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Celebrities / Re: Simi And Adekunle Gold Celebrate Christmas With Their Daughter, Deja (Photos) by ireneidiva(f): 11:12am On Dec 26, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


It's simple really: uphold it in your own home.
Simple

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Celebrities / Re: Simi And Adekunle Gold Celebrate Christmas With Their Daughter, Deja (Photos) by ireneidiva(f): 11:12am On Dec 26, 2022
hopefulLandlord:


I didn't know this but even that notwithstanding I still think it's another sign when a name is shortened to sound like a foreign name. I know some Adejares and none of them get shortened to Deja. more like Jare or Ade. Or has any of you before now seen an Adejare shortened to Deja?
What is your business? Name your children whatever you like and call them the long full names to your satisfaction. Some of you are just so annoying. Giving a child a nick name or calling her the short form is now an issue with all the problems in this country. Smh.

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Crime / Re: I Sell Hemp To Survive, HIV Patient Begs, Jailed by ireneidiva(f): 9:13am On Dec 15, 2022
Originalsly:


Not saying that ... what about the welfare of the children ? ... judge showed no concern... in this time with child molesters and ritualists preying on such unprotected children .

The judge is doing her job. Nothing concerns her with the kids.
Crime / Re: I Sell Hemp To Survive, HIV Patient Begs, Jailed by ireneidiva(f): 6:28am On Dec 15, 2022
Originalsly:
Hmmm ... lady says she sells weed to take care of herself.. children and mother. .... judge says she would get medical treatment in prison. So what happens to the children and mother?
Don't know why they go hard after weed.... local weed and not tramadol and the rest which are very addictive and very destructive.
So because she has children and a mother, she should commit crimes?
Music/Radio / Re: When Is The Right Time To Start Playing Christmas Music? by ireneidiva(f): 3:04pm On Dec 06, 2022
Djkenny080:
Please when can i start playing Christmas songs?.
You guys can ask silly questions.
Food / Re: The Hungry Man Meal I Organized This Evening. by ireneidiva(f): 12:34pm On Nov 07, 2022
abobote:
This girl and egg.

My wife usually use 5 eggs for egg sauce on Thursday morning, my 3kids will take to school with boiled yam, and she will still serve me breakfast from it. And she makes better sauce than this
She is not your wife.
Romance / Re: Lady Captured With A Very Sad Look On Her Wedding Day (Pic/Video) by ireneidiva(f): 6:32am On Nov 01, 2022
Bvlgari:
Lady captured with a very sad look on her wedding day


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smz3S9lWRRc
What's with the irritating laughter in the background?
Crime / Re: Man Locked Up For 20 Years Inside Room Discovered In Kaduna by ireneidiva(f): 3:00pm On Oct 13, 2022
Kasssandra:


That's why I began my comment with 'I suspect'.
What you suspect according to your comment is mental health issues.

You might be right. But your comment about not having mental health facilities is the one I responded to.

It is this same ignorance that probably made them lock him up. Nigeria has mental health institutions please.
Crime / Re: Man Locked Up For 20 Years Inside Room Discovered In Kaduna by ireneidiva(f): 1:49pm On Oct 13, 2022
Kasssandra:
I suspect mental health issues, and at the end, was locked up because in Nigeria, we have very limited facilites for mental health. Not enough psychiatrists, psychologists, mental health nurses, etc...
Says who? Have you done a research on this before?
Family / Re: Scan Still Saying No Pregnancy After 8 Months! Help!!! by ireneidiva(f): 8:19am On Oct 11, 2022
susrite:
her stomach now is really bumped up, just like a person in her 5 month pregnancy, she can easily bee seen as a pregnant woman now, but why scan is still showing negative till yesterday is what's baffling us all
What if it is fibroid or something else? I know scans can be misleading. But blood test and scan at the same time?

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Family / Re: Scan Still Saying No Pregnancy After 8 Months! Help!!! by ireneidiva(f): 7:33am On Oct 11, 2022
Blood test is negative. Scan says no pregnancy. No bump. So who told her that she is pregnant?

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Celebrities / Re: Kim Kardashian Booed At Rams VS Cowboys Game In Los Angeles (video) by ireneidiva(f): 2:24pm On Oct 10, 2022
dominique:
I don't understand how she's looking these days. Too pale, skinny washed out, the blond hair is not helping her looks at all. Turning 40 must have affected her self esteem so badly, she's trying to look younger but instead she's into a weird looking mannequin
Body shaming does not look good on you. I wonder what you even look like.
Politics / Re: Williams Uchemba To Storm Abuja Oct 1 For Nigeria Youth Decide Conference, Falan by ireneidiva(f): 8:40am On Sep 29, 2022
ogbonti:
A person’s first name can not be marked with plurality - You can have Rotimi Williams

because Willams with the S at the end is a last name or what is known as surname in Nigeria

it is stu pid to call him Williams Uchemba because his first name can not be marked with plurality - the right name is William Uchemba
If he is the one referring to himself as Williams instead of William, then he needs to go school instead of spending time on social media marking a fool of himself grin
So if that what his parents wrote on his birth certificate, he should change it to satisfy you?
Politics / Re: Save My Life: Sonia Ekweremadu Appeals For Kidney Donation by ireneidiva(f): 7:43am On Sep 13, 2022
Lovenorth:
Your father will donate his own for you, where are your sisters and brothers? Are they now not human beings like you?
Did you read the post at all?
Foreign Affairs / Re: Carnegie Mellon University Reacts To Uju Anya's Tweet About Queen's Death by ireneidiva(f): 6:12am On Sep 09, 2022
datola:
How can a person of her status who is a scholar at Carnegie Mellon uttered such a despicable statement

IQ without Emtional Intelligence is dystrastrous.

Dr. Uju Anya is a university professor and researcher in applied linguistics, critical sociolinguistics, and critical discourse studies primarily examining race, gender, sexual, and social class identities in new language learning through the experiences of African American students.

Nigerian again for the wrong reason!

Your grammar can wake the dead queen.
Family / Re: Case closed by ireneidiva(f): 7:22am On Sep 08, 2022
efficiencie:


You are impossible madam. If den leave you you go type book series on how bad your husband is. You claim material things are not your love language why did you seek out and marry a guy that works in the "highest" paid profession in the world but has mental issues? Is it that you didn't know about his mood swings before you married him? I am very sure you would have detected his mood swings before you decided to marry him. You got enticed by the staggering cash inflows he rakes in and now you are lamenting like egbere. Madam carry your load. We were not there when you were enjoying all the goodies and now that the time has come for you to pay the price you are looking for an excuse to take-off. Ladies and Gentlemen, no man or woman has it all. There will always be a cost for every great attribute your spouse has. If you leave your current spouse in search of another because of a flaw in his or her life you will keep changing spouses forever and ever because there is no individual that does not come with his/her unique assets and liabilities. You just have to find that special partner whose assets you are content with and whose liabilities you are willing to manage till death do you part.
What made you think he was 'highest paid' before their wedding? Since you've decided to conclude that she married him for money.

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Celebrities / Re: Portable Blows Hot After Goya Menor Won "Best Street Hip Hop" Award At Headies by ireneidiva(f): 7:07pm On Sep 05, 2022
Gerl:
See how unkept he looks
'unkempt'

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Family / Re: My Dad Is Always Been Paid Pension But He's Always Broke by ireneidiva(f): 12:55pm On Sep 02, 2022
modernWays:


Since you don't owe him, what if he became so selfish like you by stop labouring to train you?

Some people deserve to be born by animal and end up in human pot.
Yes o, people like you obviously.

Selfish? where did I say it is wrong to take care of your parents, please? What is wrong is entitlement for the umpteenth time.
Family / Re: My Dad Is Always Been Paid Pension But He's Always Broke by ireneidiva(f): 8:54am On Sep 01, 2022
brightest5050:


If you are truly female then I don't pray for my enemy to marry your type
You have a right to your opinion.

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Family / Re: My Dad Is Always Been Paid Pension But He's Always Broke by ireneidiva(f): 8:52am On Sep 01, 2022
GloriousGbola:


Sure, a lot of parents can decide on a great retirement plan, at the expense of their kids.

Why should I send my kid to a private school when I can send him to a public school and use that money

I remember some truly scruffy looking kids in my uni days who everyone kept saying forget, their dad has money in stocks.

Maybe that guy is the kind of one you deserve, one looking out for himself first.

A parent can decide their obligations are to provide you with the most basic provisions, which would free up money for a big retirement plan.

Be careful not to jump on oyibo ideas of entitlement.
It is the duty of every parent to give their children the best. Don't go and misquote me. Parents deserve all the care in the world especially when they are old. But the entitlement and using children as retirement plan is what is wrong. Plan for your old age. Life happens and things come up that scatter plans, I know. Your children can now help as much as they can.

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Family / Re: My Dad Is Always Been Paid Pension But He's Always Broke by ireneidiva(f): 9:43am On Aug 31, 2022
ibechris:




U are complaining for me.
How is it my problem...given my money and gift to my dad makes me feel good and mentally balanced.

If it hurts u...so be it.
Did I tell that I find it difficult giving to him.

Small children wey think say life is all about Internet. Wake up and stop being childish.

Adult you stated that you complained at some point. Well, nobody is imposing an opinion on you.

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Family / Re: Which Tribe Is The Most Difficult To Live With In A Face Me I Face You Compound? by ireneidiva(f): 8:45am On Aug 31, 2022
Heiterkeit:


You must be an i-diot if you think that he is entitled to state his opinion but don't think that I am entitled to state my own opinion and even labelled my own real opinion about him, as someone who knows him down to his house, as "attack." Stop being an i-diot. By the way, the fact that you think because I know him down to his house automatically make me Igbo shows that you are truly an i-diot and asserting that I am displaying the behaviour he talked about about the Igbos shows that you are a typical Igbo hater like him as he has shown in different places on this forum.

I-diots like you and him like insulting and abusing others but hate being told the truth about you.






I think you confusing other comments. I wasn't the one that said you know him from the house(whatever that means) or insulted you. Please calm down and read well. You seem to be filled with so much bile. So I'm out, cant deal mehn.

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Family / Re: Which Tribe Is The Most Difficult To Live With In A Face Me I Face You Compound? by ireneidiva(f): 8:44am On Aug 31, 2022
Heiterkeit:


You must be an i-diot if you think that he is entitled to state his opinion but don't think that I am entitled to state my own opinion and even labelled my own real opinion about him, as someone who knows him down to his house, as "attack." Stop being an i-diot. By the way, the fact that you think because I know him down to his house automatically make me Igbo shows that you are truly an i-diot and asserting that I am displaying the behaviour he talked about about the Igbos shows that you are a typical Igbo hater like him as he has shown in different places on this forum.

I-diots like you and him like insulting and abusing others but hate being told the truth about you.



Family / Re: Which Tribe Is The Most Difficult To Live With In A Face Me I Face You Compound? by ireneidiva(f): 8:30am On Aug 31, 2022
Heiterkeit:


Stop typing nonsense. I am not his wife, God forbid. He and his wife have been the beneficiaries of my benevolence since he was released from the prison a few years ago from a rape crime he committed against a minor. Unfortunately, the prison experience seems to have made him become even worse as he is now a more harden criminal than before.
Why do you feel attacked by his comments? You are displaying the behavior he is talking about, you know? This is a stupid thread. But for the purpose of this silly thread, he just stated his opinion just as others are.
Family / Re: My Dad Is Always Been Paid Pension But He's Always Broke by ireneidiva(f): 8:21am On Aug 31, 2022
ibechris:
My dad till date shares his monthly pension with my two sisters all because he feels he will get more money from me.

I once complained but I just had to let them do their things their own way.

I respectfully owe him alot.

He tried for us.

I know it is painful but allow him leave his remaining years the way he wants it.
You don't owe him. It was his duty as your father to train, sacrifice and give you the best. He decided to bring you to the world. You can also do your best to take care of him of course now that he is older. But children should never be parents retirement plan. Now that he is paid his pension, he is supposed to utilize it well on himself and not be feeling entitled to yours because you have your own life to live. Hope you will do better to your kids. African parents need to stop that rubbish.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Some Dos And Don't On Job Interview. by ireneidiva(f): 2:53pm On Aug 30, 2022
Chukdobz20:
This only apply to Nigeria the poverty capital of the world with high unemployment and under employment.

Here in Europe, employers literally slide into my LinkedIn message to sell open positions to me, some will even offer monetary benefits like signon bonus paid just to attract employees.

When I go to interviews here, I ask for water or tea whatever they have.. Interview is conducted as friendly chats with lots of jokes and humour. You have to tell them what you want to be paid and both parties can negotiate the salary.

Unfortunately, in Nigeria we are so timid with employees because the country is in total mess.

When I first arrived here, I addressed my boss as sir until one day he corrected me to address him by his first name. You are not obligated to greet anyone first.. Even bossess say hi to employees without expecting the employee to greet first..

Nigeria is in deep shit. We need to emancipate ourselves socially, mentally, economically, politically, religiously.
I've attended similar interviews in Nigeria where everyone is friendly and free. There are also companies in Nigeria where everyone is addressed by their first names.

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Food / Re: Nairalander Eats Gbegiri soup and Amala For The First Time by ireneidiva(f): 3:40pm On Aug 26, 2022
sammirano:

As in.. and it will shock you those bastards eat it the most
Bastards?

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Health / Re: What Could Be The Cause Of My Palpitation? Doctors In The House by ireneidiva(f): 2:37pm On Aug 26, 2022
themonk:


You copied this thing on google to sound smart lmao.

If you are an honest person you would have posted your source, sometimes I wonder what you do with all the fake clout you gather on nairaland. Something you know nothing about you just copy and paste it without source like it came from your own head.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/heart-palpitations/symptoms-causes/syc-20373196#:~:text=Heart%20palpitations%20(pal%2Dpih%2D,%2C%20they're%20usually%20harmless.
He stated that he did a research online.

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Education / Re: Home Schooling The Way To Go: Private Schools Now Charging Exorbitantly by ireneidiva(f): 9:51am On Aug 25, 2022
Doyou2019:


Just homeschool your elementary school kids or get them a lesson teacher that knows their onions.
Enrol them in a decent Federal Government College for their post primary studies.
Homeschool your kids because you have no job or hustle that will take you out everyday? Is it these nairalanders that cannot spell or speak properly that will teach their kids? You will still pay heavily for someone good to teach them.

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Family / Re: Earning 100k isn't too small to start a family In Nigeria) by ireneidiva(f): 7:21am On Aug 25, 2022
Acidosis:


You guys won't end this 100k matter anytime soon grin
I swear.

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Family / Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by ireneidiva(f): 10:13am On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
The kids have not started coming and you're already living like this. Now imagine when you have to buy diapers, baby food, school fees and all that in this harsh economy.

Even me as a single, 20k no do me in a week for feeding how much more two people.

You're lucky you're residing in a state where you can still get a decent apartment for 150k. In Lagos you can't get such.

With 10k for upkeep I can imagine how your wife will be living an unsatisfied life. Though she won't complain just to answer good wife. For how long?

My take on this break down is, if a man goes ahead and marries with such income, he'll subject his family to hardship.

I'm out!



Your problem is that you never see the big picture. Fortune can change overnight. What makes you think he cant get a better job soon if he works hard. I also believe that his wife will get a job after the baby. I've seen rich people turn to paupers overnight and vice versa. Even if you marry a billionaire, he can lose all that in a twinkle of an eye.

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Family / Re: My Gas Cylinder Was Stolen Tonight by ireneidiva(f): 7:10am On Aug 21, 2022
Awwww. So sad.

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