Channah1:


And.... who are you? I don't remember mentioning your pathetic self in my comment, so why are you getting burnt over an issue that doesn't concern you? Even the woman in question did not take my comment to heart whats now your fucking biz with what I say or do not say?

If you have nothing to advise the op, use the exit button and don't mention me again.

Channah1:


If you're not " enemies" why then are you avoiding staying under the same roof with him?

You want to stay married to him ( from afar) but you don't want to be associated with his personality? Is that how marriage works?

Look, you are either in or out. Stop sitting on the fence and decide what you want for yourself and the both of you.

For all you know, he may not be on the same page with on these your thoughts and before you know it, another woman is in the picture..
Men don't have the patience for such indecisiveness.

Shalom.

Channah1:


Ok. Enjoy... But remember at a time all you wanted was to be with him oo... That time nothing wey Dem for tell you wen you for hear. Now you want your freedom and space.

udede:
our church don't grant divorce unless you have evidence of adultry. The church granted me permission to marry a second wife, and she is very ok with it

wowcatty:
None of you can ever be me, you are too selfish for that. This is a public board and anything here will be discussed, if you don't like it, you keep your issues private. Also she can't ask me to go and take care of the child, all she has control over is what she has done taking herself out of there so the bio mom can get together with the dad to sort out their child.

wowcatty:
You don't know the reason the bio mom left the child behind, the father too has part custody and the child will always be with him even if the fair-weather wife wants it or not.

Good that she left, it's a free world but I hope she does not leave her own child with the man too in a few years, as that will make her a hypocrite.

It's not complicated the man can hire a maid or have relatives come take care of the kid. What is most important is the man knowing that half of his problem is solved when his unreliable wife left. Every man deserves a forgiving, through thick and thin wife.

I don't need to go and see social welfare or whatever you called it to know what is just and you knowing one does not mean they do it right there.

I don't know what you are talking about provision, the man is providing for his son and that's why he hasn't thrown him out to the dogs as yall want.

Your comment about "intimate relationship" is another, everyone alive was born through sex or love relationship and that some come from out of marriage does not make them less of anything. For all we know, the bio mom of the kid could have been the real love of the man but out of fate ended up where he now found himself, it's no accident that the just-me fairy knew nothing about the man she married. The opportunity has now opened for the bio mom to patch things up with her man and join to raise their child together in peace if she's not already in another relationship.

wowcatty:
Selfish people need to know each other well before getting married or stay away from marriage. There's no way a whole child can be hidden. If a man loves a woman, I see no reason why he can't marry her with a special need child knowing full well that it's partial custody with them and the child staying mostly with his dad. I don't know what you are saying but let me tell you what I would do if my husband's special need child is left with us and has no one to care for him. I would count him/her as one of my many blessings immediately and take him/her in.

Babaken:
Make we stop confusing ourselves court wedding they write there not registering of marriage.

JohnBullMySon:
Okay, It was just a question. I found the idea of wedding in court very strange as dude is a pastor. Also, I once saw a rumor on Twitter that she's pregnant so I guess my mind went back there.

Whatever, though. Congrats to her.

Zulu2022:
e go first forgive ur sin cos yours pass my,una go com online de form holy,in reality collecting long tinx in secret

Zulu2022:
my guy wan cashout soon fr divorce,u sure say dis one way look like gigolo go get even apartment,where em money go de go na how to TK care of his beard,buy pinklip balm nd cloths to look nice fr who go fall in Fr him trap,him job na pastor,way we nv hear the name of church bfr we go hear de story shebi na naija we dey,

JohnBullMySon:
Something is fishy here. Why did he not wed in the church where he pastors?

They don't do weddings in church anymore?

prciouschika:
Thanks would try it out

Blessedmercy8:


What's the deceit there?

Ok, agreed the man didn't tell her but did she at anytime ask the man if he had a child somewhere and the man denied it? No! So no case here.

Shes just wants to have her cake and eat it. Shes not willing to sacrifice or support her spouse. The man is also having a hard time and needs her support but no, she's only concerned about herself alone. she's just being self-centered.

There's nothing like deceit. She should learn to ask questions in her dealings with people next time. I guess she got carried away by what she was enjoying then and never bothered to do the needful.

Queensee:


Why should they get paid when they are not working?

The only reason why they have not tried to bend and end the strike is because they know they will still pay at the very end.

At the end of the day, it's the students that will lose. Most people will exceed the age limit of 30, and may not qualify to go and serve because of ASUU strike.

Pinkie2018:
yes a little girl

Born2winnx:
. agbeg pack well, nor be me put you for were you dey so

WatchYourSix:


Lots of women domt just like seeing their in-laws...its bad.....

Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala

WatchYourSix:
I hate hearing that thing..."they are distirbing me in my husband house"

Did he fall from.heaven or crawled out from the ground.??.....he came from a family..they raised him into the man you met out there and want to monopoloze.

They will always be is family..it will never change....you, on the other hand, can always get another husband/penís


Learn to live at peace with your in-laws...e get why

Roozzaay:
Heaven only knows how most of this gender reasons like brainless creature, straight to social media first, no matter what's at stake. A sensible mother ought to have been in the hospital already while she sat there taking pictures.

pretydiva:
Madam you never talk how he take sustain the injury? Blame it on negligence from your end
Get well soon cutie

Dailyparrot:
So, my friend that does Bolt got a request to go pick a rider inside the cantonment.

When he got in, he was pressed so he decided to urinate inside a gutter there.

Some soldiers saw him urinating and said he was not supposed to urinate inside the barracks. Like what is wrong in urinating inside that their dirty barracks as far as it's not at an inappropriate place.

That's how they started punishing him, asking him to wash their smelling toilets, mob their guard room and all sorts of humiliating tasks.

This my friend is a masters student at unilag but doing Bolt to hold body together while the strike lasts. Whereas, the dirty soldiers that gave him that punishment might be abokiii SSCE holders.

I was furious when he told me that. The other time I drove into that cantonment to pick a rider, I was driving and talking to the person I came to pick when this soldier tried to stop me, I just zoomed passed him like I didn't even see him. I'm sure if I had given him attention, he would have wanted to start his madness.

Funnily, the rider my friend went to pick canceled on him and of course booked another ride. I was once taking some people into the cantonment and they were laughing about how the first driver they booked canceled when they told him they were going to the army cantonment. I don't have fear for anybody. I drive in and out of the barracks whenever I get a rider to or out of there.

I don't know why Nigeria soldiers feel it's okay to always oppress civilians at the slightest opportunity. I guess that's the only consolation they have for the Ill care they receive from the system.

If any of your family members is a soldier, advise them to be different.

Dailyparrot:


Have you been to the Ikeja cantonment before? That place has a lot of bushes that one can urinate in.

Are you saying you don't urinate anywhere else except in your own home? Like when you go out and you are pressed, you will hold on until you get back home?

Even soldiers and policemen urinate outside. But I don't expect much from you.

1Sharon:


What beliefs?

1Sharon:



When I say faults, I mean they never want to be vulnerable or truthful.



God did not give you those twins, IVF did.

God did not give you your source of income, your vagina did.

God did not cure you from HIV, you are just undetectable.

God did not cure you from cancer, you are in remission.

Cut the BS.

Tonero5200:
So many trends of women and men delivering twin's, quadruplets after so many years of barrenness and impotency don't freak me. Instead it's makes me angry to the core.. because they are still barren and weakling men. Since they did ivf why not hide it within themselves, instead they come out online on facebook, nairaland to disturb the public thanking God just to feel among, I don't know if they forget that sperm and egg were mixed together and put in a freezer for some time.. before it was fixed back into the body.

Abomination.

Here is were it's gets annoying.........

instead of giving the professional doctors accolades.

They will hide everything... do like say they didn't do nothing..(spend millions)

Then proceed in Calling the name of the Lord in vain... when we all know say nor be him do am...



The question I keep wondering are these people not ashamed of themselves? Why come online to disgrace yourself the more, knowing that you didn't give birth the natural way.


This has become a numb that need to be stopped in nigeria, infact once I see a post about a woman been barren for 20 years all of a sudden give birth to twins....it's either it's staged or that is an artificial offspring.. So hide yourself in peace codedly
I don't care.


Another annoying thing Is they are always greedy... they always go for twins or quadruplets at once.
Black man mentality, and still they use it disturb people online.

Seun
Lalasticlala

1Sharon:
Classic Nigerians.

They never want to reveal faults or flaws about themselves, they must always have the best of everything.

The couples attributing IVF to God are no different to the "small girl big God" crew on Instagram..

The girls who make money from their vagina but instead attribute their earnings to God.

jamesversion:


Damn, you've taken his comments personally.

From what I deduced from his comment, he was of the opinion that couples who bore children thru IVF should rather praise the Doctors instead of praising God.

They should go online and glorify science and doctors and leave God alone. He didn't condemn the process.

That is his opinion tho.