jimmychang:



His wife is a sex addict simple.NOTHING LIKE HE IS NOY SATISFYING HER

If she's a sex addict then she won't refuse him at all. She will sleep with him, still use the vibrator and also probably get it from another man.

She's tired of the sex she has with him that's why she refused him. And I don't think she's willing to cheat, hence the vibrator

Some women will rather do without than to have boring sex that does nothing for them. This is a truth you'll have to accept

Adetayo41:
I planning to leave the house for her, I am still in much pain. I swear to God. But will be sending her money for my twin babies

What if you're not satisfying her. Ask yourself this question. Look for how to improve your sexual prowess. Look for a counselor or get books. Also talk to her and ask her what she wants. How you can satisfy her better.

Hopefully you're both close enough to be able to discuss these things. But marriages these days, strangers sleeping on the same bed. Smh

Or get a mediator. Someone close to her that she can open up to. You should know what works best for your marriage.

Seriously the number of men that can't satisfy their wives is much. A lot of women are dying in silence. Afraid to talk so the men won't say they are loose

Please work on the sex you're giving her. I'm sure that's the problem

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

Are you sure the kids and the current pregnancy is yours? Instead of you to be asking how to do paternity test, you're here spewing nonsense. Please don't be a fool.

The man did not force or rape her. She fully did everything cos she wanted to, and you're here talking like a weakling. I'm disgusted

Hold her palm in yours. Codedly snap it. Show it to the ring seller. They'll be able to tell her size using yours.

That's if you're say size 11 she might be a size 10 or 10 and a half or 9. Based on the difference in thickness between your fingers.

Hope this helps and congrats

Smoke inhalation can even kill first before the proper fire starts. They probably inhaled the smoke while sleeping and passed on from there

Stallionhorse:
I don't get.. Where they tied up in the fire?? 18 year old?? Was helpless??

Adeleketoyin:
My people please I need your advice.

I'm having a lil loggerhead with my Fiance.

My fiance works in a company, which doesn't give him time to come home or live in his rented apartment for long.
I currently run a confectionery shop in my father's house.

My Fiance however wants to have a joint account with me when we get married soon in this my confectionery business. According to him, he'll support me, to help him get free in the future to stop his salary work and probably start another business without affecting the family.

But I don't want to have any joint account or partner with anyone in this my confectionery business. I want my business without any check or partner.
He's insisting on joint account to run the business and its getting into our relationship.

Please what do you advice?

For no reason should you agree. Why should he insist? Red flag right there. Joint account is by agreement not by force.

Or is he planning to leave his job later on, then have full access to your money via joint account later? Think about it.

I'm not against giving your spouse money. But it should be willingly and transparent.

Not by force, by coercion or by manipulation.

IamWonderful:
Still Igbo issue

I'm not ibo and yet I support Obi. Please explain that.

Like it or not, the man is gaining momentum

LogicBomb8:

He should sue 4 defamation

That's what he just did so, and won. Amber heard will have to pay him 15 million dollars

InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

She might be going through post partum depression. Read up on it

emmasoft:


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You can call/chat me with the number on my signature if you need further clarification

Thank you so much

Good morning guys. Sorry to be a bother, but please can anyone tell me how to sell my access bank shares. I have the certificate. Thanks

BabalawoPikin:
I feel like calling my wife out on this thread. But to avoid vawulence. Make I shut up.. She actually wants a second child too but I want my first daughter to be 5yrs. Na the matter we dey drag.. Why the rush Women get problem I swear

5 years? Ahhhh too far o. Give that child a playmate. 2 years, maximum 3 is recommended between the first two kids

ivolt:
So?
Fauci also financed "bioweapons" lab in Wuhan China.
But Putin isn't bothered .

A person would have to be very dumb to use this as justification for the invasion.

Putin isn't concerned about china because china is not in his backyard. Ukraine is his next door neighbor and such things are a great threat to Putin.

It's like Russia going to build bioweapons lab in Mexico for example. The USA will retaliate immediately

klassyguy:
I have two lovely kids with my wife - a girl and a boy. My son is six years old while his sister is eight. Both were born here in the US. I’ve done what I feel is right as a father to train these kids, but I know not everything can be done accordingly.

My son is restless. He has the attention span of three seconds before he gets distracted by something else. My mum tells says he is a copy of me when I was his age, but that was in the eighties and the way children were handled back then is totally different from today. He hardly wants to do anything in terms of school work and almost every day I get complaints from his teacher that he does not do his work or he is disruptive in class. When other students are doing their work, my son will be the one falling off his chair or hiding under his desk. His teacher told me he acts out when being corrected. Only yesterday my wife told me the teacher met her when she went to pick them up in school and told her that my son started yelling when the lights in the class started flickering. His behavior got so bad, they had to call the school security officer before he calmed down.

This behavior is really bothering me. I know my son is smart. His pre-school teacher once told me he was the smartest student she had. My son can do complex mathematical equations off the top of his head that even his older sister struggles to do. He has a very good memory and can list off all the types of trains that exist in the US, things that even I don’t know. It’s sitting down to be serious about work that he can’t do and can’t seem to focus on.

I enrolled him in a soccer club to see if that would help him expel his excess energy. At first he seemed to be lazy as he gets frustrated easily, and rather try harder, my son would rather give up and cry. I mostly have to encourage him to put in more effort, and most of the time he does not pay attention to what the coach says. The coach told me a couple of days ago that he wants to move him to a lower group level to see if he can build his confidence there.

I want to believe it’s his being the last born for now that’s worrying him. He seemed to start being a bit more mature when my wife got pregnant last year and he learnt they had a younger sibling on the way, but unfortunately, she miscarried and we lost the baby. I’ve been thinking for a while now whether to move back to Nigeria with everyone so that we can build some sense into both of them (my daughter’s story is another one). I’ve thought of taking them both for an ADHD test, but my wife is against that. The only time my son pays attention is when he’s doing something he likes, and that is when he’s playing the PS5 I got them or watching videos on YouTube Kids.

Any advice would be welcome from parents out there.

Your child is autistic. Take him for tests so they know exactly where he is on the spectrum and how best to utilize his brilliant mind.

You and your wife should lay hands on his head regularly and pray for him. Decree over him what you want. Speak to his spirit man for calmness and focus and other things you want to see in him. It will take a while, but you'll definitely see change. That is if you are Christians

This is what happened with my little cousin living in the UK. Today he's a model son in every way and his parents are very proud of him now

Offpoint1:
Enter and congratulate them, ask for gender, demand for powder, biscuit or drinks, tell dem lies "e too resemble him papa or mama", finish your drinks- drop something---max 5h, promise to come back dat ya going somewhere.... move.

You're asking him to demand for drinks and still telling him to drop maximum 500 naira. Fear God my brother

dacblogger:

You don't intimidate me... I senior you
God forbid that I'm jealous or envious of you .
I cannot jealous bad thing

I laff so teyyyy. All your comments kept going from bad to worse. Jehovah forgive me if I sin. But thank you for giving the best laughing experience I've had this year, so far

AmazonTopaz:
Actually, since your refusal to take it still makes your likes end up in the hospital and overwhelm health workers who are over worked and also affects economic and social life with things not getting back to normal then you are also required to take it for public good and as far as these vaccines are concerned although it reduces the risk of transmission and infection because the virus is prone to mutations nobody is out of the woods, the people who are unvaccinated are more likely to spread it to those unvaccinated for other health reasons thereby hindering public health and safety.

Show me the years of actual science and evidence or you yourself are not different from the propagandist.


I have done my proper research and I don't wait for the media to feed me information , since you have a contrary opinion meet the health experts and challenge them since you are aunty logic .


Please keep quiet the disparities is only in your head and not in actual reality if anybody wanted to depopulate you they would have done it long ago without the vaccines you are not that important to be depopulated.

Lmao. Like I said keep watching and parroting CNN. You assume I'm not in the medical field myself. My biochemistry degree begs to differ.

That aside my dear take the vaccine as much as you want with all the booster shots and whatnot. Make yourself a willing guinea pig for the pharmco companies that are even unwilling to take their own vaccines. Put aside your common sense and remain manipulated.

Just don't try to force it down the throat of those of us who don't want anything to do with it. Supporting govts to become tyrannical all in the name of "public health". Na ona get sense pass. Remain with your vaccine.

In 2 years though I hope you remember this convo. Hopefully not with regrets.


Meanwhile read up myocarditis and the vaccine. How many, especially young people without preexisting conditions have died from this suddenly or developed a heart problem just shortly after taking the vaccine. Also the rise in cases of cancer and AIDS among those who have taken the vaccine

Like I said, tip if the iceberg, tip of the iceberg. But I fear for some experience will be the only thing that will teach them. Sad. All for a sickness that has 99% survival rate.

AmazonTopaz:


Because we have immunocompromised people among us who may be affected because of our unwillingness to take precautions it is not always about you but about the interest and well being of your next-door neighbour because our rights are all collective

If the vaccine is effective, then whether or not I take it shouldn't affect my next door neighbor. The vaccine ought to keep them safe completely.

Ona go just dey swallow everything wey these propaganda media outlets dey talk. Shunning years of common sense and actual science and even evidence from those who dealing with the negatives of this virus.


Science is about comparing various results and coming to a logical conclusion abi? I challenge you today to do a proper research on the vaccine and what it actually is and what it's been doing to those who took it. Don't just listen to what CNN and MSNBC says. Do your own research and think for yourself.

Hopefully you'll be able to see the glaring disparities and outright cover up by the world govt and their media arm.

All in a bid to control and the people and cause depopulation. And that's just the tip of the iceberg

Brownygold002:
Hey, Nairalanders

Something has really been eating me up, I think I need to share. I'm a young gal of about more than 17, I'm brown, tall, slim, have a long curly hair (I'm from a mixed race - Lebanon and Nigeria), brown eyes and nice lips I'm endowed (no be mouth).

I'm a fresher at UNIZIK. I know I am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos I'm the youngest amongst them. But they don't seem to get along with me. I have tried everything I Can.

Each time we go out, I'm usually the center of attraction which is not new to me, nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. But guys do come for me and they get jealous.

I have tried talking to them but they said they're fine but deep down I know they don't like me. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid my assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. I'm tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life, the hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me guys!!

Move, move , move out ooooo. Before you sleep no wake up one day. You can never, I repeat, you can never change their minds about you. The best is to move out sharply.

Tell your parents about this so they can help you with finances incase you need money to move. But please don't make the mistake of remaining there before they poison you.

The heart of man/woman is desperately wicked

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

Bro you need deliverance from sex addiction. Even if you get married you'll still continue or even do worse. There are sex demons controlling your life, and the more women you sleep with, the more demons you come in contact with and also under their control.


That you feel bad about this shows that this is not what God wants for your life. Your spirit rejects this but your flesh is weak and under enslavement.

First you need to repent, give your life to Jesus and then seek a path to deliverance and spiritual rehabilitation. Sincerely ask God to help you and He will. He will make ways and bring people your way that will help in the journey.

Be patient with yourself, change won't be automatic. It will take time to break out from the addiction and enslavement. But make sure you keep going forward and making progress one step at a time.

You have to be ready to change your lifestyle and surrender completely to the only One who can heal this addiction.


Any other way apart from Jesus will not work, I promise you. But I also promise you that you'll never regret it if you follow His path. Goodluck

ppogba:


There is nothing to regret in Nigerian stock market.
Get more knowledge and don't just join the bandwagon that criticize without knowledge.

Lmao. You assume I have no knowledge. Typical. I stand by my words. Nigerian stock market is the worst. Simple

Boogiebee:
Hello Nairalanders,

So straight to the point. Please I need your advice about two things.

1. I just got my inheritance and I got cash of 8M and there's this popular belief of people squandering their inheritance,I don't want that to be my portion so which business can I invest it into. For context, I currently have a job and I'm not ready to quit so please put that into consideration.

2. My younger brother is still a student so he has asked me to save his portion of 6M in bank until he graduates but I don't think that's a good idea. I would rather he put it in some form of secure investment that will be yielding something. Kindly give us suggestions.

May the soul of my beloved Father continue to rest in peace. Amen

Enquire about eurobonds. it's in dollars. Search the topic on nairaland. Ask your bank about it


Don't you dare Nigerian stock market. You will regret it

Efe42:


Well not that I don't want too.

I want too and I'm working towards it but she's kind off filed with thought that I'll broke her heart due to her previous relationship...


Away from that she once said her prayers life is down due sex because she's experiencing nightmare sometimes she' use to pray and sometimes comfort her enemies but she can't anymore due sex.

Guy your grammar and spelling is bad. So horrible, so terrible. I'm not insulting, but informing you. Please work on it. Get a private teacher etc.

Seriously it's so bad. I got a headache reading all your comments

pocohantas:


Sex denial would not lead a responsible man into the laps of PROSTITUTES!!! It doesn’t make a man start engaging in ANAL SEX. There is nothing you men would not say to justify your bad behaviour. That is why Nigerian men do not get better, they just sit around with nasty attitudes and convince themselves they deserve the most virtuous woman.

Even some single guys do not do prostitutes. Do you know how twisted one would be to walk up to an obvious call girl and negotiate price? You think that is a habit a man would develop just because his wife denied him sex?

The lady clearly stated that she joined him in Canada and noticed that was his way of life. Yet you still have to twist it and heap the blame on her. This is his lifestyle.

You people would not die if you tell yourselves the truth. Ahnahn!!

I was wondering who this person was that's making so much sense with their comment. Then I saw it was you. I wasn't surprised. I almost always love your comments. Respect

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Your husband is a pervert and a sex addict. He probably has a lot of sex demons attached to his life especially with his sleeping with prostitutes.

There is nothing wrong with you. Even if you're Bianca ojukwu he will still cheat


He has a very serious problem and you can't change him. Only God can. And for him to change will require serious continuous prayers on your part and serious deliverance and true salvation on his part.

This is going to be a long and arduous journey. Can you handle it? It most probably will take years cos this kind of issue is not a day's job.

If you know you can't handle the stress, tears, pain, persistence etc that this will take, then I advice you to think of leaving the marriage. Or prepare to become depressed and suicidal if things remain like this.

If you decide to leave, make a plan first and then seek for how to become financially independent before you leave. You live in Canada, that should not be difficult.


If you choose to stay and help him then get ready for the battle ahead. Spiritually, mentally, psychologically. Addiction is a very strong spirit to battle with. But it is defeatable.

Stop talking to people about the situation, except they are people that can help you out with the situation. That is counselors, your pastor/priest etc

Above all, get closer to God. You need Him now more than ever no matter the decision you take. Develop a relationship with the Holy Spirit cos only Him can guide and lead you through this.

DonroxyII:
I don't even subscribe to a four years hold sleeping alone. What happens to doing some quickie when she sleep off. If they are two now, of course they can be playing with each other till sleep break them off.

4years old should be sleeping with the parent until a sibling arrive. Then You can decorate their room with Orishirishi and also sleep there as parent and later transfer to una room ..... Kids love to sleep in their play room until they need Parental warmth/coziness then the calling up.

If nature informed them you are fighting(sex), their first inclination is to break you apart

Just have a bigger bed or another bed entirely within the room and let business be done Absolute private but when the coast is clear and you have the house to una self, release all your valors on each others and you can all roar like lions as una wish, Na una Sabi but a four year old must be protected. If she has Hiccups in the Middle of the night requires urgent attention while both of You has slept off from banging each other silly.

What kinda parents are roaming the world today. Four years old having a room to sleep alone because the parent wanna knack ?

I've seen small children enact their parents having sex. Saying the words and bouncing on top each other. Your kids could be awake watching without making a peep. You will think they are sleeping. Meanwhile they're busy downloading things.

Better to protect their impressionable minds. Children shouldn't be exposed to sex at all. Parents have a right to live their lives also.

Teach them to sleep in their rooms early. Nothing wrong with that at all. You can put a child monitor if you're worried that something could happen to them. At least that way you can easily rush to their room and sort things out

lucro:


You are very brave.

Please a question...

With the beating, aren't you scared your kids may become afraid of you and in the process get disconnected into adulthood?

I love my dad dearly but he was not one to spare the rod. Overtime we got closer to our mum (our defender of the Universe back then) while our relationship with our dad became strained.

For almost two years I did not inflict any form of 'corporal punishment' on my 2 year old, but I noticed that he now exhibits some traits that require correction. I, very recently, started 'spanking' the dude, but noticed that he gets 'uncomfortable' around me whenever I am 'not happy' with him. I am a bit uncomfortable with this.

Doe that happen in your case, and how do you deal with it? I guess this makes it three questions.

Thanks.

Play with him a lot, wrestling, play fight, even give him a nick name. Take him out with you when you need to run small errands like buying fuel etc. Create a bond with him.

When you want to discipline him, first talk to him and correct him why it is wrong, then tell him the consequences if he repeats it next time. That is five strokes of the cane, time out without his toys or no ice cream biscuits or treats for 3 days. Adjust as applicable according to offense committed.

Always make sure you let him know he disappointed you anytime he does what you specifically told him not to do. Praise him a lot when he does well so that he will always value your validation and won't always want to do what disappoints his daddy.

When dishing out punishment, be firm and purposeful. Don't lash out in anger and hateful words so he won't think you hate him. Explain to him that he broke the rules and therefore deserves the punishment


Hope this helps

thebosstrevor1:
Guess they are a family of SS.

This genotype stuff made me believe in the survival of the fittest.

Soon those with AS and SS will be without partners for procreation because AA wants to marry only AA.

But it is interesting to note that genotype isn't a topic of discussion when dating or marrying in the developed world.

Because it is only prevalent in the black race

Draslo:
I'm a little confused. Someone clear this up

I thought he married just once

Jumoke abi na jumobi is the 2nd wife. He was married to May Ezekiel who died years ago but didn't have any kids for him. He had other kids before he married May. I'm sure these are the kids giving him grand children

Davash222:
The manner women rejoice on their wedding day will open a sane man's mind to know marriage favors women mostly.

Men as kids don't plan on getting married, we envisioned a society where we go out there, have fun, tour around, stay in big mansion, bang as many pussy as we want without fear of being caught.

It's women that started this marriage of a thing to trap men down. They've wired this marriage of a thing in their hearts, right from their toddling age.




Congratulations to William Uchemba's wife.

You've been up and down condemning women and marriage. I pray you heal from whatever was done to you. Carrying this kind of bitterness is not healthy.

Marriage is a big blessing to those who do it right. Both male and female

I understand where you are coming from. Her family might have told her to consider other men with more money. She loves you and doesn't want to leave you, reason why she wants you both to hustle more.

Keep trying hard, I pray God to bless you and make your life better. If she's a good woman, hold on to her and pray for her not to give into family pressure. It's not easy for a girl to go against family.

Both of you together pray regularly for the relationship and that God's will be done and that the family will turn around to support you. Never underestimate the power of prayer especially when it's both of you together

As you pray, keep hustling and may God bless your hustle

ebenezer202l:
Mamman Daura isn't a politician but a nephew to a politician living in a free rent in Aso Rock.
cc LZAA Imhotep MsAllison GandolIaar IJOBA2

Well she didn't say politician, she said Nigerian