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RomanceRe: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by InZA: 4:10pm On Jan 11, 2015
popcykaylah:
I agree ...when I got married I had nothing..not even a pin.just had my apartment ready and furnished to my own taste and then I picked a woman amongst women who supported me ...lo and behold any where I get to those hungry greedy chicks keep telling me they wished they married me and in fact they dont mind dating now but I tell them they don't know half of what I have been through and they would have absconded if it were them ..
Well good for you sha.

I just feel it's better to be reasonably comfortable before a man gets married, truth is, this reasonably omfortable status I'm referring to, I don't mean you should be reasonably comfortable because you want to get married, but as a man you would agree with me that being financially settled to an extent gives wind to your feathers, it makes you exude that aura that a man is known for... I hope you get what I mean.

Moreso, I believe that as much as the world is filled with gold digging, two-timing, air headed, whoring, good for less than nothing girls, there are still the select few that would look beyond your financial stability and choose to stick with you based majorly on your personality and nature or strength of your character.
RomanceRe: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by InZA: 3:52pm On Jan 11, 2015
popcykaylah:
sorry bro you are wrong..all you need is God,a job that can sustain you both and then a house...lastly a woman who understands you..
see all those baby boy Honda and Toyota venza will come ..
I'm not wrong, because left to me, you're also wrong and since you think you're right, you wouldn't agree with me that you're wrong. The point is my own perception of what's right varies from yours. We all have our individual and distinct principles or tenets and these tenets form what we personally view as right or wrong.

I personally believe that it is right for any well meaning man to have the three things I've listed.. Anything short of that, is a man that is not "structurally" ready for marriage.

Marriage is not all about love and sexing all over the place like heated rabbits, marriage also has a very mechanical, objective side... School fees, house rent, power bill, etc.
RomanceRe: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by InZA: 3:39pm On Jan 11, 2015
elantraceey:
oya close your eye tongue

You too like to look grin grin
My eyes only see fine things grin tongue tongue
RomanceRe: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by InZA: 3:38pm On Jan 11, 2015
The truth of the matter is... If you call yourself a man that is fit enough for marriage.... There are just some key things you need, and a shade of them are on that list.

A house.... (atleast 2 bedroom flat)
A Car...... (atleast Honda "Baby Boy")
A good job... (atleast 150k/month)

It is what it is.
RomanceRe: These Parts Of A Lady Is A Complete Turn Off To Me. Am I Normal? by InZA: 3:30pm On Jan 11, 2015
Adufetohposh:
grin cheesy grin grin
Hehehehe grin grin
RomanceRe: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by InZA: 3:28pm On Jan 11, 2015
elantraceey:
I dont see anything wrong in place of work.
Tracey.... This your new profile picture ehn..


Chaiiiii.... The tin dey sweet my eye oooo grin grin
Christianity EtcRe: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by InZA: 3:11pm On Jan 11, 2015
bisous:
in my opinion:
The plan of God didn't include that by mid twenties humans will still be looking for jobs or whom to marry and that is why you are having those urges which just says biologically its time to start expressing that urge unfortunately the Economy dictates that you should wait till u can care for you and yours before marriage which then allows you to express your sexual urges within the sanctity of marriage.
Sexual energy is a very powerful force that can be transmit acted into other things concentrate it on something else like exercising ,meditating,Creative writing,photography or anything else that grabs your attention positively
Word.
RomanceRe: How Can I Avoid Dating,love,like Any Girl For 6momths by InZA: 2:45pm On Jan 11, 2015
KELVINXY:
Get yourself a video game console if you don't have one.
This is the BEST ADVICE.
RomanceRe: Are You With The Right Partner..???(must Read) by InZA: 2:31pm On Jan 11, 2015
@OP

Is this an excerpt from the book "Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman?
RomanceRe: Problems Facing An Extrovert Lady/Guy In A Relationship by InZA: 1:34pm On Jan 11, 2015
Godmother:
Never knew extroverts had issues too. Thought it was just us introverts with our 'deep' nature and our knack to overanalyze issues, resulting in doubts sometimes. I always see extroverts as strong , carefree and easy-going people.
My exact thoughts.
Jokes EtcRe: Jackie Chan, The Founder Of Shoki Dance. See Proof [photo] by InZA: 8:03am On Jan 11, 2015
elantraceey:
nope it's called sleep working undecided
What is sleep working undecided
Jokes EtcRe: Jackie Chan, The Founder Of Shoki Dance. See Proof [photo] by InZA: 7:56am On Jan 11, 2015
elantraceey:
;


grin grin


you are supposed to be sleeping undecided
It's called multitasking undecided
Jokes EtcRe: Jackie Chan, The Founder Of Shoki Dance. See Proof [photo] by InZA: 7:40am On Jan 11, 2015
Really funny grin grin grin
RomanceRe: 10 Secrets You Should Probably Keep From Your Partner by InZA: 7:35am On Jan 11, 2015
You will do well to either bullet each distinct point or put them in paragraphs.
RomanceRe: How To Faternate Girl With Your Motor (attached Pic) by InZA: 7:24am On Jan 11, 2015
By the time you go and splash water on mammy water spirit, you will know how far... Immediately she enters your car you won't know how you will just see yourself inside Elegushi Beach. undecided
RomanceRe: Is My Chance To Date This Girl Ruined By Our First Meeting?? by InZA: 1:01am On Jan 11, 2015
I may reply better much later in the day.

But if I were to give you my candid opinion, I would say you should forget about the girl,not because you've blown your chances as you've so wrongly evaulated your actions, but becaue SHE'S ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP. The most noble and honourable thing to do as a guy whom I think is matured is to leave her alone.The best you can be to her if you choose to,which I wouldn't even put too much weight behind, is being her friend.

Cheers.
RomanceRe: 7 Easiest Way To Care For A Lady by InZA: 11:55pm On Jan 10, 2015
Hahahahahahaha!!!


Soooo funny.


I pray I don't lose faith in the belief that there are still good, not so voraciously money hungry women.
RomanceRe: . by InZA: 11:39pm On Jan 10, 2015
dhensity:
bruh that is the best angry this babe was sum1 i cud vouch 4 ooo, didnt knw all re lies
You wouldn't "blame" her though... Those medical textbooks can dey take style cost shaundecided


But seriously, some girls are shameless sha ooo angry
RomanceRe: . by InZA: 11:32pm On Jan 10, 2015
This is epic!!! grin grin grin

Abi shey I should go and pick one girl from my village when I'm ready to get married huh

Stuff like this scares the shiii out of me to be honest cry

Modified
By the way.... There's one Drsomething viewing this thread at the moment... Could it be that.. lipsrsealed grin
RomanceRe: my E Crush by InZA: 11:22pm On Jan 10, 2015
mzhorlah:
I swear I actually thought the guy was one of those matured peeps here
Exactly the same way I felt too.

I was even still having fun with the thread until he made that comment about her... Very low I must say.
RomanceRe: my E Crush by InZA: 11:08pm On Jan 10, 2015
ronald4lif:
Am I the only one finding this comment in poor taste. This isn't cool na
You're not the only one bro.


Very distasteful comment to be honest.
RomanceRe: Guys Can You ever...... by InZA: 11:01pm On Jan 10, 2015
I can't... Not even my age mate.
RomanceRe: These Parts Of A Lady Is A Complete Turn Off To Me. Am I Normal? by InZA: 10:54pm On Jan 10, 2015
mirexxx:
keep nairalanding n leave my smile alone!undecided kiss
Roger that.
RomanceRe: These Parts Of A Lady Is A Complete Turn Off To Me. Am I Normal? by InZA: 10:18pm On Jan 10, 2015
RomanceRe: These Parts Of A Lady Is A Complete Turn Off To Me. Am I Normal? by InZA: 10:18pm On Jan 10, 2015
mirexxx:
smiling kissalways now causes hepatitis?undecided
This your smiling that aggressively motions the lips, it's a very strong smiling sha undecided
RomanceRe: These Parts Of A Lady Is A Complete Turn Off To Me. Am I Normal? by InZA: 9:59pm On Jan 10, 2015
mirexxx:
u are normal op kiss
You've been sharing this "kiss" since yesterday... Are you not afraid of hepatitis? undecided
PhonesRe: 5 Whatsapp Features We Really Wish BBM Had by InZA: 9:57pm On Jan 10, 2015
Curiouscat:
You still never say your Amen tho grin. If truly is the nose you are admiring.
What else would I be admiring? grin grin
PhonesRe: The New Archos 53 Platinum Phone by InZA: 9:20pm On Jan 10, 2015
Chimezie250:
will post it tomorrow
OK
RomanceRe: Cute Face Or Good Character? by InZA: 8:59pm On Jan 10, 2015
Just here to read comments.
RomanceRe: These Parts Of A Lady Is A Complete Turn Off To Me. Am I Normal? by InZA: 8:55pm On Jan 10, 2015
Muyogoa:
i'm i normal. Are there other guys like me?
You are normal.

You just maybe have an "unconventional taste in sexual arousal"


There are other guys like you.


Guys with feet fetishes, nose fetishes, etc.
RomanceRe: Why My Girlfriend Act This Way Pls Help by InZA: 8:53pm On Jan 10, 2015
The law of diminishing marginal returns has set in.



It happens in all relationships
RomanceRe: These Parts Of A Lady Is A Complete Turn Off To Me. Am I Normal? by InZA: 8:50pm On Jan 10, 2015
Hmm


I wonder why you're telling us though undecided

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