ceeroh:


Don't get me wrong. I know my view sounds somehow. But if you look carefully, that's what most women do these days. Even those that work don't wanna share responsibilities with their husbands... Is that not the same as just cooking and giving birth?

As for the women in my family, that's a topic for another day, I wasn't raised by one. Not a broken home, but passed away when I was very young. Pops didn't remarry, and I never really felt her absence, maybe because I don't know what it feels like to have one. There's no house chore too big for me to handle, I grew up doing all those, perfectly. So I ask myself, what do I need a woman for? Asides giving birth and cooking, most of them have nothing more to offer. That's the truth. Some are even dirty and very disorganized, I can't stand a dirty environment. Never! But if you're gonna be offering something else asides what I listed above, then let me see. But how many of them have tangible things to offer?

I now see where your problem is from. Well, some of us have mothers and out mothers didn't just cook and give birth to us. I'm sure I wont just cook and give birth So don't generalize.

Nicoddemus:

yea times are hard financially and morally so some will still not marry. But don't say it again im forcing my belief on people, im just saying the undeniable truth and you know. From ur point of view imagine what the world will be like if everyone choose not to get married and every kid is raised by single parent

It is not an ideal situation. But that is what a lot of people will end up doing. That is just my point. So a lot of them are not 'forming'.

ceeroh:


As my personality isn't for everyone, so is my response. Go fvck yourself Mr. maturity.

NB: Lemme reply you because you're the OP. I wouldn't wanna get married because asides giving birth and cooking, the lady would virtually have nothing more to offer. So why the stress? Any fertile female can give birth, even mad women give birth .
I might even end up adopting Children and continue with my life.

You mean the married women in your family and around you just cook and give birth? Wow. You need to change your location.

Nicoddemus:
Most people are saying they don't wanna get married. That's just a total self denial of primitive human existence. God himself in his higher wisdom made woman to be a helpmate to the man and for companionship with the understanding of the critical needs and basic desire of the man he created. Yet some on nairaland derives pleasure trying to subvert natural Principe. Anywhere na forming sha. If you have met the wrong person or encountered difficulties in your life don't let is twist your understanding of marriage and why you should get married. As for me i believe in love....( calm down am not naive). I want to love and be loved. Companionship. And to groom healthy children.

Stop pushing your beliefs down peoples throats. That forming talk is irritating. Some people will not marry still, they will just have kids.

Regiinald:
I believe people (including me) should get married only because they want to have children officially.

I don't think getting married because you want to spend the rest of your life with the person is a valid reason because that is why you are dating such person in the first place and getting married doesn't change that decision.

Why Would You Want To Get Married?

Speak for yourself. Getting married to officially spend the rest of your life with someone is a very valid reason. Marrying to get kids is a selfish reason. Just make sure you tell your partner that is your true reason so that she will know what she is getting into. It also means if she can't have kids, you will dump her.

denjluk:
Na only me dey see the ankle chain? Your xtainity can only be justify after passing the test fame, money and worldly things! How can a pastor daughter comfortable post this type of pic. Heaven is passional relationship with God not my pastor say.

Oga what is wrong with wearing an ankle chain?

gypsey:
Anything for Attention, how can some one be raped twice, you didn't report the first one that's why..


Oloshoo!!

You are not human.

lawman88:
You and your wife are nice.


but pls invest in your future than spending money on movies that add no value to your mental productivity.

next time, dont post your outing pictures on nairaland, it is childish.

i am married also,

Oga there is nothing wrong with a couple going to see a movie. Its not every single money they make that should be used for investments. You are married,so? It clearly does not make you wise enough to give advice.

gypsey:
how did you know she didn't sleep with me or my brother?

Look, if you didn't like my comments just ignore and move the hell on! I don't need your Approval before commenting.

Have a nice day!

I know she didn't because if she did and you call her olosho, it would make you a hypocrite. Your comments are distasteful, i don't care much for them. Just try and have some decorum. This is a public forum. Typing rubbish about people you don't know and calling a woman prostitute does not make you look cool at all. Bye.

gypsey:
Oloshoooo!!!


what da hell is a media personality?
is that a job description or what?

Type with sense. Don't come online and insult people. Being an adult means being responsible. Your comment is uncalled for. Did she sleep with your or your brothers that you are calling her oloshoo?

gypsey:
Oloshoooo!!!


what da hell is a media personality?
is that a job description or what?

Type with sense. Don't come online and insult people. Being an adult means beingbresponsible. Your comment is uncalled for. Did she sleep with yourvor your brothrrs that you are calling her oloshoo?

Apus:



Anty, U've been noticed.. now swerve!

Me? I cant go anywhere. Let me continue looking at your picture and try to see where your morale to insult someone is coming from.

Valerie47:
So because she is my fellow woman, I should not say my mind, do I look like a feminist to you.

Put up your picture let us see you.

Last355:
no one is body shaming her, fatness isnt something to flaunt on Sm, she will do well to hit the gym hard. Danger looming

Toolz works out. She shares her gym pictures. Even if she does not, it is her life not your business. Everybody cant be slim and yes, you shamed her.

Valerie47:
I dont know why Nigerian ladies get so fat and unattractive after childbirth. spit.

She was like this before birth. Your fellow woman? What is even wrong with all of you? smh. I'm done. Can't deal.

Last355:
Are you a fat hippo too? #fathippogang. btw she's been fat before she fell pregnant

And so what? She is a fat person, so what? You have to be a perfect person to call her names. I hope you find peace because you really sound frustrated.

Last355:
fat hippopo

Do you even have a conscience? How can you body shame someone that just gave birth?

Yewandequeen:


No joor. I mean he looks normal in terms of facial look, for Mr Nigeria we expect something more than normal.

See your own face na.

Apus:



Ugliest Mr Nigeria so far (no beef intended).

And the person on your profile is handsome? But when will you guys get enough sense to know that these competition winners are not decided by looks?

Cantonese:


Please what does 'ordercity' mean? Are you referring to orderliness? Also please use your dictionary to search audacity and your own ordercity and tell us which one is in it.

Oga you quoted the wrong person na. Go back and check.

frozen70:
She no get options

Them done threatened this one, both her papa family and her husband family done wash her brain to withdraw the matter

Women, go to school, be educated be independent by getting some thing doing, know your rights and don't depend your survival on him

No man has the ordercity or power to treat you like an option

If its not working out don't be scared to pull out

Only the leaving that walked out alive, lives to explain

Nonses

It is 'audacity' not ' ordercity'.

DaniTush:
who is that demon in the meast of angels

It is 'midst'. Critic that cannot spell.

bigpicture001:
Sh switched religion cuz of a man's money

Talkative. What makes you think she switched? Her husband is a Christian.

Auxtin85:
Happy birthday to her, but she nor too fine like that oo. How dem take they decide winner for beauty pageants? She is too Bonny.

She is smart. They judge by smartness. And she is beautiful by the way. She is a super model. They are usually skinny, duh.

Valerie47:
25years is not ready to marry, I hear you

Who told you all 25 year olds are ready to marry? Is that how desperate you think girls are?

Mrjo:
have you imagine visiting Aso rock only to meet Bihari in the kitchen cutting okro?

Are you Buhari?