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Romance › Re: Nigerian Women What Qualities Do Non Nigerian Men See In You? by InkedNerd(f): 3:22am On Jan 10, 2012

onila:
but u have dated so many men from different nationalities you shld know some sister

I'm really not sure. Sometimes I get the feeling that some of the guys I have met in the past have been interested just because they had an certain thing for African/Black girls. Depending on whether or not the guy is/was raised in the US I can generally gauge their reason for being interested. Hmmm, I guess my personality if anything. I can be pretty laid back at times undecided

Romance › Re: Nigerian Women What Qualities Do Non Nigerian Men See In You? by InkedNerd(f): 3:07am On Jan 10, 2012

Honestly, I don't know undecided

Romance › Re: Nigerian Men Appreciation Thread! by InkedNerd(f): 3:03am On Jan 10, 2012

Here's my bit of love to my Naija men:

To my Nigerian brothers who are doing what they need to do academically, socially, financially, and any other way that has some sort of positive contribution to Nigeria and the world as a whole, may you all continue to be blessed. I hope for nothing but success. I know the road for you all as African men has not and will never be easy but I have faith in you all. I know that no matter what happens you will always pull through. I may come of a bit strong in my feelings towards some of the things I see within our community but it is because I love you all and I know the strength that is within you all. As a young Nigerian woman, I want nothing but the best for you. . . So please do not be upset with me when I say something to some of you about your behavior. I say those things with love because I know that as a people we are destined for greatness. I would expect that as a young Nigerian woman if you saw your sisters doing something that is detrimental to her existence you would help her. So as I do that to you, I expect you to do the same to me. My Nigerian men who are so divinely created, I humbly ask you all--stay strong, stay focused, and stay blessed. The world has yet to see your greatness but with time, they will! kiss

Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland 2012 Ethnic Census by InkedNerd(f): 2:18am On Jan 10, 2012

odumchi:
Maguwazawa is an Hausa clan so why not vote? Besides not all Hausas are Muslim. There are Christian Hausas and animist Hausas like you.

The point of this poll is to try to determine an accurate record of which populations are present on Nairaland. You not voting isn't going to help. Besides this is an ethnic poll not a religious one.

PAGAN 9JA is an animist? Interesting!

[quote author=PAGAN 9JA link=topic=841401.msg9930065#msg9930065 date=1326142824]no. we are not include in the list. i would have voted as Hausa but these days, Hausa = muslim, so i no vote.[/quote]Would you care to tell me a bit about you religious beliefs [if you don' mind]?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: . by InkedNerd(f): 2:14am On Jan 10, 2012

kokoye:
Toyosi20 is now a medical doctor in Sacramento. . . .married to a white man

She no get your time again

suckitupsuckitupsuckitup.

Lmao, eh ya grin

Chei, it would be funny if he believed you grin

Romance › Re: Dudes That Do This Should Be Dumped by InkedNerd(f): 1:55am On Jan 10, 2012

OK2NV:
SMACKED WITH A DIK
PHUCKED IN DAH EYE
WITH A DIK IN SEXKILLZ EYE
DIK INNA SEXKILLZ EAR
SMACKED WITH A DIK
SMACKED WITH A DIK
SMACKED WITH A DIK

Ok, I know I shouldn't be laughing but the thought of a guy trying to screw a girl in the ear and eye created some really funny yet weird images in my mind grin

Family › Re: Nairaland's Cutest Baby Contest by InkedNerd(f): 1:51am On Jan 10, 2012

I'll try to see if I can get another pic of my friend's baby. I don't have a baby yet so I've got no personal pics to post grin

Romance › Re: Dudes That Do This Should Be Dumped by InkedNerd(f): 1:26am On Jan 10, 2012

@Nj girl : You can think whatever you want to, that is up to you. I've stated that I don't have and never did have a preexisting grudge. No offense but as an individual you are of no significance to my life or existence so you saying I have a "grudge" is highly unfounded and false. With that being said, how I choose to address you and your ignorant bias is my decision. I don't sit here and nitpick on how you choose/don't choose to express yourself. If you wanna speak in a manner that dumbs down the basics of the English language, then you are more than welcome to do so. I will in no way stand in your way as you do that. I on the other hand will continue to speak and address you and any other person on this thread as I choose. If you don't like the way I speak when I address your bias falsifications then that is your problem, not mine. I'm not going to change the way I am addressing you just to suit whatever manner that would be more desirable to you. Unless I have told you that I have some sort of personal vendetta against you, you shouldn't assume that I have one. I simply pointed out things in your comments that demonstrated the double standard bias of your thinking and the thinking of many others. Yes, there are gender inequalities in this world but for you to be going around proclaiming these double standard gender grieves as a justification for it being ok for a woman to cause physical harm to men because they "cause insignificant physical harm as opposed to the reverse." doesn't make it ok. As a whole, anyone with half a brain and an ounce of sense can and would recognize that domestic violence is wrong no matter who is initiating the violence. You're basically saying its ok for women to hit men because men can do more damage. Now that my dear is wrong! No one, and I repeat no one should be subjected to any sort or abuse just because one gender has historically been known to have the upper hand. You do nothing more than perpetuate the ill nature of domestic violence and your only excuse is that a man can do more damage?! Believe it or not there are men who are in abusive relationships with women and because the societal notions of a man's masculinity and power is questioned, often times they're never taken seriously which enables the cycle of abuse continue. If you're one of those people who jeer at men who seek help because they're the ones who are being abused then it only shows the level of thinking that you possess. Do not sit here telling me about what happens or doesn't happen in Nigeria. I know what my countrywomen go through, and honestly it breaks my heart--like I have said before on this forum, I work with such victims. . . Even those who were born and raised with the mentality that is rampant in Nigeria and many other parts of the world due to cultural, social, and religious backing so please, spare me of those "Do you know?" questions because the answer is yes, I do know those things and in the past, I have witnessed abuse as well. I agree, women [worldwide] need to enlighten themselves on the issue of domestic violence but the manner that you go about explaining or justifying certain acts of one gender is not appropriate nor is it helpful to the advancement of domestic violence prevention. Your only excuse to back up any of the things you've said is "Like there's ever going to be a time when there will be gender equality on this planet", well if you want to follow the same logic when replying in that manner then you could have easily have said "Like there's ever going to be a time when there will never be domestic violence on this planet", its no different because you're perpetuating the cycle of abuse and the notion that there really isn't much that can be done. As a whole, my response to you isn't about me liking or disliking your thread or being sexist. The only individual who is being sexist within our discussion is you. I wasn't trying to go out of my way to "verbally attack" you. If I was, you would have known it by now. I just stated my thoughts as I saw fit.

25omega:
inked love the response on the first page

Thanks 25omega kiss

Romance › Re: If You Are Not In A Relationship, Why Not? by InkedNerd(f): 12:51am On Jan 10, 2012

@OP: Hmmm, I don't know. I guess stupidity is the main thing that's keeping me from really committing undecided

Romance › Re: Dudes That Do This Should Be Dumped by InkedNerd(f): 8:45pm On Jan 09, 2012

Nj girl:
@inked nerd take it easy sister, i have really not said anything to annoy u to this extent, or are u carrying and old grudge cos it sounds like it.
Double standard; yeah right, look at the physical structure of men and women and tell me how much d effect of a woman beating a man will be, there are more women being abused in thier relationships than men so if this thread is sexually biased dont blame me blame statistics.

I don't have any preexisting grudges with you or anyone else here. What I have a problem with is you downplaying domestic violence on a whole due to gender. That to me is complete and utter bullshit. Yes, I will agree that the demographics will show a much larger number of male abusers than female but for you to even sit here and trivialize any aspect of abuse regardless of how much or how little it may appear to you, is wrong! I've always been and will always remain a strong believer in equal rights for both genders but when someone like you sits here and downplays someone else's pain because of your own personal gender grievances, then it only demonstrates the lack of compassion you have as a human being overall. Don't sit here and tell me crap about looking at statistics because I know what they are. I work with abuse victims! I've seen it firsthand. If there is anyone who needs to be educating themselves on such an issue, it should be you!

Roland17:
Why should there be a double standard for women who hit their BF/husbands? some women hit their husbands, some stone them dangerous objects, some go ahead damaging their BF/Husbands cars, TV's etc, its insane and very unfair, am against any form of physical abuse to women, but women must also learn to control their temper whenever they are irritated or angry,

Like i have always advocated, as difficult and insane as it sounds "just walk away quietly"

Please ask am because apparently certain people have been sippin' on ignorance juice!

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Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland 2012 Ethnic Census by InkedNerd(f): 8:28pm On Jan 09, 2012

odumchi:
@Inked_Nerd
You can Pick one of the two that you're most comfortable with.

@Jarus
Is that an ethnicity or did you mean Yoruba?

I think I'll just stick to the 'other' category. I can't pick one over the other when both are a part of my existence.

Romance › Re: Dudes That Do This Should Be Dumped by InkedNerd(f): 8:19pm On Jan 09, 2012

@OP: While I agree that guys who physically harm women should be dumped, I don't agree with the double standard notion that women who harm men physically are far and few. It's beliefs like that contribute to misconceptions of physical abuse within relationships. Anyone regardless of their gender should be arrested and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law!

cynthiafred67:
No they should be loved and pampered because it is not easy.

@op
I totally agree with u

Should be loved?!?! Life not being easy as a woman is no reason to go around throwin' your fists up at someone! Stop making excuse for people who willingly choose to cause harm to others.

sexkillz:
[color=#000030] Sooo False! Unnecessary gender compartmentalization and marginalization! What is good for the goose, is good for the gander! Violent spouses or partners should be prosecuted. . . Male or Female![/color]

Well said! I don't know why people choose to take on idiotic double standards as a means of justifying their own personal gender griviences.

Nj girl:
so if we quarell and i slap u u go go dump me abi? My point is d only beating women give their men is to slap them but as 4 d men they slap blow kick and even flog with belt, u cant treat both offences equally

Wrong is wrong so stop bullshitting and making excuses for your double standard notions!

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 8:04pm On Jan 09, 2012

@OP/Topic: My day is ok so far. I'm just trying to pass the time by goofing around on my iPad. So far, I'm still semi-bored. Anyway, in about an hour I'll be heading off to my friends boyfriend's house--he's out of town so I'm keeping her company till he gets back to New York. Hehehe, it'll give me a chance to eat all the snacks in his house grin

Family › Re: Nairaland's Cutest Baby Contest by InkedNerd(f): 8:18am On Jan 09, 2012

Just thought I'd add this. It's a picture of my friend's baby cheesy

I know its a side pic so bear with me grin

Romance › Re: Guys If You Have This Remote? by InkedNerd(f): 6:54am On Jan 09, 2012

Hell yeah!

Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland 2012 Ethnic Census by InkedNerd(f): 6:32am On Jan 09, 2012

odumchi:
What are you?

I'm a mixture of Ibo and Calabar. Mostly Ibo though.

Family › Re: Nairaland's Cutest Baby Contest by InkedNerd(f): 5:39am On Jan 09, 2012

Awww, babies are so sweet kiss

Romance › Re: Guys If You Have This Remote? by InkedNerd(f): 5:38am On Jan 09, 2012

MsDarkSkin:
mschew!!!!!!!

[img]http://sweettalkonthespot.files./2008/06/womens-remote.jpg[/img]

Ya see, this is what my yeye family should have gotten me for Christmas grin

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