Deicide:
Is there a reason you choose to use blender to grind the tomatoes instead of those engine people use. Is the outcome the same?

Hmmmm

tonicyril:
That is why i used to laf those talking trash of their fathers, me i am sure it wil reach everybody..

How we think that our mothers are different from those we re dating now baffles me, our fathers are just accomodating enof to pardon their excesses, nothing different from them, female is female, woman is woman no matter how old they are. The funny and painful thing is that wen u started loving ur father, death took him away what a poor man

Do u know what ur mother use that man eye see before venturing into another woman??

Boys, before u bash ur father, always try to verify the reason he's doing what he's doing.

Sorry bro, what u sow u wil surely reap sir, thanks u re in the fatherhood, in ur father's shoe, and i hope ur offsprings show u what u showed ur father. Amen!!

U can switch to ur mum to help u out since she's still alive, abi na??

Til this very moment now u never tell us about where ur mother sold her gold, jewelleries, clothes to pay ur school fees but she can toil u against ur father to see him as a bad man.

Bro u wil afflicted by ur children the way u afflicted ur father.

U think say e easy to father a child abi?? Continue sir.

One man married four wives and you still think the problem is from women. Some of you are so funny.

Nemesis0147:
ontop another person money?
Madam rest!

You can drop your own opinion and go Sir.

nisot14:

what are the rules pls?

The dress code is formal. A jacket and a tie. No Casuals- Short sleeves, shorts and jeans are not allowed. You are to appear in either corporate or traditional attires.

nisot14:
Hello house, Can i wear A shirt and jeans, on sneakers for my marriage Registry. All the pictures I'm seeing online is just Suit and tie

In Nigeria, you can't.

dbestuncle:

I get you. It's good to get a life of your own, infact it was one of the advice I once gave to my wife though at the time she misunderstood it but I am not a kidnapper and all her life shouldn't rest on me, the burden too much to carry a full grown person isn't small work.
Too many childish men this days.
Another question?
Pls let it out, tell us, no vex tell us even if it means doing it on a new Monika.
Then also today's marriages has plenty issues because of the lack of a place for a good third party.
Have you tried some third party interference

Moniker not 'Monika' abeg.

blinking001:

Just have it at the back of your mind that you aren't going to remarry because your chances are really slim now. You aren't going to get genuine love from men especially after having 3 kids. The streets is cold.

Ensure that you're financially stable else you'll experience premium suffering in this life.

I wish you Goodluck.

Some of you are something else. So the only reason someone should be in a bad marriage is because she will not remarry according to you. If she does not remarry she will die abi? And who told you someone with 3 kids cannot remarry? Premium suffering? The op sounds like someone enjoying now right?

Much ado about nothing.

Discombulator:
My little brother got his lifetime girlfriend pregnant a couple months ago and abortion is out of the picture due to security reasons,left to my idiot of a brother I'd not support him but the girl in question happens to be a very decent and respectful girl and that baby is my family too so I don't have a choice than to assume at least most of the responsibility, Just got a job for my brother in March and he hasn't even started getting paid yet which means he can't support a family let alone a child, he is just 24 by the way.
So I want to know ball park how much things like hospital bills,baby clothes,toys,baby cribs etc will set me back for. I'm thinking I should set aside like 500,000 for the hospital naming and things we're going to need for the delivery.
And 50,000 monthly for 12months because I'm not going to support them for more than a year, he has a federal job and his salary should have kicked in by then.
Don't get me started on how I spoilt and enabled my brother to be a brat even at his age cos I know, thing is I've always been responsible for him,I practically raised him so he looks at me like am his dad or something and I'll always be there to pick up his slack when he mess up,plus I love that fool more than myself,he is my blood and I'd do anything for him.
Plus he is a good kid and this is the first time he's actually fvcked up

No decent girl sleeps with a man who has not married her. Stop enabling your brother. Allow him to learn and grow. The baby is not yet here. You just got him a job. Let him save and take care of his child. 24 is old enough. If you continue enabling him, he will not learn. Even if you must assist, let him start the process. Pick him up only if you see that he is really trying hard. He should be the one talking of putting money aside not you.

placeofallure:


I laugh in Mandarin.

You know why? You're soooooo inconsequential. I owe you no explanation really whether I know him or not.

You are missing the point. The point is he won't read this so it is better you tell him to his face.

placeofallure:
Beauty and the beast.

Sorry Sammy, though we're friends and business allies, I hated it when you cheated and I don't believe you won't do it again. Not even for your wife, but you were leading many believers into God's presence. You let all of them down. I pray you find peace with God.

Happy Wedding Anniversary!

If you truly know him, why not tell him to his face?

salamudeen:
I no blame am

i wonder what it would take the woman to wake up early do cleanings and cook no matter how rough the night might have been for her, i keep telling people if the house is not a palace i dont think there is need for househelp

Must you sound so ridiculous? What works for you, will it work for everyone? How do you expect a working mother to cope without some form of assistance? She should take her children to the office and the market everytime? And when she is I'll as well, what is supposed to happen?

FORWARDEVERLY:


Men are the price..
If he wants to marry tomorrow morning even though he is a SIMP.. he would have a litany of women to choose from.. but your favorite evening newspaper mgbeke Feminist wannabe Funke don't have such luxury..
We know how she struggled to get this particular Simp to be with her..

Men remain the price..
Know and know peace..

Lol. Tell yourself whatever helps you sleep well at night.

Dshocker:


They both cheated on each other

According to you because you were in the room all the time they cheated.

Dshocker:


According to reports, her husband tried everything possible to have a seated conversation regarding their marital issues, but she refused to heed... Obviously she is richer than her husband and felt she is above him and shouldn't take others from him.

Do you know what the husband did?

FORWARDEVERLY:
Stupid SIMP.. I love how that ugly feminist drive you out of her house..

Next time you won't settle for an evening newspaper divorcee

Morning newspaper, isn't he a divorcee with plenty baggage?

Forest122:
I didn't like her for anything

She doesn't and will never know you.

A lot of regular couples divorce, you just don't see it in the news. So it's not just celebrities.

Ilamina:


The white man called our monitor lizards iguana when they came

No they didn't. Even if they did according to you, they've gone and it's time to move on.

Ilamina:
Our iguana just look gross

This is a monitor lizard aunty.

Gerrard59:


In the long run, one partner must step back to be more involved in childcare unless they have enough relative hands (a result of unemployment) to assist in raising children or have strangers in the name of domestic servants do it for them. The term - Motherhood Penalty/Tax - exists for a reason.

Even in egalitarian societies, these things happen let alone in one of the world's religious, culturally primitive and poorest societies.

[https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/2019/05/31/the-struggle-to-reduce-the-motherhood-penalty]

Like I said, in a lot of families nobody steps down. I don't know where you are getting your data from.

Gerrard59:


It makes sense for the partner that earns low to step down his/her career advancement to take care of the children, and in most cases that partner happens to be the woman. This is linked to hypergamy since women desire to marry men that earn more than them. Women cannot stick to hypergamy and then expect the man (the high-income earning partner) to resign to take care of the family as a way to cut down on domestic care expenses. Also, it is tied to the hormone testosterone which makes men strive for success.

In summary, it is the reason the Motherhood Tax exists all over the world including in so-called equal societies in Northern Europe.

It is a choice it is not by force. Many families have both parents working. All mother's must not resign because they have kids. It is 2022. Apparently, in your own family, females do not have hormones that make them strive for success.

tensazangetsu20:


It only makes sense if the woman can pull her weight financially. Besides once kids come in, someone has to sacrifice their career to stay and raise the kids so the responsibility will still fall back on the mans head.

So all families that have kids require the mother to resign?

Zonefree:

Why do people get married to Nigerian girls if not procreation?

Aside leisure and procreation, 98.642% of Nigerian girls will die single and lonely.

Speak for yourself. You are the only one that knows where you got that data from.

Zonefree:
The essence of getting married is to have kids. Being over dramatic when your married daughter is expecting a child is like getting excited when it's raining during rainy season.

Well, this gender is naturally dramatic. No surprises

The essence of getting married is not to have kids. So what happens to marriages where the couples can't have kids? Divorce?

FriendsAndFans:
Come o. There was a friend of mine that did the most seemingly impossible thing in 2019. He got married while we were both earning 15000.
Now in 2022 when i think of him, he seem like a magician. How did he do ? What template did he use ?
And yeah the wife was a Final year NCE student

how did he do it

You left him and came to ask us.

underpinna:
She's pretty enough. Does it mean she doesn't get hit or she just want to do show off.

Life sha

Things people do for fame......

Fame ke? What concerns shoplifting with fame? I never knew getting hit on was a source of income. Nairalanders sha

godofuck231:
good learn to reason with facts as a man , women could be manipulative, especially when they know you are emotionally attached to them , this has led to the death of many men and the women still marry someone else or live without the deceased, mind you beating up your mum isn't the beast for him what you need to do is to pay for sessions for your mum to learn how to manage her husband, when he's out of his anger binges he's a nice man , when offended he's a monster , this is because of triggers and escalations of an aggregated mood , you mum should control her words , your dad could have killed her and this wouldn't have been the case , men don't just get up and start beating women , its not normal, something is aggravating his anger , find what it is and her family should teach her how to avert anger melt downs , no go meet the ones when de react without since or una go go back una mama village o

Rubbish. The person beating his wife is the one that should pay for anger management classes not the victim. And yes, some men just start beating thier wives for very silly reasons.

SimpleGuy001:


Ok thanks

Follow that advice. It is between your parents. It is not your burden.

wolesmile:


There are still various others to take note in there.

This too.

I've not noticed this.

jmoore:

Stop lying

Deuteronomy 14:28 says tithe should be given to widows, orphans, etc.

You can pay your tithe and still give out money to help people oga. Tithing is not compulsory. Nobody is forced to.