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Happy birthday pretty princess

God bless your for your kind gesture, i may have missed your giveaway but staying tuned for the next.........Following

Malta is really beautiful........would love to visit one day....


Please mention me in your giveaway biko........

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Terrible set of people

deltateam:
Forget talk.

The main issue which she didn't tell you is the possibility of having issues with your mum should she marry you.

If child birth delays by 2 years, then you won't even recognize your mum as preparations to get another wife for you ripens.

If I were a woman, I won't marry only son. Forget talk.

I agree with you, even when there is no delayed child birth and you gave birth to only females without a male child........serious wahala!

Very interesting thread, i enjoyed every bit of it. Weldone op and keep it coming

Oh My God

Wow......God's name be praised

EmpresFIDEL:
“Remember that you are dust and to dust you shall return.” Genesis 3:19.. lord have mercy on us.

The scriptural verse should be Ecclesiastes 3:20.

beautiful kids

A welcome development

Reduce the number of times you eat at work better still cook from home and bring along to work, that way you can save some amount of money.

ifyalways:
Omoni and show off.

No biggie, mine is flat too and so are other millions of women.

Some of us na follow come lepa aka good genes. No work needed eg Kate Henshaw

Some of us work off our butts in the gym/home and eat healthy eg Ifyalways

Some go under the knife codedly then come out and flaunt it eg Caroline Danjuma etc etc

Some of us use illusion to encourage ourselves aka waist trainer/clincher queens eg Toolz Oniru

Whatever floats your canoe

Grandmaa......pics or i don beelivit

Beautiful family

Onegai:
Because it was shocking to hear how many parents still owe school fees for this term, we sat down together and put this down. A helpful plan for how to sort out school fees payment. Please read and share:

https://nefescorner.com/how-do-you-pay-your-schoolfees/

Nice tips

hunniesuzie:
Oshe pteridophyta

[quote author=LadySarah post=72532476]I have the driest page on fb.last Yr when my phone was stolen,I lost all my wedding pix including my kids birth pix.The only way I recovered some was on my sisters'/ coz pages.I used to warn them but itlater would help me until I moved to cloud storage.

So no big deal.even if she doesn't relate with you well,your kids are her blood.pls overlook ...
Cc.Imurboss[/quote

I hear you ma Thanks

JGracious:
I'm quite sure you go don coolu coolu temper by now.

Let the younger lady be o jare. It's not everyone that finds it easy to warm up to people. She may even be struggling within on how she should relate with you that will not bring about any misunderstanding.

Refrain from instigating your dh against his sister.

Enjoy yasef.

No, i've never did that. Thanks for your input.

PraisesG:
My dear,the only Trad pics,i have now is the ones my little cousin uploaded without my permission on Facebook,though I scolded them initially,but years down the line after been disappointed by the photographers of the day,im grateful.
Its normal to feel the breach of consent, between you complained of her attitude to the Babies at the hospital,my own cousin left me at the hospital immediately after I was brought out of theatre in a general hospital,to go freshen up,leaving my baby and I at alone for 12hours,she is still my family.
She also announced the birth and circumstances surrounding it before I can.

This is well noted ma,thanks.

hunniesuzie:
Short answer, yes you kinda are

Except you're uncomfortable with your kids being on social media (in which case you won't have posted them yourself), ignore her

It's not worth getting upset over honestly. You know where you stand with her, maybe she feels more connected to the babies than you (as per her direct relatives), while that isn't ideal, it's the way she is and giving her this much attention is stressful and a waste of time

Pele, drink cold water. It is well

lol at the bolded, i don hear. I was only waiting for your approval to fight back or chill now that you have said so, i will chill . Thank you ma

enque:
i think u r over-reacting tho, but then again... i think its cos of d kinda relationship U n ur SIL have, n dts likely d reason y u were not tagged.

I have a BIL who loves to take n upload pix on FB. thanks to him, our wedding pix got to FB b4 we could find time to upload. n when I mean pix....i'm not saying 1 or 5 o, i'm talking like 20 and he even tagged us in all of them . But to me sha, its not a big deal...its his own way of celebrating. Infact everyone in their family know say na so he be.

Biko save ur energy....i dont think its dt big a deal. Life is too short mbok!

Is that why he couldn't also tag his own brother too. Ok....i let it slide. Thank you ma

CoolOne1:
@imurboss, sis cool down.. it's not so deep in my own opinion.

Personally, i have never uploaded my kids pics on FB. if it's not my twin, it's my brother..infact for my daughter, it was my hubby's friend that even uploaded the picture on his FB congratulating DH.. He only tagged my hubby, he didn't tag me.. i didn't see it as a big deal.. None of them has ever taken permission from either of us..

I see her action as being happy and rejoicing with you even though she didn't show it. You may also need to make a conscious effort to reduce the strain between both of you.

Do you know some of my direct inlaws haven't called since i had my first issue, but i don't even give it a second thot. I have so many issues am already thinking/ dealing with.. If and when i see them , we would greet normally..

If the pictures are left on her page, will anything happen considering that they have been there for over a year.

Personally, i would let it go and focus on more important issues..(MY OWN OPINION OH)

Well, i saw it this in september but never raised any dust though not until yesterday when some issues came up with dh and it quickly recall what i saw and dh was angry with me why i didn't bring it up before now and you know we were never tagged in any of the pics.....i will let it slide then. Thanks for the word of advice..

Bloomingbud:
Good afternoon mamas!

Please I'll like to hear from mamas who have fed their babies August secret food and baby grubz, which of these food is better off I'm tired of feeding my children nutribom and pap so I'm thinking of getting either of these two foods.

Mamas make una answer me o

Giddyperson
imurboss
eksbabe

Sorry mama....we didn't do August secret and baby grubz, we did more of home made food/cereals. Let other mamas like giddyperson help out

[quote author=Giddyperson post=72507202]You said someone should tell you you are over reacting. So...You are over reacting

On a more serious note, I really don't see the big deal. She's family. She put up her neice and nephew on fb not you. Even if she doesn't like you, she probably likes her brother and his kids.

I don't see why her brother should ask her to take down the pics, that's just being mean. It's not like they are embarrasing or sensitive pics or you had ever asked her not to post your kids. She hasn't really done anything to you apart from be cold and lazy, which might just be her personality. I don't like seeing unnecessary rift between family esp when people are not trying to keep the kids out of it.[/quot

even when her brother finds it disrespectful and annoying? ok ooo, i will let it slide then

Good pm lovely mamas, i trust our los are treating us well God bless them for us...

Please,Ejor, Biko make una forgive me that i want to rant this afternoon.There's this my SIL though far younger to me. She stayed with us during my preggy days sometime last year even though she wasn't of much help to me in that state but i chose to overlook some of her attitude sha. When i had my twins last year,she came to the hospital and as soon as she left, the nurse(because she was around then to help me feed my babies) asked if that was my SIL as she looks like DH and i said Yes. She asked why she was so cold and not free,based on her observation she concluded that if it were to be her own sister that gave birth to twins, won't she be more happy than merely sitting coldly, though i also noticed how unfree she was so answered her that since she's still single and doesn't know yet what it means to bear a child let alone twins that i don't expect her to go overboard as her own time too will come. Now to the issue......
Note:We're not friends on most social media especially on FB. Recently i stumbled upon her picture where fb usually recommend 'people you may know' then i decided to click,lo and behold....i found my babies pics on her page where she was announcing their arrival 4 days after i put to birth(though i know she must have gotten those pics from her brother since i didn't allow anybody to take a pic of them). Now my anger is this: 1. she never ask for permission from either me or dh to post those pics on fb (2)she didn't bother to tag either me or dh on the post rather she tagged her other siblings (3) In her post, she announced: "welcome to the world my lovely twins" without even acknowledging if the mother is doind fine or not (4)one of her older sis she tagged in the pic has never bothered to either call or visited even as i write to congratulate me since i put to birth...... I brought all this to dh's knowledge and he was also surprised but asked why i didn't bring it to his notice all this while and i told him i just stumbled on it recently on FB........ Now my questions........ Is this right? Even i that gave birth hasn't gone to fb to announce yet 4days after i gave birth seeing that i was still trying to recover from CS pain and all that, It took me about a month to upload the pic on fb and that was on their baptism....Since i came across this post, i"ve been bothered,is it everything you post on fb even without the owner's express permission and knowledge? Could it be that she couldn't hide her happiness that she has to go and announce on fb even though she never really showed that happiness when she visited?

Dear mamas, i'm very sorry for the long post but please can someone tell me i'm over reacting or tell me about someone who will not react to such issue cos up till today those pics of my babies of about 3days old she put on her wall i never have them on my fb page, though i've asked dh to ask her to take those pics down.....please i'm i over reacting?

End of rant!!!!

Oliran:
All praises and adorations to God Almighty, we are 3months today.
Ere-Ife is saying Good morning Mummies, Daddies,. Grandmas and grandpas.

Happy 3months cute prince

FloraEC:
Hope I'm not alone? I'll even pretend as if I'm pressing phone

You're not alone dear, I'm with you

HeroesMum:
Good afternoon Mamas. I am a new mum from the pregnancy thread, gave birth 3wks ago.I will love to join this group, hope I am welcome.

Congratulations on your new baby ....you're over welcome

Happy Birthday princess Adele

Congratulations mama Zaynie.... God bless Akorede

zaynie:
Rota vaccine is a vaccine that helps to prevent a certain type of diarrhea caused by the Rota virus which can be very virulent.
If your child is pooping as a result of taking the vaccine I would be very cautious because vaccines do revert or mutate.
In diarrhea, what actually kills is the loss of electrolytes from the body and the fastest way to replace lost electrolytes is through IV fluids.
So ORS and Zinc may work but not fast enough.

But I guess he's OK now.

Not to lie, I never took the Rota vaccine because of the fear of it reverting. Even all the ones we took, didn't the kids still fall prey to the pathogens?
We took MMR, my kids had mumps laslas
They also had chickenpox.
So I honestly don't trust our health workers, our prayer is that the kids not be exposed to the really dangerous ones.

Walahi you're beginning to boost my morale not to go for this bcoz that total of 72k for the 2doses is seriously pinching my body

jazzyjazz:
I paid 26k plus.......lets just round it up to 27k for 12th month immunization

Thanks mama jazzy, i'll go today and confirm