

It really got me aggravated because I have been the one fending for the family and the kid for the past 3 years and never asked for a kobo from her.....

Although I have noticed the urge for very flamboyant life style in her lately and has even asked me to get more money at any means, that money is everything in this life even though I have tried telling her its a gradual process, she still doesn't listen and even asked me to raise money for her to travel out of Nigeria.

I have never thought of raising my hands on any woman let alone my wife.....

Please how do I change her sudden mentality towards this sudden extravagant life style because I pray it doesn't lead to something else since I can't do illegal things to acquire the type of wealth she dreams of?

Check her friends o. They are putting things in her ears and she also wants to compete with them. Women can fall into peer pressure too.


She needs to change friends asap

delkuf:
Guy I don't ask her for money. But there are I got broke, and I want to go do something that will bring money, just maybe transport fare to that place and may money to do something that will bring bigger money, she will bluntly refuse

Which one is money that will bring bigger money? Are you a gambler? Guy abeg go and hustle and remove your hand from her pocket

ifiokjohn:
So it only Women that can curse and it works?
what if the guy curses the girl now, will it work?
hope it will.
please we should stop making curses look like a Monopoly of the women flocks

He has every right to curse this girl and it will definitely work against her. But this is just one case. Can't compare to multiple cases of girls heaping curses on him or going spiritual against him. Which is what will happen with the path he now wants to take

Descorts:
I'm not listening... what I want to do, i do it .

My guy do what you like. No wahala. Just ready to carry curses. You never see sumtin. Women bad o. That phrase, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, is very true.


And guess what, the curses work

MadeBoy:
I don't like anybody listening my prayers not even my family members. I have not been praying since she came and the first time this year I miss church service.

Guy please don't deceive yourself. You're not born again. You can't be serving 2 masters at the same time. Sleeping with a woman you're not married to. Then on the other hand talking about your spiritual life.

Suffry chose one. Cos right now you're wasting your time. Joshua 24:15. You can't serve the god of fornication and also serve the Almighty. Choose one.

CodeTemplar:
For those using this to judge God. Only God actually knows the full details of her walk with him. God is a God of principles. Man sees differently but God see the heart. RIP.

Even someone serving God in spirit and in truth can still die. To the believer, to live is Christ, but to die is gain.

I thank God for her that her faith remained steadfast to the end.

Sabenko:
Dont know what to believe about this covid-19 again sef...someone miraculously recovers after 5/6days of testing when the actual incubation period of the virus is 14days. Not hating on the man ooo but What happens to isolating him for another 14days to verify this claim? One part of my brain is telling me covid-19 in Nigeria might not actually be true. Hmmmm, this is Nigeria!

It's very true. Some people get it, never show symptoms, not even the slightest headache. Then it disappears within a short while. They develop immunity towards it. And they were never even tested! Scientists in the UK have already seen some cases like this.

We wouldn't have known about Makinde's own. It's cos tested, cos he came in contact with an affected person.

There's nothing like a woman refusing to divorce a man these days. Especially those living in the states. The courts can automatically dissolve the union after 2 years once it has been established that they're no longer living together.

Kemi is talking rubbish as usual

Most churches hold vigils on Friday. So because of valentine, your pastor cannot see road again. You're not serious.


Besides valentine is overrated.

You didn't say the full story...

But I can deduce this from the little you said.


You have been troubling your wife, suspecting her about cheating and probably more, long before now. It is clear from her response that she is feed up with you. One accusation is not enough for a woman to threaten to leave. Also probably why she may have lied about how she got mycoten. You probably have a history of turning molehills into mountains.


You insulted your wife far more than you told us. You tried to make it sound like her response was too much as per the text about leaving you. Thus trying to make yourself the victim. Say the complete truth sir. Stop hiding the bad parts that you did to cause her reaction, trying to paint yourself good.


Oga you are a psycho. Simple and clear. I don't have time to type long. The signs are all there, I would have pointed it out to you. You may never change. I hope that oppressed woman you kept in your house has the courage to leave you one day. Very very soon.



Finally almost all women use mycoten or some form of anti inflammatory cream. The vagina is very sensitive. By your standards we are all cheats abi?

First and foremost you need someone with a calling. Every other thing you wrote here is irrelevant.

You have a calling so you need someone that is like you, not the one that will pull down your glory.


You don't have a wife yet. Keep looking. Keep praying. Ask the Lord to give you a woman with the physical and mental attributes you are attracted to, but ask Him to give you one of His daughters.

It's very possible to get a saved sanctified heaven bound sexy beauty. Don't make the worst mistake anyone can make. Cheers

MamaOO:

Same! I thought I was weird when almost everybody here said they can’t drive with shoes. On the contrary I find it weird driving without shoes. I tried it one time and it was an alien feeling. It felt like I was pumping the the pedals too hard. Flats, boots, sneakers, heels; can drive with all. Just need to adjust the angle of the heels very well. Lol.

The only bad thing is that the backs of my right shoes have marks and scuffs from rubbing them against the carpet in the car.

Exact same thing with me. Lol

Yes, but it spoils the shoe,especially the right foot. So I prefer using slippers. Find it very awkward driving with bare feet

My cousins faced a similar situation with yours. Dad's family maltreated and abandoned them.

They're 3 girls in the family. In all their weddings, their mom went to the Onogie's palace.

They told them what to do, sent representatives and collected the bride price.

This happened in esan land.

Look for any Ishan man to accompany you, go to the onogie of uromi's palace. Table your matter before him. It's quite simple and you will get a good response

Nukilia:
Which kind modus operandi be dis one searching his house for evidence of a case of over 16 years
This is not money laundering matter and I think they should search the home of bullion van politicians

He's not only being investigated for the Busola case. Others have come forward with serious allegations of RECENT indiscretions by him. Reason for the search.

You guys don't know what's on ground. I just pray the case is not killed and really goes to court. That's when the shit will really hit the fan

Richdad50:


Sexual immorality has finally paid her her dues but is that car what was meant for her? In my opinion, I believe she was destined for the ultimate prize but like every immoral sin committed in life, a shift in blessings occurs.

Most young people today who enjoy the basics of life or suffer below where designed for greater achievements but sexual immorality has signed a part with you to hinder your reach for the Star Prize of life.

Son, when you see them flex, do not envy them. Like a man cast in chains and imprisoned, satan rewards them with peanuts so they dont have their mind on the chains and walls round about them. Because it is only when you are free that your eyes are opened to your true worth and destiny.

Richdad

You need to write a book, "Letters to my son"

omobacyprus:
I saw bloodshed too o. They were going houses to houses to kill. May God help us

This dream is already being fulfilled. Saw on Twitter yesterday, some people crying out that their relatives in some parts of Rivers were being killed. People were hiding cos they were moving from house to house.

I will look for the link and post soon

https://mobile.twitter.com/SelemaEnang/status/1100038541302734848


https://mobile.twitter.com/KBUdeogu/status/1100030384178384896


Reading through the comments under the first link really shocked me

buspid:
Believe and trust Atiku at your own peril


Same man that lied about calling Col Sakaba's family few months ago.

Atiku is an unrepentant liar, a sore loser and a colossal of failure

He tagged the man in his post. You don't tag someone when you're lying

Ishilove:

There's something not right with that 3rd picture. Isn't she supposed to curtsy before the traditional ruler? It's common sense.

Maybe it's the media influencing me but I have always thought, and still think Melania is a bimbo.

She's a graduate and is fluent in 5 languages. She's just naturally quiet, not a bimbo

Diplomatic boycott means their government officials won't attend. The football team is still playing though

I wonder why Mr Gaybriel keeps seeking for attention these days. Hmmmmm...

You can't be compelled to marry her. Stand your ground. You're a man abi. Getting married because of pregnancy is a very big mistake, you've already made one by getting her pregnant, don't make another one by being shackled in a marriage that you will regret the rest of your life.

Be a man, take charge. Tell your parents, also tell them of your plans to be a father to the child and keep a cordial relationship with the mother even if you don't want to marry her.

Then together with your parents, go see her parents and say the same thing. Don't give in to any pressure to marry her. Be firm but respectful to them cos they will remain in your life for ever.

Don't continue sleeping with the mother otherwise you won't be taken seriously. She becomes only the mother of your child from now on and NOTHING more. Don't give into manipulation. Be kind to her though, expecially in the coming months, cos pregnancy is not beans.

Finally get a job cos you now have a mouth to feed. Congratulations

Ridhwan1:
May I quickly ship in something... ?

Really happy this is coming at a right time. I urgently need help. My eating and water intake habits are so pure. For some times now, I hardly eat squarly, I mean, as it is expected of an average man. I'm in my mids 20s. I observe that each time I want to eat, I loss appetite after taking a number intake (swallow). For instance, I hardly finish 100 naira worth of rice and for solid food, I dare not order for more than 2 wrappers of swallow. And on water intake, I hardly toke up-to 3 sachets throughout a day. It didn't start today, nor yesterday. ..i grew up like this. But I want to change it. I'm relatively skinny but averagly weighted.
Pls I need more advice on how to go by it... I want to change my volume.

Look for foods that stimulate appetite. Google it

slawomir:
rest well my brother
we are like Hydra. we don't die
when our head is cutoff then expect another head instantly as an outgrowth from different part of our body
an unexamined life is not worth living.

you die a soldier and a soldier you shall remain
we the neo black, dodorima say rest well brother

My dear, hell is real and it's for eternity. You won't wish hell even for your worst enemy, if you know what it is. 100 years is like a speckle of dust, compared to eternity in hell.

You still have life, so there's still chance for you. Jesus is the only way. Choose him so you won't spend eternity in hell. Simple truth. Be wise

I'm yet to see a single girl who wakes up early just for the fun of it. Why wake up before 7am if you don't need to?
When the kids come, she will wake up early, cos she needs to. No sensible person will still be sleeping when there's stuff to do.


Meanwhile you don't sound mature. No offense but please try to grow up and get sense so you can be a good husband to this woman. This is a non issue and shouldn't even be discussed with your friends, not to talk of the whole nairaland.

By wisdom a house is built and by knowledge it is filled with many treasures. Read books, learn, look for a relationship mentor. You desperately need one. Look for Leke Adler on twitter. Best of luck

Like play like play, the APC broom is about to sweep Maina's matter under the carpet

He's not a white boy. He's mixed. One of his parents must be African. Cute though

paiz:
She is talented
But she has bleached herself until she is now brighter than her future

You do realize that her mother is Romanian. Which makes her half caste! Sense fall on you