I need this movie. Like seriously. Anyone who knows where we can download it, please help! Thank you

😂😂😂😂

Obi is the original king of boys!! Tinubu don learn lesson for Lagos oo.

Now seriously though we reject this result. All of it. Obi won Lagos with over 70%. And we've got the evidence to prove it.

Inec and Tinubu, continue your abracadabra. When you're done, meet us at the tribunal. A bigger disgrace is waiting for you there, where all your atrocities will be exposed

You can't toy with Okwute, you can't keep toying with the blood, sweat and tears of Nigerians and expect to go scot free. By the time this is all over, lessons will truly be learnt!

nonhuman:
I need results from EdO please

Don't worry about Edo. We gallant. Most results I've seen 95% and above LP. Even for Senate and reps

sharone21:


In USA, your first name.... And with 'Hi'.

Even when you are in your 60s and 70s working with them or as a neighbor.

Because they give you permission and you're familiar with them. Simple

rickpat:
africans and their foolishness...western world that everybody goes by their first name have they died...if I were you,that friendship ends tonight...calling people their name is not disrespectful,it's their name ain't it?

be careful though,cus one day he will tell you to call the wife "aunty"(you know say Aunty get two meanings for naija)

USE YOUR TONGUE COUNT YOUR TEETH,THE WORST Thing WHEN FIT HAPPEN TO A MAN "NA SEE FINISH"...bounce before him and him wife see you finish bro

goodluck

Even in western world, you can't call someone by their first name without their permission. Either you use Mr, Miss, Mrs

WackyJ1:
Is it a crime to call the Wife of your friend by her first name?

I've known this guy since 2018. He met his wife in 2020.

They've done traditional wedding.

I once followed this guy to law faculty of our school during our Masters program and spent 6 hours typing the project of his then ex.

The same ex ended up blaming him for her misfortune.

I'm the best man for his white wedding tomorrow.

Yet, he's warning me for calling his wife her first name in the same sentence where I also referred to my girlfriend by her own first name.

He claims I was wrong and he has refused to apologise.

I need this one the front page.

Was I wrong?

MORE DETAILS
https://www.nairaland.com/7563621/it-wrong-call-friends-wife/2#120932806

You're very wrong. She's not your childhood friend neither is she your sis. It's very disrespectful to your friend and her. Even if you're older than both of them.

Call her madam or Mrs. You are not the one marrying her. You can't be so familiar

Norah199:
Good morning guys. I need some matured minds and married men and women in the house to look into this matter and give me an ideal way to go about this. Would be a long read pls bear with me.

So late late 2021, I got married to my long time girlfriend. Before the marriage, my mom had a little reservation about the girl and her family for some odd reasons due to her tribe. She’s Igbo. Everything was funny because the first day I introduced my wife to my mom. She liked her and everything was cool. They where going on well until my mom started telling me she’s having some dreams about the girl and her family. She’s white garment member. I think her dislike started growing when she told my wife about her church and she said she can’t go to her church for any reason. I was a former member of the church when I was a teenager but with time as I grew I stopped going to the church not because it’s a bad church or something wrong with it. I just don’t fancy going there and also not a church type of person. My mom believe it was the girl that made me stopped going to the church which was funny. She has said that several times.

For the record, I’m an only child of my mother, my dad is late and she’s yet to marry again. I do everything for her like her rent, monthly upkeep, and also got her a good car. Initially I thought she was doing all these because she felt she hasn’t enjoyed me yet and another woman is coming into the picture which is normal for most parents. So I did everything I could to make her comfortable before my wedding.

We did the wedding and everything went on smoothly aprt from some normal family disputes and all but the wedding was successful. Deep down I know my mom still doesn’t like my girl because of her statement s most times but I don’t always give her that room so she’s always quiet and rather not talk what’s on her mind.
Later on, my mom started complaining of the money I give to her. She seems not to be ok with it. Trust me guys. I do more than enough for my mom. I just tried my best to handle everything well and sometimes allow her have her ways with her demands so she doesn’t see my wife as a stumbling block to her.

To cut the long story short, my wife took in and was due for delivery and her mother came like a month before the delivery. Actually my wife had a false labour that made us rush to the hospital and doctor said she has very high maleria and was in serious labor. I called the mother immediately and she started coming the next morning because she lives in the East. The doctor gave her some injections and drugs for the maleria and the labor stopped. Doctor told us it wasn’t the right time for the baby to come out because it was 8 months.
The next morning when she was strong, we went back home with the mother that was already in town.

The mother decided to stay till the delivery instead of going back and coming again when she delivers which I supported.
Two weeks the doctor gave us turned to 1 month and labor didn’t still come. All these while I never knew my mom was so bitter that my mother inlaw was in my house for that long. She once asked me why the woman didn’t go and come back. It was that bad. To make matters worse, I lost my child after a CS was done on my wife. It appeared the baby was in distress which the doctors failed to notice and came out with birth asphyxia. After about two weeks, she died. I opened a thread on that.

Problem started after I buried my child. Everyone was in sorrow and so much pains especially my wife. A day after the burial my mother called my mother inlaw and asked her why she hasn’t gone yet. Started accusing the woman of killing the child and all manners of things. How she had turned her husband to vegetable and now she wants to teach her daughter how to turn her son into vegetable too. It was really bad. They both insulted each other and quarreled seriously on the phone just a day after the lost of my child. She also called my wife and told her “shebi she doesn’t want children” my wife was quiet and didn’t utter a word.

I was in so much pain and so pissed at my mom for everything she did and didn’t even speak to her for like a month even though I still sent her upkeep money. I reported her to her uncle and a few respected people. I don’t know if they talked to her but nothing was done. No body called for any meeting even her own pastor that I reported to. Instead he told me it’s woman talk. That they both insulted each other and the rest..

After that incident till date. My wife, mother, and mother inlaw haven’t spoken to each other even though I have had more peace since then but the fact still remains my mom and wife are not in good terms. I have long forgiven and moved on with my mom even though that closeness is not there but I don’t fail to send her money for upkeep every month. My wife is cool with it and said she doesn’t want that closeness with my mom even though she has forgiven her too.

My mom and I talks once in a while and never for once has she asked about my wife since that incident and my wife hasn’t called either which I don’t blame her. The last time I visited my mom. She said some ill things about my wife and her family and even told me my wife is not my rightful wife and some other things. I usually don’t listen to her talks because I know how religion has turned so many people into something else.

The question right now guys. What do I do in this situation. The truth is nothing can change my moms mind about my wife and her family. But still as a husband, I still feel somehow knowing my wife and mom are not in good terms. My mother inlaw the last time told me she wants to make peace with my mom that they can’t keep fighting forever especially because of her daughter. But deep down I know the thought my mom have about them. So I just told her it’s not the right time and with time everything will be fine. I can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong. At the same time my mom won’t even listen to me for any peace making. There are more things to say but I will end here. Sorry for the long write up.
Your opinions would be deeply appreciated.
Thank you 🙏

You have to be a man and stand well so that your mom will not use over possessiveness to ruin your marriage. She's jealous and probably sees you as her husband also. It is normal with some women but in such cases the son has to be very very wise in dealing with her.


Your wife is a good woman. No matter what happens from now till tomorrow don't ever let your mom convince you otherwise. She has shown a lot of patience and maturity in this matter


Solution. Manage the situation as best as possible. Try not to tell either of them anything that will make them quarrel or hate each other more. You're a referee right now. you have to be impartial, and upright. No favoring anyone. If your mom and wife see that you can't be pushed to be unfair, they will both rest. Be careful about manipulation from your mom. Eg, you're not a good son otherwise you will do so so and so against your wife and her family


Bear with your wife. It may take many years for her to be at peace with your mom. Because what she said to her after the death of the baby is really bad. That she did not retaliate shows that truly she's a good wife/person. Some people fit ment for the matter

Pray pray pray for God to mellow your mom. I know of a couple who the girls mom gave hell to her husband. They had to run away for some years. It was that bad. The girl was also an only child. With time and prayer and over the years, the woman mellowed and today all is very well. She didn't want to loose out on her grand kids


It's a slippery slope, but time, wisdom and prayers will settle everything

Godwin4444:
at least u igbos have rejoiced that tinubu can’t access cash now

At least he did this without d crowd n it was a success

Now my question to d igbos


Now that u have all agreed tinubu doesn’t have access to cash, what if tinubu still wins?

Hope we won’t hear another story?

Awon sophisticated tribe have been exposed as tribalistic bigots. Please look for an igbo person to answer you

Abi you think all PO supporters are igbo abi? You dearly wish so right? That's why the loss will be very colossal and shocking to tinubu and his paid agents.

You don't know the hatred majority of Nigerians have for APC. Frustration, rage, deep anger, fight for survival is taking us to the polls.

Y'all ain't ready. I promise you

AmotekunSW:


You're dumb.
You couldn't even understand what they posted.
To think that you may be a girl who will give birth someday.
I pity the unfortunate man who will marry a blockhead like you.

However way he meant it Mr smart, it doesn't negate the fact that his stashed money has been rendered useless for the elections. Nobody has trust in it anymore, even the supreme court isn't collecting it from those making payments etc

He can't force anyone to collect it from him, no matter what the governors say. Doesn't also have enough new naira

The real beauty of the elections will be how the northerners will leave him hanging during the elections and we'll be watching life 😂

Many of your ilk will go hiding. The rest will be crying upandan

P/s
A few party members and their paid touts is what y'all are using to chase clout. Shame shame shame 🤪

Pdp boys keep daydreaming about this. I thought February 14th was the deadline.

We will all meet at the polls. Let our candidates test their popularity on a fair ground

Why mentioning cashless? 😂 Nobody believes that Tinubu has any organic support, even his supporters

nairavsdollars:
The governors won't listen to him

Yea, they can choose not to. But as it is nobody will accept the old naira notes as bribe on election day. Even the most illiterate northerner.

You can't force me to collect your old notes while at the same time begging me to vote for you

On election day, the voter is king. Begging or intimidation won't work. You have to meet his demand for new naira or nothing for you

This is the reality on ground. Tinubu and his cronies are cooked! Especially in the north. Buharis mission accomplished 😂

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Sometimes you don't have to be polite. Ignore any messages you don't like. Let him see that you've read it and choose not to answer him

If he has any self respect he will stop. If he doesn't, and continues, simply block him. Don't let anyone enter your space and stress you emotionally. Especially someone who is no longer important to you

General rule, avoid all exes, especially married ones

Antoeni:
The Sweet thing is 99% of the Northern Christians are OBIdient.

Add that to SE / SS And 45% of S W , Then you Will Understand Why Peter Obi Already Has His inauguration Speech Ready.

You forgot to add at least 48% of north central and Kaduna south. They have been hit hard by the killer herds men. It will be a landslide, by God's grace

adioolayi:
This is for Photo Ops...it can't generate/guarantee any vote...

Simply because, these men, especially, Pastor Adeboye will never tell his congregation to vote for a particular candidate.


Take it or leave it.

Yea I know. Majority of Christians will leave a Christian and vote a Muslim abi? Especially when said Christian has little or no skeletons in his closet. Yea, makes so much sense

Lol Jokers

Antoeni:
False Support

Peter Obi will win in these states

1,Rivers 81%
2,Akwa Ibom 75%
3,Cross River 79%
4,Delta 70%
5,Edo 85%
6, Bayelsa 73%
7, Anambra 95%
8,Enugu 95%
9, Imo 95%
10, Abia 95
11, Ebonyi 94%
12, Lagos 45%
13 Abuja 65%
14 Benue 67%
15,Plateau 62%
16, Ondo 45% against APC and PDP

*Remaining state he will get 25% and above
17, Nassarawa he might win or get more than required votes here
18, Taraba Obi will get more than required votes in Taraba state
19, Kaduna 25%
20, Bauchi 25%
21, Oyo 25%
22, Adamawa 25%

If the military is able to quelch thugs from causing violence I believe he will get at least 30% from all the Western states and at least 55-52% in lagos

kereman1:
A simpleton.

Alpha male be like:
#calls babe.
"hello babe, I kept a ring on the dinning table, if u are interested put it on, else leave it there, pls don't forget to clean up my apartment b4 leaving, I'm at work already."

It only works that way in dream land. It's highly insensitive and rude. How would you feel if she treats you rudely and insensitively?

Life is all about balance. A real alpha male loves a protects his woman. If she is a good woman she will submit willingly to love. Notice emphasis on good

It now lies on the alpha male to build his intuition and values to the extent that he will be able to discern a good woman and also attract her kind

All these wicked and harsh rules you guys think, is not the way. It only makes bad girls pretend only to get the ring, then show you shege after marriage. I promise you if you treat a woman badly, she will multiply it and give it to you abundantly. And she's patient enough to wait


A good woman will multiply the love you give and return it to you as a good home where you are king.

This is the reality of life

Aufbauh:


I'm not speaking from the euphoria of internet frenzy but someone who has traveled wide and still travelling as a field professional/contractor.

The North won't split their votes evenly among the three front line candidates. It's mainly between Atiku & Tinubu with the later having the upper hand.

Unlike the erroneous insinuation by Southerners like yourself, the North vote along party line aside religious consideration and they rightly see politics as a game of interest instead of emotions or parochial considerations dominant in the South.

Even a bloc vote from SE/SS can't give any candidate the victory cos of the numbers. Candidate must do fairly well in 4 zones out of the 6 to succeed. This calculation becomes easier for candidates that'll do well in the zones with the numbers (NW & SW)

Again the SS is always known to be splitted in their voting pattern and cannot guarantee any candidate with 60%.

Every intuitive person will know that Atiku and Obi will be doing themselves more damage being on the same ballot than the presumptuous share votes in the north.

Even Benue where I came from, Atiku & Obi are evenly match splitting their 2019 collective support base.

This is wishful thinking. Forget about tinubu getting any serious vote from the north

Atiku/kwankwanso is present, no real support from buhari, no money to buy votes.

If you guys are seriously waiting for meaningful votes from the north you will be shocked like wike was when tambuwal betrayed him for atiku

Jack500:


You will understand where he will get his gitrs from in 2 weeks time, keep fooling yourself until then.

These are the ones saying obidients are rude. Yet they pour insults everywhere, are tribalistic bigots. Hateful and generally corrosive

The facts are staring y'all in the face, reason why Tinubu is crying out upandan

It's getting interesting 😂

Serious question. Aside from the South West, which other region will Tinubu get block votes from?

Even the South West he'll share it with PO

SS/SE and some parts of NC and SW is for PO

NW/NE and some parts of NC is for Atiku

Buhari has refused to deliver the North to him on a platter as he expected. Also frustrating him to reduce vote buying in the north with this new policy. And the agberos are being curbed

A sane mind will not expect the northerners to leave their person and give Tinubu block votes

So tell me seriously, where will Tinubu get his votes from?

Afamed:


Same way Obi bought judgement at Black Market at the supreme court when the supreme court brought him back to power

Wonderful, so you're against Obi. That means he must surely win! Wow this is great to know 😁

Tinubu has lost it, shame. Its glaring even to the blind, but his supporters want money and bragging rights so they continue.


PDAPC should keep pressing each other's neck though. It's all for Obi's benefit

One thing I love most about this elections and campaign, Tinubu has been completely demystified. No more claiming sophisticated bla bla bla

The man has shown he's a bitter, abusive vindictive fo*l. The dementia has also made him a babbling idiot. He has become a laughingstock of the nation. I love it!! Haha

dominique:


I used to think she's African American o, the way she serves her swallow doesn't portray her as a Nigerian. How can a born and bred naija lady serve pounds like this, e no jig at all.

Hahaha no be lie. Like something a child used to play. But someone here mentioned PH

SerikiFulani:
Single,bitter, desperate and unlucky feminists have made the OP deactivate his account

So cos he always advice his fellow men to beware of nigerian women, y'all thought he's gonna hate his wife who might probably not be nigerian.

These dumb ass idiots calling themselves feminists don't know what time is it

Please read well. His wife is a Nigerian, she's also chubby. She also joined him from portharcourt to the US.

Meanwhile he has condemned women, marriage, Nigerian women in particular and also fat women.

Conclusion he is the biggest hypocrite right now, he was probably saying all those things to chase clout on here. Shameful

He that comes to equity must come with clean hands

Vipro:
Please, is business education a good course to study in Nigeria university?

Is it restricted to only teaching sector?

Course of study doesn't matter anymore in Nigeria. Just do very well and you'll get a job even if it's food science you read

olaniyilukman:
What type of nonsense is this, will nanny be following the little kid up and down and what of if nature caught nanny unaware, will she take the baby to the restroom.. Negligence on the part of the parents is the cause of this young blood dead

Yes. That's her job. If nature calls, secure the child in a closed room or hand him over to another adult until you're through. When the child is sleeping, do the other things you need to do, or take him along.


That's how parents handle things. She was negligent. And it's just one child. What of people who take care of more than one, and nothing bad happens to the kids? Do they have 5 heads?

LikeAking:



Una too dey fear parents.

Learn to ignore them, no send them.

If she bring mata up, tell her it ur right... Waka comot.

African parents are slave masters..

Under her own roof? You're not serious. Get your house first

Nwatachoba1:
Alexreports just dey chop all these ones money with different queens stuff

Queen of institutions

Queen of abuja

Queen of gwagwalada

Queen of aso rock

Queen of Senate

Queen of rivers

Queen of nigeria

Queen of sosoliso

Queen of isokuso etc(add yours)

Which we all know that ladies love all these things, so they pay money to contest and thereby enriching their pockets and the d**l ladies are running helter skelter for the queen stuff..

So na ur turn mr alex... as an Anambra man, we are born to make money.. onye ube ruru, ya la chaaa.. ite gi na agbo

Jiri ihe e nwere na'taba ego.... as nwafor igbo is concerned

Please stop giving him ideas. Before you know now we will see all pageantry with those names up there

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

It's only the grace of God that can help you forgive when trust is broken.

Pray for yourself. Ask God to give you the grace, desire and ability to forgive him. Pray for him also, the things you don't like that he's doing, ask God to help him change.

Also the things you do that's not so good ask God to help you change and do better

Pray for God to give your marriage renewed love and trust.

Leaving the marriage is not the solution. This can be fixed. And if fixed well, the marriage will be better for it

emirofkabul:
LOL, pretty sure he is a MAGA republican.

Your trump derangement syndrome won't let you see the truth. Which is that the democrats and stupid liberals are the ones who love destroying public and private property.

Question. Who is responsible for damaging and defacing public monuments all over the world.

Answer. Deranged democrats/liberals

Slynation:
You see my problem with some of you abi, after trying to date rubbish, you come out to generalize and blame the whole Men...

Kindly put, what is wrong is Daniel, if the guy's name is Daniel...

Same way nairaland guys always accuse Nigerian women. Not just women in general but Nigerian women.
What's good for the goose is very good for the gander